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   Posted 6/13/2005 9:27 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Suicide:The act of killing oneself intentionally; in law, the act of self-destruction by a person sound in mind, and thus capable of measuring his/her moral responsibility; legal suicide.
 
By way of extension, destruction of one's moral, social, political, or business life, by one's own act; ruin of one's plans or interests, because of one's own neglect or action.
 
"Moral and justified suicide, whether by one individual, or inmass, puts in place an immediate stop to exploitation/enslavement, by those who exhist only to exploit, and enslave an other or a mass of individuals. If the slave/prisoner has sucessfully escaped, then their physical body, mind, sacred wholly spirit of emotions, and/ or soul, their true intent and purpose deeply rooted in Godly and Juste values, can no longer be distorted and exploited for the criminal mindset of any inhueman criminal, and his/her filthy, immoral, and perverse setonistic agenda."
 
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   Posted 6/17/2005 9:11 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
FINALLY. Some time. I need some more intellectual stimulation...so...

Question: Why is suicide "wrong" from a Christian point of view? Put it like this. If I were thinking about committing suicide, what theological or biblical reasons could one give me to convince me not to do it.

My brief thoughts: I'm beginning to think that that there isn't a very solid case that can be made against suicide. But I'm not totally sure.

Let's see...


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   Posted 6/17/2005 9:20 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
There was a paper presented at the Kierkegaard conference this week which dealt with the issue of suicide. Most of it zoomed past me, but I caught a couple of ideas. First was this provacative statement: "All philosophy essentially deals with this one question: whether to suicide oneself or not." which I take to be a dark way of rephrasing the question, "What is the meaning of life?"

The answer in short, according to the presenter (a professor from Notre Dame, as I recall) is that human beings haven't been given this authority.


 

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   Posted 6/17/2005 9:27 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Corey:
There was a paper presented at the Kierkegaard conference this week which dealt with the issue of suicide. Most of it zoomed past me, but I caught a couple of ideas. First was this provacative statement: "All philosophy essentially deals with this one question: whether to suicide oneself or not." which I take to be a dark way of rephrasing the question, "What is the meaning of life?"

The answer in short, according to the presenter (a professor from Notre Dame, as I recall) is that human beings haven't been given this authority.


Ah, yes. I think that a mutual friend of ours who went to that conference told me about that idea. I replied to him that I didn't think this idea worked at all. Not if one genuinely believed that God has given human beings the authority and genuine ability to choose their way into eternal death and destruction. That would be like saying I give someone authority to drive my car to Montana, but not authority to ride my bike to the end of the corner.

See what I mean?

devil


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   Posted 6/17/2005 9:50 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Ok Meph, I'll play-- hmmm? Explain to me how suicide can be seen as respecting/loving the body, as the temple of the holy spirit?


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   Posted 6/17/2005 10:04 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
ATW:
Ok Meph, I'll play-- hmmm? Explain to me how suicide can be seen as respecting/loving the body, as the temple of the holy spirit?

Let's say that you believe that sickness truly is a product of the Enemy. It is a testimony to the devil's tyrannical rulership of this world. Let's further imagine that you have been diagnosed with rapidly growing terminal cancer that will drag your body into more and more debilitation and excruciating pain...before you surely die. Could it not be seen as loving the body in this situation to REFUSE to let it endure such indignity before the end? Enduring the smell of your own rapidly dysfunctioning flesh?  Enduring the loss of lucidity? Could it not be seen as loving the self to REFUSE to allow Satan to turn your body COMPLETELY against itself while you just languish? You refuse to allow Satan the satisfaction of seeing that before you meet the Lord.  Perhaps one could see it as vindicating the body before such atrocity. Just like if a person decides to kill themselves rather than to allow themselves to be psychologically and physically ravaged and then killed by a gang of sociopathic rapists.

Loving the body and the self could be PREVENTING those things from enduring inevitable, horrific, ignoble circumstances unto completely life-denying ends.


"I've been converted three times. The first was to traditional Christianity; the second to honesty and the third was to the Love of God and man (humanity) The third was the real conversion. The first two were preliminary."

--Nels Ferre, a theologian speaking of his spiritual journey with the Triune God

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   Posted 6/17/2005 10:08 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Maybe I should say it this way:

Are there cases where suicide is MORALLY JUSTIFIABLE, from a Christian perspective?


"I've been converted three times. The first was to traditional Christianity; the second to honesty and the third was to the Love of God and man (humanity) The third was the real conversion. The first two were preliminary."

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   Posted 6/17/2005 10:39 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
MephEternal said...
ATW:
Ok Meph, I'll play-- hmmm? Explain to me how suicide can be seen as respecting/loving the body, as the temple of the holy spirit?

Let's say that you believe that sickness truly is a product of the Enemy. It is a testimony to the devil's tyrannical rulership of this world. Let's further imagine that you have been diagnosed with rapidly growing terminal cancer that will drag your body into more and more debilitation and excruciating pain...before you surely die. Could it not be seen as loving the body in this situation to REFUSE to let it endure such indignity before the end? Enduring the smell of your own rapidly dysfunctioning flesh?  Enduring the loss of lucidity? Could it not be seen as loving the self to REFUSE to allow Satan to turn your body COMPLETELY against itself while you just languish? You refuse to allow Satan the satisfaction of seeing that before you meet the Lord.  Perhaps one could see it as vindicating the body before such atrocity. Just like if a person decides to kill themselves rather than to allow themselves to be psychologically and physically ravaged and then killed by a gang of sociopathic rapists.

Loving the body and the self could be PREVENTING those things from enduring inevitable, horrific, ignoble circumstances unto completely life-denying ends.

Well, you mix up the kool-aid, whilst I go buy the tennis shoes...........cause my body is deteriorating right now, sagging, and expanding, falling apart in many areas, and I blame Satan all the way. 
 
Are there cases where suicide can't be rationalized in this way??? 
For the depressed, Satan's warfare over the mind....
For the addict, same same....
I don't know man, it's tough.


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   Posted 6/17/2005 10:51 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Sooner or later someone will bring up, "to live is Christ, to die is gain", so I'll just do that now! What should we understand from the phrase "to live is Christ"?

If we could make a case that living no longer "is Christ" then all we're left with is the "to die is gain" and it would seem that suicide would be justifiable in this case.


 

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   Posted 6/17/2005 11:31 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
ATW:
Well, you mix up the kool-aid, whilst I go buy the tennis shoes...........cause my body is deteriorating right now, sagging, and expanding, falling apart in many areas, and I blame Satan all the way.

Are there cases where suicide can't be rationalized in this way???
For the depressed, Satan's warfare over the mind....
For the addict, same same....
I don't know man, it's tough.


I definitely get what you are saying. If one assumed a sin-permeated world, then it would seem that demonic ravage of this world is continuous such that positing suicide to diminish the demonic effects would cause us some questions indeed.

I can't help think about the Genesis account, it is said that God DELIBERATELY put the Adamic couple out of the Garden away from the Tree of Life to experience death. Why?

Gen 3:22
And the LORD God said, "The man has now become like one of us, knowing good and evil. He must not be allowed to reach out his hand and take also from the tree of life and eat, and live forever."


Some commentaries and theologians say that this was a way of God LIMITING the amount of evil contamination that human beings could do to Creation and themselves. If one were to take this line of thought, then it would seem that there is a precedent of using death to LIMIT or STEM the permeation of evil affects. Heck, just think about some of the moral rationale for annihilationism. The cessation of existence is inherently morally preferable to unending, excruciating suffering. In some quarters, there does seem to be theological precedent for using "death" as a mode of stemming the promulgation of evil's long reach.

And you're right. It IS hard. What bothers me is how "simple" some Christians actually think this subject is to decide.

At this point, I'm having the growing conviction that one can, at best, attempt to make cases that suicide is a drastic, "final" action that can be prematurely taken without examining all of the options and seeking the heart and mind of God, oneself, and that one's (hopefully) loving community. Just like with one's choice whether or not to choose Christ (supposedly a decision of ETERNAL import), one should deeply consider one's own options as much as possible and make their choice accordingly. With such consideration, hope previously unseen and unknown may be located and internalized. However, there is a chance that such hope is not found, and the dire choice made. For this reason, I could not fault the terminally ill cancer patient who chooses euthanasia, nor could I fault the person who would rather die at their own hands with dignity than to endure a heinous, sadistic torture and death at the hands of sociopathic rapists. I would not try to use theological argumentatoin to create a deontological dictum against suicide. That, at least right now, seems to me to be a lost cause. But again, I'm open to any who have some REALLY good arguments towards that end.

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Corey:
Sooner or later someone will bring up, "to live is Christ, to die is gain", so I'll just do that now! What should we understand from the phrase "to live is Christ"?

If we could make a case that living no longer "is Christ" then all we're left with is the "to die is gain" and it would seem that suicide would be justifiable in this case.


Hmmm...interesting idea. But then the $25,000 question would be just that. What does it mean with living is no longer "in Christ." Is it when one is hopelessly depressed? Is it when one has a terminal disease? When does that occur.

Also let's notice something. Once we go down this path, we are NOT saying that suicide is absolutely morally inappropriate for Christians.

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For those who might find this merely theological speculation, this is not. There are many adolescent and adult Christians who struggle with suicidal ideations. And when you hear some of the stories, some of them seem to have some pretty good reasons why ending their own lives would be preferable to the hell they face everyday. It would be wise for Christian leaders and mentors to SERIOUSLY think through the advice we give on this matter and the theological and biblical bases for which we give that advice. If a Christian were to ask YOU the question of why they shouldn't kill themselves, could YOU give a thought-through, prayed-through answer to that question that doesn't use irrational, unbiblical scare tactics or hopelessly contradictory ideas.

This is part of MY process for thinking through this issue.

devil


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   Posted 6/17/2005 1:41 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
FWIW, here's an article that seems to be a good backgrounder on the topic: http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/suicide/

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   Posted 6/17/2005 2:08 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
GREAT article, Corey. Thanks!

Yo. Y'all check out the section 3.7 "Duties Toward the Suicidal"

The stuff here is EXACTLY the type of discussion that I believe we should have in discussing things like annihilationism and universalism. My moral dictum that leads to universalism:

If it is obvious that a sentient creature is making choices out of a dysfunctional, compulsive frame of mind just prior to a point-of-no-return such that...

a) sound, reality-based rational and moral deliberation is not present [they are trapped in self-deceit and erroneous cognitive maps]
b) their own qualitative ultimate harm (whatever that may be) is an imminent risk, and
c) all non-forceful persuasion is not working...

then it is in alignment with perfectly loving character to try to assertively INTERVENE on that person's behalf, even to the point of heavily restricting that person's freedom to choose, in order to help them discover their dysfunction for themselves, to help them discover their TRUE motivations, and to empower them to replace their old life-denying thoughts/interpreations with life-affirming mental frameworks that help them make the best choice possible.


Read this article VERY carefully. It is considerations like this that lead me to believe that 1) eternal suicide (ie the fully informed choice to undergo eternal self-destruction and ultimate self-harm in total awareness of the real potentiality for divine bliss with God) CANNOT be considered a rational decision by any means and 2) God, being all loving, would then be morally within God's rights to assertively prevent such a thing from occuring to any sentient being that God loves.


"I've been converted three times. The first was to traditional Christianity; the second to honesty and the third was to the Love of God and man (humanity) The third was the real conversion. The first two were preliminary."

--Nels Ferre, a theologian speaking of his spiritual journey with the Triune God

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   Posted 6/18/2005 9:57 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
In my thinking, this sort of intervention is basically what hell is. It's the fire that will not cease, burning away all self-deceptions. Hell in this view is an act of "tough love". It simply is not possible to outlast it.

Specifically I see hell as where the knob of the the flesh is turned up to 10, and the restraining knob of the spirit is turned down to 0. "Immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions, envying, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these."
 
Imagine the worst conflict you've ever had with another person. Now intensify it maximally and apply it to each person you meet. Given enough time, I can imagine having this maximum conflict with everyone! One will discover that there is nobody and nothing anywhere that can satisfy one's burning drive for his deepest needs. He'll see that all is vanity.

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   Posted 6/18/2005 10:36 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Let's think about suicide from another angle: isn't suicide essentially murder of oneself? It would seem that if we could come up with a way to justify suicide, that one could fairly easily extend that to justify murder.  And vice-versa.

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   Posted 6/18/2005 11:38 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Corey (emphasis mine):
In my thinking, this sort of intervention is basically what hell is. It's the fire that will not cease, burning away all self-deceptions. Hell in this view is an act of "tough love". It simply is not possible to outlast it.

Specifically I see hell as where the knob of the the flesh is turned up to 10, and the restraining knob of the spirit is turned down to 0. "Immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions, envying, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these."

Imagine the worst conflict you've ever had with another person. Now intensify it maximally and apply it to each person you meet. Given enough time, I can imagine having this maximum conflict with everyone! One will discover that there is nobody and nothing anywhere that can satisfy one's burning drive for his deepest needs. He'll see that all is vanity.


I would COMPLETELY agree with you. Completely. What you have just described is what I interpret to be the "rock-bottom" experience. But you probably already knew that. biggrin

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Corey:
Let's think about suicide from another angle: isn't suicide essentially murder of oneself? It would seem that if we could come up with a way to justify suicide, that one could fairly easily extend that to justify murder. And vice-versa.

Not really. Murder is a form of homocide. Actually, murder is, at base, unjustifiable or unlawful homicide. We already have reason to believe that even God believes that homocide is justifiable in some cases. So, unless someone wanted to say that NO form of homocide was justifiable, then it seems to me this line of thought wouldn't quite work.

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   Posted 6/18/2005 12:38 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Yes, I'm with you on the rock-bottom thing, but I hadn't previously thought about this by way of analogy to an intervention, where an addict's friends and family organize to forcefully confront them about their destructive life choices and impose some immediate consequences. This concept of hell then is more active and coerced than the self-chosen view I've held up til now.

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   Posted 6/18/2005 1:17 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
A few thoughts I have...
 
Theologically, human beings were not created (pre-Fall) with mental dispositional displacements which contribute to skewed thinking. Meph has argued elsewhere (universal threads) and indirectly in this post("they are trapped in self-deceit and erroneous cognitive maps") that humanity currently operates in an irrational and misplaced spiritual and mental capacity. I concur. Theologically, humanity was never supposed to have been placed into a sphere of existence where mental, emotional and spiritual quandries and predicaments exist due to chaotic disturbance in the human environment. What this means is that humanity, in its pre-Fall existence, would never have even given thought about suicide. The imperative,  "Don't go there" would have been answered with the interrogative, "Where is there to go?" The same issue applies when we talk about abortion; our theological pre-Fall existence would never entailed contemplation about, or acts of, abortion. Thus, we are outside of our original domain, and that cannot be forgotten when we address these kinds of topics. In no greater way are we reminded of this then by the First Commandment, Thou Shalt Not Kill. Literally: Thou Shalt Not Murder. Killing is inevitable; murder is not (one may have to kill to prevent murder...amazingly). This makes neither killing nor murder the original framework, but it gives us a clue toward resolution for the issue of suicide.
 
Since we are in this skewed domain, we are forced to address and engage many issues that are abnormal to our desire for an undisturbed (healthy) spiritual and mental life. In this current state of chaos, what is important before God, I believe, is the heart. Relationships are based on and determined by the heart, in all of its mixed-emotions, disturbances and chaotic elements. Even one's relationship with one's self is based on the heart. Where mental faculties are skewed, inhibited or damaged, however, all the more attention is focused on the heart. The heart can still shine forefront despite mental, emotional or physical incapacity. This is why God did not say, "Thou Shalt Not Kill."  In the case of murder, however, all elements of the person's being are affected. The heart is hardened or pushed to the back in order to allow the mind, emotions and physical to act out. In the case of killing, the softness of the heart may very well be in the forefront, but the mind sees the "need" to overrule the heart (abortion of the fetus in order to save the mother's life). This slight difference is, I believe, how God looks at these kinds of situations. It is how He must look upon these matters, for that is all we have to offer Him. Not to appease Him or gain justification, but to operate in this chaotic mixture of good and evil in a way that can progress out of it.
 
A person may lay down his life for another, something Jesus taught as the most noble demonstration of love. Indeed, this is seen most clearly in His own death. He gives His life for the sake of others. (It can be argued that He was murdered, but Jesus Himself made it clear that He alone lays down His life; no one takes it from Him. The manner in which He is slain, therefore, is insignificant as regards this topic). Jesus was on a suicidal mission; His ultimate path was to allow for the taking of His life. As a matter of fact, so certain was His destiny that Peter is rebuked for trying to intervene. Peter's reasons may have been misplaced, in that He has different expectations about the coming Messiah than Jesus, but he was rebuked more so for ANY interference with Jesus' destiny. Jesus did not directly kill Himself, but what is the difference when to die is the destiny. The path was clear, the destiny set in stone, and no one, but no one, was going to Stop Him. Death was the bed which He was determined to lie in.
 
To sum up, God looks on the heart. Suicide is not always a heaven or hell issue. (For those who do not hold to universalism, the arrogant, "I'll show you, God" attitude that demonstrates defiance in the most costic way by suicide, that person is considered eternally lost. I, however, am talking about those people who know the Lord as Savior and such but are overwhelmed with life, with mental disturbance, with broken hearts, with physical incapacitation that they cannot take life anymore and opt out by suicide.) God looks on the heart. And where He sees horrible chaos, disburbance and incapacity in His children, it is not a heaven or hell issue to Him; it is a relationship issue. Why would we think that it isn't? Do we not display the same sorrow and pain as parents or friends who loose someone to suicide because they were overwhelmed with life or overfuled by mental disturbance or physical pain? Do we immediately  assign them to the pits of hell, fire and brimstone because they couldn't hold out for healing or death by its own accord? We certainly cannot condem because the Bible teaches such. We, too, must look upon the heart as best as we are able.


My teacher used to say that whenever he read Scripture, he would always ask the question, "What does this have to say about the character of God?"  Working off his thinking, as I read Scripture, I have come to ask, "What does this have to say about the heart and passion of God's desire for relationship for us?

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   Posted 6/18/2005 4:55 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I can't think of any "ultimate" reasons a universalist would have for encouraging a person not to commit suicide. Univeralism amounts to the denial of "ultimate" consequences for our choices. If there are no ultimate consequences, then there are no ultimate reasons for doing or not doing ANYTHING. If I were a universalist talking to a person who was standing on the ledge about to jump, I honestly don't know what reasons I could give the person to NOT jump. Jumping and not jumping both IN THE END yield the same outcome. What would you emplore them to do, Mephi, and why?
 
That's my packing-the-house-up-mad-busy-gettting-ready-to-move point of view.

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   Posted 6/18/2005 6:52 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
A suicider deliberately gives up his life.  The action is often indirect as in the case of signing a DNR form.  In the case of Jesus and many martyrs the suicide is much more direct.  These examples of Christianity put themselves in positions that would all but certainly result in their death.  Some martyrs
did this for no better reason than thrill-seeking: wanting to prove to God and themselves that they could handle it.  Is this a better reason than eminent loss of control or pain?  Are we saying that masochism is holy?  In Jesus' case there was some joy set before him.  Isn't this the case of your everyday teenage suicide?
 
If I hold a loaded gun to my head and pull the trigger I am less sure to die than Jesus was by giving himself up at the garden.  If we want to call suicide a sin, we had better make sure that our definition of suicide doesn't describe one of Jesus' more famous actions.



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   Posted 6/18/2005 8:34 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Corey:
Yes, I'm with you on the rock-bottom thing, but I hadn't previously thought about this by way of analogy to an intervention, where an addict's friends and family organize to forcefully confront them about their destructive life choices and impose some immediate consequences. This concept of hell then is more active and coerced than the self-chosen view I've held up til now.

Do you see why I'd have a problem with C.S. Lewis' conception of hell? Or Doc's for that matter?


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Starkman:
To sum up, God looks on the heart. Suicide is not always a heaven or hell issue. (For those who do not hold to universalism, the arrogant, "I'll show you, God" attitude that demonstrates defiance in the most costic way by suicide, that person is considered eternally lost. I, however, am talking about those people who know the Lord as Savior and such but are overwhelmed with life, with mental disturbance, with broken hearts, with physical incapacitation that they cannot take life anymore and opt out by suicide.) God looks on the heart. And where He sees horrible chaos, disburbance and incapacity in His children, it is not a heaven or hell issue to Him; it is a relationship issue. Why would we think that it isn't? Do we not display the same sorrow and pain as parents or friends who loose someone to suicide because they were overwhelmed with life or overfuled by mental disturbance or physical pain? Do we immediately assign them to the pits of hell, fire and brimstone because they couldn't hold out for healing or death by its own accord? We certainly cannot condem because the Bible teaches such. We, too, must look upon the heart as best as we are able.

Great to see you, man! I'd agree with you. It's about the heart, not some deontological dictum that determines our eternal destiny. Great stuff!


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Tom:
I can't think of any "ultimate" reasons a universalist would have for encouraging a person not to commit suicide. Univeralism amounts to the denial of "ultimate" consequences for our choices. If there are no ultimate consequences, then there are no ultimate reasons for doing or not doing ANYTHING. If I were a universalist talking to a person who was standing on the ledge about to jump, I honestly don't know what reasons I could give the person to NOT jump. Jumping and not jumping both IN THE END yield the same outcome. What would you emplore them to do, Mephi, and why?

Sup, Tom. Some things:

1) If the "ultimate consequences" of our lives actions are seen as a) our own development of our SELVES with respect to what degree and in what manner we are consonant with the Reign of God and b) our level of effect on spreading God's love in Creation [both of which are ETERNAL concepts, as I've argued before], then they do exist! This is what I keep hearing:

Meph, if crazily evil person A and loving altruistic person B both end up realizing their full potentials for loving God at the Consummation of All Things, then what has truly been the ultimate consequence of person A's evil.

This is, IMHO, thinking way too microscopically. The ultimate consequence of person A's evil is the irretrievable opportunities that he missed to contribute love to himself and Creation as a result of being crazily evil...and the corresponding effects on the development of Creation. Let me give you an example. Let's say that God created person A with a natural talent of a wonderful signing voice that person A could have used to not only glorify God but to also share God's love in an artistic way with others, possibly contributing to THEIR own love-engendering capacity. Let's further say that person A not only squanders that talent in misuse, but actually becomes a pimp who sometimes uses his natural singing voice to seduce his prospective whores. His natural talents are used occasionally to ultimately bring others into dehumanization and movement away from love. Ok. He dies and reaches his "rock-bottom" point. Eventually, at the end, he is in "heaven" with everyone else. The good that person A COULD HAVE contributed to God and Creation are irretrievably lost. They are ETERNAL losses because God's aesthetic appreciation of Creation could have been increased THAT MUCH MORE had person A truly lived out of a divine fulness using his gift in service to God. Moreover, the evil ramifications that stemmed from person A's wasted life are also eternal. He contributed to the negative development of those people he solicited and used as whores. So, in a ripple effect, he contributed to the destruction of their very selves as far as their development in love...and they will NEVER get that back.

In the end, Person A may still go to heaven and experience divine bliss. He may even then use his gifts to honor God. But he, God, AND Creation have eternally missed out on "what could have been." This, I submit, is an ultimate consequence of his temporal existence.

Now...

2) Building off the idea above, what reasons could I give the man to not jump? I'd simply try to get him to think about something: Has he really thought through what he might be depriving the world of if he killed himself right now? I'd really want him to think about it. Has he seriously thought through what wonderful potential for loving someone else, being loved, and helping someone else to love he may be giving away by committing suicide. I'd just ask him to at least give that some very serious thought before killing himself. If things got really desperate, I might say this:

Dude, think about it. You can kill yourself ANYTIME. People can't watch you 24/7 forever. We can't ultimately stop you if you REALLY want to end it all. I'm just asking you to give yourself and some people who care about you time to really think through what beautiful gift you may be taking away from this earth. If after honestly thinking it all through and discussing things, you truly don't feel that you have absolutely NOTHING to offer yourself or anyone else in this world, you could always do this some other time. Seriously. But I really believe that if you take some time, you may see that you still have some beauty inside you to contribute to this hell we call "life." And I know that you know as well as anybody that we need that. Cmon, yo. Get off the ledge. Let's go for some Krispy Kreme or something. I'm buyin'.

In short, I would just want that person to make a more thoughtful decision on the matter of suicide. Sure, I'd have comfort knowing that divine bliss waits for him either way. But it would really sit well with me if by my act of love, I helped someone who may well be the next Nicky Cruz, Chuck Colson, or even Billy Graham...someone who could help spread love in THIS life.

Yep.

devil


"I've been converted three times. The first was to traditional Christianity; the second to honesty and the third was to the Love of God and man (humanity) The third was the real conversion. The first two were preliminary."

--Nels Ferre, a theologian speaking of his spiritual journey with the Triune God

Post Edited (MephEternal) : 6/18/2005 8:37:00 PM (GMT-5)

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might-be-don
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   Posted 6/20/2005 9:37 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Hmmmm... seems that your ( Mephs ) version of universalism isn't much different from a "death-bed" conversion.

peace, don


Beer is living proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy.
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AtTheWell
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   Posted 6/20/2005 11:17 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
MEPH: But it would really sit well with me if by my act of love, I helped someone who may well be the next Nicky Cruz, Chuck Colson, or even Billy Graham....

ATW: and even just the guy down the street that loves his wife like Christ loves the church, and his example inspires his neighbor....;-) yep. good stuff.


Peace,
ATW

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