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 |  spenlake Registered Member
 Date Joined Jan 2004 Total Posts : 1050 | Posted 4/17/2004 1:14 AM (GMT -6) |   | Dr. Boyd,
If you do follow this board, you should be extremely disappointed with responses such as: quote: This post was inspired by the thread "Seeing Is Believing" and particulary by the discussion with Spenlake. I maintain that the "proof is in the pudding" and if something enhances our relationship with the Father, if it encourages us to be transformed more into the likeness of His Son - then it is of God. I have heard you say time and time again that Jesus is our picture of the Father. I have seen nothing that would contradict that in any of your books.
There are many many techniques and methods that bring comfort from pain in this world. All the major religions and many of the minor ones promise this and in some ways, they deliver. Only ONE brings salvation and eternal comfort. And it is not building false-reality that I enjoy with a spirit-inspired god of my own making.
There are many psychiatric methods that bring comfort in encouraging people to believe in a non-event so that the actual event fades. There are healings (physical and emotional) that happen in all religions, especially the spiritistic ones. Bahai, Eckankar, Hindu, Buddhism, old fashioned New Age, they all are successful when measured by the standard of the proof is in the pudding. My relative who is into Eckankar, which is based in our lovely state of Minnesota, would heartily agree with the statement from your reader and find comfort in your book. They would enjoy your seminar. It is exactly what they believe and find comfort in. As I said in my letter, I appreciate the fact that you let your readers imagine their own God, Father, and Jesus and do not force them to imagine yours. This lets them make their own idol and not have to bow down to yours which is probably more comforting. As I have interacted with the people on this site I have found their God interesting.
There is one person on your site who refuses to believe in a God that would have her be single, this is not acceptable to her and He wouldn't be welcome in her imaginations. Yet the God of the Bible told Jeremiah not to get married in Jeremiah 16:2, "You shall not take a wife for yourself nor have sons or daughters in this place." The God of the Bible also told Ezekiel that He was taking his wife as an example in Ezekiel 24:15. Is this the kind of god we imagine when left to ourselves? God took his servant's wife out of love for His people, to illustrate the seriousness and severity of the message He was speaking to them.
"And the word of the LORD came to me saying, “Son of man, behold, I am about to take from you the desire of your eyes with a blow; but you shall not mourn and you shall not weep, and your tears shall not come. “Groan silently; make no mourning for the dead. Bind on your turban and put your shoes on your feet, and do not cover your mustache and do not eat the bread of men.” So I spoke to the people in the morning, and in the evening my wife died."
In spite of the evidence, She refuses to believe in God as He has revealed Himself, and finds comfort instead in the subjective vision of a women of your church - claiming to speak for God about the future. I have no idea if and when God provides a husband ( and I have prayed that He will) but to state that I won't believe in a God who lets me be single is arrogant and unscriptural. This is the spirit-insprired god of our imaginations. She has found comfort in the words of a woman instead of the objective comfort of the God of the Bible. There is comfort but it is found the God of Ezekiel and his wife, who loved them so much that He died for them to reconcile them to Himself. This awsome proof of His love was witnessed by men who recorded it for and us for our hope and comfort.
If the person I am speaking of reads this, I promise you, in the name of God, that God loves you and is caring for you and that you have comfort in His Son. His grace is sufficient for you and the God that loved you so much that he sent His son to die for you does not mean evil to you. If He chooses to give you a husband it is for your good. If He chooses to withold it, it is also for your good. God give you grace to make good decisions an choices and trust Him to accomplish His will through your decisions - for marriage or not. Regardless of whether He provides a husband, He has demonstrated that He loves you and cares for you now in His death. He now lives and will bring all His promises to pass.
There is yet another person that refuses to believe in a God that would send evil or deceiving spirits. This doesn't "feel" right and he cannot imagine it to be true. This god wouldn't be welcome in the exercises of prayers you promote. He would only find a "sweet" Jesus that didn't use evil spirits to accomplish His will. This person would end up with an imaginary god leading him astray if he followed the exercises of your book.
Even more extreme cases could be found that are only limited to the defects in our understanding of God compared to the written word. In saying this, I am not claiming to be free from defects myself. I have appreciated the honest interaction that I have had with your followers on this board. There are many good intellects and people that I would appreciate as friends - all sharing defects in our understandings of God as I do. I have come to appreciate that the OV discussion is hard because it is hard. I still think that it resolves nothing - I am welcome to my opinion. While I might think the OV issue drifts into the ether, the discussion concerning spirit-inspired false-truth as the basis for finding freedom is a blatant misunderstanding and corruption of the gospel which is central.
I appeal to you again, Dr. Boyd, repent from these silly ideas and return to the gospel. Spen Lake
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  |  1Heart Registered Member
 Date Joined Feb 2004 Total Posts : 1128 | Posted 4/17/2004 5:50 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote: Originally posted by spenlake
Dr. Boyd,
If you do follow this board, you should be extremely disappointed with responses such as: quote: This post was inspired by the thread "Seeing Is Believing" and particulary by the discussion with Spenlake. I maintain that the "proof is in the pudding" and if something enhances our relationship with the Father, if it encourages us to be transformed more into the likeness of His Son - then it is of God. I have heard you say time and time again that Jesus is our picture of the Father. I have seen nothing that would contradict that in any of your books.
There are many many techniques and methods that bring comfort from pain in this world. All the major religions and many of the minor ones promise this and in some ways, they deliver. Only ONE brings salvation and eternal comfort. And it is not building false-reality that I enjoy with a spirit-inspired god of my own making.
There are many psychiatric methods that bring comfort in encouraging people to believe in a non-event so that the actual event fades. There are healings (physical and emotional) that happen in all religions, especially the spiritistic ones. Bahai, Eckankar, Hindu, Buddhism, old fashioned New Age, they all are successful when measured by the standard of the proof is in the pudding. My relative who is into Eckankar, which is based in our lovely state of Minnesota, would heartily agree with the statement from your reader and find comfort in your book. They would enjoy your seminar. It is exactly what they believe and find comfort in. As I said in my letter, I appreciate the fact that you let your readers imagine their own God, Father, and Jesus and do not force them to imagine yours. This lets them make their own idol and not have to bow down to yours which is probably more comforting. As I have interacted with the people on this site I have found their God interesting.
There is one person on your site who refuses to believe in a God that would have her be single, this is not acceptable to her and He wouldn't be welcome in her imaginations. Yet the God of the Bible told Jeremiah not to get married in Jeremiah 16:2, "You shall not take a wife for yourself nor have sons or daughters in this place." The God of the Bible also told Ezekiel that He was taking his wife as an example in Ezekiel 24:15. Is this the kind of god we imagine when left to ourselves? God took his servant's wife out of love for His people, to illustrate the seriousness and severity of the message He was speaking to them.
"And the word of the LORD came to me saying, “Son of man, behold, I am about to take from you the desire of your eyes with a blow; but you shall not mourn and you shall not weep, and your tears shall not come. “Groan silently; make no mourning for the dead. Bind on your turban and put your shoes on your feet, and do not cover your mustache and do not eat the bread of men.” So I spoke to the people in the morning, and in the evening my wife died."
In spite of the evidence, She refuses to believe in God as He has revealed Himself, and finds comfort instead in the subjective vision of a women of your church - claiming to speak for God about the future. I have no idea if and when God provides a husband ( and I have prayed that He will) but to state that I won't believe in a God who lets me be single is arrogant and unscriptural. This is the spirit-insprired god of our imaginations. She has found comfort in the words of a woman instead of the objective comfort of the God of the Bible. There is comfort but it is found the God of Ezekiel and his wife, who loved them so much that He died for them to reconcile them to Himself. This awsome proof of His love was witnessed by men who recorded it for and us for our hope and comfort.
If the person I am speaking of reads this, I promise you, in the name of God, that God loves you and is caring for you and that you have comfort in His Son. His grace is sufficient for you and the God that loved you so much that he sent His son to die for you does not mean evil to you. If He chooses to give you a husband it is for your good. If He chooses to withold it, it is also for your good. God give you grace to make good decisions an choices and trust Him to accomplish His will through your decisions - for marriage or not. Regardless of whether He provides a husband, He has demonstrated that He loves you and cares for you now in His death. He now lives and will bring all His promises to pass.
There is yet another person that refuses to believe in a God that would send evil or deceiving spirits. This doesn't "feel" right and he cannot imagine it to be true. This god wouldn't be welcome in the exercises of prayers you promote. He would only find a "sweet" Jesus that didn't use evil spirits to accomplish His will. This person would end up with an imaginary god leading him astray if he followed the exercises of your book.
Even more extreme cases could be found that are only limited to the defects in our understanding of God compared to the written word. In saying this, I am not claiming to be free from defects myself. I have appreciated the honest interaction that I have had with your followers on this board. There are many good intellects and people that I would appreciate as friends - all sharing defects in our understandings of God as I do. I have come to appreciate that the OV discussion is hard because it is hard. I still think that it resolves nothing - I am welcome to my opinion. While I might think the OV issue drifts into the ether, the discussion concerning spirit-inspired false-truth as the basis for finding freedom is a blatant misunderstanding and corruption of the gospel which is central.
I appeal to you again, Dr. Boyd, repent from these silly ideas and return to the gospel.
Good morning Spen,
First of all keep in mind (please) that I am not a theologian. I am a layperson.
I do not know Dr Boyd personally but I do recognize him as a brother in Jesus Christ. One of the first things I noted in reading his books was his graciousness toward other views. It really doesn't matter how much we know as believers unless that knowledge leads us to a deeper relationship with Jesus Christ and helps us to love others with His love.
My heart's intent here, if it wasn't obvious, was to sincerely thank Dr Boyd for the part he has played as an instrument of the Father in my life. I give the Father all the glory but wanted to express a simple, heartfelt thank you.
Spen, who can argue with lives that are transformed into the likeness of Jesus Christ. Since you do not know me I realize you are unaware of the transformation that has occurred in my life. I understand that. But as a sincere believer I would hope you would rejoice in that.
Spen, I am not advocating "whatever works." I honestly do not see what you are saying about mysticism. I would be glad to share my own experience with imaginative prayer that happened nearly two years ago, if it would encourage others. For the sake of the gospel I would.
Spen I am interested in learning from this board. I am interested in being transformed and in applying what I have learned to my own life in order to be able to love as He loved.
If what we are learning meshes with the revelation of God in Jesus Christ - then what, pray tell is the problem? I'm sorry that you don't see it. I hope that you might as we go along. I'm even open to hearing, understanding and learning from you as a brother in Christ.
I'm sorry you felt you had to disqualify a simple heartfelt thankyou to Dr Boyd. I hope others still join in and express what his years of study and inspiration have contributed to their own lives.
God bless, Jo-Anne  "Sometimes all we can do is go back to the character of God, and drop anchor there."
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 Date Joined Feb 2004 Total Posts : 1128 | Posted 4/17/2004 5:56 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote: Originally posted by spenlake
Dr. Boyd,
If you do follow this board, you should be extremely disappointed with responses such as: quote: This post was inspired by the thread "Seeing Is Believing" and particulary by the discussion with Spenlake. I maintain that the "proof is in the pudding" and if something enhances our relationship with the Father, if it encourages us to be transformed more into the likeness of His Son - then it is of God. I have heard you say time and time again that Jesus is our picture of the Father. I have seen nothing that would contradict that in any of your books.
There are many many techniques and methods that bring comfort from pain in this world. All the major religions and many of the minor ones promise this and in some ways, they deliver. Only ONE brings salvation and eternal comfort. And it is not building false-reality that I enjoy with a spirit-inspired god of my own making.
There are many psychiatric methods that bring comfort in encouraging people to believe in a non-event so that the actual event fades. There are healings (physical and emotional) that happen in all religions, especially the spiritistic ones. Bahai, Eckankar, Hindu, Buddhism, old fashioned New Age, they all are successful when measured by the standard of the proof is in the pudding. My relative who is into Eckankar, which is based in our lovely state of Minnesota, would heartily agree with the statement from your reader and find comfort in your book. They would enjoy your seminar. It is exactly what they believe and find comfort in. As I said in my letter, I appreciate the fact that you let your readers imagine their own God, Father, and Jesus and do not force them to imagine yours. This lets them make their own idol and not have to bow down to yours which is probably more comforting. As I have interacted with the people on this site I have found their God interesting.
I appeal to you again, Dr. Boyd, repent from these silly ideas and return to the gospel.
Spen,
Please note that I said if it encourages you to be transformed into the image of Jesus Christ. I realize that transformation comes through the renewing of our minds and thought that it was understood that I intended things that are congruent with the truth of the gospel and with scripture. I'm sorry if that wasn't clear to you.
All roads do not lead to heaven (not even close).
Jo-Anne "Sometimes all we can do is go back to the character of God, and drop anchor there."
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  |  AlyoshaKaramazov Registered Member
 Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 49 | Posted 4/17/2004 11:53 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote: The content of his "exercises" and the example that he gave claiming freedom in false-history are not congruent with the TRUTH of the gospel and with scripture. You must realize, even as you write this, that claiming to find freedom and truth by experiencing a false-event is not "true."
Spen, I've read a few of your negative reviews of Doc's new book, and, maybe I've missed it, but I've seen very little interaction with Boyd's actual arguments. The above quote from your last post is just pure assertion. Now, while I have some reservations about the practice of "imaginative prayer," you haven't provided any reasons yet why it's inconsistent with "the TRUTH of the gospel." I would encourage you to read the book and respond to it, rather than the amazon synopsis, or whatever it is you're responding to.
quote: I don't mean to be pedantic but there is no such scriptural concept as finding freedom in an imagined false-event or inspired lie.
Would you describe Daniel's vision in Dan. 10:7 or Samuel's hearing the voice of the Lord in 1 Sam. 3:2-10 as an "imagined false-event or inspired lie?" If you've read the book, which I'm doubting, you'll see that Boyd provides arguments as to why your above quote, which simply reads a post Scientific Revolution and Enlightenment worldview into the role of the imagination and how God uses it, is misguided. Boyd's critique of this worldview is found in ch. 9--SO READ IT AND RESPOND TO IT, MY MAN!!!
So, Spen, what SPECIFIC reasons do you have that show how imaginative prayer is inconsistent with the gospel? I'd really like to hear you out on this, as I have some issues too--let's just talk about REAL objections instead of just begging the question.
BTW, I've really been missing Doc's presence on the board. So Doc, if you're reading this: i...love...you... Come back and shake things up sometime, my brother.
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 |  spenlake Registered Member
 Date Joined Jan 2004 Total Posts : 1050 | Posted 4/17/2004 12:28 PM (GMT -6) |   | Aly....,
Aly says: quote: Would you describe Daniel's vision in Dan. 10:7 or Samuel's hearing the voice of the Lord in 1 Sam. 3:2-10 as an "imagined false-event or inspired lie?" If you've read the book, which I'm doubting, you'll see that Boyd provides arguments as to why your above quote, which simply reads a post Scientific Revolution and Enlightenment worldview into the role of the imagination and how God uses it, is misguided. Boyd's critique of this worldview is found in ch. 9--SO READ IT AND RESPOND TO IT, MY MAN!!!
I am sorry Aly if what I stated in this post seemed unsupported. The following are quotes from other threads dealing with this book and mysticism. They make specific references to the book with quotes and page numbers. It would still be best to read the book and see the context for yourself.
quote: Dr. Boyd has redefined the words “truth” and “real” to mean different things.
On page 11 he states, “Wondering whether Christianity is real is not the same as wondering whether Christianity is true.”
On page 13 he states, “Remember, it’s not what we believe intellectually that impacts us; it’s what we experience as real.”
Dr. Boyd is telling us that the objective factual evidence that we tangibly discern and process with our intellect is less real than subjective experiences we don’t confirm with our senses. Dr. Boyd goes on to define “spiritual truth” as internal subjective experiences. He states on page 15,
“We have forgotten the truth that while the imagination certainly can be merely ‘imaginative,’ it can also be the means by which we experience spiritual truths as real.”
This may sound innocent, if spiritual truths experienced actually conform to objective truth – Scripture and the historical record observed by men. This is exactly what is denied, however, and the process that Dr. Boyd provides us with constructs an “alternate reality” in his imagination that is disassociated with the objective historical record. He constructs a lie and he claims it “real.” He implicates his imagined “spiritual Jesus” into his lie and claims it to be true and Scriptural, because it works.
I am not exaggerating. Dr. Boyd gives us the factual historical objective truth of an incident in his life. He had a cruel grandmother that didn’t give him a present and called him bad which he recounts on page 117,
“No, Greggie is a bad boy, and bad boys don’t get presents.”
This incident brings pain to his life. Dr. Boyd discovers the techniques of imaginative prayer and applies them on pages 118 through 122, progressing through a series of emotions from grieving to forgiveness. Dr. Boyd claims that Jesus personally leads him through this process. As the process unfolds, we see that what is happening is that Jesus Himself is changing the objective historical record witnessed by Dr. Boyd’s sisters to a different story that never happened. This story evolves into the following account on page 121,
“But this time, instead of seeing the angry wrinkled face of my grandmother, I saw the radiant, joyful face of Jesus. He leaned over the bag and peeked in with a wildly excited smile on his face. Instead of hearing my grandmother say, ‘No, Greggie is a bad boy,’ I heard Jesus exclaim, ‘Oh, of course Greggie gets a present! He is such a good boy!’ He rubbed my head vigorously as he said, ‘It’s a very special gift. That’s why I saved it for last.’ I began hopping and flapping my arms even more excited than before as I looked again into the paper sack. And there I saw a huge red toy airplane.”
Dr. Boyd has imagined, with the inspiration of the Holy Spirit and Jesus, a new historical record without witnesses that he now believes to be “real” and a spiritual experience of the truth. This is how the imaginative Jesus enabled Dr. Boyd to forgive his grandmother and find healing. It is the process of building a story that opposes objective reality, believing that it is inspired and therefore “real” and experiencing relief from the historical record that is now “unreal” so that forgiveness is possible. He states on page 123,
“It is crucial to note, however, that forgiveness usually comes at the end of the healing process (i.e. imagined story believed as true), not at the beginning.
Scriptures tell us of a different path to forgiveness which doesn’t consist of my creating inspired “subjective reality.” When I realize that I am utterly sinful and undeserving, with a monumental debt towards God I am incapable of paying, destined to damnation - and God comes and dies for me and forgives my mountainous debt and gives me eternal life instead, the antithesis of anything I deserved or merited – the gratitude that whelms up in my heart and mind at this realization enables me to forgive the puny debts that grandmothers owe to me. This is the gospel. This doesn’t require spirits to create freestyle historical records so I can forgive. It simply believes in the work that God, as a tangible man, did for me on the cross. This is where we find the true and real power to forgive, in objective history that was seen by witnesses and written down for us to read and understand. Spen Lake
quote: Posted - 04/14/2004 : 6:44:59 PM -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Spen's rely to Laika, quote: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Laika says: Now you're starting to make sense. Test what's being said.
Now why is what Boyd's saying about a child wanting to feel like he has worth so unscriptural? --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
You agree we are to test what is being said, by "imagined Jesus" and Dr. Boyd. What follows is my explanation of why it is so unscriptural. Dr. Boyd is teaching us a method to find comfort in an imaginary false historical record that he is claiming is inspired. Forget the good and bad boys for a minute and look at the larger context. I am being asked to "believe" and experience this false so much that it becomes more real than the real. It is in this that he promises me freedom.
Dr. Boyd tells us on page 17 that, "Chapter 7 outlines an imanginative spiritual exercise that I call "resting in Christ. This book is largely the written version of a seminar I have led on this form of prayer over the last sixteen years."..."By focusing on the use of Spirit-inspired imagination in prayer,"..."In chapter 8 I provide and example from my own life of how the Lord can use our times of resting in Christ to free us from the deceptive messages of our traumatic memories."
This process of reconstructing alternate "realities" that aren't real in the objective factual sense and calling them Biblical and Holy Spirit inspired is gravely concerning. We must test them to see if they are indeed from God as Dr. Boyd claims. He gives his own example (pages 116 - 125 dealing with a historical event witnessed by his sisters) as proof of how the Lord frees us from traumatic memories through practicing the spiritual exercise he is teaching. In his example, Dr. Boyd's freedom from these memories occurs because a spirit convinces him that a spirit-inspired false-reality, not witnessed by his sisters, is more real and should be believed.
Intentionally convincing myself to believe in what is false isn't Scriptural, but delusionary. 2 Thess 2:11 is speaking about people forsaking the objective truth for a delusion. The definition of delusion is a fixed false belief held in spite of evidence to the contrary. Dr. Boyd is claiming that this is not delusion because the inspired internal "reality" is greater evidence than the objective external event that was witnessed by his sisters. Bunk. This is not the objective truth of the gospel nor the objective revelation of Christ. His teachings on this imaginative spiritual exercise fail the test.
I believe that the "truth" means objectively true. Your doctor is teaching one that he acknowledges is objectively false but is real anyway because he has experienced it. This is what delusion looks like. Sincere, heart-warming and comforting delusion. The delusion doesn't revolve around good or bad boys but history that is being re-invented and believed for comfort - in the name of God.
Christianity is not "hiding from facts through delusion," although that is what the pagans accuse us of. Christianity is standing firm on the promise of God, given objectively with words and proved by the resurrection, in the face of acknowledged real tribulations and experienced sin and real pain. We are not teaching people to become truth escape artists or delusionary mystics - unlike the false teachings of this book.
Your defense of this overall broadview from Scriptures is what I am hoping for. Or, perhaps Dr. Boyd has made a sixteen year mistake and he should repent and return to the gospel and its awesome power to heal our incurable wound.
Spen Lake
You have at least read through chapter nine of Dr. Boyd's book and read the quotations that I provided above. Perhaps you can provide the missing scriptural justification and support that is lacking in the book to prove that finding comfort and freedom from the memory of a real event through a spirit-inspired false one is biblical. The events in Daniel and Samuel were very real and factual. When Daniel told the King that his kingdom was taken and given to the Persians, that night it happened. In 1 Samuel 3:19 we are told,"Thus Samuel grew and the LORD was with him and let none of his words fail." This meant that everything that he said happened. It was true and could be verified by witnesses. When he told Saul that his donkey had been found and comforted him, the donkey had really been found. This is why they were prophets, what they said was true. Dr. Boyd teaches us exercises to find comfort in the false-truth of spirit inspired reconstructed history. This is not the gospel, but delusion.
Spen Lake
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 |  feelinahole Registered Member
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 |  John Earp Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2002 Total Posts : 1715 | Posted 4/17/2004 2:18 PM (GMT -6) |   | I got the book last night, finished it just an hour or so ago. Overall, except for a few relatively minor things, I am at a loss to understand what is so heretical and dangerous with helping the immensely emotionally scarred people in the book by use of visualization techniques to help them internalize the truth of who they are in Christ.
As to the accusation that Boyd has EQUATED this teaching with THE GOSPEL, I found nothing to indicate that in the pages of this book. What it seems to me Dr. Boyd is interested in is applying the gospel to the emotionally scarred, to in effect, "set at liberty them that are bruised, and to heal the brokenhearted." Would that more ministers take this same approach.
It speaks very poorly of the heart of spenlake and others like him that he would find the profoundly significant, life-changing emotional healing of poor, crushed, bruised, and broken people such as Dr. Boyd describes in his book objectionable. As a pastor who has often felt quite frustrated in my attempts to help people just like those described in Boyd's book, and who has seen real spiritual and emotional benefit to some people by means of techniques similar to those encouraged in this book, I found this book quite refreshing and hopeful in tone. One has to wonder what precisely the critics are hiding in the hidden dungeons of their own psyche, to speak so hatefully towards the work of one who is obviously sincerely working to bring people into the freedom for which Christ gave his life to give.
In addition, what Dr. Boyd is describing is not the inducing of "false" memories, but rather the healing of the emotional scars remaining as a result of TRUE memories. He nowhere says that the old memory is to be erased or overwritten; rather, Boyd's point seems to be that we can and should receive Christ as the healer of our souls, a fact attested to by spiritual writers and leaders throughout Christian history.
I have personally devoted myself to the study of "the spiritual writers" in great detail, including many of the writers Boyd cites in his work, and what Boyd IS saying is completely congruent with this noble stream of Christian teaching. Of course, a strict Calvinist can typically never stomach anything much that would deviate from Calvin one iota). Who would seriously accuse A.W. Tozer or Charles Finney of advocating an unscriptural mysticism? A serious look at their actual writings reveals that these men were thoroughly committed to Scripture, while also affirming the absolute necessity of the REAL presence of Christ in the believer by means of the Holy Spirit to effect true transformation of heart and life.
Except for the fact that Dr. Boyd in this book fails to distinguish between struggling with sin and struggling with temptation, I find nothing to fault this book for. I pray that it will indeed help many hurting and spiritually crippled believers find the freedom that Christ died in order to grant them. | | Back to Top | | |
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I got the book last night, finished it just an hour or so ago. Overall, except for a few relatively minor things, I am at a loss to understand what is so heretical and dangerous with helping the immensely emotionally scarred people in the book by use of visualization techniques to help them internalize the truth of who they are in Christ.
As to the accusation that Boyd has EQUATED this teaching with THE GOSPEL, I found nothing to indicate that in the pages of this book. What it seems to me Dr. Boyd is interested in is applying the gospel to the emotionally scarred, to in effect, "set at liberty them that are bruised, and to heal the brokenhearted." Would that more ministers take this same approach.
It speaks very poorly of the heart of spenlake and others like him that he would find the profoundly significant, life-changing emotional healing of poor, crushed, bruised, and broken people such as Dr. Boyd describes in his book objectionable. As a pastor who has often felt quite frustrated in my attempts to help people just like those described in Boyd's book, and who has seen real spiritual and emotional benefit to some people by means of techniques similar to those encouraged in this book, I found this book quite refreshing and hopeful in tone. One has to wonder what precisely the critics are hiding in the hidden dungeons of their own psyche, to speak so hatefully towards the work of one who is obviously sincerely working to bring people into the freedom for which Christ gave his life to give.
In addition, what Dr. Boyd is describing is not the inducing of "false" memories, but rather the healing of the emotional scars remaining as a result of TRUE memories. He nowhere says that the old memory is to be erased or overwritten; rather, Boyd's point seems to be that we can and should receive Christ as the healer of our souls, a fact attested to by spiritual writers and leaders throughout Christian history.
I have personally devoted myself to the study of "the spiritual writers" in great detail, including many of the writers Boyd cites in his work, and what Boyd IS saying is completely congruent with this noble stream of Christian teaching. Of course, a strict Calvinist can typically never stomach anything much that would deviate from Calvin one iota). Who would seriously accuse A.W. Tozer or Charles Finney of advocating an unscriptural mysticism? A serious look at their actual writings reveals that these men were thoroughly committed to Scripture, while also affirming the absolute necessity of the REAL presence of Christ in the believer by means of the Holy Spirit to effect true transformation of heart and life.
Except for the fact that Dr. Boyd in this book fails to distinguish between struggling with sin and struggling with temptation, I find nothing to fault this book for. I pray that it will indeed help many hurting and spiritually cripped believers find the freedom that Christ died in order to grant them.
Amen! I do not understand the objection to seeing people's lives transformed. I was one of them. Even though I was a dedicated believer, my spiritual walk sprang to life after one of these "imaginative" experiences (inspired by the Holy Spirit). I experienced genuine healing and long lasting transformation. I am only on chapter 3...am amazed at how fast you finished it John (must've skimmed it!).
This thread was begun (by myself) as a simple thank you and has become something else. It was an invitation for others to share like thoughts. I did not mean to hijack what Tiggers had started on Seeing Is Believing (The Book Study).
I too would encourage others to read this book.
Spen you said that you are addressing content not intent. I do not see what you are saying about the content as being problematic, but I guess you've gathered that by now.
What I do know is that love is at least as important as theology. Without love, theology is a mere clanging cymbal. Perhaps I am not used to the board but I must say that on the whole I have seen a Christian community here that honours Christ in love.
I too find the book to be refreshing and hopeful. Jesus healed people in creative ways. He is infinitely creative in how He speaks to individuals and works in our lives to bring about transformation.
I'll let the rest of you debate this. I am just thankful for it.
God Bless, Jo-Anne
"Sometimes all we can do is go back to the character of God, and drop anchor there."
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    |  spenlake Registered Member
 Date Joined Jan 2004 Total Posts : 1050 | Posted 4/17/2004 3:40 PM (GMT -6) |   | John, quote: John says: As to the accusation that Boyd has EQUATED this teaching with THE GOSPEL, I found nothing to indicate that in the pages of this book. What it seems to me Dr. Boyd is interested in is applying the gospel to the emotionally scarred, to in effect, "set at liberty them that are bruised, and to heal the brokenhearted." Would that more ministers take this same approach.
A wonderful commentary but it fails to address the points that I raise. You consider them meaningless.
When Dr. Boyd claims: 1. Pg. 15, "As with prayer, we have largely forgotten how important imagination is when it comes to experiencing spiritual truth." 2. Pg. 16, "We might say imagination, when guided by the Holy Spirit and submitted to the authority of Scripture, is our main receptor to the spiritual world." 3. Pg. 17, "Chapter 7 outlines an imaginative exercise that I call "resting in Christ."...Resting in Christ positions people to experience Jesus in a 'face to face' manner...Frankly, I know of no other spiritual discipline that is as transforming and as healing as the discipline of resting in Christ."...In Chapter 8 I provide an example from my own life of how the Lord can use our time of resting in Christ to free us from the deceptive messages of traumatic memories." These quotations claim that the exercise that he has titled "resting in Christ" is the ultimate spiritual exercise to bring freedom from deception. This means the gospel. Believing the gospel that brings us freedom and brings us to Jesus. To claim that his exercise does this is to claim that it is the gospel.
On page 30 Dr. Boyd claims, "It is important to see that our ongoing problem with sin, despite our new identity in Christ is not really with our behavior. This is the symptom of the problem but not the problem itself....More specifically the problem lies in how we view ourselves, how we define ourselves, how we experience ourselves, and thus how we live out our identity in Christ."
In this passage we see that Dr. Boyd eliminates sin as our root problem and tells us the problem needing fixing is how we experience ourselves to live out our identity in Christ. Thus, if we ultimately deal with sin (its root) through these exercises, which is what he is claiming, he is calling it the gospel. It is our answer to sin.
The facts don't agree with our assessment that Dr. Boyd doesn't equate his teaching with the gospel. How else would we experience God, His healing, and freedom from sin? This is what he is claiming to offer us in his exercises.
Dr. Boyd has, on page 17, told us his own story is an example of the practical application of his exercises. In this example he imagines a spiritually-inspired non-factual event. This event is contradictory to the factual event which he lived and experienced in his body. He clearly states that he found the comfort and power to heal in experiencing this false-event. He is extremely clear about this on page 122 when he states, "What the Lord is doing in reworking memories like the one I've shared...He is quite literally entering into the neurological network where memories reside and altering it..." Dr. Boyd is telling us that God is changing the memories to change their meaning. This is done by a false-event. Fictional truth substituted for factual truth.
You then, without addressing the issues I have raised, counter attack with unfounded accusations. quote: One has to wonder what precisely the critics are hiding in the hidden dungeons of their own psyche, to speak so hatefully towards the work of one who is obviously sincerely working to bring people into the freedom for which Christ gave his life to give.
I believe that Dr. Boyd sincerely wants to help people and relieve their pain. I even believe that these techniques, like many New Age, Buddhist, Hindu and spiritistic techniques might WORK. They are, however, not the gospel that he claims they are.
Finally,quote: John says: It speaks very poorly of the heart of spenlake and others like him that he would find the profoundly significant, life-changing emotional healing of poor, crushed, bruised, and broken people such as Dr. Boyd describes in his book objectionable.
I am misrepresented. I have never denied that these people, including Dr, Boyd, felt comfort. I am not altogether oblivious to their real pain. I am saying that the comfort that Dr. Boyd felt is not the gospel. It cannot be "true" because it is reached through constructing something false. It is much more cruel and base of heart to claim to offer an eternal comfort when it actually is a false and temporal one.
Spen Lake
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 |  John Earp Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2002 Total Posts : 1715 | Posted 4/17/2004 4:08 PM (GMT -6) |   | Originally posted by spenlake A wonderful commentary but it fails to address the points that I raise. You consider them meaningless.
John's response:
Yes, I do, for your non sequiturs do not merit response. It is YOU who have claimed that Boyd equates "resting in Christ" with the Gospel. None of the quotes you cite demonstrate your claim on this point.
What I found Boyd to be saying was simply this:
1. The "try harder" solution is no solution at all, but just makes things worse.
2. The solution for Christians (those who by definition have ALREADY believed the message of the Gospel), yet find themselves still tormented by besetting sins and overwhelming destructive addictions, is to learn to APPLY the truth of the Gospel (which the quotes you cite demonstrate--Boyd is referring to imagination submitted to the truth of Scripture and the leadership of the Holy Spirit, not "do-it-yourself" mysticism, as you have so often claimed). Dr. Boyd presents a technique of application of the truth of the Gospel of Christ and the intimate relationship with Christ that all believers are meant to have with the goal in mind of healing of deep emotional scars from past traumas.
spen's comments:
Dr. Boyd has, on page 17, told us his own story is an example of the practical application of his exercises. In this example he imagines a spiritually-inspired non-factual event. This event is contradictory to the factual event which he lived and experienced in his body. He clearly states that he found the comfort and power to heal in experiencing this false-event. He is extremely clear about this on page 122 when he states, "What the Lord is doing in reworking memories like the one I've shared...He is quite literally entering into the neurological network where memories reside and altering it..." Dr. Boyd is telling us that God is changing the memories to change their meaning. This is done by a false-event. Fictional truth substituted for factual truth.
John replies:
As Boyd obviously still recalls the events as they originally happened, and includes these in his narrative, it is not true that he is substituting "fictional truth for a factual truth." Perhaps he is overstating his case here, but again, he quite obviously recognizes that the original memories remain. What his therapeutic approach seeks to deal with is the pain associated with the original memories.
spen's comments: You then, without addressing the issues I have raised, counter attack with unfounded accusations. quote: One has to wonder what precisely the critics are hiding in the hidden dungeons of their own psyche, to speak so hatefully towards the work of one who is obviously sincerely working to bring people into the freedom for which Christ gave his life to give.
I believe that Dr. Boyd sincerely wants to help people and relieve their pain. I even believe that these techniques, like many New Age, Buddhist, Hindu and spiritistic techniques might WORK. They are, however, not the gospel that he claims they are.
John's response:
Boyd's reputation as a leading apologist for the claims of Christ and His Gospel soundly defeat your absurd claim that he is somehow claiming his therapy suggested in this book IS the Gospel.
spen says:
Finally,quote: John says: It speaks very poorly of the heart of spenlake and others like him that he would find the profoundly significant, life-changing emotional healing of poor, crushed, bruised, and broken people such as Dr. Boyd describes in his book objectionable.
I am misrepresented. I have never denied that these people, including Dr, Boyd, felt comfort. I am not altogether oblivious to their real pain.
John says: "not altogether oblivious?!?!?!" I can just FEEL the LOVE.
spen says:
I am saying that the comfort that Dr. Boyd felt is not the gospel. It cannot be "true" because it is reached through constructing something false. It is much more cruel and base of heart to claim to offer an eternal comfort when it actually is a false and temporal one.
John's response: Continuing to beg a question, as you are doing, proves nothing. Doc nowhere makes the claim that his therapeutic approach to helping Christians be free from EMOTIONAL traumas of their past is EQUIVALENT to the Gospel.
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 |  spenlake Registered Member
 Date Joined Jan 2004 Total Posts : 1050 | Posted 4/17/2004 5:10 PM (GMT -6) |   | John, quote: Originally posted by spenlake A wonderful commentary but it fails to address the points that I raise. You consider them meaningless.
John's response:
Yes, I do, for your non sequiturs do not merit response. It is YOU who have claimed that Boyd equates "resting in Christ" with the Gospel. None of the quotes you cite demonstrate your claim on this point.
What I found Boyd to be saying was simply this:
1. The "try harder" solution is no solution at all, but just makes things worse.
2. The solution for Christians (those who by definition have ALREADY believed the message of the Gospel), yet find themselves still tormented by besetting sins and overwhelming destructive addictions, is to learn to APPLY the truth of the Gospel (which the quotes you cite demonstrate--Boyd is referring to imagination submitted to the truth of Scripture and the leadership of the Holy Spirit, not "do-it-yourself" mysticism, as you have so often claimed). Dr. Boyd presents a technique of application of the truth of the Gospel of Christ and the intimate relationship with Christ that all believers are meant to have with the goal in mind of healing of deep emotional scars from past traumas.
spen's comments:
Dr. Boyd has, on page 17, told us his own story is an example of the practical application of his exercises. In this example he imagines a spiritually-inspired non-factual event. This event is contradictory to the factual event which he lived and experienced in his body. He clearly states that he found the comfort and power to heal in experiencing this false-event. He is extremely clear about this on page 122 when he states, "What the Lord is doing in reworking memories like the one I've shared...He is quite literally entering into the neurological network where memories reside and altering it..." Dr. Boyd is telling us that God is changing the memories to change their meaning. This is done by a false-event. Fictional truth substituted for factual truth.
John replies:
As Boyd obviously still recalls the events as they originally happened, and includes these in his narrative, it is not true that he is substituting "fictional truth for a factual truth." Perhaps he is overstating his case here, but again, he quite obviously recognizes that the original memories remain. What his therapeutic approach seeks to deal with is the pain associated with the original memories.
spen's comments: You then, without addressing the issues I have raised, counter attack with unfounded accusations. quote: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- One has to wonder what precisely the critics are hiding in the hidden dungeons of their own psyche, to speak so hatefully towards the work of one who is obviously sincerely working to bring people into the freedom for which Christ gave his life to give. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I believe that Dr. Boyd sincerely wants to help people and relieve their pain. I even believe that these techniques, like many New Age, Buddhist, Hindu and spiritistic techniques might WORK. They are, however, not the gospel that he claims they are.
John's response:
Boyd's reputation as a leading apologist for the claims of Christ and His Gospel soundly defeat your absurd claim that he is somehow claiming his therapy suggested in this book IS the Gospel.
spen says:
Finally, quote: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- John says: It speaks very poorly of the heart of spenlake and others like him that he would find the profoundly significant, life-changing emotional healing of poor, crushed, bruised, and broken people such as Dr. Boyd describes in his book objectionable. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
I am misrepresented. I have never denied that these people, including Dr, Boyd, felt comfort. I am not altogether oblivious to their real pain.
John says: "not altogether oblivious?!?!?!" I can just FEEL the LOVE.
spen says:
I am saying that the comfort that Dr. Boyd felt is not the gospel. It cannot be "true" because it is reached through constructing something false. It is much more cruel and base of heart to claim to offer an eternal comfort when it actually is a false and temporal one.
John's response: Continuing to beg a question, as you are doing, proves nothing. Doc nowhere makes the claim that his therapeutic approach to helping Christians be free from EMOTIONAL traumas of their past is EQUIVALENT to the Gospel.
I think you are misunderstanding Dr. Boyd's use of the phrase, "congruent with" the gospel and with Scripture. All this means is that his approach is not contradictory to the Gospel or Scripture. He is not saying it IS the Gospel per se.
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John, specifically I want to address your conclusion.quote: John tells Spen: Continuing to beg a question, as you are doing, proves nothing. Doc nowhere makes the claim that his therapeutic approach to helping Christians be free from EMOTIONAL traumas of their past is EQUIVALENT to the Gospel.
I think you are misunderstanding Dr. Boyd's use of the phrase, "congruent with" the gospel and with Scripture. All this means is that his approach is not contradictory to the Gospel or Scripture. He is not saying it IS the Gospel per se.
This brings us back to the core issue, finding freedom in the false-event and fictional-truth as some doorway to "truth" and "reality." This is not congruent with the Scriptures. Bunk. You have not brought a SINGLE scripture to support your point, just a name and reputation of a man. I have brought many scriptures to prove the contrary. Yes, this exercise is CONTRARY to what is taught in scripture. It is not and never has been that we will know the false and it will set us free to the truth. I am not misunderstanding Dr. Boyd. I understand his position and I quote his words extensively. To these ideas and specific events you have no answers. They are simply wrong. He claims on page 17 that his exercise is "resting in Christ" and by it I am positioned to experience Jesus in a 'face to face' manner because Dr. Boyd knows of no other spiritual discipline that is as transforming and as healing as the discipline of resting in Christ. He is not claiming it is a therapy, he goes far beyond this; He claims it is Holy Spirit inspired. He is claiming we meet God through it and His power and freedom.
This is NOT the gospel that he claims it is, it is delusion. Spen Lake
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 |  Laika Registered Member

Date Joined Mar 2003 Total Posts : 2433 | Posted 4/17/2004 5:19 PM (GMT -6) |   | quote: Originally posted by spenlake On page 30 Dr. Boyd claims, "It is important to see that our ongoing problem with sin, despite our new identity in Christ is not really with our behavior. This is the symptom of the problem but not the problem itself....More specifically the problem lies in how we view ourselves, how we define ourselves, how we experience ourselves, and thus how we live out our identity in Christ."
In this passage we see that Dr. Boyd eliminates sin as our root problem and tells us the problem needing fixing is how we experience ourselves to live out our identity in Christ. Thus, if we ultimately deal with sin (its root) through these exercises, which is what he is claiming, he is calling it the gospel. It is our answer to sin.
Boyd says, the problem with sin is not with our behavior. The problem with sin lies in how we view ourselves.
So Problem NOT behavior, Problem IS how we view ourselves.
Yet spenlake, poor eyesight obviously, sees: "Boyd eliminates sin as the problem".
NO, he looks for a different source of the problem.
Dood, like I've said before, you have no comprehension skills.
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 |  Laika Registered Member

Date Joined Mar 2003 Total Posts : 2433 | Posted 4/17/2004 5:21 PM (GMT -6) |   | quote: Originally posted by spenlake You have not brought a SINGLE scripture to support your point, just a name and reputation of a man. I have brought many scriptures to prove the contrary.
You can't even point out the problem! We have NO IDEA what you're talking about. You read the same words we do and then state something NOT EVEN THERE.
Let's strip the unnecessary parts out of the sentence and pare it down, maybe too many words together are confusing you
"It is important to see that our ongoing problem with sin, despite our new identity in Christ is not really with our behavior. This is the symptom of the problem but not the problem itself....More specifically the problem lies in how we view ourselves, how we define ourselves, how we experience ourselves, and thus how we live out our identity in Christ."
First, I'll underline the important parts and then take out all but the underlined parts.
"It is important to see that our ongoing problem with sin, despite our new identity in Christ is not really with our behavior. This is the symptom of the problem but not the problem itself....More specifically the problem lies in how we view ourselves, how we define ourselves, how we experience ourselves, and thus how we live out our identity in Christ."
"our problem with sin is not our behavior the problem [with sin] lies in how we view ourselves, how we define ourselves, how we experience ourselves, and thus how we live out our identity in Christ"
Does that help? He didn't remove the "problem with sin", he changed the source.
You said he "removed sin". That is incorrect.
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 |  spenlake Registered Member
 Date Joined Jan 2004 Total Posts : 1050 | Posted 4/17/2004 5:35 PM (GMT -6) |   | Laika,
Even though you say and Dr. Boyd writes, "So Problem NOT behavior, Problem IS how we view ourselves" this is not what scriptures say. The scriptures say that sin is the problem. God didn't send His Son to deliver us from the bondage of our poor image, but of our sin. I have given a few verses to this effect, time and space constrains that I provide more.
The problem is SIN and this is exactly what He died to free us from. We were all in bondage to sin. Scriptures shut up everyone under sin. This freedom from sin is what the gospel is all about. It is found in believeing the objective true historical record of Jesus actions in the flesh. It is not to be found in believing the fictional truth that Dr. Boyd presents us as "resting in Christ."
John 1:29, "Behold, the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world!"
John 8:34, "Jesus answered them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, everyone who commits sin is the slave of sin. “The slave does not remain in the house forever; the son does remain forever. “So if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed."
John 9:41, "Jesus said to them, “If you were blind, you would have no sin; but since you say, ‘We see,’ your sin remains.
John 16:8, "And He, when He comes, will convict the world concerning sin and righteousness and judgment;concerning sin, because they do not believe in Me; and concerning righteousness, because I go to the Father and you no longer see Me; and concerning judgment, because the ruler of this world has been judged."
Romans 4:8, "BLESSED IS THE MAN WHOSE SIN THE LORD WILL NOT TAKE INTO ACCOUNT."
Galations 3:22, "But the Scripture has shut up everyone under sin, so that the promise by faith in Jesus Christ might be given to those who believe."
Hebrews 3:13, "“Today,” so that none of you will be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin."
Spen Lake
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  |  John Earp Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2002 Total Posts : 1715 | Posted 4/17/2004 6:30 PM (GMT -6) |   | Originally posted by spenlake This brings us back to the core issue, finding freedom in the false-event and fictional-truth as some doorway to "truth" and "reality." This is not congruent with the Scriptures. Bunk. You have not brought a SINGLE scripture to support your point, just a name and reputation of a man. I have brought many scriptures to prove the contrary. Yes, this exercise is CONTRARY to what is taught in scripture. It is not and never has been that we will know the false and it will set us free to the truth.
John responds:
When Jesus said, "Ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free," he was specifically referring to experiential knowledge of Himself and his teaching. "If ye abide in My Word, then are ye my disciples indeed." Later, in John 14-17, Christ says: "If you abide in ME, and my words abide in you..." and a little later He refers to "the Spirit of Truth" that would be sent to them as the perfect Helper/Comforter/Advocate, who would "guide [them] into all truth."
Paul exhorts the believers under his care to "be ye transformed by the RENEWING of your MINDS..." and to "put on the NEW MAN, which is created in the image of Him...in righteousness and true holiness." Paul also refers to the fact that believers, under the New Covenant, are to "behold the glory of God in the FACE of Jesus Christ," and in so doing they would be "changed from glory to glory," even by the SPIRIT of the Lord."
(I am just typing these Scripture quotes from memory; I trust you will know where they are found in Scripture. If you have any question about any of my above references, please let me know, and I'll be happy to find the exact chapter and verse for you).
quote: I am not misunderstanding Dr. Boyd. I understand his position and I quote his words extensively.
Quoting someone's words does NOT mean one understands them or has even TRIED to understand them.
"The Discovery of new truth will modify old views and opinions, and there is perhaps no end to this process with finite minds in any world." Charles G. Finney, Systematic Theology.
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 Date Joined Feb 2004 Total Posts : 1128 | Posted 4/17/2004 9:36 PM (GMT -6) |   | Saintpaulrez,
Wow. I don't know if you'll be back to read this, but reading your post made me feel very sad - for you mostly. It is amazing how we can affect each other as believers. It's like we see the battle, we move to the front lines then promptly forget who the enemy is.
Saintpaul, I have only been introduced to open theism a couple of years ago and it makes the most sense to me. However, I have learned that love is more important than being right. I am willing to lay down even open theism for the sake of love. What good is theology if all we do is clang. I never want to be a cymbal - ever.
I believe that we can lose sight of this if we're not careful. I came here to learn from others, to ask questions and to be challenged personally. Also, I must admit that this is not a view that I share openly. I have been asked by a family member not to and only know of one open theist where I live...in a church full of people who believe that God has exhaustive divine foreknowledge and has a plan (detail by detail) of our lives (before the foundation of the world). God bless them. They love the Lord and that is more important than me trying to convince them that their theology is "off." Even Dr Boyd in one of his books stated that our relationship as believers is more important than this view. He never desired that this view divide believers.
I personally do not understand why believers become so easily offended. As Dr Boyd said this is about ideas, it's not personal. We do not know each other on that level, so it can't be.
For the most part my experience here has been positive. I was talking with a friend today (the friend who introduced me to Open Theism) and was telling him that this board has challenged me personally. It is a test to see how gracious I really am as a believer.
I would rather have a close Christian friend believe the exact opposite as me and see them loved and loving than for them to agree with me in all regards in this view and have them feel unloved or have them be unloving.
Love really is the bottom line.
I am very careful where, when and with whom I share this view. It has dramatically affected my life and from it comes the "Choice by choice I affect eternity." How I view the Father, how I view the problem of evil, how I make my choices, how I pray...all those have been transformed. I experienced great healing in my life at the same time through an experience in imaginative prayer and my life has not been the same since.
I am involved in pastoral care. I am a shepherd and that is my main consideration. If I'm unloving I am no longer a shepherd.
I know there are those who love the debate, there are those who love to explore, who love the challenge of apologetics, who love the intellectual "tennis match." I just want to love. Sounds corny...but though I want to learn...my main goal is to learn to love better.
If I can be an encouragement here, it's worth staying. If not, perhaps it is not.
I understand you're not wanting to be here. It saddens me but I am glad that you are able to make healthy choices for yourself. I really do hope you stay long enough to read this reply. Please don't paint all open theists with the same brush stroke because you have encountered some who have not responded in love. Open Theists are just mere mortals after all (smile).
God bless you,
Jo-Anne  "Sometimes all we can do is go back to the character of God, and drop anchor there."
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