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   Posted 9/4/2006 8:36 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Meph: Why do we think people find it SO HARD to believe that God truly loves them unconditionally? Could it be because they are so busy believing God to be ANGRY WITH THEM all the time for their sinful ways...that it's emotionally dissonant for them to hear that God LOVES them all the time?

Jeff: I think it's because of what I said earlier. Most people think of love in terms of the effects of it that they can experience. But you are agreeing with me that God is AT LEAST bifurcated with respect to LFW choices that unrepentant sinfulness truly limits the EXPERIENCE of God's love. This is why understanding the FUNCTIONAL bifurcation of God, at least, requires the propitiation for God to reconcile us to Himself. Because those same people can not make sense of a God that is totally non-bifurcated with respect to LFW choices.

But I think people sense something even more fundamental, here. ONLY if they hold to the particular view of aseity (the relative meaninglessness, etc.) you do can it all hold together rationally. And that view of aseity does not suggest itself to the mind, readily. It took you years to come to it.

That's why I see, as the only other logical possibility, the view that the Father creates for the Son. THEN, people can see why God has an INTEREST in saving people. It actually allows Him to accomplish the end of glorifying His Son, who is also the co-creator of the world. Because I think people intuitively grasp that if we are MEANINGFUL to Him (as opposed to relatively meaningless), we ARE so because of the qualitative way we contribute and HAVE contributed to His purposes.

So when Paul says people know they are worthy of death, he is acknowledging that something profound is necessary to change that fact. And if the Father DESIRES to make the Son the first-born of many brethren, then the propitiation makes rational sense. And loving relationality is perceived as running profoundly deep in the created order. This, too, is what I think explains why God is allowing the evils of creation to continue in time--because it is somehow most conducive to Christ's ultimate glory to do  so. So loving relationality is somehow the grounds which accounts for all the seeming problems of evil.

The point is, people really DO have strong intuitive senses about these matters even though they haven't thought them through. In the same way you and I struggle with these consistency issues, SO DO THEY. They just can't articulate it as clearly because they haven't read or thought about it enough, yet.


 

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   Posted 9/4/2006 8:42 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Meph: We are all broken, fallible images of God trapped in the same sinful mess, and there's no need for me to have negative feelings about you as a person because of your expression of your sinfulness.

Jeff: We're in agreement here. I've already said that hypocritical anger is unwarranted--and that's what your emphasizing here. You are focusing on the hypocrisy entailed in maintaining anger at a person who has done nothing but the very evils we all have. THAT'S why I think Paul tells us to not let the sun go down on our anger. We get angry NATURALLY, because it's just human nature. But we are to reflect and judge it circumspectly so we can regulate it in accordance with the very kinds of perspective you're talking about.
 
But I suppose that God's anger is always experienced with perfectly accurate perspective. And part of what is entailed in that perfectly accurate perspective is the fact that sin can never ultimately be separated from its final cause--the sinner.


 

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   Posted 9/4/2006 8:50 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Meph: We are all broken, fallible images of God trapped in the same sinful mess, and there's no need for me to have negative feelings about you as a person because of your expression of your sinfulness.

Jeff: We're in agreement here. I've already said that hypocritical anger is unwarranted--and that's what your emphasizing here. You are focusing on the hypocrisy entailed in maintaining anger at a person who has done nothing but the very evils we all have. THAT'S why I think Paul tells us to not let the sun go down on our anger. We get angry NATURALLY, because it's just human nature. But we are to reflect and judge it circumspectly so we can regulate it in accordance with the very kinds of perspective you're talking about. But I suppose that God's anger is always experienced with perfectly accurate perspective.


1) I think that you missed my main issue. How would the person who said what I said be thinking you "less human"?

2) The issue is not about hypocritical anger. It's about anger...period. I think that you got caught up in the details of what I wrote.

3) Human beings get angry naturally because we are ANIMALS. And out of our vulnerability and insecurity issues, we get angry. Just like a frightened or attacked animal. As we develop spiritually, I believe, we don't NEED to fall into anger.


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Jeff:
But I suppose that God's anger is always experienced with perfectly accurate perspective. And part of what is entailed in that perfectly accurate perspective is the fact that sin can never ultimately be separated from its final cause--the sinner.

Ok. Let me know this. What is at stake FOR YOU for retaining the sense of God being angry at people. Lay it out for me.  List them off, if that's helpful.  That will help me.


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   Posted 9/4/2006 8:57 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
BETTER YET.

Act like I am a 15 year old teenager. And I ask you this questions:

1) Jeff, does God get mad at me when I do bad things?
2) If God does get mad at me, does he treat me a certain way BECAUSE he's angry at me?
3) Does God think I'm a bad person because I do bad things?


I'd like to see how you answer these...


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   Posted 9/4/2006 9:11 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.

Meph: Human beings get angry naturally because we are ANIMALS. And out of our vulnerability and insecurity issues, we get angry. Just like a frightened or attacked animal. As we develop spiritually, I believe, we don't NEED to fall into anger.

Jeff: Right, to the extent that we are sinners ourselves, our anger should diminish. But I say that's for the reasons you mentioned. Not because anger is intrinsically dysfunctional or evil. It's just a natural emotion.

Meph: Act like I am a 15 year old teenager. And I ask you this questions:

1) Jeff, does God get mad at me when I do bad things?
2) If God does get mad at me, does he treat me a certain way BECAUSE he's angry at me?
3) Does God think I'm a bad person because I do bad things?


I'd like to see how you answer these...

Jeff:

1) Yes, to the best of my analogical understanding of God's nature--apart from which I know nothing about it.

2) Yes, if you don't repent in your heart.

3) He KNOWS you're a bad person if you do bad things. But bad/evil can be both intentional or unintentional. If you are not repentant for intentional evil, you will not be forgiven. And this seems completely intuitive, doesn't it, my 15 year old grasshopper. And you see, evil is very hard to overcome because of the Fallen conditions under which we live. But God, having created with a benevolent intent, is now accomplishing that benevolent intent via a propitiatory act of love. And this act occassions a way for those who adore His benevolence and embrace Him to be reconciled to Him despite our Fallenness. Isn't God AWESOME!!

And now, BRO, I simply MUST stop for the day. I've enjoyed the dialogue. Otherwise I wouldn't have gotten myself so far behind on important stuff to do it. GOOD NIGHT!!


 

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   Posted 9/4/2006 9:37 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.

Thanks for this Tom. You are so thoughtful :)

Now, allow me to tweak it a bit...

 

Q. Suppose God never gets angry when people knowingly and intentionally do wicked things... what perfection or goodness would God lack?

A. He would lack the ability to relate genuinely/authentically/rightly. God would have to respond to the intentional wicked things with a "nice" emotion rather than with the appropriate emotion. God would not be healthy.

 

take that mephi o latte,

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TGB said...
Let's ask it this way Mephi (for Selah especially)--

Supposing God never gets angry at the wicked, what perfection or goodness would God lack? In what sense would he be weak?

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   Posted 9/4/2006 9:46 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I'm feeling SO crazy right now, Tom. (Remember what we talked about last night? The "caught-up-ness"?)

Ok...

Selah:
Q. Suppose God never gets angry when people knowingly and intentionally do wicked things... what perfection or goodness would God lack?

A. He would lack the ability to relate genuinely/authentically/rightly. God would have to respond to the intentional wicked things with a "nice" emotion rather than with the appropriate emotion. God would not be healthy.


Let me make sure I have you straight. This is what I hear you saying...

If God ONLY emotionally reacts to people who knowingly and intentionally do evil things in other ways than anger...if God never gets angry with those people...then God is not emotionally healthy. This is because ANGER is the legitimate and healthy response towards people who intentionally and knowingly do bad things.  Actually, it is a LOVING THING to be angry at people who intentionally and knowingly do bad things, as God demonstates.

Would you say that this is correct, Selah?

And Jeff...

you would tell a 15 year old that God does get angry at her when she does bad things...AND that God will treat her a certain way out of God's angry disposition (probably negatively)...UNLESS she repents in her heart.  That's what I'm hearing, right?

Wow.


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   Posted 9/4/2006 10:03 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Meph: And Jeff...

you would tell a 15 year old that God does get angry at her when she does bad things...AND that God will treat her a certain way out of God's angry disposition (probably negatively)...UNLESS she repents in her heart.  That's what I'm hearing, right?

Wow.

Jeff: OK!! One last post!!! The point is, even YOU, Meph, are positing that God experiences a DISpleasureable emotion from evil and will cause serious ramifications for it. So how would the 15-year old feel so much better if I say God is displeased because of your bad behavior and you will receive painful ramifications because of it? They seem virtually identical.

The only difference is, to claim the latter, while insisting divine anger is impossible, leads the person to distrust analogical thinking, unnecessarily, to my mind. And once we rule out analogical thinking, there goes all of our analogical thinking about God's pleasureable emotions. It's too high a price to pay, unless someone can explain what's at stake, here.

I'm convinced that people's real problem with reconciling God's displeasure with true forgiveness is the issues I discussed previously about how it has to be reconciled with other aspects of God's dispostion/purpose/etc. I think people just have the same kinds of issues with consistency that we do on this forum. GOOD NIGHT PEEPS!! And sweet dreams.


 

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   Posted 9/4/2006 10:26 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Jeff:
The point is, even YOU, Meph, are positing that God experiences a DISpleasureable emotion from evil and will cause serious ramifications for it. So how would the 15-year old feel so much better if I say God is displeased because of your bad behavior and you will receive painful ramifications because of it? They seem virtually identical. The only difference is, the latter leads the person to distrust analogical thinking, unnecessarily, to my mind.

Big dawg. Get me right. I did say that God experiences displeasure from our sin. I did say that there can be painful ramifications because of God's "tough love" in correction and guidance.

However...

I never...repeat...never said that the painful ramification would be a direct result of God's experience of displeasure. I would never say that. But that is what you seem to say. You told the 15 year old that God would treat her a certain way BECAUSE God was angry with her. This could be interpreted to sound like you said that the principle reason for the change in God's relational way with her was BECAUSE the girl made God angry.

This feels like me telling one of my sons that I'm disciplining him BECAUSE I'm angry with him for something he did. Which is very different than me saying that...

1) I am very hurt and disturbed by his counterproductive actions
2) I am disgusted by his counterproductive actions
3) I love him unconditionally
and...
4) Because I love him and others, I'm taking measures to make sure that he thinks about the impact of such actions to himself and others. And these measures may be pretty hard for him to take.

In my mind, there is a significant difference. You don't see one?


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Jeff:
The only difference is, to claim the latter, while insisting divine anger is impossible, leads the person to distrust analogical thinking, unnecessarily, to my mind. And once we rule out analogical thinking, there goes all of our analogical thinking about God's pleasureable emotions. It's too high a price to pay, unless someone can explain what's at stake, here.

Jeff, this is not talking about distrusting analogical thinking at all. We have PLENTY of room for that, particularly when we see how God relates to us in God's contingent expression. God's desire for justice. God's desire to see people well. God's experience of loss. God's experience of sadness. God's disgust for injustice. And we haven't even mentioned the positive emotions yet. We have TONS of stuff.

The issue is about seriously talking about what the FALLENNESS of the world may mean with respect to what we think is "natural" with respect to emotional responses. Do you really think it's that far out to suggest that human beings can have a passionate disgust for an ENEMY's action toward us(i'm using this world intentionally!)...while having outrageous feelings of love towards the person that Christ died for...who is the SAME enemy? That I don't HAVE to be angry with my enemy for intentionally, willfully hurting me??

There's a difference between trying to make a point of connection between human experience and divine character...AND...effectively placing our emotional dysfunctions upon God. I'm thinking we've been doing the latter for a long time.


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Let me put together what I'm learning from this entire discussion.

Anger is an aspect of DIVINE LOVE, with respect to emotional responses to people who willingly, knowingly do sinful activities to others. (Selah)

Anger is a FULLY HUMAN aspect of our nature, with respect to emotional responses to people who willingly, knowingly do sinful activities to others. (Jeff)

Therefore,

in order for me not only to BE MORE LIKE GOD, but also to actualize MORE of my innate humanity...

I should strive to create a character such that I will be naturally inclined to become angry at persons who willfully and knowingly do sinful activities to others.

Ok.

Why do I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone?

devil

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 Brandon.  Say something, man.
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   Posted 9/5/2006 5:39 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.

Getting closer mephi...

 

One difference between divine and human anger is that God's anger is always a "response"...ours is often a "reaction." An angry response with a person about their behavior (behavior that's against the good) is an appropriate/genuine RELATIONAL thing. God can be (and I would say should be) angry WITH a person about the person's behavior if the behavior is bad and the person chose that behavior intentionally. When God responds this way, the person has a sense of how to respond back to God...and God to the person...and the person to God.

A enraged "reaction" toward a person herself is not the same thing. If God's anger is an enraged reaction, it wouldn't be a healthy relational thing. It would drive a person away from God. Think about it.

Therefore...

in order for us not only to BE MORE LIKE GOD, but also to actualize MORE of our innate/original humanity...

We should strive to live in constant communion with the Holy Spirit and rely completely on his wisdom while we are trying to create a character such that we will one day be naturally inclined to only become angry and respond to a person (about the person's behavior) when they willfully and knowingly do sinful activities to others. Because we, unlike God, are limited in our knowledge of the person's intention to do this behavior, we should tread lightly and not make "appropriate anger" our highest goal...

 

  jumpin mad jumpin mad

If you are angry at me now...just say so.  ~selah

MephEternal said...
Let me put together what I'm learning from this entire discussion.

Anger is an aspect of DIVINE LOVE, with respect to emotional responses to people who willingly, knowingly do sinful activities to others. (Selah)

Anger is a FULLY HUMAN aspect of our nature, with respect to emotional responses to people who willingly, knowingly do sinful activities to others. (Jeff)

Therefore,

in order for me not only to BE MORE LIKE GOD, but also to actualize MORE of my innate humanity...

I should strive to create a character such that I will be naturally inclined to become angry at persons who willfully and knowingly do sinful activities to others.

Ok.

Why do I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone?

devil



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   Posted 9/5/2006 6:08 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Meph: The issue is about seriously talking about what the FALLENNESS of the world may mean with respect to what we think is "natural" with respect to emotional responses. Do you really think it's that far out to suggest that human beings can have a passionate disgust for an ENEMY's action toward us(i'm using this world intentionally!)...while having outrageous feelings of love towards the person that Christ died for...who is the SAME enemy?
 
Jeff: No, I don't. I'm just not seeing why passionate emotions of displeasure, IN GENERAL, rule out love unless the actions motivated BY the emotion are unloving. And that's the distinction I make. It is the qualitative effect of action that is benevolent. Emotions, themselves, are not morally good or evil--though they can give impulse to immoral action. But that is where self-control comes in. Intelligent self-control would have no value if our emotions could always impel proper action in auto-pilot mode.
 
Meph: I should strive to create a character such that I will be naturally inclined to become angry at persons who willfully and knowingly do sinful activities to others.
 
Jeff: There is no need to create a character to become angry. Being angry will be natural. We are to strive to regulate anger in accordance with its legitimate action-impelling utility. When we do that, the duration and frequency of of anger will necessarily decrease. Because most of our anger is dysfunctional.
 
Christ's anger in the temple was not dysfunctional. Nor do I think it was only legitimate because he was divine. Nor was Christ expressing anger at abstract sin. It was expressed at the final causes of sin--people. I doubt the folks in that temple were thinking, "Man, look how much Jesus loves us while hating our sin." Nor do I think that was his concern at the time. But Christ was not being one bit hypocritical or self-righteous or uncontrolled in that expression. And Christ would have lovingly embraced them as his own had they repented. No contradiction to my mind.
 
But I also don't rule out that members in our society have unique issues that might make such an expression less appropriate. It's the absolute condemnation of anger that I don't agree with.
 
Let me respond to something, earlier, too. I don't think God feels anger at justified believers. We have been reconciled. Any judgment at the judgment seat of Christ will have nothing to do with anger. It will be due wages for our service to Christ as our Lord. But I think those wages can entail temporary suffering. And, even in this case, I think the concept of "wages" for service is an axiomatic one that is necessary to render the moral order rational. Without "fitting" consequences for action, accountability/responsibility means nothing.
 
 
 


 

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Selah:
in order for us not only to BE MORE LIKE GOD, but also to actualize MORE of our innate/original humanity...

We should strive to live in constant communion with the Holy Spirit and rely completely on his wisdom while we are trying to create a character such that we will one day be naturally inclined to only become angry and respond to a person (about the person's behavior) when they willfully and knowingly do sinful activities to others. Because we, unlike God, are limited in our knowledge of the person's intention to do this behavior, we should tread lightly and not make "appropriate anger" our highest goal...


I tell you what. If that works for you, go for it. I respect your position. I believe that, it's not only counterintuitive, given what we know about God, but it's also spiritual unhelpful. But again, that's only my perspective. You live as you feel lead by God. This is what I feel as I am being lead...

We should spend our time consciously reflecting on God's presence and beauty. As we do this, we will find that we have more creative resources from whence to empathetically, emotionally engage with and respond RESPONSIBLY to persons who willfully and knowingly do sinful activities to others. We will see that anger (ie internalizing some idea of being "wronged" or threatened, having a negative disposition due to that internalization, and having a counteracting response out of that negative disposition) is NOT necessary, when we own our pain, use wisdom, and focus on our outrageous love for the people hurting others. We will also have the power to NOT ALLOW our utter, burning disgust for their hurtful, sinful actions (which is totally legitimate as an emotional response) bleed into how we see them as persons created in the image of God.

Well, this is how I see it anyways...

So far, I have not seen any compelling arguments from either a psychological perspective OR a theological perspective that justifies that idea that God does indeed get angry AT people.

Oh, well...

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Jeff:
Christ's anger in the temple was not dysfunctional. Nor do I think it was only legitimate because he was divine. Nor was Christ expressing anger at abstract sin. It was expressed at the final causes of sin--people. I doubt the folks in that temple were thinking, "Man, look how much Jesus loves us while hating our sin." Nor do I think that was his concern at the time. But Christ was not being one bit hypocritical or self-righteous or uncontrolled in that expression. And Christ would have lovingly embraced them as his own had they repented. No contradiction to my mind.

There is no reason to assume that Christ was ANGRY when he did what he did. There are various emotional states that he could have been in when he did what he did. Now other people may have interpreted his action as anger...but that would be on them.


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Jeff:
Let me respond to something, earlier, too. I don't think God feels anger at justified believers. We have been reconciled. Any judgment at the judgment seat of Christ will have nothing to do with anger. It will be due wages for our service to Christ as our Lord. But I think those wages can entail temporary suffering. And, even in this case, I think the concept of "wages" for service is an axiomatic one that is necessary to render the moral order rational. Without "fitting" consequences for action, accountability/responsibility means nothing.

Wait a second. So you are saying that when justified believers sin, that God DOESN'T get angry at them for it?


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This is what it seems like to me. It seems that we are so accustomed to the idea of anger being a legitimate emotional response to willful, intentional sinful acts against others that there is not enough theological or sociological IMAGINATION about what it would be like to NOT live in anger at all. I am really...REALLY...trying to understand we are so bent on keeping the idea that God gets angry at people. I think what's really amazing me is that what I'm hearing is this:

Meph, God expressing God's passionate emotional response of DISGUST towards sin and it's effects is not enough. It is not enough for God to clearly tell a person that he is thoroughly disgusted with our thoughts and behaviors...and then take responsible action (however painful to the receiver) to help us decrease that in our live. No. It MUST be the case that God actually 1) internalizes the WRONG that was done to Creation by these people and 2) emotionally respond to being wronged (because wronging Creation is effectively wronging God) in such a way the divine DISFAVOR upon willfully, knowingly evil people occurs. Otherwise, God's not emotionally healthy.

Corey. Tom. Brandon.

Come on, y'all. What do you guys THINK about this?

Am I the only person who finds these ideas problematic???


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I will say this.

I have been "doing this in my head" for the past while now.

And my ENTIRE PERSPECTIVE ON LIFE has changed. That is NO understatement.

I was a person who, like some people here, believed that anger WAS directly linked to love. If you love people, you will get angry at other people who willfully, knowingly hurt others. I LIVED that. I BELIEVED that. Being honest, that's why I was ANGRY at people all the time...because I saw so many people willfully, knowing hurting others. (I'm an ENFJ...don't forget)   Ask my wife.  I was a person who STRUGGLED with anger all my life because of this.  My wife, who is a counselor, suggested anger managment classes for a while.

But...

Since emotionally separating my TREMENDOUS disgust for sin, fragmentation, and evil...from the HURT and PAIN I feel from watching people suffer...from the AMAZING amount of unconditional love that God (through his Spirit) allows me to feel toward his broken, trapped-up people who hurt others...

I feel truly human...for the first time.
 
I will share this.  I was talking to a friend about this.  I told this friend that for the FIRST TIME EVER, I could actually see myself NOT BEING ANGRY with racist white people.  HONESTLY.  A racist white person could call me a racist slur to my face and SPIT in my face...and I wouldn't be angry with them. Now anyone who really knows me knows that this is a DRAMATIC change from how I normally am. (My wife is STILL absolutely amazed by the change!)  Would I be thoroughly disgusted with their behavior and sad at how trapped in evil they are?  Yes.  Definitely.  Would I be thoroughly disgusted with the systemic LIES that they have believed to bring them to the place of doing this? Yes. Would I take actions to make this activity stop.  Heck, yes.
 
But I WOULDN'T be angry at them.  Never.
 
Do you know what my friend told me?  That I was in DENIAL.  Seriously.  That I was in DENIAL about not being angry.  This shook me.  Our life situations are so anger-prone and anger-conducive that it appeared that it was NOT EVEN POSSIBLE in this person's mind that I could be truthfully relating my genuine internal experience.  Nope.  I HAD to be in denial...because EVERYONE gets angry at others that willfully harm them...right?
 
What do you think about THAT?
 
Oh well...

Maybe this doesn't count for much. But it means a lot to me.

So, when I find something that I believe is consistent theologically, psychologically, AND personally...heh...

To each their own.

devil


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Here is a thought that kept me up last night for a while.

There are well-meaning, loving Christians who genuinely believe (like I once did) that anger at people who willfully, knowingly do hurtful action to others is a LOVING, even BEAUTIFUL emotional response...because GOD, who is all-loving and beautiful, supposedly gets angry at these people.

Some of us Christians make being angry at others into an aspect of divine beauty.

And we wonder why some people will never believe that God is all-loving and emotionally stable.

God help us.


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   Posted 9/5/2006 8:18 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
But you know what? Maybe I'm wrong about this whole thing.

Maybe the reason why I'm living anger-free right now is because of my finitude...and my misunderstanding of God. Yeah. Maybe if I was omniscient and infinitely-intelligent, all-loving, AND emotionally self-sufficient due to my internal self-awareness and perichoretic self-relationality like God, I WOULD be getting angry with people for willfully, knowingly harming other people. Maybe I would be treating people differently out of my angry disposition. Maybe I'm not living up to my human OR divinely-empowered potential by NOT being more angry.  Maybe I should go back to the way that I was...but just ask God to help me be angry at other people only in the "right" situations.

I suppose that could be the case.

What do you think?


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   Posted 9/5/2006 8:26 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Meph Man, I've been busy work'n and all, but I have been reading the first and second pages of this thread so far. Really, I'm in agreement with your aseity thingy and so I'm on board with the idea that we as parents can act out of a mature stabilty (that has come to us with experience) and thus there is no need for us to be angry with our children. Some of this "anger" from God that we experience could possibly be the idea of God removing his hand of protection from our lives such that what we are really dealing with is a "sowing and reaping" effect. None of this is meant to imply that God has no emotion, it is only meant to say that God has no "emotional tie" on THAT level.

And then you wonder how we can love those who have wronged us? I think when love in this way has truly taken ahold of us (when we can disdain sin because of what it is doing to someone) and not hold personal ill toward that person, then we are on our way to loving like God does, though it will be imperfect (we are ever changing and growing) whereas God's is perfect.

I think it was Sparkman who said that we might as well hold to an idea of God who is totally "detached" and on one level, I would agree with this, because of God's infinite intelligence. God knows us as a mature, wise, loving, patient parent. But that really should not be interpreted as "detachment" or viewing others in a depersonalized way. Rather, the opposite is in fact true I'd think.

It would actually pain me that a loved one would have to go through a particular painful situation, but as someone who has mature love (as far as that goes, being fallen) I can sit back and not be anxious about what is going on.


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   Posted 9/5/2006 8:30 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.

Jeff: Christ's anger in the temple was not dysfunctional.

 

Tom: Why do you think Jesus was angry at people in this instance (Mat 21; Mk 11; Jn 2)? The text doesn’t SAY he was angry with anyone. Only John mentions Ps. 69 (“Zeal for your house has eaten me up”), but the Psalm suggests “bearing reproach” for God and “weeping” because of how others treat God.

 

To be fair. Mark 5.3 does say “Jesus looked around at them [religious leaders] in anger…” when they refused to answer his questions (because of the “hardness of their hearts”).

 

Mephi will either have to explain this in a way that (a) has Jesus not angry with “persons” but with “states of affairs” or “behavior,” or (b) attributes to Jesus sinful dysfunctionality, or (c) interprets the author as understanding Jesus’ “angry look” (just a look!) in phenomenological terms.

 

The phenomenological approach can work with all or most passages where God is described as angry. In other words, the authors are simply using language to describe divine action from their point of view. Something similar to describing a “sunset.” Well, we know that the sun doesn’t actually “set” (and the earth remain stationary). The earth revolves. So the sun isn’t actually doing anything, especially setting. We all concede phenomenological language like this. It doesn’t destroy the basis for analogy elsewhere with regard to God.

 

Why can’t “divine anger” be phenomelogical? Why can’t it just be an emotional sunset of sorts?  

 

Jeff: We are to strive to regulate anger in accordance with its legitimate action-impelling utility.

 

Tom: What divine actions do you have in mind that cannot be motivated (assuming God is motivated by emotions at all; let’s just assume he is for the moment) by emotions other than anger? What actions do you suppose anger motivates that couldn’t be motivated by a combination of other emotions?

 

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Personally, I can be convinced that God gets angry at people if I can get with an explanation of such anger that’s not at some level dysfunctional. I'm becoming more convinced that there is no such anger, and I struggle with the apparent inconsistency between admiring people who don’t respond angrily when provoked and then insisting that God must get angry on occasion. What’s with that? I mean, when I love and pray for those who persecute me am I MORE or LESS like God? On the other hand (Mephi), neither would I seek—without any anger—to execute justice on those who persecute me. And God does that. So we DO leave some things to God as appropriate for him as God that we cannot seek ourselves.

 

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   Posted 9/5/2006 8:33 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Oh and one other thing man...you are soooooo liberal for looking at the deeper impulses as to WHY people do what they do.  That's liberal man.  That's really liberal.  biggrin


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   Posted 9/5/2006 8:58 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Hey all-

What about OT claims that God is "slow to anger"? I mean, what's "slow" mean here on the assumption that God's responses and actions are always just what they should be, the most loving response possible, in the situation? That would seem to rule out God's being "slow" to anything doesn't it?

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   Posted 9/5/2006 9:31 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.

Jeff: We are to strive to regulate anger in accordance with its legitimate action-impelling utility.

 

Tom: What divine actions do you have in mind that cannot be motivated (assuming God is motivated by emotions at all; let’s just assume he is for the moment) by emotions other than anger? What actions do you suppose anger motivates that couldn’t be motivated by a combination of other emotions?

 

Jeff: I've got five minutes to respond until the weekend. So it's like this, to me: I don't say I can prove God has anger. I say we can't prove that He doesn't. I also say it's irrelevant in one sense what He feels so long His ACTIONS are benevolent. So there are two things that follow from that fact the God has no anger:

 

1) Human analogical reasoning is untrustworthy (unless you can explain to me how it is that you KNOW God doesn't feel anger).

 

2) Scripture is not much help in doing theology, either.

 

If these two are true, I don't see on what grounds we would be dogmatic about anything. If nothing is grounded with a sufficient degree of epistemological confidence, why judge people for being angry. It seems to always end up that people seem the most dogmatic about the things that are the hardest to rationally argue for--like absolute pacifism. Same kind of thing. So what happens?--constant division and exclusivity in argument. Go for it, bro. I can't relate.


 

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   Posted 9/5/2006 9:45 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Jeff:
So there are two things that follow from that fact the God has no anger:

1) Human analogical reasoning is untrustworthy (unless you can explain to me how it is that you KNOW God doesn't feel anger).

2) Scripture is not much help in doing theology, either.


There's another way to look at this, Jeff.

Two things that may follow from believing that God does not get angry:

1) Our human analogical reasoning must be reflected upon critically because EVERYTHING we experience is permeated in some way by fallenness. Consider this thinking of the noetic effects upon the generalization of our experiences.

2) Scripture is a divine and human work that is critical in being more intentional in living in the Story of God's people. We need to be careful about the rigidity of our interpretations, however. We cannot forget that the religious leaders of Jesus's day (scholars and well-meaning Scripture readers, no doubt) we so caught up in their interpretations, that they MISSED what God was doing in Jesus...because it didn't fit their then-current frameworks.

In short, this discussion doesn't warrant outright DISMISSAL of the trustworthiness or usefulness of either our moral intuitions OR Scripture. We just need to be careful. That's all.


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   Posted 9/5/2006 9:57 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
It's interesting how we see the Old Testament writers as sometime seeing God as very different from the "Gods" of those around them, and at the same time seeing God very much the same as those around them.

Sometimes I wonder if they were "inspired" emotionally to write but their knowlegde of God was limited.

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   Posted 9/5/2006 10:30 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.

Jeff: there are two things that follow from that fact the God has no anger:

1) Human analogical reasoning is untrustworthy (unless you can explain to me how it is that you KNOW God doesn't feel anger).

2) Scripture is not much help in doing theology, either.

 

Tom: I don't think these follow from the fact that God has no anger. Those passages that describe God as angry just have to be understood in a way that leaves your (1) and (2) in tact. And I think they can be left in tact on a phenomenological reading of those passages. If we suppose that God does not become angry or indignant at PEOPLE but rather with sinful ACTIONS (and I think that distinction is a meaningful one, don't you?), then it's not difficult to interpret the "anger" that characterizes divine action as pertaining more specifically to those sinful ACTIONS as such. But since God's responses (judgements and discipline, for example) involve PEOPLE (because that's where the ACTIONS being addressed reside), a phenomenological description wouldn't make this finer distinction. Yet we're justified in reading this distinction into those passages if we have sufficient warrant. And it's at least arguable that the distinction is warrnated by Scripture's revelation of God in Christ (though not entirely absent in the OT) as universal, unmerited and unconditional love.

 

Nobody's looking for knock-down proofs this way or that. It's not about that. It's about being consistent within Scripture given one's whole view of God accross the board. Can somebody make sense of Scripture as truthful and authoritative and believe God gets angry at PEOPLE? I think so, IF they have an understanding of anger that excludes its being dysfunctional (which I'd like to see). But for those who don't think there's any manifestation of anger that is not at some level dysfunctional, I think they CAN continue to take Scripture as an authoritative and trustworthy source for theology.

 

Tom


 

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