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brandi
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   Posted 9/23/2002 11:02 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Iconoclast
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We have no doubt that what the nazi guard is doing is evil. On the other hand we do have a strong basis for doubt about whether the nazi guard himself is evil. Certainly his action is evil but this is not conclusive about his person....

And what is loving action toward the nazi guard in this case (assuming it is in our power)? It is to stop him from taking this evil action and it is to show him even at risk to ourselves that what he is doing is evil.


Yes, this makes sense. I remember when 9-11 happened I heard myself saying "As horrible as this evil event is, the terrorist believed in their heart that they were doing the "right" thing." We can judge the tragedy on Sept. 11 as being evil but the terrorists who drove the planes? Can we judge their intentions? They believed they were doing the right thing by their religious beliefs.

I agree that the loving action is to stop further evil action but HOW do we show the terrorist what they did was evil if their belief is that is was not? How do we judge the religious beliefs of another person?


Iconoclast
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Whatever we do must be done AND must be seen to be done out of a true concern for all the stakeholders involved


This reminds me of the Madelyne Gorman Toogood case. We know for sure that to beat a four year old is atrocious and evil. We also know that a "stop action" is needed for the mother. What I am personally hoping and praying is that whatever decision is decided upon will be one with concern for ALL the parties involved.

What makes things really complicated in some cases is that some people believe in their minds that disciplining their child through hitting is the most loving thing to do. We know that hitting a child is wrong but what do you do with a parent who has a belief system that "to spare the rod is to spoil the child" and takes this to the extreme without judging their beliefs?


Thanks for the helpful reply, Iconoclast! Would you mind replying to these questions too?
~Brandi~


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   Posted 9/24/2002 3:56 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I. says:

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Why can’t we say that the Zosia event was a POTENTIAL black pellet in a totally white glass box.

The totally white glass box being the creation of free-will beings which is very good.

Then we can totally affirm that God never does or causes evil. That when we see evil we know it wasn’t God which actualized the potential but some free-will agent acting against God’s will.


If you want to say this, then the best thing for you to do is to become a (yeah, I'm saying it again) PROCESS THEIST! Not just an open view theism.

David Ray Griffin's said it. Brandon's said it. Modes's said it (in so many words). And I KNOW I've said it: Open view theism gives God SUFFICIENT UNILATERAL power to make the problem of evil ETHICAL situation quite problematic. In process theism, there is absolutely NO WAY that God could be responsible for any evil that we see historically. No way. Zip. Zero. And it makes perfect sense within the system, because God's power is always seen as PERSUASIVE, and in no wise coercive. Ah, but what do the suppositions of open view theism allow for?

1) God CAN act compatibilistically (both types) on free-willed beings
2) God can unilaterally speak and act in history

This is why Brandon keeps asking the question that NO ONE is answering...and that Griffin asked before him:

If it's POSSIBLE for God to have either unilaterally OR compatibilistically saved Zosia from such a horrible death, THEN...WHY...DIDN'T...HE?


No amount of reframing is going to get rid of this question. None! If God had the power to COMPATIBILISTICALLY turn that guards head away from Zosia, giving her just enough time to escape his notice....OR had the ability to, via angel, blinding light, small stroke of the guard, what-friggin-ever, create a diversion that would definitively save Zosia's life...then WHY DIDN'T HE? And make no mistake. This IS the power that open view theism grants to God. See, I., we can agree that the morally free-willed sentience is an intrisically good thing. Fine. But once we say that God has the POWER to LIMIT that "good" thing via compatibilism, NOW we have issues! And Doc's (and every other open theist's) conception of the world DOES allow for it. Griffin's has critiqued the free-will and soul-making theodicies like WHAT...and no one seems to touch the real issue. Giving credit to Doc, he has undoubtedly (at least in mind mind) created one of the most COMPREHENSIVE theodicies out there by employing all of the theodicies creatively and in tandem. HOWEVER, it still misses this one point.

Once you say that God can work compatibilistically IN ANY WISE, the problems emerge naturally. And the only thing that I see that really helps in this wise is SOME form of the "glorification idea" I'm dead serious. I may be blind as a bat or just not seeing something...but IMO I've tried to look at these suppositions from MYRIAD ANGLES, and this is the only sound solution I come up with. The only other solution that would retain the majority of the explanatory power found in Doc's view would be to go to WHOLESALE process theism! Like I said, I could be wrong as two left shoes, but for all my reading and thinking ( a significant amount which has been posted on this board) I have come to no other conclusion. Unless we can say that it is POSSIBLE that Zosia could have been a "necessary tragic sacrifice" in SOME IMPORTANT regard, then the theodicy is NOT COMPLETE! It has a friggin hole the size of Texas!

This won't go away, I. It just won't.


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So we really have a totally white box of pellets that multiply and unfortunately some of them choose evil and go on to influence others to choose evil. Sounds like Othello. You can’t turn black pieces into white pieces by laying down black pieces. That’s it! It’s one big game of Othello – now where are the corners – we NEED to capture the corners.


Now, of course, you WOULD choose Othello...which I don't play. So I had to go look up the friggin rules! Actually, the game looks kind of cool. But anyways...

I would say this. The Othello game is a very good analogy for the strategy of non-violent resistence. Basically strategically placed loving action CAN change people. However, I don't see this as being a very good analogy for the essence of axiological measurement, moral deliberation, or the activity of divine providence for that matter. Remember, I., we HAVE to keep in mind our worldview. It's so pivotal to what we are doing. THAT's why I keep on it the way I do. If our statements about divine providence do NOT match up well to the metaphysical concepts that are supposed to undergird it, we are just as contradictory as people who have a view of prayer that doesn't match up to the idea of divine providence that is supposed to be undergirding it. (See the 18th page of the PBS thread about prayer) I completely agree that the only way to have a lasting peaceful, just, and loving society would be by non-violent resistence and the permeating influence of love. (I'm WITH Walter Wink on this) However, this is also LIKE the situation I mentioned above...about Mother Teresa and Ghandi choosing DEATH over killing for any reason. The believer in this philosophy has to believe that possible extinction is BETTER THAN going down to another person's level...in ANY wise. I just cannot see Mother Teresa and Ghandi being part of an ASSASINATION plot against any tyrannical figure. Just can't. But what does that say about Bonhoeffer? Was his approach WRONG? Personally, I don't think so.

But again, I don't think this has much to do with divine providence...especially given the open view suppositions. VERY important!

Just some thoughts,


PS: How about you answer my question? Would the INTENTIONAL (regardless of the intention itself) taking of someone elses life be considered a quantum GOOD or quantum EVIL?

Edited by - Mephi2K on 09/24/2002 08:57:34 AM
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Semeia
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   Posted 9/24/2002 4:38 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
M. said:

SUFFICIENT UNILATERAL situation problematic absolutely responsible historically PERSUASIVE suppositions compatibilistically unilaterally unilaterally compatibilistically reframing COMPATIBILISTICALLY diversion definitively free-willed sentience intrisically compatibilism conception critiqued free-will soul-making theodicies undoubtedly COMPREHENSIVE theodicies employing theodicies creatively compatibilistically naturally glorification something suppositions explanatory WHOLESALE significant conclusion necessary sacrifice IMPORTANT non-violent resistence Basically strategically axiological measurement deliberation providence statements providence metaphysical contradictory providence undergirding completely non-violent resistence permeating situation philosophy extinction ASSASINATION tyrannical Bonhoeffer Personally providence especially suppositions INTENTIONAL regardless considered

S.:

Given this, I'm wondering why carpal tunnel syndrome only shows up when typing "Iconoclast"?

The words above are from the last post alone.

Thanks,
S.

"The opposite of sin is not virtue, but faith."--Soren Kierkegaard
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   Posted 9/24/2002 4:43 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Meph, I can't remember if it was this thread or the other, nor if it was you or someone else of the gang, but here is what I see.

In routing the kinds of speculation that are going on here you have sketched an atheists god. I'm not even sure that this sketch has even risen to the level of the god's of Asher or Iris. I think that you have to do some serious debate on what I just underlined before continuing. Don't you? The Sun God was completely removed from the world, and did not even create it. The "word" and the "wind/spirit" were impersonal, and capable of anything. But how has the "god" you seem to be discussing risen even to that level?

The Personal God of the Bible is LORD. The LORD is both personal and "high and exalted." He is the maker of the heaven and the earth. He is also the beginning and the end.

Christ is IN the atheist, by his divine evergies. The "Word" of God is active in all of Creation.

But why is he absent in this discussion?

Y'all suddenly (?) possited a "god" who was not the LORD who sent the Word.

Makes me sick to read it.


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   Posted 9/24/2002 4:46 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
How can you fling far-fetched speculation and still base your heart's thoughts on the Creator/Word who indwells all by his energies? You can't.

That's why this reads so atheistic.
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   Posted 9/24/2002 4:51 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
How does any of this resemble God who is personally Father, Son and Holy Spirit?
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   Posted 9/24/2002 5:13 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
S. and I.,

Don't take the abbreviation personal.

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Al,

Check it out, man. I understand what you are saying. For real, I do. But, if you ain't feelin' the discussion, bounce. Pretty simple.

On some whatever digga,
M. aka

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   Posted 9/24/2002 5:25 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I gottcha. And will. Fair.

I had to give that observation, though.

And you should rise to the challenge of comparing your sketch to the nature-gods like Ashers and the Sun-deities. Honesty demands it.

Your discussion is POST-CHRISTIAN. Atheism is a Christian heresy. Its presuppositions were IMPOSSIBLE in a world where "god" was either the lunar (nature) or the solar (removed) diety. Impossible. But where Christianity has cleared out the superstition, all that remains is a vacume. Or God in Tri-unity.

Does your discussion really have Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Or is it post-Christian?

I don't care if I make you mad. I'm asking!!!

Well, If I'm going to 'flame' here, I'd better do it to the max. Here is a picture or two of the Post-Christian Trinity:



How does do these speculations compare to THAT Sun-god?
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   Posted 9/24/2002 5:34 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Mephi, the post was from me, not Iconoclast.

The difference between "I. said" and "I said" is easily overlooked, making an already complex discussion that much harder to follow.

But hey, don't take it personal.

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Semeia

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   Posted 9/24/2002 5:35 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Al,

1. I ain' mad. Believe dat. Just statin' an option for you to relieve your frustration.

2. I've never said the the picture of God drawn from the open view suppositions is EQUIVALENT to the Biblical God. I'd have to be an idiot to say that. What I'm saying is that INSOFAR AS the Biblical God is interpreted by the open view metaphysical presuppositions, THAT interpretation can be critiqued.

3. Nice mushroom cloud pictures.

"Holler at you, buddy" (LOLOL!),
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   Posted 9/24/2002 5:48 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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1. I ain' mad. Believe dat. Just statin' an option for you to relieve your frustration.

2. I've never said the the picture of God drawn from the open view suppositions is EQUIVALENT to the Biblical God. I'd have to be an idiot to say that. What I'm saying is that INSOFAR AS the Biblical God is interpreted by the open view metaphysical presuppositions, THAT interpretation can be critiqued.

3. Nice mushroom cloud pictures.


I KNEW you were not mad!

And I agree with you on ALL three of your points. (Nice wording on the second. )

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Here's a follow up quote:

quote:
"...now I am become Death [Shiva], the destroyer of worlds..."
Physicist Robert Oppenheimer, Supervising Scientist Manhattan Project, on 16 July 1945 at 0529 HRS,in the Jornada del Muerto desert near the Trinity site in the White Sands Missile Range. ...quoting from the Bhagavad-Gita upon witnessing first atomic detonation by mankind.


My wife and older son visited White Sands this summer on the way back from California. But they only brought me back a hat. Cool, though.

quote:
The exact quote from the Bhagavad-Gita is:
If the radiance of a thousand suns
Were to burst at once into the sky
That would be like the splendor of the Mighty one...
I am become Death,
The shatterer of Worlds.



And it is interesting to note that the Atomic Bomb website I got these from leads with a quote about man (the maker of 'gods'):

quote:
"No beast is more savage than man,
when possessed with power answerable to his rage."

Plutarch Cicero




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   Posted 9/24/2002 6:04 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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2. I've never said the the picture of God drawn from the open view suppositions is EQUIVALENT to the Biblical God. I'd have to be an idiot to say that.
Hey Mephi-

Doesn't this mean that you think open theists who do believe their view of God is biblical are idiots?

Tom

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Edited by - TGB on 09/24/2002 11:06:24 AM
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   Posted 9/24/2002 6:14 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Tom:
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Doesn't this mean that you think open theists who do believe their view of God is biblical are idiots?


Ok...explaining.

I'm saying that one can posit a God that operates by the metaphysical suppositions of open view theism...and NOT be talking about the Biblical God. Discussing a god that is "open" doesn't translate directly to talking about the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. To say that positing a God according to OV suppositions NATURALLY and LOGICALLY leads to the biblical God is idiocy.

This is distinct from saying that Biblical God seems to FIT the metaphysical suppositions of open view theism...and therefore the open view is BIBLICAL. And that's what you are saying, isn't it? You are saying that open view theists believe that their view of God IS biblical...which is to say that they believe that the Biblical God is best explained by the open worldview. I would not say that people who believed THIS were idiots.

Hope this has cleared that up.

Holla,
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   Posted 9/24/2002 6:20 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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M. said:

SUFFICIENT UNILATERAL situation problematic absolutely responsible historically PERSUASIVE suppositions compatibilistically unilaterally unilaterally compatibilistically reframing COMPATIBILISTICALLY diversion definitively free-willed sentience intrisically compatibilism conception critiqued free-will soul-making theodicies undoubtedly COMPREHENSIVE theodicies employing theodicies creatively compatibilistically naturally glorification something suppositions explanatory WHOLESALE significant conclusion necessary sacrifice IMPORTANT non-violent resistence Basically strategically axiological measurement deliberation providence statements providence metaphysical contradictory providence undergirding completely non-violent resistence permeating situation philosophy extinction ASSASINATION tyrannical Bonhoeffer Personally providence especially suppositions INTENTIONAL regardless considered

S.:

Given this, I'm wondering why carpal tunnel syndrome only shows up when typing "Iconoclast"?

The words above are from the last post alone.

Thanks,
S.




Is it just me, or are things getting a little petty around here? Wow.

Brett

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   Posted 9/24/2002 6:25 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Brett:
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Is it just me, or are things getting a little petty around here? Wow.


I think we can at LEAST say that we are getting side-tracked. So, let's kill all that peripheral noize. I vote that we get our focus back, y'all. We've got some good stuff we're dealing with here.

Centering,


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   Posted 9/24/2002 7:09 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I'm sorry Brett. I was trying to find a funny way to show Mephi that I found his abbreviation of Iconoclast to be distracting as well as unnecessary, considering the fact that he had no problem at all filling his posts with polysyllabic words. I guess I should have added a smiley face or something. I thought the "carpal tunnel syndrome" comment was enough to flag it as humor while still making my point. I guess not.

I tried to clarify my problem in the next post, when I said:

"The difference between "I. said" and "I said" is easily overlooked, making an already complex discussion that much harder to follow."

I find it difficult enough to follow Mephi's line of thought without constantly needing to decipher whether or not "I said" is referring to Mephi or Iconoclast. I think Mephi is doing it to avoid saying "Icon" which both you and Electra pointed out has the opposite meaning as Iconoclast.

But since to discuss this, even in the name of clarity, is "petty" - then I guess feedback in this area is undiscussible.

Thanks,
Semeia







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   Posted 9/24/2002 7:15 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
O.k...

From this point onward, Meph will not refer to Iconoclast as "I." for the sake of clarity. Iconoclast will be called "Iconoclast"

No harm. No foul. No beef. No offense.

Now, let's get to business...

Still centering,
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Thanks,
Semeia

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("Stop the presses." CVM out Clintoned Willie himself. ol' Bill devined what the meaning of "is" is. Meph and Semeia cut the number of letters in half. )
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Well, if it makes anyone feel better, I'm happy to be referred to as B., B.J.S., or Brett. Just don't call me B.S.

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Brett: "Just don't call me B.S"

B.S. is what you think it is. M.S. is more of the same. Ph.D. is piled higher and deeper.
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I prefer to be called “Eleçtra.” I don’t know what that little squiggle means, but I think it’s cool. Or, you can call me “Elec†ra.” Looks kinda goth. Or, how about “Ælectra” from back when they used to squish letters together for some reason?

Also, I’m going to start refering to Modes as “Mødegaard,” because I think it fits him better.

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E.lectra

p.s. Mephi, I have some things to say in response. I will try to get to it later.

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Well, I personally think Greg is REALLY stalling now. He was suppose to respond by Monday and he hasn't. Though his last post said that what was discussed was, "Cool stuff." He's a loser like Modes.

Basically, he has agreed with the Meph Man on some essential points (if we are referring to the other thread (PBS)).

So, C'mon staller! Let's hear from ya! I personally would like to see a really good summary. That is, a bringing together of all the relevant points into a coherent whole.

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brandi

What makes things really complicated in some cases is that some people believe in their minds that disciplining their child through hitting is the most loving thing to do. We know that hitting a child is wrong but what do you do with a parent who has a belief system that "to spare the rod is to spoil the child" and takes this to the extreme without judging their beliefs?

Iconoclast

Woodland Hills Church has a great training program called TNT (Theosynergistic Neuro Transformation) that teaches how to gain a better understanding of our own and other’s “mental models” of the world. People do things for reasons that make sense to them. If you had the exact same internal model of the world that someone else has then what they do would make total sense to you. In fact, you would do the same sorts of things. Different models afford different behavior. Some models are better at some things and other models are better at others. Some models are generally more impoverished than others. Most people on this board would probably agree that the Calvinist model is more impoverished (affords less helpful behavior) than the Open View model.

If you want to help someone expand their repetoire of choices you must first come to understand the aspects of their mental model that leads them to behave in certain ways. Seek first to understand. Once you really understand someone’s model of the world then you can help them see areas where they might believe they don’t have choices but where they really do. This is what psychotherapists do for a living. It is what we are all called to do in our close relationships. It can only be done effectively out of love and out of trust. It can also only be done effectively to the extent that we are open to understanding and revising our own mental models. I think that this is basically what it means for our minds to be renewed. Notice that judgement shuts down our ability and willingness to comprehend another person’s mental model.

I know a therapist who once worked with a man who was convicted of beating his son whom he really loved. To this man hitting his child was a loving thing to do. Why? Because as a child he was hit by his father and to him it was clear that his father hit him out of love. This therapist (a very, very good one in my opinion) who was very skilled in NLP techniques (Neuro-Linguistic Programming – the basis of TNT) was able to access this logic, this mental model, in the man and help him see that this logic actually led to unloving consequences. Moreover, he was able to help the man see new logic and gain new methods, new behavior for how to actually produce loving results for his son. If you sweep a demon away but do not replace it with some new positive thought process then that demon will go out and find seven more to come back and invade you.

thanks,
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Just a note on Iconoclast's thing above.

Notice how much easier it is to judge people from one's OWN mental model than it is to TRULY try to get into the other person's shoes and see the world from their perspective. This is why, I believe, many people don't do it.

1) You'd have to admit the fallibility of your OWN model and be open to change it, if necessary.

2) To do #1, you have to be more aware of your OWN model than you were before to truly understand that it IS just a model.

3) You'd have to spend possibly OODLES of time getting clarification on top of clarification to make sure you have another person's worldview down.

4) You reliquish the ability to unilaterally ACT against another person, because things cease to be so black and white anymore.

5) It takes MAD patience, attentiveness, openness, and vulnerability in the form of concrete relationship.

Now, who has the time and energy for all that...when it seems to take so much stress and effort? Very few people. Just ask all the people who mistakingly or knowingly critique caricatures of open view theism.

Holla,


PS: This is why I have MAD respect for good psychotherapists. If you ever get a chance read "On Being a Therapist" by Jeffrey A.Kottler. Brilliant, telling work! Ministers and theologians REALLY need to read this book.

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