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Similitude
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   Posted 11/17/2009 11:38 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
T: IF God says hell is loving... I guarantee you ITS loving.
 
J: I guarantee you we're all with you on that one, T!cheers
 
But if hell is eternal AND loving, it must be because of something like what Zach claims. Namely, that there are people that literally PREFER eternal judgment for eternal defiance to the cessation of judgment. I have a hard time believing that's possible. Most people can't endure even small degrees of torture without cracking under the pressure. Even the demons fear and tremble. They feared that Christ had come to judge them during his incarnation. Moreover, the language of scripture doesn't compel the necessity of an eternal judgment.


 

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   Posted 11/18/2009 12:07 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Sorry Selah for your anguish about this. I don't want to frustrate you by seeming too certain, but also...I do not start nor end where you do in matters of epistemology. For one, scripture...to me, is not "the Word of God"...nor is it a mere nothing to me. It is a starting point and an entering into a dialogue that was going on long before I entered it...but no writer in scripture has the kind of authority for me that they do for you...and my denial of scripture as "the Word of God" may mean the end for any value you place on what I, in particular, have to say. And that is that if so. But, for me, God didn't do any weird thing that I would consider unloving. Either we know what love is or we don't. I'm not talking about exhaustive knowledge, but I am talking about true knowledge. If love can be the kind of weird that you have to reconcile because "the Word of God" says God did certain things...well then, I reckon everything is a crap shoot. There may or may not be a hell. There may or may not be a heaven either. There may be a hell and it may be populated by Christians..because that may be what love really is and we would have no way of even understanding that kind of "love".

So, yes, I am saying that I know what love is and I am saying that hell is not loving. I word that plainly and strongly...not because I am taking some delight in frustrating you, but because that is either what is true, loving, just, to be expected, that for which we stake our lives to Christ for...or we have no surety about anything. And faith in Christ is JUST a crap shoot. How can we possibly say to other people that "God is love" if we don't really have any idea what we are even talking about?

What I am certain about is that God is more loving, more just, more trustworthy...than I can possibly imagine...and universal reconciliation is a benchmark in that regard. It is a minimum. Everything may end up even more wonderfully than that, but that is the direction I am looking in.

How truly horrible is existence if the end comes and love, justice, and truth are less than what I thought they were.

Please understand that I am not trying to sway you to my views of scripture in order to then sway you to my views of UR. I am just adding my affirmation about UR to that of Tom, D, Jeff, Corey and others who have come to UR through certain interpretations of scripture. My views come through direct encounters I have had with God...and so you cannot follow with me behind the veil of those existential encounters, I understand. Nevertheless, what you have to do is decide something about ME. Either I am a kook or there are pieces of data that you have to do something with. I don't mean that you have to take me as some kind of prophet and incorporate my theological ideas into your theology. I am not asking you to do that. But if you decide I am not off my rocker then there remains that I say that I have had a number of encounters with God. That foremost in those encounters I entered into the dance of the Trinity, was surrounded and penetrated by the love of God. And that for me it is IMPOSSIBLE to believe anything less than UR with regards to mankind's final state.

Given all that, I still do understand the strains that this issue is placing on you and I am not untouched by that fact. I don't want to add to it, I'm just reporting what I have to report.
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   Posted 11/18/2009 1:05 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Hey, I'll admit my bias. I'm a ENFJ. All for certainty and closure. Pedagogue.  Talky.  All that.  More on ENFJ.

But that's what gets me. I was "certain" and "closed" on the idea of eternal damnation for unsaved for the LONGEST time. I was taught that from childhood up.  Southern Baptist Church all the way.  BLACK church at THAT! (That's why I feared Jesus in church, rather then loved Him.  Straight up SERIOUS!!! ) I got "leaped" out by these conversations...and the brothers and sisters...on this board over the years.

Remember my first "Meph" rant ever (like in 2000)?  It was AGAINST Universalism in all it's forms.
 
And I was "sure" about it...cause the Word said it.
 
Yeah...


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   Posted 11/18/2009 1:19 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I CHOOSE to believe that God's Spirit has been involved in my total process. Moving from NOT believing God was Love...TO doing so, deeply and authentically. And having all the implications that have fallen from that realization. Does that mean I can be "certain" that UR (which I feel is directly linked to God being love) is true? Nope. But that's what FAITH is for, now isn't it? Frankly, I just believe God can do it. If he doesn't, I'll still love him (which I WASN'T able to do before). But I believe he will. Kinda like the 3 Hebrew boys in the fiery furnace. I believe our God is WELL ABLE to save all people, but if he does not, He is still the Beauty of all Beauty, worthy of all praise, honor, and glory.

I BELIEVE in divine possiblity!

;-)


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   Posted 11/18/2009 1:22 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Surely y'all remember all the despair in those "rants", right? That was because I DIDN'T believe in God's possibility. The problem of evil overwhelmed me...and I followed God like a "theistic bootlicker" because I DIDN'T believe God was Love. I believed that God was REAL...but NOT that God was LOVE. I followed God like a good Muslim damn near. Y'all old heads remember that, right?

It was only when I began seeing divine possibility (Christ REALLY DID love, value, and treasure me, regardless of how much I sinful I was) as a reality that ANY thing in Christianity began really making sense.

True story. icon_bandit


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   Posted 11/18/2009 1:26 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
So, I guess all of that pretty much influences my thinking on all this.

HAAAAAAA!!!

rotfl rotfl rotfl

(listening...)


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   Posted 11/18/2009 1:26 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
yeah,d. I remember all that. But something you might want to do is ask your sweet wife about how often people swing the pendulum (to the far other end) when they're in the process of changing beliefs. I betcha its like 89% or something. It happens all the time. Later on, when evidence is presented or something new is learned, more moderate positions emerge....and conclusions are formed. It's a process that's extremely common. That's part of the reason I'm so cautious when evaluating this stuff. I'm not a pendulum swinger -- at all.


"When one has once fully entered the realm of love, the world — no matter how imperfect — becomes rich and beautiful, it consists solely of opportunities for love."
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   Posted 11/18/2009 1:31 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Hey, boo. Maybe this is a pendulum swing. But I tell you what. I love God more than I've ever been able to in my life. Why? Because I believe he genuinely and practically loves sinners, one of the most powerful thing I think he does. Heck, I'm able to truly love MYSELF for the first time...EVER.  (That is nothing less than a miracle for people who suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  Ask the wifey about THAT!  For real...) I believe God is Love where I did not before. Something's to say for that.   I have no choice but to believe that God's Spirit's been active in expanding my genuine love for Him rather than just honest servitude...and  maybe I'm wrong for this...but, I can't separate my movement theologically over the years from that activity.  Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, please have mercy on me, the sinner.
 
On another note, there seems to be a significant amount of Church History, Tradition, and Testimony that doesn't rule out Universalism at all. If in this pendulum swing I stand with the likes of them, I guess I can't be mad at that. ;-)


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   Posted 11/18/2009 1:48 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
"…All shall be well and all shall be well and all manner of thing shall be well"

Julian of Norwich

Although she lived in a time of turmoil, Julian's theology was optimistic, speaking of God's love in terms of joy and compassion as opposed to law and duty. For Julian, suffering was not a punishment that God inflicted, as was the common understanding. She believed that God loved and wanted to save everyone. Popular theology magnified by current events including the Black Death and a series of peasant revolts assumed that God was punishing the wicked. In response, Julian suggested a far more merciful theology, which some say leaned towards universal salvation. Because she believed that behind the reality of hell is yet a greater mystery of God's love, she has also been referred to in modern times as a proto-universalist, though she herself never actually claimed more than hope that all might be saved. Even though her views were not typical, local authorities did not challenge either her theology or her authority to make such religious claims because of her status as an anchoress.

As part of her differing view of God as compassionate and loving, she wrote of the Trinity in domestic terms and compares Jesus to a mother who is wise, loving, and merciful. (See Jesus as Mother by Carolyn Walker Bynum.) Similarly, she connects God with motherhood in terms of 1) "the foundation of our nature's creation, 2) "the taking of our nature, where the motherhood of grace begins" and 3) "the motherhood at work" and speaks metaphorically of Jesus in connection with conception, nursing, labor, and upbringing. She asserts God to have the attributes of Fatherhood, Motherhood and Lordship.

Her great saying, "…All shall be well and all shall be well and all manner of thing shall be well", reflects this theology. It is also one of the most individually famous lines in all of Catholic theological writing, and certainly one of the most well-known phrases of the literature of her era.


"Creation is allowed in intimate love to speak to the Creator as if to a lover. As the Creator loves the creation, so the creation loves the Creator. The whole world has been embraced by this kiss."
Hildegard of Bingen

Know me, Eternal Lover...and help me to know You...

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   Posted 11/18/2009 1:49 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I just love everyone for putting up with me.

Thanks for sharing that d. You and T might be hard-headed, but I adore you. =P


"When one has once fully entered the realm of love, the world — no matter how imperfect — becomes rich and beautiful, it consists solely of opportunities for love."
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   Posted 11/18/2009 1:54 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Guuuurl. You know it's love all day long. Knowhutimsayin?

All day, eryday. 

;-)


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   Posted 11/18/2009 2:12 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
FYI for those who'd care...

Eastern Orthodoxy

Russian Orthodox Bishop Hilarion of Vienna, in April 9, 2008, in his presentation at the First World Apostolic Congress of Divine Mercy at the Vatican, argued that God's mercy is so great that He does not condemn sinners to everlasting punishment. The Orthodox understanding of hell, Bishop Hilarion said, corresponds roughly to the Catholic notion of purgatory.[12]

This claim contradicts a canon of the Synod of Constantinople, held in 1722. However, although the Synod declared the teaching of purgatory to be a heresy, it still spoke of some sort of reconciliation for the damned:

"We do not accept a third place, a purgatory, by any means, since neither Scripture nor the holy Fathers have taught us any such thing. However, we believe these two places have many abodes [...] None of the teachers of the Church have handed down or taught such a purgatory, but they all speak of one single place of punishment, hades, just as they teach about one luminous and bright place, paradise. But both the souls of the holy and the righteous go indisputably to paradise and those of the sinners go to hades, of whom the profane and those who have sinned unforgivably are punished forever and those who have offended forgivably and moderately hope to gain freedom through the unspeakable mercy of God. [...] [W]e hope there will be comfort for them from God, but not through fire and purgatory, but through divine love for mankind, whereby the infinite goodness of God is seen."


"Creation is allowed in intimate love to speak to the Creator as if to a lover. As the Creator loves the creation, so the creation loves the Creator. The whole world has been embraced by this kiss."
Hildegard of Bingen

Know me, Eternal Lover...and help me to know You...

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   Posted 11/18/2009 2:16 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Hey D,

I feel your heart on this man and I am right there with you.

I'm just going to pose some clarifying questions:

"Moving from NOT believing God was Love...TO doing so"

When you didn't believe God was love, what was love? You had some idea about what love was, right? But you didn't know if God was that or not, yes? Or was it that you didn't even know if there was such a thing as love? And if so, did you doubt your own love, doubt the love of those in your life who had been kind to you, etc?

And then when you did believe God was love, what was love then? Did love change any of it's constituencies? I would imagine that your own love and that of others would become more vibrant to you...but did anything fundamental to love change for you? Sure, you changed in relation to love...but did your idea of love change?

Why do you feel God being love is directly linked to UR? What does love look like that UR seems the only plausible answer? First Corinthians 13 certainly comes to mind as being descriptive of love to me. Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

"Frankly, I just believe God can do it. If he doesn't, I'll still love him"

If UR doesn't happen and there is either hell or annihilation...and you still love God. Is the love you have the same as the love you would have for Him if UR happens? Not in the sense of whether there is some measure of love that you are holding back from God...let's say that the intensity of your love is the same under both scenarios...it's the constitution of love that I am calling into question...a love that actively torments the damned forever seems to me to be something totally different from a love that never gives up, that bears whatever cost until ALL the sheep are safe....and so if the second kind of love is not at the foundation of creation, but the tormenting love is what is foundational...what bearing will that have on the constitution of your own love towards God? If true love can torment when certain criteria aren't met, then what does your true love towards God look like?

Will you look back on the longsuffering love idea that you once held and see it as something less than what love turns out to be, that of a love that can torment?

I have real problems with it. To say God is love...and then to say that love tortures...because that's all ECT amounts to...and it is not even ambiguous like uses of state torture to gain information...there is no purpose to it except for the torment. At a minimum I think this has to push one toward the idea of annihilation.

The three Hebrew children story doesn't help me any in this regard and here is why...

in the actual story an earthly king threatened and then carried out the execution of a fiery furnace torture on the three Hebrews. In that situation to say "our God is WELL ABLE to save" has content. God could enter into the situation and save them then and there in history...but if he didn't (something that was all too plausible...God hadn't always saved his followers from earthly peril and demise) then fine, you die, but you are present to God...so in that sense, God saves either way. But when we come to the eschaton, to say "our God is WELL ABLE to save" no longer has the same meaning IF HELL IS TRUE. And what good is your still loving God, even though hell is true, to those who are actually in the eschatological furnace? None.

I just can't wrap my head around any such conception of love.

Love shouldn't be this hard to apprehend people! Can we not even say that we know what love is?

Ugh! I guess I just want to say that, love has to be a properly basic belief. It is like yellow or any other color. There are certain ways you can describe it, but the experience of it is just there, right there, existent in the moment...and you either apprehend it or you have some kind of love color blindness. And maybe it's a learned cognitive dissonance color blindness. Maybe because some authority has pointed to two different colors and said "They are the same color" And because you can't question the authority you are caught in a double bind and left with crazy ideas about love.

Everyone, please forgive me. Tell me how to say what I think about love without diminishing what I think about it...so that I do not offend your sensibilities. Or is it the case that IF I say what I think about love it just will offend sensibilities?
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   Posted 11/18/2009 2:20 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Ok, Asher. Maybe this will help.

How would you describe unconditional love of God? What does it entail, in your opinion?  We are to love our Creator without any conditions, yes?


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   Posted 11/18/2009 2:30 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Let me tip my hand here.

If God's unconditional love towards us entails accepting us as we truly are without any conditions whatsoever (which divine providence would seem to indicate)...then he's showing us what unconditional love truly is. So if we are to unconditionally love God, wouldn't that mean that we have to accept God AS HE IS, not as how we'd like him to be?

I cannot make sense of ECT so it's really a remote reality to me. But if such a thing obtained, would I still be unconditionally loving God? Would I accept God as he presented himself to me without any conditions whatsoever? If not, then I don't see how this quote wouldn't apply...

"To take the stand that God is at fault for the presence of evil is implicitly to lose one's relation to God since one now becomes God's judge, which is the very position of evil.  Thus, to lose one's relationship to God is to lose one's self to evil; to remain agnostic where God and evil are concerned is to lose one's own soul by refusing to choose and implicitly to admit to having a love of God that can be qualified or negated by that which is not God--and thus to confess one neither loves or even knows God."
 
James Loder on Kierkegaard's "On the Edification Implied in the Fact that Before God We Are Always in the Wrong."


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   Posted 11/18/2009 2:37 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
And on the 3 Hebrew boys thing. I'll explain what I meant by that.

"O Nebuchadnezzar, we do not need to defend ourselves before you in this matter. If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to save us from it, and he will rescue us from your hand, O king. But even if he does not, we want you to know, O king, that we will not serve your gods or worship the image of gold you have set up."

They declare that God is able and that he WILL rescue them.  They are REALLY having faith that God WILL save them. They seem to really believe that they will be saved.   That substance of things hoped for and evidence of things unseen, maybe?  But look at how they extend that possibility of NOT being rescued, but still declare unswerving allegiance to God.  In other words, the 3 boys make it clear: God is God and we will NOT cease to love the Lord our God with all of our heart, soul, mind, and strength based on any outcome.  Yeah, they ended up walking in the fire with the "Fourth Person" (probably due to their faith.  Think about it.  Would it have happened otherwise?), but even if they would have been shriekingand melting in the flames, I believe the Spirit would have empowered them to go down with God on their lips.  Just like the Christian martyrs way after them.
 
That's how I feel.  I believe God is "willing and able" to save all.  I believe that he WILL do it because He's ABLE.    (Tell em, Prince.)  But, in the (in my heart, infinitessimally remote) possible event that God don't do that, in lieu of ECT...well...you get it.  :p


"Creation is allowed in intimate love to speak to the Creator as if to a lover. As the Creator loves the creation, so the creation loves the Creator. The whole world has been embraced by this kiss."
Hildegard of Bingen

Know me, Eternal Lover...and help me to know You...

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   Posted 11/18/2009 2:47 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
D,

If God's love is not unconditional in itself...then I think that any unconditional love on my part is impossible. If God's love is conditional and that is what is at the core and foundation of creation, which includes me...then it is impossible for me to have unconditional love because there is no such thing.

If God's love is not unconditional then mine certainly never will be...not by my choice (as if I would have the ability for unconditional love and simply withheld it from God because He didn't measure up to what I wanted), but by the very constitution of what love IS. So what are you asking? Will I love unconditionally in a creation where unconditional love is impossible?

If I can love unconditionally in a universe in which God does not love unconditionally...is it that I am able to do something that God cannot? What does being in the image of God even mean if that is the case? And here goes a dumbfounding question...

Would you love God unconditionally...if...you did everything He said was required of you (including faith in Him, etc.) and then at the end He said "I know you will never understand this, but my true love for you constrains me to place you in hell forever...even though you did all that was required...true love...which you have never even come close to til now...requires that you are tormented forever....but still keep on unconditionally loving Me."

See, that question seems no less stupifying to me than having a conception of love that also includes hell torment.

D, man, I can philosophize all different directions and pose all different kinds of scenarios...but given what I have experienced of God perhaps it is impossible for me to truly enter some types of mind experiments, there is something at so fundamental a level because of the experiences that I maybe just can't do it....or maybe it is that I am so skewed by the experiences that I can't stray very far from what is imprinted. And if that is the case, what should I do when these kinds of experiments are presented to me. I really do not want to dampen anyone else's quest. So does that mean silence is best for me. I HAVE asked myself that before. I just haven't received a definite answer either from God or my own reasoning. What do you think?
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   Posted 11/18/2009 2:53 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
"If God's unconditional love towards us entails accepting us as we truly are without any conditions whatsoever (which divine providence would seem to indicate)...then he's showing us what unconditional love truly is. So if we are to unconditionally love God, wouldn't that mean that we have to accept God AS HE IS, not as how we'd like him to be?"

See D...this whole sentence doesn't make any sense to me.

Because God UNCONDITIONALLY loves us

We must UNCONDITIONALLY love God

even though His love is CONDITIONAL

Do you see the problem here?
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   Posted 11/18/2009 2:54 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Man...let me think...


"Creation is allowed in intimate love to speak to the Creator as if to a lover. As the Creator loves the creation, so the creation loves the Creator. The whole world has been embraced by this kiss."
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   Posted 11/18/2009 2:56 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Ok. I got it.

Do you believe that God's continual creation and providence of Creation is prima facie evidence of God expressing love, via accepting and appreciating all beings as they are without any conditions?


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   Posted 11/18/2009 2:59 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Meet these criteria or go to hell...

...is a condition.
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   Posted 11/18/2009 3:01 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
No, bro. The question. It does have a purpose.


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   Posted 11/18/2009 3:03 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Simply, is God's continual creation and providence ENOUGH for us to affirm love as entailing unconditional acceptance and appreciation of the "other"? I say that it is. 


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D: 1) Even with the metaphysical reasons, I think it may take way less time then we may think. Seriouisly.  In some sections of Judaism, the time in "hell" is only 12 months.  Period.  I can see it taking less time than that, honestly.

 

T: That’s the mistake though, i.e., of thinking how long it’ll last for any individual is set apart from the actual and unique circumstances of that individual and how they freely engage their pain.

 

D: 2) I think it's a motivational thing. Do we WANT for Hitler's time of purgation to be as short as it possibly can, regardless of what that time is? THAT's the question.

 

T: It’s important so far as we need to know what’s motivating our beliefs, and that’s important for us. Like you said, if we find ourselves thinking, “Burn baby, burn!” then we need to take inventory. But what we want is irrelevant to Hitler. Sure, we want it to be as short as it CAN be. So does God. Part of how long it’ll take WAS up to Hitler when he was alive and he blew off the opportunities and chose instead to harden himself in a monster. How long it’ll take to bring THAT around, how many layers of lies and false selfs there are to burn through, isn’t up to Hitler. So there’s something objective from this life that the wicked take with them. THEN once he gets some measure of clarity, he still has to choose. I think an immediately clear perception of truth and repentance in his case is metaphysically out of the question. Not that I wouldn’t be happy for him AND GOD (the sooner Hitler’s beauty contributes to the whole, the better!), but I can’t think of any rational reason to hope for it.

 

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Selah: Anyway, guess I'm just not used to this argument-style communication. I'm used to people asking clarifying questions and talking back and forth - counselor style.

 

Tom: Huh? This is a great conversation with questions, clarifications, etc. You post, then we all gang up on you. Then you post again and we all gang up on you again. What’s the problem?

 

Selah: SO what have we learned? I shouldn't be on this board talking about controversial issues - especially if I'm holding the minority view.

 

Tom: Noooo!

 

Selah: It’s a given that I'll use the wrong word here and there and set off a stream of responses that miss the point I was trying to get at in the first place. I think I need people to ask clarifying questions if they're not sure what I'm trying to say…

 

Tom: Selah, dahhhling sister, I only want to know what YOU mean to say. We’ll get it right. Like you said, a ‘conversation’ takes time.

 

So, let me ask you, when you said that you’ve  what did you mean? If ‘justice’ isn’t the word there, fine. When you say you see how people “feel more loved when they get some form of justice after being the victims of crime,” let’s toss the word ‘justice’. Gone. What is it you’re aiming at? Is it the sense of ‘satisfaction’ and ‘closure’ that victims get from seeing their perpetrators suffer the consequences of their crime? Is that it?

 

Selah: [THAT was supposed to be MY point... Wow do I suck! Let me retry! THERE ARE NO LESS THAN LOVING ACTIONS COMING FROM GOD THEREFORE IF SEPARATION FROM GOD IS A REALITY - it MUST BE LOVING.]

 

Tom: Exactly. And by separation I take it you mean annihilation, right?

 

We’re not that far apart. I’ll say it again, you could be right—I don’t KNOW that annihilation cannot possibly be the most loving thing to do for the wicked. I’m just saying that poses more problems FOR ME, i.e., for MY understanding of love, than UR. In other words, if annihilation turns out to be true, my seeing it as true will require some adjustments in how I conceive of perfect love. Love will have to mean something a bit different than how I view it now, because right now Scripture, together with my intuitions about perfect love, together with how it works inside my head (affecting my vision of the world)…all add up to FAVORING UR, NOT clinching its truth absolutely with no possibility of doubt. I could be wrong. But that doesn’t mean I perceive the evidence as 50/50. I ‘favor’ UR. But as a “J” that means I can LIVE inside of UR as if it WAS true.

 

Selah: YES - but WE CANNOT UNDERSTAND THAT [Old Testament violence] AS LOVING JUST LIKE WE CANNOT UNDERSTAND THE NOTION OF ETERNAL SEPARATION AS LOVING - BECAUSE WE DONT KNOW EVERYTHING!! WE TRUST CHRIST!]

 

Tom: We have to admit we don’t get it all, right. But Selah, what it is we don’t understand about God’s role in OT violence isn’t anything that would change our confidence of God as love. The Old Testament questions are academic. CHRIST seals the love deal. Christ is what God is like.

 

Now, you might be right. Annihilation might be loving in the same way God’s destruction of Jericho (women, children, cattle, etc.) was the most loving option. I’m not claiming to “know” that this is impossible. I’m only saying that to MY mind there are enough differences that make that option pretty unlikely, and that’s all I need to enjoy UR on an existential level—to LIVE AS IF it were true. Get it?

 

Selah: RIGHT.. blow my head off right now! That's MY point exactly! [about Annanias and Saphria] HELL COULD BE LOVING FOR ALL WE KNOW!]

 

Tom: Yes, it could be. BUT that doesn’t require us view the evidence as 50/50. We CAN see it as 20/80, or 80/20, or 60/40. If you really do see the evidence (your intuitions about love, your take on the relevant passages, etc.) as favoring annihilation, you’ll adopt that as your default LIVED CONTEXT, the ASSUMED WORLDVIEW out of which you live. Again, these are only tendencies. IF pressed, you’re free to say, “Well, I don’t really know. UR could be true after all.” We’re capable of qualifying our assumptions humbly. But since UR appears on evidence to be MORE liiiiiikely (not absolutely proven), UR is  my default lived context, the assumed worldview out of which I live.

 

Better? ;o)

 

Selah: I'll dance...but I'm NOT playing THAT game until you hear me out completely...and read WORKS OF LOVE by SK.

 

Tom: I’m a good listener actually, as hard as it is to believe. Just ask Anita and my kids! I don’t need to read SK. He’s fallible and could be wrong, like you said. Ha! But when I need SK I just check with Corey and he sets me straight on that. Corey IS my SK.

Selah: But YOU AND I can’t know if that’s what WILL happen. And that's my point.

 

Tom: If by “know” you mean know absolutely without a shadow of doubt, KNOW KNOW KNOW…then I’ve NEEEEVER denied this. BUT…this doesn’t mean admitting the evidence is 50/50, that annihilation and UR are EQUALLY plausible. We’ll differ on where we think the evidence points most likely. And that’s important, because I don’t think we can avoid LIVING inside of what we think is MOST plausibly the case. If you think annihilation edges UR as being more likely, that WILL be your lived context. You’re have to ASSUME (not KNOW) that love is compatible with that view, i.e., that perfect love is MOST LIKELY the annihilating-the-wicked sort of love. And that’s OK. I’ll do the same with UR.

 

Selah: You say "I" can see this or that happening...and "I" can't see this or that at all. But that's the deal. It's not YOU who does the judging. It’s not me either. IT's God. The same God who does weird things WE DONT NORMALLY THINK OF AS LOVING in scripture. IF God says hell is loving... I guarantee you ITS loving.

 

Tom: Others commented on this. I don’t disagree. But admitting that our understanding is limited doesn’t mean suspending all judgment and having ZERO opinion. There are SOME explanations of God’s part in Old Testament violence which YOU ARE NOT PREPARED TO ACCEPT, like God just wiped out the Cananites because he enjoys seeing little babies cry, because that just gives him pleasure. You WOULD claim to KNOOOOOWWWW this, right? See? And you do that based on your intuitions about love AND your reading of the life and death of Jesus. Right. You’re prepared to tweak the Old Testament stories of violence in the sense that it will help you see how what you view as love is love in THAT situation—NOT in the sense that it will redefine what you think love fundamentally is. It’s THIS that makes eternal conscious torment an IMPOSSIBLE view for us, right? Or are you AS UP IN THE AIR about irrevocable eternal conscious torment as you are about annihilation and UR? See? Just like everybody else, you tend, or favor, this view over that. Some views are impossible. Some are unlikely. Some are more likely.

 

For me ECT is impossible.

UR is more likely (maybe even far more likely) than annihilation.

 

That's all.


For you ECT is ?

 

And you favor annihilation over UR I think. Or are you 50/50 on that?

 

I hope my view is clearer.

 

Tom


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   Posted 11/18/2009 3:13 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Tom:
For me ECT is impossible.

Hey, dude! You could always take the John Sanders way ala "The God Who Risks". Call ECT the "implausible possibility"! That's what I'm doing.  "But even if He does not..."
 
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Post Edited (One Love) : 11/18/2009 2:16:21 AM (GMT-6)

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