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   Posted 10/24/2004 3:45 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Jo-Ann,

God bless you. The gospel is radical, awesome, unthinkable, amazing grace. Yet, it is truly appreciated only by those who understand the magnitude of their inability to meet the unwavering demands of perfection dictated by the law. Thank you for your note.



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   Posted 10/24/2004 4:44 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
For the proper use of the law in converting unbelievers (to convict of sin and bring sinners to the repentance and faith), I cannot recommend Ray Comfort's material too highly. Comfort has been a very effective street evangelist for several decades now. He has a website with free audio recordings of his teachings on this subject.

http://www.livingwaters.com/listenwatch.shtml

One of the basic things he points out is that until roughly the early 1900s, the evangelical method of ALL the great revivalists (from Whitefield to Wesley to Spurgeon to Finney to Moody) was to use the law in the scriptural sense of bringing conviction BEFORE giving the good news of grace to them. This method (which I'm not an expert at yet), is supported by Scripture and has stood the test of time as THE divinely ordained way to bring people to a realization of their abject need of Christ.

Comfort brilliantly distinguishes this approach to evangelism from the "Four Spiritual Laws" or the "Try God" types of evangelistic methods in common for the past several decades in our culture.

I have no doubt that many who have been seduced into believing the "love, not judgment" message will find Mr. Comfort's message quite offensive, but that's okay; Paul's message was an offense to some in his day, too. Bandit2

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   Posted 10/24/2004 4:53 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Hi Spen,

While it is certainly true that the unbeliever must become convicted of his sin through the instrumentality of what Luther referred to as "both Law and Gospel," it is also true that Jesus said all people would know we were His disciples by our love one for another. Without hearts full of godly love, our evangelistic efforts (just like any other work) are "a sounding brass and a tinkling cymbal."

Blessings,

John

P.S.: I think it needs to be said that whatever Dr. Boyd's particular approach on the "love vs. ethics" issue may be is a completely separate issue from the Open View per se. I know personally of MANY Open Theists (none of whom happen to frequent this forum much) who by no means agree with Dr. Boyd's Bonhoefferian view of "love, not judgment," though they do find much they can agree with on his view of the future.


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   Posted 10/25/2004 12:58 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
John: I think it needs to be said that whatever Dr. Boyd's particular approach on the "love vs. ethics" issue may be is a completely separate issue from the Open View per se. I know personally of MANY Open Theists (none of whom happen to frequent this forum much) who by no means agree with Dr. Boyd's Bonhoefferian view of "love, not judgment," though they do find much they can agree with on his view of the future.

Spen: I agree that Dr. Boyd or any other individual cannot be claimed to represent the complete picture of the views on many other topics of those that may believe in some aspects or to some level the teachings of OV. I don't think that you would agree with the sermon that I listened to based upon your posts. I only specifically pointed to this sermon because Tom asked me, I didn't mean to imply that it was a general OV belief. I hope that it isn't.

Regardng your other point, when Jesus states, "They will know you are My disciples by your love for one another," I think that this has been either abused or overstated. I mean that it isn't clear that "knowing you are My disciples" is evangelism-centric. It could be knowing for the purpose of persecution? In addition, the love referred to in this statement is between Christians, not from the Christians to the unbelievers. Obviously there are other passages that speak of love in both those contexts, but I don't think that the passage referred to is about that. What is your opinion?


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   Posted 10/25/2004 1:31 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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One of the basic things he points out is that until roughly the early 1900s, the evangelical method of ALL the great revivalists (from Whitefield to Wesley to Spurgeon to Finney to Moody) was to use the law in the scriptural sense of bringing conviction BEFORE giving the good news of grace to them. This method (which I'm not an expert at yet), is supported by Scripture and has stood the test of time as THE divinely ordained way to bring people to a realization of their abject need of Christ.


Hi John,

Thanks for the link. I don't have time to listen right now, so would you mind clarifying something for me? When you said this method is supported by scripture - what scripture are you referring to? I'm not claiming it's not supported, just wondering what you're specifically referring to here.

Also, when you said ALL the great revivalists used the law to bring conviction before giving the good news of grace to them. It really made me wonder what would've been the fruit of just one revivalist who was the good news of grace. Who reflected love so much it was like a magnet to those she/he was trying to win over. Do you ever wonder about this?

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I have no doubt that many who have been seduced into believing the "love, not judgment" message will find Mr. Comfort's message quite offensive, but that's okay; Paul's message was an offense to some in his day, too. Bandit2


I will probably try to listen to Mr. Comfort's message because you recommend him so highly. However, most likely, I'm one of those who has been seduced and I'll receive the "need for grace" statements as shame inducing rather than helpful. Though seduced, I'm continually aware of my need for grace because the law is within me. There is something real about that. I'm not sure if anyone needs to point it out for me.

If I took my evangelical cue from Mr. Comfort and offended others with law statements before sharing the good news, I'd honestly feel like I was reflecting judgment rather than love. On the other hand, if I decided to do evangelism in service to another through self sacrificial loving acts, I'd feel like I was reflecting Christ rather than judgment. Maybe I shouldn't go on feelings, but that is how these 'methods' strike me.

It's probably completely obvious to you/others, but as one who finds love to be everything (though completely fails at doing it well) I may be skewed or off in some way. I'm aware of my tendency toward selective perception while reading scripture. The love verses honestly seem to be naturally highlighted while the law/other verses seem to be obscured. I don't know why this is exactly, but I do know it's possible God isn't the one doing it. I'm reading this (and other websites) and am in constant dialogue with others in order to continually seek balance on these and other issues. So, help me out :)

Specifically, here's where I'm stuck in scripture on this law thing:
Romans 13:8-10 8 Owe nothing to anyone except to love one another; for he who loves his neighbor has fulfilled the law. 9 For this, "you shall not commit adultery, you shall not murder, you shall not steal, you shall not covet," and if there is any other commandment, it is summed up in this saying, "you shall love your neighbor as yourself." 10 Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.

See, for me, however difficult it is to "achieve" this constant love for my neighbor, it's still most helpful to focus on that as the ONE thing that's needed. Perhaps it simplifies life for me or something? Moreover, I have (in rare moments) seen the beauty of someone coming to know Christ through the means of self sacrificial love/loving acts. This is an amazing thing! It's precious. It's unlike the world in every way. Its simply wonderful. It just seems so right. Maybe that's why I so quickly reject other methods...


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   Posted 10/25/2004 1:46 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Selah: Who reflected love so much it was like a magnet to those she/he was trying to win over. Do you ever wonder about this?

Spen: There is nobody who so perfectly reflected love as Jesus and when He died there were only a few (120?) who had believed in Him. I would guess that Paul and Silas reflected love when they healed the lame man in Lystra in ACts 14. They ended up being stoned there and left for dead. Please don't misunderstand me. I believe that we are to love, especially among ourselves, and that there is to be a difference between the community of Christians and the world on this point. I just don't believe that this is evangelization. Peter said the following to the crowds that came in the first sermon ever recorded by a Christian, "Therefore let all the house of Israel know for certain that God has made Him both Lord and Christ—this Jesus whom you crucified." This is a strong and offensive accusation, one that brought the life of the gospel to those who suddenly perceived their need for it. "And with many other words he solemnly testified and kept on exhorting them, saying, “Be saved from this perverse generation!" Unbelievers who do not understand that they are a part of this perverse generation will find no need to save themselves from it.



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   Posted 10/25/2004 11:29 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Originally posted by Selah

quote:
One of the basic things he points out is that until roughly the early 1900s, the evangelical method of ALL the great revivalists (from Whitefield to Wesley to Spurgeon to Finney to Moody) was to use the law in the scriptural sense of bringing conviction BEFORE giving the good news of grace to them. This method (which I'm not an expert at yet), is supported by Scripture and has stood the test of time as THE divinely ordained way to bring people to a realization of their abject need of Christ.


Hi John,

Thanks for the link. I don't have time to listen right now, so would you mind clarifying something for me? When you said this method is supported by scripture - what scripture are you referring to? I'm not claiming it's not supported, just wondering what you're specifically referring to here.


Hi Selah,

Paul's line of argument in Romans 1, 2, & 3 lay out plainly that "all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God," and that this universal sinfulness has been entered into voluntarily by all. Paul further states in Romans that "sin is not credited where there is no law," and "by the law is the knowledge of sin." The climax of the argument comes in chapter seven, in which Paul shows the utter futility of selfish attempts to keep the law, while the "law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus" (the Gospel applied) brings the righteousness of the heart that fulfills the heart of the law.

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Also, when you said ALL the great revivalists used the law to bring conviction before giving the good news of grace to them. It really made me wonder what would've been the fruit of just one revivalist who was the good news of grace. Who reflected love so much it was like a magnet to those she/he was trying to win over. Do you ever wonder about this?


I don't see the dichotomy of "law vs. love" or "law vs. grace", as typically explained in this forum and in typical American churchianity, as scripturally valid. As the passage you pointed out in Romans 13 makes clear, love FULFILLS the totality of the spirit of the law, and without love, all rule-keeping is meaningless and futile.

For example, in telling my 20-month-old daughter, "Don't touch my (piping hot) cup of coffee!" though I'm clearly making a judgment call, (and she's sure to be QUITE offended by this rule!) it's definitely not the case that I'm being anything BUT loving in "laying down the law" to her like this. (What's really beautiful to me is how my little darling will usually begin crying in response to this, and will throw up her arms for me to hold her--what a picture of repentant faith and love).

Would you think a lifeguard telling people not to swim in a certain area because it is dangerous is necessarily being unloving by denying them their freedom to do as they please?

Ray Comfort's presentation of the Law is not offensive in the sense that he does NOT try to make it some kind of personal thing, virtually shaking the Bible in people's faces or anything as silly as that. The offense that the law brings is that it lays the blame for sin squarely where the Bible does--on the sinner himself. As Paul said in Rom. 1 "so that all men are without excuse."

I should hasten to add that Comfort does not teach that the law should be preached to those who have already been born again as a way of sanctification. The short presentation of "Hell's Best Kept Secret" (maybe 40 minutes long if I recall correctly) explains this clearly.

Blessings in Christ to All,

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   Posted 10/25/2004 11:32 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
John,

Thank you for the great explanation. While preaching the law to the unbelieving seems obvious, I am curious if you feel that there is a place for the law for Christians. If so or if not, why? Also, have you ever read the book, The Proper Distinction between the Law and the Gospel by CFW Walther?


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   Posted 10/25/2004 11:48 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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John,

Thank you for the great explanation. While preaching the law to the unbelieving seems obvious, I am curious if you feel that there is a place for the law for Christians. If so or if not, why? Also, have you ever read the book, The Proper Distinction between the Law and the Gospel by CFW Walther?



Hi Spen,

I believe there is indeed a place for the use of the Law in Christians; my point in the previous post was that the Law brings the knowledge of sin, period. As Paul said in Galatians, the Law was not able to give life, only CHRIST can do that.

If the Law is used to teach us what sin is and to reveal to us the depth of our own depravity, that's it's appropriate use, in my understanding. However, the sanctification of the believer (Christ reigning in the heart) is specifically and only received BY FAITH; the Law is powerless in and of itself to do anything but convict.

I'm not aware of the book you mention. With regard to the issue of Law & Gospel, my theological perspective has been most influenced by the writings of the Holiness movement, e.g., Charles G. Finney, John Wesley, John Fletcher, Adam Clarke, et al., though I have fairly extensively studied the early church fathers, Church history, the history, doctrine, and practice of the Great Awakenings, and the writings of the early Pentecostal movement (I'm fourth-generation Pentecostal in heritage).

Blessings,

John


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   Posted 10/25/2004 11:55 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Originally posted by spenlake

John,

Thank you for the great explanation. While preaching the law to the unbelieving seems obvious, I am curious if you feel that there is a place for the law for Christians. If so or if not, why? Also, have you ever read the book, The Proper Distinction between the Law and the Gospel by CFW Walther?



Hi Spen,

I believe there is indeed a place for the use of the Law in Christians; my point in the previous post was that the Law brings the knowledge of sin, period. As Paul said in Galatians, the Law was not able to give life, only CHRIST can do that.

If the Law is used to teach us what sin is and to reveal to us the depth of our own depravity, that's it's appropriate use, in my understanding. However, the sanctification of the believer (Christ reigning in the heart) is specifically and only received BY FAITH; the Law is powerless in and of itself to do anything but convict.

I'm not aware of the book you mention. With regard to the issue of Law & Gospel, my theological perspective has been most influenced by the writings of the Holiness movement, e.g., Charles G. Finney, John Wesley, John Fletcher, Adam Clarke, et al., though I have fairly extensively studied the early church fathers, Church history, the history, doctrine, and practice of the Great Awakenings, and the writings of the early Pentecostal movement (I'm fourth-generation Pentecostal in heritage).

Blessings,

John




John,

email me your address and I will send you one. You may freak out but I would value your feedback. His teaching on the gospel have been very precious to me.

FYI, Rick Joyner, Mike Bickle, and Jack Deere published a bulletin on October 19 and another one today regarding Paul Cain, the original Kansas City Prophet. Paul is now an unrepentant homosexual, refusing any help and refusing to repent. These same men state that "this should in no way negate or reduce the great benefit that Paul's ministry has been..." It makes my ears tingle. This is what was behind my question. It it obvious to me that this is a case for the LAW. The URL is http://www.morningstarministries.org/pages/special_bulletins/SB_Current.html special bulletin 36 and 37.


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   Posted 10/25/2004 12:58 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Hi Spen,

I will email you privately. However, the CVM forum's email thingie seems to not be the most reliable. If you don't receive a private email from me, my email is john@revivaltheology.net

John

P.S.: I heard about the tragic situation of Paul Cain over the weekend; I'm very saddened by this news. I have followed his ministry with interest over the past couple of decades. Though I have some big disagreements with his "Latter Rain/Manifest Sons/Joel's Army" ideology, I think it is always a tragedy when any Christian falls into such egregious sin, especially when they are unrepentant to overtures of loving discipline from trusted friends.

The one thing that bothered me about the initial letter of Joyner, Bickle, and Deere was their somewhat obscure reference to unrecognized "strongholds" in Cain's life; to my mind, this provides an excuse for sin, and effectively negates the possibility of true reproof and rebuke. (If this is simply a manifestation of a previously unrecognized "stronghold" in a person's life, then it was there all the time, "lurking somewhere." Of course, if these guys are typical of most charismatics I've known, they will readily admit that truly Spirit-filled Christians can harbor demons unknowingly--which possibility I categorically deny, though of course I believe it's possible for hypocrites who may THINK they are Christians to harbor demons, whether knowingly or unknowingly).

I sincerely pray for Paul Cain's restoration to godly living.


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   Posted 10/25/2004 1:02 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Great discussion, thanks to all.
Go ahead and cut me up Knifeand let me know where I'm wrong here:

Love is God’s foundational attribute and from love all other attributes flow, including the attribute of a righteous judge. A loving God forgives all. A righteous God judges all. God’s justice separates all. God’s righteous judgment separates those sinners that have chosen to properly accept his gift of forgiveness and those that reject it. God fries no one, but simply separates those that have chosen their eternal address by either accepting or rejecting his forgiveness through trust/faith and repentance. Hell protects God’s Love from being diluted, redemptive love or otherwise.

There is a highway to hell and a less worn little foot path to heaven. By obedience to the road signs, written in the love of Jesus’ footsteps, we fulfill both the law and love.

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Great discussion, thanks to all.
Go ahead and cut me up Knifeand let me know where I'm wrong here:

Love is God’s foundational attribute and from love all other attributes flow, including the attribute of a righteous judge. A loving God forgives all. A righteous God judges all. God’s justice separates all. God’s righteous judgment separates those sinners that have chosen to properly accept his gift of forgiveness and those that reject it. God fries no one, but simply separates those that have chosen their eternal address by either accepting or rejecting his forgiveness through trust/faith and repentance. Hell protects God’s Love from being diluted, redemptive love or otherwise.

There is a highway to hell and a less worn little foot path to heaven. By obedience to the road signs, written in the love of Jesus’ footsteps, we fulfill both the law and love.

Shalom,

Mark


Hi Sparky,

I am not sure that I know that love is "God’s foundational attribute." As Jeff recently pointed out, "God is Righteous/Just." I think that God is "more" than we understand and that has been revealed to us. I think that the "God is Righteous/Just" does cast people into hell that He greated for the devil and His angels. In some way that does mean that God fries the unbelieving. God's lovingkindness is, however, a central attribute and based upon His expressing this attribute in the death of His Son, we are all offered life. God's love doesn't need or require protection. Those who transgress need protection from God's righteousness/justice. This is why none can approach God without the covering of Jesus' righteousness. It isn't that He is protecting His love, it is because we cannot bear His righteousness/justice.

This is how I understand it.


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Hey Mark,
quote:
Originally posted by sparknheart
Love is God’s foundational attribute and from love all other attributes flow, including the attribute of a righteous judge.


Amen!

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A loving God forgives all.


(Upon certain conditions).

quote:
A righteous God judges all.


And reserves the right to set aside just condemnation of someone in light of a sufficient atonement, and the meeting of the preconditions of forgiveness; namely, repentance and faith.

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God fries no one, but simply separates those that have chosen their eternal address by either accepting or rejecting his forgiveness through trust/faith and repentance. Hell protects God’s Love from being diluted, redemptive love or otherwise.


I'll have to think about those a little bit, though my first response is that Hell is the highest good for all (which is truly benevolent love), in view of the total impenitence of the wicked, just as incarceration of criminals in this life is necessary for the good of all.

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There is a highway to hell and a less worn little foot path to heaven. By obedience to the road signs, written in the love of Jesus’ footsteps, we fulfill both the law and love.



Nicely stated, Mark. Sounds like you've been reading Gordon Olson's "The Moral Government of God." Big Smile

I'm pretty sure that where my understanding of "God is love" differs from most folks on this board is that I do not find that love and judgment are mutually exclusive categories.

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   Posted 10/25/2004 1:37 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Originally posted by spenlake

Selah: Who reflected love so much it was like a magnet to those she/he was trying to win over. Do you ever wonder about this?

Spen: ...Please don't misunderstand me. I believe that we are to love, especially among ourselves, and that there is to be a difference between the community of Christians and the world on this point.


Hi Spen,

Thanks for your response. I must say I'm confused by your statement above. I assume you are referring to Gal 6:10 (?), but it would be helpful if you'd clarify.

Maybe you can explain how you personally do this kind of preferential love. Where do you draw your lines? What specifically would you do different for me that you wouldn't do for an unbeliever?

I guess I don't know about all the rest. I've seen so much misuse of the law in preaching, manipulating, scaring, and pushing unbelievers, I can't help but think there is a better way. Add to that what I've personally witnessed - loving self sacrifice that melts the hardest of hearts... and it's a hard call.

I'm still processing :)


love
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Originally posted by Selah

quote:
Originally posted by spenlake

Selah: Who reflected love so much it was like a magnet to those she/he was trying to win over. Do you ever wonder about this?

Spen: ...Please don't misunderstand me. I believe that we are to love, especially among ourselves, and that there is to be a difference between the community of Christians and the world on this point.


Hi Spen,

Thanks for your response. I must say I'm confused by your statement above. I assume you are referring to Gal 6:10 (?), but it would be helpful if you'd clarify.

Maybe you can explain how you personally do this kind of preferential love. Where do you draw your lines? What specifically would you do different for me that you wouldn't do for an unbeliever?

I guess I don't know about all the rest. I've seen so much misuse of the law in preaching, manipulating, scaring, and pushing unbelievers, I can't help but think there is a better way. Add to that what I've personally witnessed - loving self sacrifice that melts the hardest of hearts... and it's a hard call.

I'm still processing :)


love
selah

The passage I had in mind was John 13:35,
“By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”

There are others.

1 John 3:14
Do not be surprised, brethren, if the world hates you. We know that we have passed out of death into life, because we love the brethren. He who does not love abides in death.

1 John 4:7
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God.

I don't think that this means that we are to hate those in the world. We are not. But if we say that we love those in the world and hate our own brothers, it rings hollow. The love between Christians should be different than the love between pagans. This is what I meant by "difference."

Beyond that, I agree that the loving heart of God does win us and melt our hearts leaving us overcome by gratitude. I am only saying that this is the case because when this happens we acknowledge/perceive/understand that we are sinners and don't deserve it. Our hearts melt at the disconnect that is overcome by the love of God being given to someone so unworthy as me, an evil God hater (sinner).


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spen, seriously do you believe the "one another" verses are specifically instructing believers to love each other with preference?


"When we acknowledge that all of life is sacred and that each act is an act of choice and therefore sacred, then life is a sacred dance lived consciously each moment. When we live at this level, we participate in the creation of a better world."

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spen, seriously do you believe the "one another" verses are specifically instructing believers to love each other with preference?



Hi Selah,

If I might speak for spen, I don't think he's saying believers are to love each other "with preference" (though of course that will happen whether we realize or intend it or not). What I hear spen saying is that the love the world (unbelievers) sees displayed one for another among Christians will make them know who Christ's disciples are. When he says that love among unbelievers is different from love among Christians, he's speaking of a qualitative difference by virtue of the Holy Spirit ("God is love") in our lives, not some kind of prejudicial difference of preferring Christians over pagans (i.e., treating Christians better than we treat pagans).

Of course, I could be wrong, but this is what I hear spen saying.

Blessings,

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Thanks John. I hope so. Thanks also for your earlier response. I think what I'm finding is that I need to do some processing off the board for a while.

peace and love,
selah


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spen, seriously do you believe the "one another" verses are specifically instructing believers to love each other with preference?



I seriously believe that the world will know that they are His disciples if His disciples love one another. The one another is reciprical and has to refer to one disciple to another. It also seems to me that the term, "the brethren" refers to believers in the context. I have a hard time understanding "the brethren" to mean mankind in general.

Again, this is my understanding of the passages. I have not found what I believe to be a stronger interpretation stating something else. They have to mean something and I think that they mean Christians.


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selah
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   Posted 10/26/2004 12:48 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Originally posted by spenlake

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Originally posted by Selah

spen, seriously do you believe the "one another" verses are specifically instructing believers to love each other with preference?



I seriously believe that the world will know that they are His disciples if His disciples love one another. The one another is reciprical and has to refer to one disciple to another. It also seems to me that the term, "the brethren" refers to believers in the context. I have a hard time understanding "the brethren" to mean mankind in general.

Again, this is my understanding of the passages. I have not found what I believe to be a stronger interpretation stating something else. They have to mean something and I think that they mean Christians.



Hi Spen,

Thanks for your honesty. This is different than John's understanding above. My question is how do you do this? (I'm serious Spen) Help me out. Say you're going through one 24 hour period... you meet 5 believers and 5 non believers along the way... how do you love the believes differently? What does it look like? Can you give an example?

Thanks,
love
selah


"When we acknowledge that all of life is sacred and that each act is an act of choice and therefore sacred, then life is a sacred dance lived consciously each moment. When we live at this level, we participate in the creation of a better world."

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   Posted 10/26/2004 3:23 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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Originally posted by Selah

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Originally posted by spenlake

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Originally posted by Selah

spen, seriously do you believe the "one another" verses are specifically instructing believers to love each other with preference?



I seriously believe that the world will know that they are His disciples if His disciples love one another. The one another is reciprical and has to refer to one disciple to another. It also seems to me that the term, "the brethren" refers to believers in the context. I have a hard time understanding "the brethren" to mean mankind in general.

Again, this is my understanding of the passages. I have not found what I believe to be a stronger interpretation stating something else. They have to mean something and I think that they mean Christians.



Hi Spen,

Thanks for your honesty. This is different than John's understanding above. My question is how do you do this? (I'm serious Spen) Help me out. Say you're going through one 24 hour period... you meet 5 believers and 5 non believers along the way... how do you love the believes differently? What does it look like? Can you give an example?

Thanks,
love
selah

I don't think it works that way that "i love them differently." I can only love them with the love that I have in Christ because in this is love, not that we loved Him but that he loved us and gave Himself up for us. I can only love with the gospel anbd its message.

What will happen is that because this love is "mutual" between the believers, this will be manifest between and among us. We will both rejoice in the gospel together. I think you must witness something of this when, though we have strong disagreements, I rejoice with John as he expressed the gospel. We are unified and there is a love, though other ideas of his may bug me the gospel is foundational. If I interact with a non-Christian, this just isn't there. I will espress this love but it will be offensive to a non-believer in some way. In any case, in as much as I believe in and understand the gospel I will manifest this. To the extent that I don't, (and if you have followed my posts you will witness this), it is evidence of my weak faith and my poor understanding of the magnitude of how offensive my own sins are to God.


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Originally posted by spenlake

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Originally posted by Selah

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Originally posted by spenlake

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Originally posted by Selah

spen, seriously do you believe the "one another" verses are specifically instructing believers to love each other with preference?



I seriously believe that the world will know that they are His disciples if His disciples love one another. The one another is reciprical and has to refer to one disciple to another. It also seems to me that the term, "the brethren" refers to believers in the context. I have a hard time understanding "the brethren" to mean mankind in general.

Again, this is my understanding of the passages. I have not found what I believe to be a stronger interpretation stating something else. They have to mean something and I think that they mean Christians.



Hi Spen,

Thanks for your honesty. This is different than John's understanding above. My question is how do you do this? (I'm serious Spen) Help me out. Say you're going through one 24 hour period... you meet 5 believers and 5 non believers along the way... how do you love the believes differently? What does it look like? Can you give an example?

Thanks,
love
selah

I don't think it works that way that "i love them differently." I can only love them with the love that I have in Christ because in this is love, not that we loved Him but that he loved us and gave Himself up for us. I can only love with the gospel anbd its message.

What will happen is that because this love is "mutual" between the believers, this will be manifest between and among us. We will both rejoice in the gospel together. I think you must witness something of this when, though we have strong disagreements, I rejoice with John as he expressed the gospel. We are unified and there is a love, though other ideas of his may bug me the gospel is foundational. If I interact with a non-Christian, this just isn't there. I will espress this love but it will be offensive to a non-believer in some way. In any case, in as much as I believe in and understand the gospel I will manifest this. To the extent that I don't, (and if you have followed my posts you will witness this), it is evidence of my weak faith and my poor understanding of the magnitude of how offensive my own sins are to God.


God forms a love triangle; through it all love will come.
All true love comes from God. It is through the teachings of love that Jesus message was heard through out distant lands. By the unity of the Holy Spirit we live in peace. It is the good news of salvation that destroyed walls that separated Jews from Gentiles. God's gift of salvation and mercy was a display of his divine love for us. He wants his bride; he wants an intimate relationship with each of us. God loves us, “He forms a love triangle” with us. It is the three fold movement of God's love that comes “to us” “in us” and “through us”. God is positioned on top of the triangle, He asks us to draw near to Him. As we are positioned below Him in each corner of the triangle and gravitate towards His love we become closer to one another. As we draw closer to God we draw closer to each other, 'through it all love will come”.


Shalom,

Mark
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One of the basic things he points out is that until roughly the early 1900s, the evangelical method of ALL the great revivalists (from Whitefield to Wesley to Spurgeon to Finney to Moody) was to use the law in the scriptural sense of bringing conviction BEFORE giving the good news of grace to them. This method (which I'm not an expert at yet), is supported by Scripture and has stood the test of time as THE divinely ordained way to bring people to a realization of their abject need of Christ.


Hi John,

Thanks for the link. I don't have time to listen right now, so would you mind clarifying something for me? When you said this method is supported by scripture - what scripture are you referring to? I'm not claiming it's not supported, just wondering what you're specifically referring to here.


Hi Selah,

Paul's line of argument in Romans 1, 2, & 3 lay out plainly that "all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God," and that this universal sinfulness has been entered into voluntarily by all. Paul further states in Romans that "sin is not credited where there is no law," and "by the law is the knowledge of sin." The climax of the argument comes in chapter seven, in which Paul shows the utter futility of selfish attempts to keep the law, while the "law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus" (the Gospel applied) brings the righteousness of the heart that fulfills the heart of the law.

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Also, when you said ALL the great revivalists used the law to bring conviction before giving the good news of grace to them. It really made me wonder what would've been the fruit of just one revivalist who was the good news of grace. Who reflected love so much it was like a magnet to those she/he was trying to win over. Do you ever wonder about this?


I don't see the dichotomy of "law vs. love" or "law vs. grace", as typically explained in this forum and in typical American churchianity, as scripturally valid. As the passage you pointed out in Romans 13 makes clear, love FULFILLS the totality of the spirit of the law, and without love, all rule-keeping is meaningless and futile.

For example, in telling my 20-month-old daughter, "Don't touch my (piping hot) cup of coffee!" though I'm clearly making a judgment call, (and she's sure to be QUITE offended by this rule!) it's definitely not the case that I'm being anything BUT loving in "laying down the law" to her like this. (What's really beautiful to me is how my little darling will usually begin crying in response to this, and will throw up her arms for me to hold her--what a picture of repentant faith and love).

Would you think a lifeguard telling people not to swim in a certain area because it is dangerous is necessarily being unloving by denying them their freedom to do as they please?

Ray Comfort's presentation of the Law is not offensive in the sense that he does NOT try to make it some kind of personal thing, virtually shaking the Bible in people's faces or anything as silly as that. The offense that the law brings is that it lays the blame for sin squarely where the Bible does--on the sinner himself. As Paul said in Rom. 1 "so that all men are without excuse."

I should hasten to add that Comfort does not teach that the law should be preached to those who have already been born again as a way of sanctification. The short presentation of "Hell's Best Kept Secret" (maybe 40 minutes long if I recall correctly) explains this clearly.

Blessings in Christ to All,

John


I have 2 sons, 26 and 20, who are way into Ray Comfort's stuff. I do admire him and I am still a bit put off at the way he evangelizes. I had seen him years ago and he does seem harsh. I guess I'd be more aligned with Selah and admit too, I may be off balanced toward the love and grace mode.
What Comfort does that I wonder about is ask people if they keep the ten commandments. Of course, no one can truly say they do this perfectly...even Ray admits he fails. So Ray says since you admit you have lied what does that make you? The one quizzed eventually says..."A Liar" and the questions roll on till the person eventually admits they are a lying, theiving adulterer due for the righteous wrath of God. It is amazing as most of these do not seem offended at Ray, but are brought to conviction of their own heart. Ray also goes where most of us never do...the inner city slums and druggy hangouts. He offers them food and the Gospel. So I'm not harshly criticising, just wondering. My sons have sent off for his major study courses.

I do see how Finney and Wesley and those did preach the law first. Looking at the history of their efectiveness I cannot imagine anyone having to much criticism for these guys and their methods. Comfort even tells of a meeting with Bill Bright and the following discussion of Bright's famous 4 spiritual laws. Bright came to see a major flaw in his presentation of the gospel. How humble he was!
Still, I want to prove to the unconverted that I love them with christ's love before I try to bring them to conviction of sin. I am much more about the "friendship style of evangelism" than the "confrontational". And this may be just me. I'd not try to dissuade Comfort from his style.

Praying we all serve God in yielding our hearts and mouths to Him!
Barry

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