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1Heart
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   Posted 4/22/2004 11:09 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
(I'm praying a special blessing tonight upon my brothers in Christ on this board)


Hi...you know who you are! Eyebrow

I was driving somewhere a couple of days ago (have been away for a day) and was thinking about the brothers that are on this board and how I appreciate their sensitivity and compassion and godly wisdom in handling sometimes sensitive subjects. I was keenly aware of this as we all talked with Tigress. It is wonderful as a sister to be able to share heartfelt things and know that not only will you not be judged, but that you will be treated compassionately and that the response comes from a heart for God.

So...God bless each one of you Eyebrow

Sinceremente Bandit Jo-Anne


"Sometimes all we can do is go back to the character of God, and drop anchor there."

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Mayflower
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   Posted 4/23/2004 7:25 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Greetings, Sister:

YOU are the one we should thank.
Jo-Anne, we are all so 'thankful' that you have become a part of this board. I don't have time to post often -- but, each time I stop by & read your insightful and thought-provoking posts, I wish I could invite you over for a pot of coffee, and some "God talk".

I think we all sense that you are a 'kindred spirit'.
It 'feels' like we have known you for a ver-r-r-r-r-r-ry long time.

YOU have blessed our lives...!


God's peace to you; and,
those you love...
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P.S.
Advocacy is my "calling". (i.e., My way of serving GOD is by serving people with autism & other disabilities)...
Did you mention that you work with people with disabilities?
Someday, I would love to hear more about your work...


I'm a Minnesotan. Viking
Let us know if you ever plan to be in the Twin Cities area.
I would be glad to take you to "visit" my church (Woodland Hills Church); and, treat you to a pot of the strongest coffee in the world!).


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P.S.
CLARIFICATION:
My husband is the "Viking" (i.e., Norwegian) in our family.
I am a true 'Heinz 57-Variety' -- a little bit of everything!


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saintpaulrez
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   Posted 4/23/2004 11:12 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
JoAnne,

Do you consider bashing Calvinists "respectful?" Or telling someone you don't know to "Go take your Prozac" or telling someone that "you can't comprehend well."

There is a MAJOR double standard in here. I don't see open theists being told to go take their Prozac or that they're arrogant or that they don't comprehend well. You all view each other as bright, humble, oh-so-loving people because of one reason and one reason alone... you all agree in your beliefs (open theist).

You can be mean as dirt, but it don't matter. You still applaud each other's rudeness and meaness.

WHY AREN'T THERE MORE NON OPEN THETIST IN HERE??????

Think about it! They come and (happily) leave. They don't stay. If they do, they have to totally suck up to you all (be super, super polite and sweet so not to step on your toes and be told how stupid or arrogant they are), or they speak their mind, get blasted, and after awhile, leave.

Sensitivity? Compassion? Towards WHOM? Towards each other. Not towards the "enemy" (i.e. Calvinists or opposers of open theism). Total double standard.

Pretty easy to love those who love ya back.

And please don't point the finger at me and say, "Yah, well, you're not very loving. What about you?" I've never claimed to be loving like you all have. Isn't it Boyd who preaches "outrageous love"? At least he did practically every single sermon I ever heard from him. But I still don't see it and I'm not holding my breathe that I ever will.

P.S. Mayflower, thanks for the "threats" over on the other thread. Are you a moderator? My mother? Hmmmm... All I remember is that you did the very same thing when I used to be here. Pop on, share a snide cut-down towards me, and leave. Thanks, but no thanks.

I suppose what I say here can be "controlled" (by a moderator) but NO ONE can "control" what I say off this board, and trust me, I have NOTHING good to say about Boyd, Woodland Hills, or this board, and I have made sure to share my experiences with others, MANY others, including writing letters to certain pastors, publishers, and others.

Whether or not I am edited, banned, disliked, etc., I really don't care. I have no desire to stay here permantly and be a part of this "community." I learned long ago that if I were to be a part of the "community," I'd have to submit to the open theist beliefs or shut my mouth, be all sweet, and let everyone bash me (kinda like POW continues to put up with, why I don't know, but that's his choice). None of that will change my beliefs or keep me from "warning" others. Many people haven't ever heard of open theism, and I have been able to tell them about it.

The only thing that would ever change my beliefs on open theism, would be if I actually saw the Spirit moving... love overflowing, a true and genuine concern for people (not just open theists, not just hurting, but even ENEMIES, like I am basically considered to you), not just the Sunday Woodland Hills praise and worship frenzy in which everyone "feels" loving. Feeling it and living it are two different things. I'm sorry, but in all honesty, I have NEVER seen anything in an open theist that attracted me to it. When I think open thiests, I think "rude" and "arrogant." I honestly do. I didn't feel that way until after being here. I didn't like the way feelings dominated some of the lives of person's I knew at WHC, and I did see some pure hatred in those people and even wondered if they were really Christians. But it was when I came here, that I really saw the ugliness.

I don't bash Boyd as a person, only the teachings of open theism. I don't bash WHC as a whole (I knew some fine people there) but the overall beliefs of the church, many of which are rooted in open theism which obviously makes sense since Boyd is pastor. I'll never forget going to a Wed. night prayer meeting thing in this church of however many thousands, and there were like 15-20 people there. Says alot.

I am very thankful that I no longer attend there, and I have the freedom as an American to go to a church of my choice and believe what I will believe. Open theism can't be forced on me (thank the Lord!). You obviously have that same freedom and I hope one day, you will be able to see that just because I disagree with you and your believes, doesn't mean you should "threaten" me about what I say or don't say. I have freedom of speech just like you and you are not in a place of authority in my life. So please don't tell me what to do or not to do. If the mod. does, fine, he's got the "authority" to kick me off the board and that I can handle. :) I don't expect I'll be "allowed" here for long. Se la vi.
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saintpaulrez
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   Posted 4/23/2004 11:15 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
P.S. I'm sure I'll be "banned" from this little slice of heaven soon, or edited. Heaven forbid that any "bad blood" comes into this open theist haven. I know the "rules" full well... non open theists need to get along, be nice, watch their p's and q's, or they're out a here (like POW... seen it happen with him and seen you guys gripe about his multiple names, but I KNOW some of you have mult. names. Let me guess.... feelingahole= honorman). But, while I still can post, I will. Sorry to upset your day, but sometimes the truth hurts.
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Mayflower
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   Posted 4/23/2004 11:40 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Greetings, saintpaulrez:



I am at a loss for words.
I will simply say that your most recent post makes me profoundly sad.
Please stop this.


Peace & blessings,
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saintpaulrez wrote:


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JoAnne,

Do you consider bashing Calvinists "respectful?" Or telling someone you don't know to "Go take your Prozac" or telling someone that "you can't comprehend well."

There is a MAJOR double standard in here. I don't see open theists being told to go take their Prozac or that they're arrogant or that they don't comprehend well. You all view each other as bright, humble, oh-so-loving people because of one reason and one reason alone... you all agree in your beliefs (open theist).

You can be mean as dirt, but it don't matter. You still applaud each other's rudeness and meaness.

WHY AREN'T THERE MORE NON OPEN THETIST IN HERE??????

Think about it! They come and (happily) leave. They don't stay. If they do, they have to totally suck up to you all (be super, super polite and sweet so not to step on your toes and be told how stupid or arrogant they are), or they speak their mind, get blasted, and after awhile, leave.

Sensitivity? Compassion? Towards WHOM? Towards each other. Not towards the "enemy" (i.e. Calvinists or opposers of open theism). Total double standard.

Pretty easy to love those who love ya back.

And please don't point the finger at me and say, "Yah, well, you're not very loving. What about you?" I've never claimed to be loving like you all have. Isn't it Boyd who preaches "outrageous love"? At least he did practically every single sermon I ever heard from him. But I still don't see it and I'm not holding my breathe that I ever will.

P.S. Mayflower, thanks for the "threats" over on the other thread. Are you a moderator? My mother? Hmmmm... All I remember is that you did the very same thing when I used to be here. Pop on, share a snide cut-down towards me, and leave. Thanks, but no thanks.

I suppose what I say here can be "controlled" (by a moderator) but NO ONE can "control" what I say off this board, and trust me, I have NOTHING good to say about Boyd, Woodland Hills, or this board, and I have made sure to share my experiences with others, MANY others, including writing letters to certain pastors, publishers, and others.

Whether or not I am edited, banned, disliked, etc., I really don't care. I have no desire to stay here permantly and be a part of this "community." I learned long ago that if I were to be a part of the "community," I'd have to submit to the open theist beliefs or shut my mouth, be all sweet, and let everyone bash me (kinda like POW continues to put up with, why I don't know, but that's his choice). None of that will change my beliefs or keep me from "warning" others. Many people haven't ever heard of open theism, and I have been able to tell them about it.

The only thing that would ever change my beliefs on open theism, would be if I actually saw the Spirit moving... love overflowing, a true and genuine concern for people (not just open theists, not just hurting, but even ENEMIES, like I am basically considered to you), not just the Sunday Woodland Hills praise and worship frenzy in which everyone "feels" loving. Feeling it and living it are two different things. I'm sorry, but in all honesty, I have NEVER seen anything in an open theist that attracted me to it. When I think open thiests, I think "rude" and "arrogant." I honestly do. I didn't feel that way until after being here. I didn't like the way feelings dominated some of the lives of person's I knew at WHC, and I did see some pure hatred in those people and even wondered if they were really Christians. But it was when I came here, that I really saw the ugliness.

I don't bash Boyd as a person, only the teachings of open theism. I don't bash WHC as a whole (I knew some fine people there) but the overall beliefs of the church, many of which are rooted in open theism which obviously makes sense since Boyd is pastor. I'll never forget going to a Wed. night prayer meeting thing in this church of however many thousands, and there were like 15-20 people there. Says alot.

I am very thankful that I no longer attend there, and I have the freedom as an American to go to a church of my choice and believe what I will believe. Open theism can't be forced on me (thank the Lord!). You obviously have that same freedom and I hope one day, you will be able to see that just because I disagree with you and your believes, doesn't mean you should "threaten" me about what I say or don't say. I have freedom of speech just like you and you are not in a place of authority in my life. So please don't tell me what to do or not to do. If the mod. does, fine, he's got the "authority" to kick me off the board and that I can handle. :) I don't expect I'll be "allowed" here for long. Se la vi.

Edited by - saintpaulrez on 04/23/2004 4:49:05 PM





saintpaulrez wrote:
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P.S. I'm sure I'll be "banned" from this little slice of heaven soon, or edited. Heaven forbid that any "bad blood" comes into this open theist haven. I know the "rules" full well... non open theists need to get along, be nice, watch their p's and q's, or they're out a here (like POW... seen it happen with him and seen you guys gripe about his multiple names, but I KNOW some of you have mult. names. Let me guess.... feelingahole= honorman). But, while I still can post, I will. Sorry to upset your day, but sometimes the truth hurts.







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saintpaulrez
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   Posted 4/23/2004 11:56 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
WHO ARE YOU Mayflower?? Are you a moderator? I don't mind being told by a mod. to get lost, but as far as I remember, you are not one and I have every right to be here or speak my mind, just like you do. You were very rude to me once before when I was here... every single time you ever spoke to me. When I think of your name, all I recall is rudeness. I am surprised that you have been less rude this time, but please don't tell me what to do. The mod. can. It doesn't matter to me. But, you have no place to tell me what to do. You are not an authority in my life. Sorry.

I'm sure in just a bit I'll be banned. Life goes on. :) It'd be nice if you could read the things in my post and rather than feeling "sad," Listen to what I am saying! You might feel "sad" about what I wrote, but I am "sad" by the whole air on this site. It hasn't changed a bit and I don't think it ever will. I'm also sad that the people I know who are open theist, live lives dominated by their feelings and their misconceptions of God and as a result, they bring great sorrow and pain to both their own and to others lives. That is what truly makes me very, very sad.

I'm sad that if someone vocally and outspokenly disagrees with Greg Boyd or open theism, they are demeaned. I'm sad that when I went to Woodland Hills and it was discovered by some that I wasn't happy there, I was treated like some sort of leper. People literally acted like: "Gasp! You don't like Greg Boyd? You must be a heathen or something must be mentally wrong with you." I'm sad that I was even asked once if I was really a Christian because how could a "true" Christian not agree with every brilliant word out of Boyd's mouth? I'm sad that when I told some WHC friends that I went to John Piper's church and thought he was great, their jaws dropped and they literally gasped and looked at me like, "You traitor." I'm sad that when an open theist friend went with me to Piper's church and we heard a wonderful, meaty sermon, this friend pouted through the whole thing because it was the "other side" and the "enemy."

I'm sad that I am where I am right now. That I know about open theism, that I attended WHC, that I lived a life I lived in an open theist world, that I found this site. Life was more peaceful before I ever knew about open theism, and I have even prayed that the Lord would take my mind off it, help me to forget. I literally started having nightmares back when I was on this site before. I rememeber seeing people like a female lawyer named "Reonsable Doubt" be bashed and condemned and demeaned, just like me and others, and then I remember seeing her say something about it and just like wiht me and others, it was "her" problem, not yourse. And then she left. They left. I left. We all have left other than the die-hard open theists who've been here for what? Like 3-5 years or something.

So here I am because I must be some sort of glutton for pain. But I guess I know that any minute I'll be banned and then I won't expose myself to it anymore so I'm not too worried about becoming real caught up in it again. I'm thankful that open theism no longer affects my life like it once did. Very, very thankful, simply for my sanity and peace of mind.

So, I come here, I disagree, I speak my mind, and "gasp"... I need to "go take Prozac," or I don't comprehend, or maybe I'm like those damn Calvinists who don't have a clue about who God really is. I'd rather be a Calvinist than an open theist who thinks they have the right to condemn.

Don't worry... I'm sure I won't be "allowed" here much longer. And you can go back to your happy little open theist world. And I can go back to praying that God will help me to forget the last few days I spent here.

I'm sure that maybe you're all fine people in real life, but I don't see that side of you here and never have (the "regulars" that is). Sometimes your need to be right and to "control" the environment (this site) and your defensiveness at those who disagree with you really makes those of us who disagree pretty much "sick to our stomachs" by the way we've been treated.

I admire the disagreers who actually manage to have rational discussions with you. I notice thought that they are almost "too" polite and put up with alot of basically abusive things said to them (like, "You don't comprehend" or "you don't know what you're talking aobut). But it speaks very highly of them that they are able to discuss and overlook it. I guess I am not a good enough Christian to do that. But don't worry, I already learned long ago that I am not a very "good" Christian because for one, I didn't like WHC, for two, I like John Piper, for three, I'm not open theist. I might as well be a savage heathen!
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John Earp
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   Posted 4/23/2004 11:59 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Originally posted by moon_river_j

(I'm praying a special blessing tonight upon my brothers in Christ on this board)


Hi...you know who you are! Eyebrow

I was driving somewhere a couple of days ago (have been away for a day) and was thinking about the brothers that are on this board and how I appreciate their sensitivity and compassion and godly wisdom in handling sometimes sensitive subjects. I was keenly aware of this as we all talked with Tigress. It is wonderful as a sister to be able to share heartfelt things and know that not only will you not be judged, but that you will be treated compassionately and that the response comes from a heart for God.

So...God bless each one of you Eyebrow

Sinceremente Bandit Jo-Anne



Thanks, Jo-Anne.



"The Discovery of new truth will modify old views and opinions, and there is perhaps no end to this process with finite minds in any world." Charles G. Finney, Systematic Theology.

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   Posted 4/23/2004 12:12 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Greetings, stpaulrez:

It is clear that you are hurting. I genuinely wish you
GOD's peace...


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stpaulrez wrote:
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WHO ARE YOU Mayflower?? Are you a moderator? I don't mind being told by a mod. to get lost, but as far as I remember, you are not one and I have every right to be here or speak my mind, just like you do. You were very rude to me once before when I was here... every single time you ever spoke to me. When I think of your name, all I recall is rudeness. I am surprised that you have been less rude this time, but please don't tell me what to do. The mod. can. It doesn't matter to me. But, you have no place to tell me what to do. You are not an authority in my life. Sorry.

I'm sure in just a bit I'll be banned. Life goes on. :)
It'd be nice if you could read the things in my post and rather than feeling "sad," Listen to what I am saying! You might feel "sad" about what I wrote, but I am "sad" by the whole air on this site. It hasn't changed a bit and I don't think it ever will. I'm also sad that the people I know who are open theist, live lives dominated by their feelings and their misconceptions of God and as a result, they bring great sorrow and pain to both their own and to others lives. That is what truly makes me very, very sad.

I'm sad that if someone vocally and outspokenly disagrees with Greg Boyd or open theism, they are demeaned. I'm sad that when I went to Woodland Hills and it was discovered by some that I wasn't happy there, I was treated like some sort of leper. People literally acted like: "Gasp! You don't like Greg Boyd? You must be a heathen or something must be mentally wrong with you." I'm sad that I was even asked once if I was really a Christian because how could a "true" Christian not agree with every brilliant word out of Boyd's mouth? I'm sad that when I told some WHC friends that I went to John Piper's church and thought he was great, their jaws dropped and they literally gasped and looked at me like, "You traitor." I'm sad that when an open theist friend went with me to Piper's church and we heard a wonderful, meaty sermon, this friend pouted through the whole thing because it was the "other side" and the "enemy." .....


So, I come here, I disagree, I speak my mind, and "gasp"... I need to "go take Prozac," or I don't comprehend, or maybe I'm like those damn Calvinists who don't have a clue about who God really is. I'd rather be a Calvinist than an open theist who thinks they have the right to condemn.

Don't worry... I'm sure I won't be "allowed" here much longer. And you can go back to your happy little open theist world. And I can go back to praying that God will help me to forget the last few days I spent here....

I admire the disagreers who actually manage to have rational discussions with you. I notice thought that they are almost "too" polite and put up with alot of basically abusive things said to them (like, "You don't comprehend" or "you don't know what you're talking aobut). But it speaks very highly of them that they are able to discuss and overlook it.
I guess I am not a good enough Christian to do that. But don't worry, I already learned long ago that I am not a very "good" Christian because for one, I didn't like WHC, for two, I like John Piper, for three, I'm not open theist. I might as well be a savage heathen!
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   Posted 4/23/2004 12:13 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Originally posted by saintpaulrez

WHO ARE YOU Mayflower?? Are you a moderator? I don't mind being told by a mod. to get lost, but as far as I remember, you are not one and I have every right to be here or speak my mind, just like you do. You were very rude to me once before when I was here... every single time you ever spoke to me. When I think of your name, all I recall is rudeness. I am surprised that you have been less rude this time, but please don't tell me what to do. The mod. can. It doesn't matter to me. But, you have no place to tell me what to do. You are not an authority in my life. Sorry.

I'm sure in just a bit I'll be banned. Life goes on. :) It'd be nice if you could read the things in my post and rather than feeling "sad," Listen to what I am saying! You might feel "sad" about what I wrote, but I am "sad" by the whole air on this site. It hasn't changed a bit and I don't think it ever will. I'm also sad that the people I know who are open theist, live lives dominated by their feelings and their misconceptions of God and as a result, they bring great sorrow and pain to both their own and to others lives. That is what truly makes me very, very sad.

I'm sad that if someone vocally and outspokenly disagrees with Greg Boyd or open theism, they are demeaned. I'm sad that when I went to Woodland Hills and it was discovered by some that I wasn't happy there, I was treated like some sort of leper. People literally acted like: "Gasp! You don't like Greg Boyd? You must be a heathen or something must be mentally wrong with you." I'm sad that I was even asked once if I was really a Christian because how could a "true" Christian not agree with every brilliant word out of Boyd's mouth?

Same thing here. I disagree, I speak my mind, and "gasp"... I need to go take Prozac, or I don't comprehend, or maybe I'm like those damn Calvinists who don't have a clue about who God really is. I'd rather be a Calvinist than an open theist who thinks they have the right to condemn.



Saintpaulrez,
I don't know you or the history that you're talking about because I don't usually check the threads about Calvinism vs. the OV. because I'm not usually able to understand it all, but thank you for sharing your frustration about this. I think it's good to hear how Christians can affect other Christians. I vent my frustrations very openly too as you may have seen on some of my own posts. I agree that people should be able to say what they need to say without getting jumped on. I haven't decided if I fully believe in Calvinism or the O.V. yet, and I doubt if I'll ever be able to be sure either way. I can see and understand both sides of it so it's a bit too confusing for me to choose one or the other when they each make such excellent points. When I have asked questions that seemed to attack the O.V. I did feel like I was being jumped on a bit by some people, but it's hard to tell when it's in writing like this. This medium can be difficult to prove that you're being objective because the person you're addressing can't see your facial expressions, body language or hear the tone of your voice, so it's easy to think that you're being jumped on when that might not have been the intent of the other person at all. But, if they did actually write rude or condescending comments, they had not right to do that, and they should ask the Lord and you for forgiveness. It really ticks me off when people do that, and we all do that - I know I have a few times, unfortunately. Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that I'm listening to you and hearing you. Thanks for your honesty and candor. It's refreshing. Smile


Tigress Tigress

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saintpaulrez
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   Posted 4/23/2004 12:21 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Tigress, I'm shocked that I'm still here (and not yet banned) and I'm truly surprised by your post because it's so neutral and honest, but without being offended by the things I've said. Thanks. :) I really appreciate you replying to my concerns without being rude and just talking to me like I'm a normal human being. I honestly don't recall ever receiving a reply like that here before (other than some of Joanne's initial posts. Well, and I think there were a few others from when I posted long ago, like Selah). You're both women, aren't you? I wonder if that has anything to do with it. Anyways, I'm sure I won't be allowed here much longer, but I don't really have a desire to become a permanent poster, but thanks again, Tigress. It means alot that you would actually acknowledge my opinions and not become offended or demean me. It's not easy to accept someone's differing opinions.
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   Posted 4/23/2004 12:34 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Originally posted by saintpaulrez

Tigress, I'm shocked that I'm still here (and not yet banned) and I'm truly surprised by your post because it's so neutral and honest, but without being offended by the things I've said. Thanks. :) I really appreciate you replying to my concerns without being rude and just talking to me like I'm a normal human being. I honestly don't recall ever receiving a reply like that here before (other than some of Joanne's initial posts. Well, and I think there were a few others from when I posted long ago, like Selah). You're both women, aren't you? I wonder if that has anything to do with it. Anyways, I'm sure I won't be allowed here much longer, but I don't really have a desire to become a permanent poster, but thanks again, Tigress. It means alot that you would actually acknowledge my opinions and not become offended or demean me. It's not easy to accept someone's differing opinions.



Hi saintpaulrez,

I don't find the fact that you hold certain beliefs offensive per se. It does seem as if you are simply trying to stir up strife here, not really engage in dialogue. It does seem as if you are trying to BE offensive (regardless of any particular theological belief). But that's just my O.

Serenity NOW! (Anybody remember that Seinfeld episode?)
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   Posted 4/23/2004 1:06 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Greetings, Tigress:

Please re-read Jo-Anne's post.
F.Y.I.: She has done nothing to *provoke* stpaulrez' attack; nor has anyone else.

Is it impolite for other board members to object to these senseless attacks?
Well, I can think of one person who might think so: Bob/Bobbie/Cami/Christian/Seesaw/groovy chick/Johnson/stpaulrez, (etc.).

It's sad that he/she has successfully derailed yet another "positive" thread.


Peace & blessings,
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Tigress wrote:
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....if they did actually write rude or condescending comments, they had not right to do that, and they should ask the Lord and you for forgiveness. It really ticks me off when people do that, and we all do that - I know I have a few times, unfortunately. Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that I'm listening to you and hearing you. Thanks for your honesty and candor. It's refreshing.



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   Posted 4/23/2004 1:15 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Greetings, saintpaulrez:

You are ver-r-r-r-r-r-ry welcome here, if you come in peace.
Being an Open Theist is not a prerequisite.

However, we will continue to defend our belief in Open Theism; Woodland Hills Church (the staff and congregation); other Christus Victor Ministries discussion-board members; and, Dr. Boyd when and/or if you attack them.

If this is acceptable to you, then I'm sure that you will feel comfortable and welcome here.

Agreed?

Blessings,
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spenlake
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   Posted 4/23/2004 1:26 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Originally posted by Mayflower

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Greetings, saintpaulrez:

You are ver-r-r-r-r-r-ry welcome here, if you come in peace.
Being an Open Theist is not a prerequisite.

However, we will continue to defend our belief in Open Theism; Woodland Hills Church (the staff and congregation); other Christus Victor Ministries discussion-board members; and, Dr. Boyd when and/or if you attack them.

If this acceptable to you, then I'm sure that you will feel comfortable and welcome here.

Agreed?

Blessings,
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Mayflower,

Perhaps you only defend yourself against the wounded. I have posted a challenge that attacks Dr. Boyd's book and his beliefs. I have openly defied him and the members of this board to defend his beliefs with scriptures on the thread http://www.christusvictorministries.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=3228

This challenge goes unanswered because it is undefendable. I will repeat it again in case your strong defense against the likes of saintpaulrez gives your confidence a boost. Only attacking the injured isn't normally looked upon as courage.

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For those of you who are new, please look at the other threads under mysticism and "Seeing is Believing" in the Board and OV forums.


I want to express my appreciation to Saintpaulrez for her observations and courage to address the pain and grief she and others experienced as the fruit of these teachings. I also want to sincerely thank those of this discussion board for their help in solidifying the strong parts of my arguments and making the weaker ones clearer. It has been very helpful and enabled me to hone the arguments which will be most effective to explain why this teaching is damaging. The responses that strayed from the subject into unsupported speculations concerning me or my motives helped highlight to me where the arguments were strongest and where they should be pursued.

It continues to amaze me the extent this board will go to defend a weak point. If truth were truly the main concern this would be different and the board would act differently. There are obviously some exceptions, but I believe that the outside witness of Saintpaulrez exposed real issues of concern. I found it amusing and amazing that there is a pro-OV philosopher Alan Rhoda that states that if certain premises of the logic of indterminancy are true, then the entire belief of the OV must be false and this is known by the OV elite.
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Alan says: As far as I can see, this argument is deductively valid. Moreover, all of the premises seem quite plausible. The conclusion, however, is a direct denial of the central tenet of open theism. So either open theism is false, or there is a faulty assumption in the argument. If there is a faulty assumption it would have to lie in one of the independent premises, namely (1), (2), (4), (5), (6), (9), or (10). But it is far from obvious which premise, if any, can be plausibly denied.
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If this is what is acknowledged by the OV elite, that they have yet to plug a potentially fatal hole, then the STRONG assertions that I have read here are just so much bluffing. It is too strong a defense to make for a conclusion that has such an open and exposed weakness left unanswered. This insecurity for ideas that are still “at risk” helps explain the “chip on the shoulder” mentality and how weak the OV actually is. Perhaps OVers cannot conceive of this, but to the rest of us it becomes more apparent. I believe that an objective review of the written record of this board goes far in supporting the observations of Saintpaulrez, when she states that OVers don’t really have as much a concern regarding the truth as they do their feelings, impressions, and personal prejudices about a god of their own making. This site documents committed OVers who refuse to believe in a god who would keep them single. We have others who refuse to believe in a God that would allow slavery and not call it sinful. We have others who refuse to believe in a god that casts deceiving Satan to earth. This partial overview is in stark contrast to the claim that OV believes in the God of scripture. In examining this site, we find much that supports Saintpaulrez’ conviction that OV really does promote a god of their imaginations.

This brings me to the last point and the one that I have spent the most time interacting with this board – “Seeing is Believing.” I have brought up a single point with a challenge that provokes personal attacks but continues to be ignored. The silence is deafening but speaks volumes. “Seeing is Believing,” is a must read for this board in that it provides spiritual exercises to meet with the god you’ve each been imagining, an opportunity to see him face to face. You can find gods that won’t let one be single, or express sovereignty over deceitful spirits. You can experience your “truth” though spirit inspired anti-events (substitute events), revel with your anti-christ (substitute Christ) and find extreme comfort in your spirit inspired delusion. Each of you can meet your imagined god face to face and find sincere, heart warming, comforting delusion to escape the painful tribulations and memories of this evil world. Based on the claims that are made there by your doctor, you will find also power to forgive and enter into the rest of your own christ as well. This is your gospel.

I hope that such shocking words impact your heads and hearts. This is what you risk losing in your responding to the challenge I have made to you. There has still not been one from this board that has presented scriptural support that God provides:
- spiritual truth
- the power of forgiveness
- healing
- and experiencing God Himself
through fictional anti-events inspired by the Holy Spirit.
Your god and the path to him taught to you by your doctor hangs in the balance. Stand up and support it with scriptures like a man (woman) or repent and find freedom in the true gospel where forgiveness is experienced in believing the work of THE Christ on the cross. This experience of our own sins being truly forgiven enables us to forgive even cruel grandmothers and the pain they caused us. Those who believe in the true gospel have no need for fictitious anti-events for our freedom and forgiveness.


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John Earp
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   Posted 4/23/2004 1:30 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
And attacking a straw man isn't actually engaging in combat. Bearing false witness, as you have continued to do, shows you to be what kind of person, spenlake?
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msekee
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   Posted 4/23/2004 2:57 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Yikes! When I came to this board I thought I had found a group of fellow believers who were open minded in their approach to God's sovereignty etc. And for the most part I would agree with Joann that you seem like a very kind-hearted group. But when Mayflower blasts Tigress just for empathizing with someone who has said "mean" things...it just doesn't seem right. Aren't we supposed to treat everyone with love - regardless of how they have treated us? I have noticed that whenever there is a question posed that seems like it is a "set-up" everyone gets very defensive and - well - down right mean. Take the post about parenting for example. Right away, everyone was calling it a straw man question etc. when it very well could have been legit. Tigress is right when she says that in this medium it is difficult to tell when someone is being rude or not sometimes. I think that OV's are so used to being attacked by Christians that don't agree with them that they immediately assume that is happening when someone raises a question. Anyway...thanks JoAnn and Tigress for the posts.
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Mayflower
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   Posted 4/23/2004 4:33 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Greetings, msekee:

THIS THREAD is a wonderful example of what happens each time "Bob/Bobbie" visits the Christus Victor Ministries discussion board.
Please check out the other threads on which stpaulrez has very recently posted, and you will discern the same pattern.

CORRECTION:
My ire was not and is not directed toward Tigress.
It WAS directed toward stpaulrez (alias: Bob/Bobbie/Cami/Christian/Seesaw/groovy chick/Johnson) -- who has a very long history* of maligning innocent persons on this discussion board.
I shall continue speak out against his/her abusive behavior when he/she returns to this board, as will others who remember his/her pattern of posts here.

The reality is a few folks simply disagree with Open Theism (and, Dr. Boyd), and come here to "grind an ax."
Sad, but true.

I am truly sorry that you got caught in the crossfire that occurs when Bob/Bobbie/Cami/Christian/Seesaw/groovy chick/Johnson/stpaulrez makes another unexpected visit.
At such times, we all take hits -- as his/her "divide & conquer" technique is very effective.


Peace & blessings,
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*Bob/Bobbie
HISTORY LESSON:

Christus Victor Ministries Discussion - Deletions
http://www.gregboyd.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=2004

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Mayflower
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   Posted 4/23/2004 4:43 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Greetings, Spenlake:


You have posted on this topic numerous times* of late. (SEE: Posts, attached below).
At this point, if no one cares to engage you in such discussion, (http://www.christusvictorministries.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=3228), perhaps their silence speaks volumes.

Let it go.

We stand strong in our support of Open Theism; and, Dr. Boyd.

Peace & blessings,
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quote:
.....I have posted a challenge that attacks Dr. Boyd's book and his beliefs.
I have openly defied him and the members of this board to defend his beliefs with scriptures on the thread http://www.christusvictorministries.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=3228

This challenge goes unanswered because it is undefendable.




*RECENT SPENLAKE POSTS INCLUDE:

• Thank you Dr Boyd (Seeing is Believing ...)
http://gregboyd.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=3219
• Ezekiel 20
http://gregboyd.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=3152
• Why did God have to go and see Sodoms sins
http://gregboyd.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=3170
• Seeing Is Believing = Mormon Truth
http://gregboyd.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=3231
• Anti-events are real events
http://gregboyd.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=3233
• Dr. Boyd and his followers (Seeing is Believing)
http://gregboyd.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=3228
• Was the spirit God sent "evil?"
http://gregboyd.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=3150
• Imitating God in parenting...
http://gregboyd.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=3210
• A thank you for my brothers in Christ
http://gregboyd.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=3245
• Am I abnormal?
http://gregboyd.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=3203


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saintpaulrez
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   Posted 4/23/2004 8:52 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Mayflower,

I truly am dying to know who YOU are. You always seem to be the self-appointed exposer of identities. I don't get it. I honestly don't. Does it matter who I am? If I am a past banned poster, then I'm certain that the moderators will expose it or ban me again. That's perfectly fine with me.

I don't get why you feel this need to "expose" my identity. If I have posted only once or multiple times here, what does it matter? Am I not still a person... a human being behind these words??? I see the same thing happen to POW. Who cares if he posts under other names. I KNOW that many of the "regular" OV'ers here do also (I can almost guarantee that "feelingahole" is the old "honorman." Maybe I'm wrong but they sure have the same sharp-tongues edge about them). Even Greg Boyd once posted under the name of "Shine" and "fooled" everyone by being some other persona and not telling them who he really was. Is that what is happening here? Why are you so "on top" of the posters and their identies at these forums? Why do you tell them what they can or can't do? You didn't answer me, but I'm truly wondering if you are a moderator.

The important thing is Mayflower, that I am a PERSON, a HUMAN BEING, loved by God. I'm not on drugs, never been diagnosed with a mental disorder (no Prozac), never broke the law, and I could go on trying to prove to you that I am an intelligent, normal human who isn't just some dumb*** who doesn't have a clue what I'm talking about re: open theism and the manner in here.

I have been very open and honest in explaining how I feel. So have you. So have others. Believe me, I know that you hate Calvinists, think G. Boyd can do no wrong, and think all of us non open theists just have "chips on our shoulders" and use "strawmen" in our arguments (I too remember reading that it seems like a million times!). I undertand your defense and loyalty to G. Boyd. I don't share the same loyalty but I have said nothing vile or gossipy or slanderous about him in here. Only that I don't agree with what he preaches/teaches and don't "like" him (but I should clarify. I'm sure he's a fine person. I just don't like what he teaches and I have not always liked his approach with people). Go ahead and defend, but don't get upset when I defend someone like J. Calvin or Spurgeon or Piper or others who's names have been drug through the mud in here.

I kinda wonder if you are Greg Boyd's wife or relative? I really don't know, but just find it odd the way you "boss" me in order to keep the forum a certain way and it's out of "loyalty" to WHC and Boyd. I wonder if I knew you when I was there. Hmmmm. Well, the truth is that I will totally understand a moderator editing or banning me but I don't understand you telling me what to do or on the rampage to "expose" me as if that even makes a difference.

The fact is, you can continue to try to "expose" or defame my character, but yet you fail to address ANYTHING I have said. You have said you are sad, that I am hurting, and told me to "behave" and how you will respond to me. You have also made sure to "expose" my "true identity." But yet NOT ONCE have you addressed a single thing I have been saying. Not once.

I doubt anything I've said will be addressed... only dissed as being from some poor, hurting person with an axe to grind... thus, ignore her, get rid of her, or expose her. That's the best way to deal with it, eh? Don't address what I've said. Just write it off by defaming my character. That's somethign I'd expect in society but not by Christians who supposedly seem to have a grasp of "outrageous love." You go to WHC... I know you hear it every Sunday (like I did)-- "outrageous love," "outrageous love." Maybe that's where some of my sourness re: open theism comes from. Hearing love preached but not seeing it. Is that how you deal with unfavorable people at your church? Defame their character and dismiss them based on that? Maybe I should post a photo and give you my name and stats. so you can see that I am a REAL PERSON.

BTW, don't open theists have an "ax to grind" with Calvinism and John Calvin-- and Spurgeon, and Bruce Ware, and the ETS Society, and John Piper, and anyone else who is not open theist, who speaks out against open theism, or who is Calvinist? Somehow you see it as "okay" to blast, condemn and gossip about these people because it's a board on open theism. And that's all fine and dandy. But the thing is, open theists talk of "outrageous love" (it's like their mantra) and when you slam Calvin... hmmmm... no love. "You can talk the talk but can you walk the walk?"

I am not trying to "divide and conquer" anyone. You give me far too much credit. But am I angry? Heck yah. Am I disgusted? Yep. Am I trying to share what I see, what I feel, and what I believe others have to and tried to express but either are banned, "forced" to leave because it's so miserable for them to stay, or they are threatened or told they are stupid (can't comprehend, haven't read the books, don't know what they are talking about, etc).

And I'm truly amazed I haven't yet been banned or edited. I'm sure it'll happen soon. I have no doubt you will complain about me to those in "power" over the board. And that's fine. It doesn't matter to me that much. I'm glad that I've at least been able to have this time to express how I feel... even if I am some past "divisive" poster and you dismiss me for that reason. Even if you think I have an ax to grind or am hurting. If that means that I don't know what I'm talking about, am not intelligent, and that my opinions mean nothing, than so be it. That's how YOU see it and that's your choice.

I guess it doesn't really matter what I think or say. I know it'll be either edited or I'll be banned and you'll go back to your nice little open theist site w/o me upsetting you, and you can just forget that people like me (people who open theism has NEGATIVELY hurt their lives) even exist. You can pretend we don't I guess. Getting rid of me by keeping me from posting is a good way to do that. Ignoring Spenlake's posts and telling him to "get over it" is also a good way of not dealing with what you hear.

It's still so odd to me how you pull links out of a hat and you say the things you do. One can only wonder I guess, but it's odd. It's like you're the Christus Victor watchdog/police. I can't help but wonder what your relationship to Boyd and this board is. Maybe someday you'll share. Seems like you know the importance of not hiding one's identity, eh?
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   Posted 4/23/2004 9:09 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Originally posted by Mayflower

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Greetings, Sister:

YOU are the one we should thank.
Jo-Anne, we are all so 'thankful' that you have become a part of this board. I don't have time to post often -- but, each time I stop by & read your insightful and thought-provoking posts, I wish I could invite you over for a pot of coffee, and some "God talk".

I think we all sense that you are a 'kindred spirit'.
It 'feels' like we have known you for a ver-r-r-r-r-r-ry long time.

YOU have blessed our lives...!


God's peace to you; and,
those you love...
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P.S.
Advocacy is my "calling". (i.e., My way of serving GOD is by serving people with autism & other disabilities)...
Did you mention that you work with people with disabilities?
Someday, I would love to hear more about your work...


I'm a Minnesotan. Viking
Let us know if you ever plan to be in the Twin Cities area.
I would be glad to take you to "visit" my church (Woodland Hills Church); and, treat you to a pot of the strongest coffee in the world!).


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P.S.
CLARIFICATION:
My husband is the "Viking" (i.e., Norwegian) in our family.
I am a true 'Heinz 57-Variety' -- a little bit of everything!


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Mayflower,

Nice to hear from you again and thanks! I would love to come for coffee...even drag my husband along! I mentioned this to him today and he knows (smile) that I would love to visit Woodland Hills Church. I would love to take some courses as well (distance) but don't know where to begin so if you have any suggestions, fire away!

My husband is not an open theist...but he patiently listens and even agrees with some things and is not so excited about other things. His initial reaction to my investigation was not so positive but he's comin around! Eyebrow

Anyway, coffee sounds great!

God Bless,
Jo-Anne


"Sometimes all we can do is go back to the character of God, and drop anchor there."

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   Posted 4/23/2004 9:22 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Originally posted by John Earp

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Originally posted by moon_river_j

(I'm praying a special blessing tonight upon my brothers in Christ on this board)


Hi...you know who you are! Eyebrow

I was driving somewhere a couple of days ago (have been away for a day) and was thinking about the brothers that are on this board and how I appreciate their sensitivity and compassion and godly wisdom in handling sometimes sensitive subjects. I was keenly aware of this as we all talked with Tigress. It is wonderful as a sister to be able to share heartfelt things and know that not only will you not be judged, but that you will be treated compassionately and that the response comes from a heart for God.

So...God bless each one of you Eyebrow

Sinceremente Bandit Jo-Anne



Thanks, Jo-Anne.




You're welcome John. It saddens me to come back and see what this simple heartfelt thanks has become.
If you have any suggestions on how to remedy this, I would appreciate it. It has become an attack and where Dr Boyd says that this is about ideas, not people - this has become about people not ideas.

God Bless,
Jo-Anne Sad


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saintpaulrez
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   Posted 4/23/2004 9:31 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
JoAnne, you can just report me to the moderator(s) and I'm sure they'll ban me ASAP and then your board can go back to the sweet, happy place it was before. :) Problem solved. At least, in the eyes of those here. I guess I view any forum on the internet as a very public and uncontrobllable place. It's pretty hard to censor everything and keep it sweet and kind all the time. Private converstations are far better for keeping disagreeable people (like me) out, but the internet is a pretty darn public place. No door on this site, no lock. Anyone's free to come and go and say what they want (unless they are banned which I'm sure I will be very soon). Of course, I suppose I can always come back next year and speak my mind again. Until this site is locked up to people like me, it's not a real "safe" place in which your conversations are private. Just not the nature of the internet if you ask me. Sending a private thank-you note via mail is far different than posting a thank you on the internet where anyone can read it and say what they want. Just my opinion but the post was open and so I posted. :)

Oh, about this being about ideas, not people. Wouldn't that mean then that talking about John Calvin is wrong?? There's that good ol' double standard again.
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   Posted 4/23/2004 9:39 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Originally posted by saintpaulrez

JoAnne,

Do you consider bashing Calvinists "respectful?" Or telling someone you don't know to "Go take your Prozac" or telling someone that "you can't comprehend well."

There is a MAJOR double standard in here. I don't see open theists being told to go take their Prozac or that they're arrogant or that they don't comprehend well. You all view each other as bright, humble, oh-so-loving people because of one reason and one reason alone... you all agree in your beliefs (open theist).

You can be mean as dirt, but it don't matter. You still applaud each other's rudeness and meaness.

WHY AREN'T THERE MORE NON OPEN THETIST IN HERE??????

Think about it! They come and (happily) leave. They don't stay. If they do, they have to totally suck up to you all (be super, super polite and sweet so not to step on your toes and be told how stupid or arrogant they are), or they speak their mind, get blasted, and after awhile, leave.

Sensitivity? Compassion? Towards WHOM? Towards each other. Not towards the "enemy" (i.e. Calvinists or opposers of open theism). Total double standard.

Pretty easy to love those who love ya back.

And please don't point the finger at me and say, "Yah, well, you're not very loving. What about you?" I've never claimed to be loving like you all have. Isn't it Boyd who preaches "outrageous love"? At least he did practically every single sermon I ever heard from him. But I still don't see it and I'm not holding my breathe that I ever will.

P.S. Mayflower, thanks for the "threats" over on the other thread. Are you a moderator? My mother? Hmmmm... All I remember is that you did the very same thing when I used to be here. Pop on, share a snide cut-down towards me, and leave. Thanks, but no thanks.

I suppose what I say here can be "controlled" (by a moderator) but NO ONE can "control" what I say off this board, and trust me, I have NOTHING good to say about Boyd, Woodland Hills, or this board, and I have made sure to share my experiences with others, MANY others, including writing letters to certain pastors, publishers, and others.

Whether or not I am edited, banned, disliked, etc., I really don't care. I have no desire to stay here permantly and be a part of this "community." I learned long ago that if I were to be a part of the "community," I'd have to submit to the open theist beliefs or shut my mouth, be all sweet, and let everyone bash me (kinda like POW continues to put up with, why I don't know, but that's his choice). None of that will change my beliefs or keep me from "warning" others. Many people haven't ever heard of open theism, and I have been able to tell them about it.

The only thing that would ever change my beliefs on open theism, would be if I actually saw the Spirit moving... love overflowing, a true and genuine concern for people (not just open theists, not just hurting, but even ENEMIES, like I am basically considered to you), not just the Sunday Woodland Hills praise and worship frenzy in which everyone "feels" loving. Feeling it and living it are two different things. I'm sorry, but in all honesty, I have NEVER seen anything in an open theist that attracted me to it. When I think open thiests, I think "rude" and "arrogant." I honestly do. I didn't feel that way until after being here. I didn't like the way feelings dominated some of the lives of person's I knew at WHC, and I did see some pure hatred in those people and even wondered if they were really Christians. But it was when I came here, that I really saw the ugliness.

I don't bash Boyd as a person, only the teachings of open theism. I don't bash WHC as a whole (I knew some fine people there) but the overall beliefs of the church, many of which are rooted in open theism which obviously makes sense since Boyd is pastor. I'll never forget going to a Wed. night prayer meeting thing in this church of however many thousands, and there were like 15-20 people there. Says alot.

I am very thankful that I no longer attend there, and I have the freedom as an American to go to a church of my choice and believe what I will believe. Open theism can't be forced on me (thank the Lord!). You obviously have that same freedom and I hope one day, you will be able to see that just because I disagree with you and your believes, doesn't mean you should "threaten" me about what I say or don't say. I have freedom of speech just like you and you are not in a place of authority in my life. So please don't tell me what to do or not to do. If the mod. does, fine, he's got the "authority" to kick me off the board and that I can handle. :) I don't expect I'll be "allowed" here for long. Se la vi.



You're obviously hurt and angry saintpaulrez. We are not "open theists" We are Christians who have a particular theological perspective which happens to be open theism which happens to be about the future. Our character is not formed by being Open Theist. I have only embraced open theism in the past couple of years. My husband does not embrace this view.

Saintpaulrez, you are seeing people react because you are putting down something that they are passionate about...their intimate beliefs, their pastor, their church, their friends. Yes it is my belief as well, not my pastor or church. You are presenting open theists as if they are a particular sect of Christianity and their character is affected by being open theists. I think you are mistaken. People are people and the way we display the fruit of the spirit in our lives is by allowing the spirit to transform us by the renewing of our minds.

If you have sincere questions I would be glad to answer. I won't participate in character assassination though. I see no point in it. It is judging and that is not something we were ever meant to do. What do you believe it means to love your enemies? (even those you perceive as enemies?)

I'm not your enemy by the way. I'm a sister in Christ and a lot of other things. I'm not an "open theist" I'm a Christian who embraces this particular view of the Father because it has made a tremendous difference for me in how I view the Father and how I walk as a believer. You are judging all open theists by a few bad experiences. I really hope you can resolve this for your own sake. It's hurting you.

God Bless,
Jo-Anne Penguin (That's the peace penguin by the way)


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   Posted 4/23/2004 9:46 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Originally posted by saintpaulrez

Oh, about this being about ideas, not people. Wouldn't that mean then that talking about John Calvin is wrong?? There's that good ol' double standard again.



Someone else would have to answer this. I understood what Dr Boyd meant. I don't know a whole lot about Calvinism and John Calvin. I'm here to learn from others who do.

J


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Feelingaholesays to SPen:
"YAWN! Get over it. You're ruining your objectivity and credibility. You took your shot. You think its an evil bad boook. You've make your point. Some agree, most disagree. You've run the race. Let it go. Move on with your life. Find another hobby."

Can you feel the love? Oh yah, I am so dillisunional for ever thinking that ahole or others are "rude." (yah right)



****JoAnne, yes I am definitely angry. I read things like the above and belief I feel a sort of righteous indignation. Here's the thing: Greg Boyd preaches of love. Not just love but OUTRAGEOUS love. I must've heard it a thousand times while at WHC. And here I read this guy, Feelingahole (who I suspect is an old poster- honorman- who was by far THE rudest poster here, in MY opinion), who is a devout open theist and one of Boyd's loyal fans I'm sure, and yet he posts the above, not to me, but to Spen.

It's not just me, Joanne. You were not here back when there was a poster named Reasonsable Doubt who asked alot of good hard questions and in the end, got slammed alot... and left. And there were others... but they didn't last long. I'm sure you see the rudeness towards POW. And then there's the above. And then there's me.

Sure my approach might isn't the most polite, sweet, and subtle, but would that even matter? All I need say is, "I disagree" and I'd be badgered and demenaed. I could say it all sweet and sugary, and it wouldn't matter. The reply would be the same, unless of course, I changed my mind or left. But if I kept on feelling like I did, I can GUARANTEE I'd hear that my arguments are "strawmans," that I "don't know what I'm talking about," that "I'll pray for you," that I "haven't read the books," and so on.

I understand people's reaction-- well, "people" being Mayflowers and feelingahole... really those two are the only ones who've been rude, and Mayflower was just like that before and so was feelingahole if he's who I think he is, so it's no surprise to me to see them reply as they are.

I understand the defense over your beliefs, pastor, and church, but then why am I the "bad" guy when I feel offended and defensive over MY beliefs, MY pastor, or MY church. I haven't stated my pastor or church but here ya go... I think JOHN PIPER is an AWESOME pastor and totally right-on in his beliefs. Let's see the reaction that gets! Maybe people'll keep it in 'cause they know it's a "test" but I guarantee there are people reading it and just seething.

Why is it okay to bash Calvin and I am supposed to be happy about that and not react the way you might react if I bash G. Boyd, which I haven't. All I have said is that I don't like his teaching and don't agree with him. I could give you a list of other things I don't like, but won't. If I want to address them, I'll call or write him 'cause I don't feel that all my specific gripes re: Boyd or WHC is appropriate to state publically (although I have shared them with friends and other pastors, so I guess I am "guilty" of that).

In the same way that I present open theism as a particular "sect," so do open theists here on this board present Calvinism as if it is a particular "sect." I totally understand what you're saying JoAnne, but I hope you can step into my shoes and see what I am saying as well.

It's very true that I do not agree with most of open theists teaching and it's not a theology I would ever embrace. And I do believe it is harmful and have witnessed first hand its harm in several lives. I remember a guy once who came here and said the same thing. I can't remember his name or story but he had open theist family members and was very concerned. I realize that we will have to disagree on how we view open theism. I guess I have mostly focused my recent posts here not on the wrongs I feel in the open theistic teaching but more on the behaviors of those who post here who are open theists. I don't know what else to call them. Christians yes, but they adhere to a very different teaching than I do. Open theism is a type of theology and is not the same as what I believe. Thus I refer to it as open theism and it's "followers" and open theists. It's just how I (and others) distinguish people here.

As for their character, I'm not saying that your character is formed by being open theist, but I believe that open theism "forms" your character. What I mean is this: open theism is so intent on being "right" (at least that's what I see in here) that people feel free to be rude, etc. (like the above comments) because they believe they are defending their beliefs, their pastor, etc. So thus, it's okay to demean, be sarcastic, put down, etc. because it's all out of a defense of open theism.

There is a guy in another post here who is Mormon and another poster said things about Mormonism. He didn't say them near as outspokenly or angrily as I have said things, but the point is is that the Mormon person responded with no anger, no rudeness, no defense, nothing along those lines. I was amazed! Why can a Mormon be kind when his beleifs are said to be false and yet open theists seem to think it's okay to be rude when their beliefs are said to be false?

JoAnne, I'm not sure why you talk to me about forgiveness, loving my enemies, etc. Yes, I know full well I need to! Believe me, I do. But why are you not saying it to some of the people here who are so rude that it makes me want to vomit? Why is it okay for them to be that way but not for me? Why am I held to some higher standard? And don't you understand that even Piper speaks in one of his books about the lack of love among open theists and how there is not fruitfulness there and it shows that the belief system is not a true one?

"They will know we are Christians by our love." I may not be loving, but I am only one angry poster here. When a majority of open theists posters behave w/o love, it honestly says something to others of us about the open theism belief system... especially when G. Boyd preaches of it so much that I sometimes wanted to scream: "Okay I get the point, now can you preach on holiness for a change?" Sorry, no offense, but that's HONESTLY how I felt hearing love sermon after love sermon but rarely ever hearing sermons on living holy lives and obeying God, etc. It was very feelings-centered in my opinion and I honestly was always very uncomfortable there. That is MY feelings. I am sorry to those who love WHC and Boyd, and trust me, I know there are those who do. I have shared how I was treated as a heathen for how I felt. I think if it was Old Testament times, I would've been stoned for not liking Dr. Boyd and WHC. Honestly. But, the fact is, I didn't. I wanted meat. I wanted conviction. I wanted to hear major Bible teaching. But I felt like all I ever heard about was "love" but this feelings type of love.

Anyways, in my opinion, that's open theism. It's all about "love" but its a feelings based love. It's a love like the world in which sin is "tolerated" because to stand against it is "judging" someone. Stuff like that.

I really don't have sincere questions, JoAnne, but thanks for offering to answer them. I am a very strong person with very strong convictions. When I got saved many years ago, no one in my family was a Christian. In fact, one side of the family was Catholic and the other was Mormon, and here I was, a 12 year old accepting Christ and then telling my parents they were going to hell! :) I was very confused at first, and thus, I literally devoured the Bible, on my own, and I attended church all the time... I had a very strong hunger and thirst for truth. I memorized Scripture, worked in Vacation Bible School, went to camps, etc.

This is leading up to this: I have, as an adult, continued to seek after truth. I have read many things by many pastors and attended several churches (I've moved a few times). I have read the Bible front to back a few times including just recently. I have read both the books supporting open theism (mostly Boyd's stuff) and those against open theism. And I believe that there are things open theism teaches that are NOT Biblical.

Okay, it offends you and others. I'm sorry. I will leave soon (or be banned first!) since my contrary beliefs I'm sure are not tolerated. And since I have no questions, I have no reason to be here other than to make your lives miserable, right? Honestly though, I really don't have a reason to be here. I have no desire to "learn" about open theism. I already know all I need to know and I know I disagree with alot. And I also know that I don't see the Spirit of God in many of the hearts here which to me says that something's wrong with this belief system when a large majority of its followers are as unloving as I perceive them to be (and they even boast about it and never make apology for it! That's the really interesting thing).

I do realize you're not my enemy. I used the word "enemy" to describe how I feel that others here perceive me or Calvin or Spurgeon or Piper or Spenlake or POW or others. I think I put it in quotes to indicate that no one has called me an "enemy" but I feel that it is how I am perceived.

I don't judge open theists based on my bad experiences. I judge based on the expeeriences PLUS what I've read and studied PLUS my time here with many open theists who react as they do, not only to me but to others. I think I could maybe understand if it was just that way with me, but it's not.

I have nothing to "resolve" JoAnne. The bad experiences, definitely those need to be gotten over and mostly have been, although I feel thankfulness for not being at the church, etc. The people here, sure, I need to forgive, etc. But my belief of open theism being a wrong and potentially harmful belief is not to be resolved. Just as you are firm in your embrace of open theism, so am I firm in my rejection of it. It does not hurt me but it does help others because I have been able to share what I know and have experiecned.

The only thing that "hurts" me is the fact that I have a major term paper to write and I keep spending time here! That is hurting me, but as for rejecting open theism and viewing people here as rude, it does not hurt me. It only confirms what I had previously (and currently) believe re: open theism.

My anger doesn't go much further than this board to be honest. It used to last time I was here. My time here then was really affecting me to the point of having nightmares and then later, literally begging God to help me forget my time here and at WHC. Literally begging Him because the memories were very bad. It's been a pretty long time since I was last here, and I haven't come by and read things in between then and now, so really, open theism hasn't been on my mind much. I am no longer exposed to it in my life. I am angry, yes, right now as far as I am disgusted by what I keep saying is rudeness, but it's not affecting me like last time (except it is taking too much of my time).

I just wish you and others could really hear what I am saying and not just focus on me, my hurt, my experiences, etc. 'cause in all honesty, it's not about me.
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