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|  selah Registered Member

Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1210 | Posted 10/20/2008 12:43 PM (GMT -6) |   |
Corey said...Selah: But, the more we hide, the more others seem to like us. That's the harder problem! The less truthful we are, the more we are affirmed. The more truthful we are, the more we seem to "threaten" the ppl around us who are perfectly "happy" hiding.... Corey: The problem, of course, is that "truth" is not so easily known, and often we presume to simply be speaking "the truth" when we're actually just speaking our own biased perspectives. I don't blame people for being "threatened" when others shoot their drive-by opinions at them in the name of "truth". They're correct to have their shields up, I say.
I'm objecting here to the "hiding" characterization. I don't think that's fair. Oh, sorry (I'm always miscommunicating things ...this is why I left the board! ). I didn't mean hiding the truth about each other. I meant about ourselves. I'm not talking about telling you the truth about you. I am talking about sharing the truth about ME WITH YOU. I think ppl are generally uncomfortable with that....and I do think hiding is rewarded.
Perfect example, I see Corey in the grocery store and say:
"Hi corey, how are you?"
Corey, "fine".
...ok, now we can go on playing relationship. This is the perfectly acceptable answer I was hoping for. I want corey to play relationship with me. THIS is comfortable!
Try this instead
"Hi Corey, how are you?"
Corey "well, things are really tough right now....etc etc"
Me thought to self "um..crap, now what do I ask him?...do I have to stay here long and hear this out? I have a roast in the oven and suzie is at sally's and I have to go!...hmmmm.... what to say now... "
fast forward to the next time I see Corey in the grocery store
Thoughts:
Uh oh, there's corey. Time consuming....better avoid
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  |  One Love Registered Member

Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 13888 | Posted 10/20/2008 5:57 PM (GMT -6) |   | | | |
 |  One Love Registered Member

Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 13888 | Posted 10/21/2008 11:34 AM (GMT -6) |   | | | |
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Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 13888 | Posted 10/21/2008 2:51 PM (GMT -6) |   | On the Enneagram, I'm a Six. I mistyped as a Two for a while...but I was looking more at my "ENFJ"-ness.
But as I've looked at my personality development, my ocscillation between inferiority and superiority complexes and my past anxiety issues, it completely made sense to me.
For the record, Corey, I would agree that the MBTI was slightly more helpful for locating specific personality traits for me, too.
God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.
"I love, therefore I am in I Am." Post Edited (One Love) : 10/21/2008 2:56:27 PM (GMT-5) | | Back to Top | | |
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Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 13888 | Posted 10/21/2008 3:04 PM (GMT -6) |   | Selah: Weird. I just took the Enneagram! Are u spying on me or something? How did you know the topic of my book and now this? Do I need to hire security?
Ok. I'm trying to be ULTRA, ULTRA SERIOUS here right now. Get on my level with this!
T., there is ONE SPIRIT OF GOD that is linked simultaneously with ALL BELIEVERS. I believe this ONE SPIRIT of the ONE LORD of the ONE TRUINE GOD communicating with his various "temples" (a faith-filled, devoted human "heart" ) has the effect like what psychology would refer to as Carl Jung's "collective unconscious" or even the "akashic records" of theosophy. Think about it. Doesn't the Spirit know EXACTLY where you are in your journey, EXACTLY where I am in my journey...and knows the same about every human being that exists?
If two people are in connection (indwelling) with the One Spirit of Christ-the-Logos...why WOULDN'T we expect things like this. Like when something YOU'VE been praying about for weeks...ends up being something EXACTLY that either Greg or myself ends up preaching one Sunday? Couldn't and WOULDN'T God be doing things like that through his Children? The ONE "Voice" of the ONE Shepherd speaks to us each and all...at the same time.
See what I'm saying? PLEEEEEEASE say that you do!
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"Secondly, it follows from this that Christ as Creator-Logos is to be envisaged, not as on the outside, but as on the inside of everything. It is a frequent fault of religious writers that they speak of the created universe as if it were an artifact of a Maker Who has, so to speak, produced it from without. God the Creator becomes the celestial Clock-maker Who sets the cosmic process in motion, winding up the clock, but then leaving it to continue ticking on its own. This will not do. It is important to avoid such images as the divine architect, builder or engineer, and to speak rather in terms of indwelling (without thereby excluding the dimension of divine transcendence). Creation is not something upon which God acts from the outside, but something through which he expresses Himself from within. Transcendent, He is also immanent; above and beyond creation, He is also its true inwardness, its 'within.' "
Bishop Kallistos of Diokleia
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I have written recently that the true central question of our relationship with God goes to the very fact of our existence, that “in Him we live and move and have our being.” I have also written some short comments on statements of the Elder Sophrony reminding us that all we do, we do in the presence of God. Both of these bring us to the question of true or authentic existence. I do not wish to look at something around me (or someone) and say “that does not exist.” Such a statement would be both untrue and silly.
But I do want to be able to look at myself (you’re invited into this as well) and distinguish between mere existence and authentic existence. The purpose for which we were and are created is not mere existence. I can think of many days in my life of mere existence and not one of them has had much to recommend it (though I’m grateful to begin even there). But to exist authentically, is to exist not just before and in the presence of God, but consciously present to Him as the very center of my being - as the very center of all that is.
I have become increasingly aware of this during Church services lately. I suppose I could have become aware of it anywhere, and I’m sure that I should be aware of it everywhere. But lately, it has been in the services of the Church that this awareness has opened to me (or me to it). The awareness is simply that at the heart of every word, every action, every sound and movement, God is there. And more than that - but that God is in us, in me, in the midst of all that us. It in no way distracts from words or actions but gives them their proper meaning.
It has brought to my mind the understanding that regardless of what we do at any time, within our heart our attention should be toward God. My directions to those who come to the Church inquiring about the Orthodox faith is not to be distracted by anything, but in all things to seek God. The Orthodox Church exists for no other reason than to unite man to God in Christ. Indeed, the Church is nothing other than the union of God and man in Christ.
This is authentic and true existence - that for which we were and are created: Christ.
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Now about the gifts of the Spirit, brothers and sisters, I do not want you to be uninformed. You know that when you were pagans, somehow or other you were influenced and led astray to mute idols. Therefore I want you to know that no one who is speaking by the Spirit of God says, "Jesus be cursed," and no one can say, "Jesus is Lord," except by the Holy Spirit.
There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work.
Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good. To one there is given through the Spirit a message of wisdom, to another a message of knowledge by means of the same Spirit, to another faith by the same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by that one Spirit, to another miraculous powers, to another prophecy, to another distinguishing between spirits, to another speaking in different kinds of tongues, and to still another the interpretation of tongues. All these are the work of one and the same Spirit, and he distributes them to each one, just as he determines.
Just as a body, though one, has many parts, but all its many parts form one body, so it is with Christ. For we were all baptized by one Spirit so as to form one body—whether Jews or Gentiles, slave or free—and we were all given the one Spirit to drink. Even so the body is not made up of one part but of many.
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Does this make sense, Selah?
God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.
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 |  Corey Five with a Four-wing

Date Joined Feb 2003 Total Posts : 1893 | Posted 10/21/2008 3:33 PM (GMT -6) |   | | | |
 |  Corey Five with a Four-wing

Date Joined Feb 2003 Total Posts : 1893 | Posted 10/21/2008 3:35 PM (GMT -6) |   | Hmmm. Do you think this describes how we relate, D? It does to me. http://www.enneagraminstitute.com/5and6.asp
"Thus, Fives and Sixes, as a pair, tend to have a symbiotic intellectual relationship of doubt and decision, questions and answers, problems solved and problems discovered that can be endlessly stimulating. In any event, for a relationship between these two opposite head types to work, there must be a tested and unshakable trust between them: they may often come to different conclusions, but they at least know that their hearts and minds are in the right place. "
Wow. I think that's insightful, at least from my perspective. I think this trust started to erode between us on the Palin thread. Post Edited (Corey) : 10/21/2008 4:03:33 PM (GMT-5) | | Back to Top | | |
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Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 13888 | Posted 10/21/2008 4:03 PM (GMT -6) |   | Dude, if there is one thing I'm absolutely certain of...it is that God has been behind the creation and sustenance of this discussion board.
There's absolutely no doubt in my mind. Look at all the fruit over the years!
God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.
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Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 13888 | Posted 10/21/2008 4:10 PM (GMT -6) |   | Yep...
Fives also offer emotional calm, detached objectivity, observational skills, an unusual and penetrating curiosity, and an unwillingness to settle for easy answers. Sixes bring strongly held values and ideas that make them less objective than Fives although they are more passionate. Their very emotional reactivity—including anxiety and fear-gives Sixes a more sympathetic, human quality. Sixes are more openly unsure of themselves and often look to authorities of some kind (including the Fives they trust) to give them guidance and advice. [OL's Note: Very true. I've ALWAYS struggled with this, being honest!] Fives tend to be surer of their ability to think for themselves and to entertain new ideas. Fives also tend to be more skeptical and rejecting of authority.
Put this together WITH me being an "Extraverted Feeler"...whoooooo!
God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.
"I love, therefore I am in I Am." Post Edited (One Love) : 10/21/2008 4:15:13 PM (GMT-5) | | Back to Top | | |
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Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 13888 | Posted 10/21/2008 5:08 PM (GMT -6) |   | | Yep. It's why I straight up devoured (mentally) Eastern Orthodoxy, the Saints, and the Councils. My tendencies went that way anyways...
You know what? I'd almost bet a hundred bucks that Tom's a Five, too.
God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.
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Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 13888 | Posted 10/21/2008 5:52 PM (GMT -6) |   | Nice one...
God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.
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 |  Corey Five with a Four-wing

Date Joined Feb 2003 Total Posts : 1893 | Posted 10/22/2008 5:07 AM (GMT -6) |   | |
I spent a few hours tonight going back over my books on the enneagram. Honestly, at least from this reading, I can't find what I recall objecting to earlier. So I'll retract that, at least for now.
Interesting to me was their descriptions of subtypes within types: I think I'm a Five with a Four-wing, "The Iconoclast". The main emphasis here is on recognizing the limits of rational inquiry, and then developing a synthesis of knowledge and intuition. There's much more of an intuitive and aesthetic emphasis, an appreciation of the correlation of beauty and truth. Truth is much broader than what can be rationally processed. One of the other characteristics is that this subtype tends to be (too?) independant and individualistic. Anyway, I'd betcha a dollar SK was this subtype too.
This subtype has been somewhat overlooked in many descriptions of Fives because they do not fit the stereotype of the academic/scientific Five (the Five with a Six-wing). [Tom?] This subtype is more synthetic in its thinking, pulling things together and seeking out new ways of looking at things. Also, Fives with a Four-wing tend to utilize their imaginations more than the analytic, sytemic parts of the mind which are more the domain of the other subtype. [...] This subtype is particularly aware of -- and on the lookout for -- the beauty in a mathematical formula, for example. For this subtype, beauty is one of the indications of truth, because the order which beauty represents is a confirmation of the objective rightness of an idea. One of the foremost strengths of healthy Fives with a Four-wing lies precisely in their intuition, since intuition helps them uncover areas of knowledge where their conscious thoughts have not yet ventured.
What I appreciate about the enneagram is the nuanced descriptions ranging from healthy to unhealthy within a type. I think this is a deficiency of the MBTI. There also is more emphasis on inter-type relations. Post Edited (Corey) : 10/22/2008 5:59:51 AM (GMT-5) | | Back to Top | | |
 |  Corey Five with a Four-wing

Date Joined Feb 2003 Total Posts : 1893 | Posted 10/22/2008 5:57 AM (GMT -6) |   | If I were to guess, D, I'd venture that you're a Six with a Five-wing, "The Defender".
The traits of the Six and those of the Five are in some degree of conflict with each other. The general orientation of Sixes is toward affiliation with others, while the orientation of Fives is toward detachment from people so they can avoid being influenced by anyone. Sixes and Fives are both looking for safety, but Sixes look to alliances with others and commitment to systems of thought for security, while Fives tend to retreat from others and tinker with, or even dismantle, established systems of thought [hence the Mephistopheles moniker!]. Both tendencies exists the the Six with a Five-wing, which sees itself as fighting for the "little person," while at the same time being drawn to systems, alliances, and beliefs which often contain strong authoritarian elements. Sixes with a Five-wing can seem like Ones because they are serious, self-controlled, and committed to specific moral, ethical, and political beliefs. Like Eights, the can also be rather outspoken and passionate in the expression of their beliefs, with less concern about being liked than the Six with a Seven-wing.
Healthy people of this subtype combine the Six's capacity for organization and personal engagement with the Five's perceptiveness and curiosity. They may have a strong intellectual streak, depending on how much the Five-wing is in their overall personality. Healthy Sixes with a Five-wing often develop technical expertise and are valued as practical problem solvers; they are good communicators, educators, and pundits. They are also attracted to professions such as medicine, law, and engineering; they desire to master a system of knowledge but within a field where the rules and parameters are established and known. They often get involved with political causes and community service. There is a strong identification with the underdog, and Sixes with a Five-wing may become the spokespeople or champions for groups or individuals they see as disadvatnaged. Sixes with a Five-win possess greater powers of concentration and focus than the other subtype, although they sometimes can be perceived as too narrow in their concerns. They are usually shrewed observers of the environment, particularly people, and put a premium on foresight and predicting how others will react. Their perceptions are more original than those Sixes with a Seven-wing, but because Six is the basic type, they do come across not as intellectuals but as extremely competent, knowledgable individuals. Post Edited (Corey) : 10/22/2008 6:16:03 AM (GMT-5) | | Back to Top | | |
 |  Tom Registered Member

Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 10353 | Posted 10/22/2008 5:59 AM (GMT -6) |   | |
I took the test.
Personality Type NINE: The Peacemaker
The Easygoing, Self-Effacing Type: Receptive, Reassuring, Agreeable, and Complacent
Generally, Nines are patient, steady, easygoing, receptive, relaxed, unselfconscious, agreeable, uncomplicated, contented, comforting, sensual, and idealizing.
Nines get into conflicts by being emotionally unavailable, complacent, inattentive, unaware of their own anger, ineffectual, passive-aggressive, unrealistic, resigned, and stubborn.
At their best, Nines are self-aware, dynamic, inclusive, steadfast, healing, proactive, contemplative, natural, imaginative, serene, and exuberant, engaged and passionate.
My 9 was 23 (Peacemaker)
My 5 was 21 (Investigator)
My 4 was 18 (Individualist)
The 5 in me is strong, but in the end I care more about people than ideas. And after many years of attempting to be a 5 (including my PhD plans) I woke up. The past 18 months on this board debating with D played a BIG part in my burning out on high-end philosophical/theological speculations. So long as I could see and show others HOW some academic (5 type) issue MATTERED to how we lived with one another (my 9 coming out), I was cool with the 5 stuff. 5 is a means to a 9 end! But in the end I saw so much of what we discussed (and my PhD plans) as ultimately pointless. And unable to bring it into the service of humanity in some clear way, a way that would justify all the expense and time that PhD research exacts, those plans got tanked. And in its place? A second masters in Marriage & Family Therapy. People who know me were like, "Wow! No PhD? Therapy instead? Hmmm. But you know...that sounds like you too. You'd be great at that."
Let's hope so.
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