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|  Tigress Registered Member
 Date Joined Feb 2003 Total Posts : 1252 | Posted 2/24/2003 12:06 PM (GMT -6) |   | I was wondering about homosexuality. I know that the Bible says that God's original plan for men and women is monogomous marriage and I believe that's true. But, I also am at a loss as to how to explain to gays and lesbians why exactly homosexuality and lesbianism is sinful and that it hurts people, including themselves.
If two people of the same sex love each other and want to commit their lives to each other in marriage as many gays and lesbians want to, why would God find that so abominable? It's essentially the same thing as a monogomous heterosexual marriage with the exception of the same-sex sexual relations. Who is it really hurting and exactly how is it hurting them?
Whenever confronted by Christians about this issue, gays and lesbians will often ask this question, and hard as I try I can't come up with a reasonable answer for them.
Tigress
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 |  SeanG Registered Member
 Date Joined Dec 2002 Total Posts : 278 | Posted 2/24/2003 12:47 PM (GMT -6) |   | A few suggestions, buy some good books on the subject so you can become acquainted with the issue. You can also read my post on the subject as well.
http://www.gregboyd.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=1821
The three books I recommend you read thoroughly are as follows:quote:
Homosexuality and the Politics of Truth;
Homosexuality: Contemporary Claims Examined in Light of the Bible and Other Literature and Law;
and, The Politics of Deviance.
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 |  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 2/24/2003 1:04 PM (GMT -6) |   | Tigress
If two people of the same sex love each other and want to commit their lives to each other in marriage as many gays and lesbians want to, why would God find that so abominable?
Iconoclast
He wouldn't. God is love. Jesus proved this once and for all on the cross.
Walter Wink wrote a book called Homosexuality and Christian Faith where he shows that something being an "abomination" was related to purity laws which we of course no longer consider to be sin.
You might also want to look at this thread:
http://www.gregboyd.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=1809&whichpage=1&ARCHIVE=
thanks, Iconoclast
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 |  PotOnWheel Registered Member

Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 9890 | Posted 2/24/2003 5:07 PM (GMT -6) |   | Tigress,
Check out this site.
It contains, among other things, several verses from the canon of scritpure, and a portion of the Didache/Preaching of the Apostles (which was part of the NT canon for a while).
Early Teachings on Homosexuality
Some argue that neither the Bible nor apostolic tradition condemns the practice of homosexuality. Passages such as Leviticus 18:22–30, Romans 1:26–27, 1 Corinthians 6:9, and Jude 7 serve as ample proof that Scripture indeed condemns homosexuality. Below is ample proof from tradition. The Fathers are especially harsh against the practice of pederasty, the homosexual corruption of boys by men.
The Didache
"You shall not commit murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not commit pederasty, you shall not commit fornication, you shall not steal, you shall not practice magic, you shall not practice witchcraft, you shall not murder a child by abortion nor kill one that has been born" (Didache 2:2 [A.D. 70]).
The Letter of Barnabas
"You shall not commit fornication; you shall not commit adultery; you shall not be a corrupter of youth" (Letter of Barnabas 10 [A.D. 74]).
"You shall not be a corrupter of boys, nor like unto such" (ibid.).
Justin Martyr
"[W]e have been taught that to expose newly-born children is the part of wicked men; and this we have been taught lest we should do anyone harm and lest we should sin against God, first, because we see that almost all so exposed (not only the girls, but also the males) are brought up to prostitution. And for this pollution a multitude of females and hermaphrodites, and those who commit unmentionable iniquities, are found in every nation. And you receive the hire of these, and duty and taxes from them, whom you ought to exterminate from your realm. And anyone who uses such persons, besides the godless and infamous and impure intercourse, may possibly be having intercourse with his own child, or relative, or brother. And there are some who prostitute even their own children and wives, and some are openly mutilated for the purpose of sodomy; and they refer these mysteries to the mother of the gods" (First Apology 27 [A.D. 151]).
Clement of Alexandria
"All honor to that king of the Scythians, whoever Anacharsis was, who shot with an arrow one of his subjects who imitated among the Scythians the mystery of the mother of the gods . . . condemning him as having become effeminate among the Greeks, and a teacher of the disease of effeminacy to the rest of the Scythians" (Exhortation to the Greeks 2 [A.D. 190]).
"[According to Greek myth] Baubo [a female native of Eleusis] having received [the goddess] Demeter hospitably, reached to her a refreshing draught; and on her refusing it, not having any inclination to drink (for she was very sad), and Baubo having become annoyed, thinking herself slighted, uncovered her shame, and exhibited her nudity to the goddess. Demeter is delighted with the sight—pleased, I repeat, at the spectacle. These are the secret mysteries of the Athenians; these Orpheus records" (ibid.).
"It is not, then, without reason that the poets call him [Hercules] a cruel wretch and a nefarious scoundrel. It were tedious to recount his adulteries of all sorts, and debauching of boys. For your gods did not even abstain from boys, one having loved Hylas, another Hyacinthus, another Pelops, another Chrysippus, another Ganymede. Let such gods as these be worshipped by your wives, and let them pray that their husbands be such as these—so temperate; that, emulating them in the same practices, they may be like the gods. Such gods let your boys be trained to worship, that they may grow up to be men with the accursed likeness of fornication on them received from the gods" (ibid.).
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"In accordance with these remarks, conversation about deeds of wickedness is appropriately termed filthy [shameful] speaking, as talk about adultery and pederasty and the like" (The Instructor 6, ca. A.D. 193).
"The fate of the Sodomites was judgment to those who had done wrong, instruction to those who hear. The Sodomites having, through much luxury, fallen into uncleanness, practicing adultery shamelessly, and burning with insane love for boys; the All-seeing Word, whose notice those who commit impieties cannot escape, cast his eye on them. Nor did the sleepless guard of humanity observe their licentiousness in silence; but dissuading us from the imitation of them, and training us up to his own temperance, and falling on some sinners, lest lust being unavenged, should break loose from all the restraints of fear, ordered Sodom to be burned, pouring forth a little of the sagacious fire on licentiousness; lest lust, through want of punishment, should throw wide the gates to those that were rushing into voluptuousness. Accordingly, the just punishment of the Sodomites became to men an image of the salvation which is well calculated for men. For those who have not committed like sins with those who are punished, will never receive a like punishment" (ibid., 8).
Tertullian
"[A]ll other frenzies of the lusts which exceed the laws of nature, and are impious toward both [human] bodies and the sexes, we banish, not only from the threshold but also from all shelter of the Church, for they are not sins so much as monstrosities" (Modesty 4 [A.D. 220]).
Novatian
"[God forbade the Jews to eat certain foods for symbolic reasons:] For that in fishes the roughness of scales is regarded as constituting their cleanness; rough, and rugged, and unpolished, and substantial, and grave manners are approved in men; while those that are without scales are unclean, because trifling, and fickle, and faithless, and effeminate manners are disapproved. Moreover, what does the law mean when it . . . forbids the swine to be taken for food? It assuredly reproves a life filthy and dirty, and delighting in the garbage of vice. . . . Or when it forbids the hare? It rebukes men deformed into women" (The Jewish Foods 3 [A.D. 250]).
Cyprian of Carthage
"[T]urn your looks to the abominations, not less to be deplored, of another kind of spectacle. . . . Men are emasculated, and all the pride and vigor of their sex is effeminated in the disgrace of their enervated body; and he is more pleasing there who has most completely broken down the man into the woman. He grows into praise by virtue of his crime; and the more he is degraded, the more skillful he is considered to be. Such a one is looked upon—oh shame!—and looked upon with pleasure. . . . Nor is there wanting authority for the enticing abomination . . . that Jupiter of theirs [is] not more supreme in dominion than in vice, inflamed with earthly love in the midst of his own thunders . . . now breaking forth by the help of birds to violate the purity of boys. And now put the question: Can he who looks upon such things be healthy-minded or modest? Men imitate the gods whom they adore, and to such miserable beings their crimes become their religion" (Letters 1:8 [A.D. 253]).
"Oh, if placed on that lofty watchtower, you could gaze into the secret places—if you could open the closed doors of sleeping chambers and recall their dark recesses to the perception of sight—you would behold things done by immodest persons which no chaste eye could look upon; you would see what even to see is a crime; you would see what people embruted with the madness of vice deny that they have done, and yet hasten to do—men with frenzied lusts rushing upon men, doing things which afford no gratification even to those who do them" (ibid., 1:9).
Arnobius
"[T]he mother of the gods loved [the boy Attis] exceedingly, because he was of most surpassing beauty; and Acdestis [the son of Jupiter] who was his companion, as he grew up fondling him, and bound to him by wicked compliance with his lust. . . . Afterwards, under the influence of wine, he [Attis] admits that he is . . . loved by Acdestis. . . . Then Midas, king of Pessinus, wishing to withdraw the youth from so disgraceful an intimacy, resolves to give him his own daughter in marriage. . . . Acdestis, bursting with rage because of the boy’s being torn from himself and brought to seek a wife, fills all the guests with frenzied madness; the Phrygians shriek, panic-stricken at the appearance of the gods. . . . [Attis] too, now filled with furious passion, raving frantically and tossed about, throws himself down at last, and under a pine tree mutilates himself, saying, ‘Take these, Acdestis, for which you have stirred up so great and terribly perilous commotions’" (Against the Pagans 5:6–7 [A.D. 305]).
Eusebius of Caesarea
"[H]aving forbidden all unlawful marriage, and all unseemly practice, and the union of women with women and men with men, he [God] adds: ‘Do not defile yourselves with any of these things; for in all these things the nations were defiled, which I will drive out before you. And the land was polluted, and I have recompensed [their] iniquity upon it, and the land is grieved with them that dwell upon it’ [Lev. 18:24–25]" (Proof of the Gospel 4:10 [A.D. 319]).
Basil the Great
"He who is guilty of unseemliness with males will be under discipline for the same time as adulterers" (Letters 217:62 [A.D. 367]).
"If you [O, monk] are young in either body or mind, shun the companionship of other young men and avoid them as you would a flame. For through them the enemy has kindled the desires of many and then handed them over to eternal fire, hurling them into the vile pit of the five cities under the pretense of spiritual love. . . . At meals take a seat far from other young men. In lying down to sleep let not their clothes be near yours, but rather have an old man between you. When a young man converses with you, or sings psalms facing you, answer him with eyes cast down, lest perhaps by gazing at his face you receive a seed of desire sown by the enemy and reap sheaves of corruption and ruin. Whether in the house or in a place where there is no one to see your actions, be not found in his company under the pretense either of studying the divine oracles or of any other business whatsoever, however necessary" (The Renunciation of the World [A.D. 373]).
John Chrysostom
"[The pagans] were addicted to the love of boys, and one of their wise men made a law that pederasty . . . should not be allowed to slaves, as if it was an honorable thing; and they had houses for this purpose, in which it was openly practiced. And if all that was done among them was related, it would be seen that they openly outraged nature, and there was none to restrain them. . . . As for their passion for boys, whom they called their paedica, it is not fit to be named" (Homilies on Titus 5 [A.D. 390]).
"[Certain men in church] come in gazing about at the beauty of women; others curious about the blooming youth of boys. After this, do you not marvel that [lightning] bolts are not launched [from heaven], and all these things are not plucked up from their foundations? For worthy both of thunderbolts and hell are the things that are done; but God, who is long-suffering, and of great mercy, forbears awhile his wrath, calling you to repentance and amendment" (Homilies on Matthew 3:3 [A.D. 391]).
"All of these affections [in Rom. 1:26–27] . . . were vile, but chiefly the mad lust after males; for the soul is more the sufferer in sins, and more dishonored than the body in diseases" (Homilies on Romans 4 [A.D. 391]).
"[The men] have done an insult to nature itself. And a yet more disgraceful thing than these is it, when even the women seek after these intercourses, who ought to have more shame than men" (ibid.).
"And sundry other books of the philosophers one may see full of this disease. But we do not therefore say that the thing was made lawful, but that they who received this law were pitiable, and objects for many tears. For these are treated in the same way as women that play the whore. Or rather their plight is more miserable. For in the case of the one the intercourse, even if lawless, is yet according to nature; but this is contrary both to law and nature. For even if there were no hell, and no punishment had been threatened, this would be worse than any punishment" (ibid.).
Augustine
"[T]hose shameful acts against nature, such as were committed in Sodom, ought everywhere and always to be detested and punished. If all nations were to do such things, they would be held guilty of the same crime by the law of God, which has not made men so that they should use one another in this way" (Confessions 3:8:15 [A.D. 400]).
The Apostolic Constitutions
"[Christians] abhor all unlawful mixtures, and that which is practiced by some contrary to nature, as wicked and impious" (Apostolic Constitutions 6:11 [A.D. 400]).
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 |  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 2/24/2003 5:38 PM (GMT -6) |   | POW
The Fathers are especially harsh against the practice of pederasty, the homosexual corruption of boys by men.
Iconoclast
What a strange way to think about it - "the homosexual corruption of boys by men"?!?! I call it child rape. If a man rapes a girl do you call it "the heterosexual corruption of girls by men"?
Of course the Father are especially harsh against child rape! It is the polar opposite of love! What in the world does that have to do with gay marriage?
thanks, Iconoclast
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 |  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 2/24/2003 5:45 PM (GMT -6) |   | POW
"[T]hose shameful acts against nature, such as were committed in Sodom, ought everywhere and always to be detested and punished. If all nations were to do such things, they would be held guilty of the same crime by the law of God, which has not made men so that they should use one another in this way" (Confessions 3:8:15 [A.D. 400]).
Iconoclast
The sin of Sodom was NOT gay monogamous marriages it was raping strangers who happened to wander into town - serious inhospitality.
ModesOfThought posted the following on another thread:
quote:
Just a biblical comment on Sodom, for perspective: Check out Ezekiel 16:35-50 Jerusalem is getting reamed out big time. It is interesting to me tht Jerusalem is compared UNfavorably with Sodom. 16:47ff
"You not only followed their (Sodom's) ways, and acted according to their abominations; within a very little time you were more corrupt than they in all your ways. As I live, says the Lord God, your sister Sodom and her daughters have not done as you and your daughters have done. This was the guilt of your sister Sodom: she and her daughters had pride, excess of food, and prosperous ease, but did not aid the poor and needy."
I think this is important because clearly we have God speaking through the prophet Ezekiel about the sins of Sodom. Jerusalem's sins of idolatry and unfaithfulness to God are so much more damaging than the sins of Sodom that they can be compared as they are above. What is more, notice what is not even mentioned in the text on Sodom's sin? The principle sin of Sodom is actually its perversion of their hospitality toward others.
thanks, Iconoclast
"The benefit overran the merit the first day, and has overrun the merit ever since. The merit itself, so-called, I reckon part of the receiving." - Ralph Waldo Emerson | | Back to Top | | |
 |  Matthew Timothy Short Huh?

Date Joined Apr 2002 Total Posts : 635 | Posted 2/25/2003 1:48 AM (GMT -6) |   | "Therefore we are buried with him by baptism into death: that like as Christ was raised up from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life."
http://www.blueletterbible.org/tmp_dir/c/1046177284-4290.html
God is Love,
Tim
1Jo 2:16…the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father… | | Back to Top | | |
 |  PotOnWheel Registered Member

Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 9890 | Posted 2/25/2003 4:25 AM (GMT -6) |   | Iconoclast: What a strange way to think about it. . .
Iconoclast posted as if the quotes were from me (PoW). They obviously were from the site LINKED to in the above post. This is not a matter of one person simply deciding that they disagree, and that the impulse of another poster resulted in something that is "a strange way." It is something much bigger. The quotes miss-ascribed to a mere poster stand upon the authority and witness of the church -- on those that went before AND those that followed.
Looking down the list of quotes one sees that not all fit the narrow definitions that Iconoclast felt that he had ready and "easy" refutive answers to. But for those two he did quote, let the REAL authors names be re-attached1
quote: AUGUSTINE
"[T]hose shameful acts against nature, such as were committed in Sodom, ought everywhere and always to be detested and punished. If all nations were to do such things, they would be held guilty of the same crime by the law of God, which has not made men so that they should use one another in this way" (Confessions 3:8:15 [A.D. 400]).
...and...
www.catholic.com/library/Early_Teachings_on_Homosexuality.asp
"The Fathers are especially harsh against the practice of pederasty, the homosexual corruption of boys by men."
But OBVIOUSLY the range of aspects covered in the above list far exceed the horrible sin of "pederasty."
The quote from Eusebius of Caesarea deals with "unions" that are also "forbidden."
quote: Eusebius of Caesarea
"[H]aving forbidden all unlawful marriage, and all unseemly practice, and the union of women with women and men with men, he [God] adds: ‘Do not defile yourselves with any of these things; for in all these things the nations were defiled, which I will drive out before you. And the land was polluted, and I have recompensed [their] iniquity upon it, and the land is grieved with them that dwell upon it’ [Lev. 18:24–25]" (Proof of the Gospel 4:10 [A.D. 319]).
THEN, in above quotes Iconoclast uses the vast variation and directional wanderings of contemporary Evalgelical practice and "rules" to smokescreen the fact that Christians in all eras have not always been so vague and flip-flop. (Neither are all Evangelicals so flip-flop now!!!!) Iconoclast writes as if remarried persons are considered in exactly the same light as once-married believers. His ignorance (willful or not) is no proof of his assumption.
Remarried Christians do not have available to them the same range of ecclesial ministry as once-married.
To claim otherwise may be convenient for Iconoclast's arguement; but it is false.
Marriage is a form of monasticism! And as such married priests have been part of the Church (East AND West) from the beginning.
Homosexual cohabitation and mutual-sin has never been part of the requirements for ministry.   
Those who would deny that salvation in Christ is a salvation from the sin of the flesh, and that it is being dead and buried with Christ in Baptism are false witnesses.
Christians are called to the "mortification of my passions."
Anything else is deception.
In the prayer by St. Basil that is oftn used in preparation for taking communion he says:
quote: though I have been wholly subject to sin, a slave to passion, and have defiled thine image within me, who am thy creation and thy work; but trusting in thine infinite compassion, draw nigh unto thee. Receive me, O Lord, thou that lovest mankind, as thou didst receive the sinful woman, the thief, the publican and the prodigal son. Take away the heavy burden of my sins, O Thou that takest away the sins of the world, and healest the infirmities of men, and callest all that are weary and heavy laden to thyself and givest them rest; thou that camest not to call the righteous but sinners to repentance, cleanse thou me from all stain of body and soul and teach me to fulfill holiness in thy fear
It would be a mistaken habit to read "Take away the heavy burden of my sins" in a purely "juridical" manner -- that of God merely forgetting the offence. The scriptures make it PLAINLY CLEAR that the "BURDEN OF SIN" dwells in us bodily: we are "infirmed" with the "whole subjectsion" of the "passions" to which we are "enslaved" which "defile the image" and make us "weary and heavy laden" and in need of God's saving mercy.
Salvation is not a Gnostic affair. Neither is it all at once and then completely done. We are not saved; but rather, hopefully, we are "being saved" -- the Bible says.
A quote from another thread said it well:
quote: John Earp:
He that sins is of the devil. He that is begotten of God does not sin. (see 1 John 3) One who says they believe in libertarian free will and does not live free from sin (a la Romans 6) simply does not live what he says he believes.
Sin shall not be your master, for your are not under law, but under grace (Rom. 6:14)
Follow peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall see God (Heb. 12:14)
The fact that few of us are recognized as Saints, and that most all of us come up far short does not cancel the truth of what John Earp quoted from Romans and Hebrews. Christianity is so radical a surgery that ALL of its "patients" have to die to be saved. But the Judge said we had to be holy. We can have HIS holiness, by participation, but it requires death in the waters of Baptism and walking in that newness of life -- dying to our passions!
Another prayer, often used in preparation for communion is this one from St. John Chrysostom:
NOTICE THE UN-GNOSTIC EMPHASIS ON THE BODY!
quote: . . . And grant that I may partake of thine All-holy Body and Precious Blood for the sanctification, enlightenment and strengthening of my weak soul and body; for the relief from the burden of my many sins; for my preservation against all the snares of the devil; for victory over all my sinful and evil habits; for the mortification of my passions; for obedience to thy Commandments; for growth in thy divine Grace and for the inheritance of thy Kingdom. For it is not with careless heart that I approach thee, O Christ my God, but I come trusting in thine infinite goodness, and fearing lest I may be drawn afar from thee and become the prey of the wolf of souls. Wherefore I pray thee, O Master, who alone art holy, that thou wouldest sanctify my soul and body, my mind and heart and reins, and renew me entirely. Implant in my members the fear of thee, be thou my helper and guide, directing my life in the paths of peace, and make me worthy to stand at thy right hand with thy Saints; through the prayers and intercessions of thine immaculate Mother, of thy Bodiless Servitors, of the immaculate Powers, and of all the Saints who from all ages have been well-pleasing unto thee. Amen.
Obviously, to a Zwingli who thought that participation at the Lord's Table only to be a once-a-year merely-symbolical (It is rather realistic-symbolism and symbolic-realism, and not "merely" anything.) this is not Gnostic enough! Some think communion only requires looking at the elements. That is as though salvation is only a mental and theolretical matter. But, a Calvin emphasized the Real Presence of Christ in Communion, but only bodily in heaven. Calvin allowed for the spatial ambiguity of us partaking "here" and Christ feeding us from "there." The Early Church had asolutley no trouble in also including temporal ambiguity in understanding that we participate in that ONCE-AND-ONLY-ONCE AND DEFINITELY-FOR-ALL Supper, and that Communion, and through it the whole Chruch, is an Exchatological event. (Perhaps the heavy Zwinglian influence can help explain why it is that so many Calvinists regard sin as something that they don't expect "necessarily" to get rid of. Perhaps that is, secretly, what it is in Wesleyan heritage that offends them.)
But the witness of the Spirit in the Church and in the Scritptures is this...
But our Lord calls us to be Holy. And unworthy
though we are -- and especially so needing healing
from the "foutain of imortality" -- we are called:
to repent, to believe, and to partake!
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 |  Tigress Registered Member
 Date Joined Feb 2003 Total Posts : 1252 | Posted 2/25/2003 5:08 AM (GMT -6) |   | Hi again, I can see that this topic veered off into a debate about whether or not homosexuality is a sin. But, my question was posed on the assumption that it is indeed a sin. So, I really only wanted answers from Christians about exactly how homosexuality hurts a person or people. If you're not a Christian, you probably don't believe that homosexuality is a sin and therefore are not able to give reasons why it hurts people, so please leave the answering up to the Christians on this one. Thanks.
Tigress
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 |  Semeia Registered Member
 Date Joined Aug 2001 Total Posts : 522 | Posted 2/25/2003 5:38 AM (GMT -6) |   | Tigress said:
So, I really only wanted answers from Christians about exactly how homosexuality hurts a person or people. If you're not a Christian, you probably don't believe that homosexuality is a sin and therefore are not able to give reasons why it hurts people, so please leave the answering up to the Christians on this one. Thanks.
Semeia:
Who are you accusing of not being a Christian?
And, as a Christian, in answer to your question: The main reason homosexuality hurts people is that it exposes them to the hatred and prejudice and accusation and judgment of Christians the world over.
Thanks, Semeia
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 |  Tigress Registered Member
 Date Joined Feb 2003 Total Posts : 1252 | Posted 2/25/2003 5:43 AM (GMT -6) |   | I'm not accusing anyone of not being a Christian. I'm just clarifying that I want answers explaining exactly why and how homosexuality hurts people. And non-Christians more than likely wouldn't have an answer to that because they more than likely don't believe it hurts people.
Tigress
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 |  PotOnWheel Registered Member

Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 9890 | Posted 2/25/2003 6:07 AM (GMT -6) |   | Short and sweet: Sin hurts because it is sin. ("Since by sin came death.")
Semeia's answer is "systemic" and not particular (though it points to particular resulting incidents). She appears to have justified particular sin by creating a "larger category" which then receives justification on the basis of its "virtue." That way she affirms the sinlessness of homosexual sins (particular acts) and maintains the virtue of her holding to that position.
quote: Semeia
And, as a Christian, in answer to your question: The main reason homosexuality hurts people is that it exposes them to the hatred and prejudice and accusation and judgment of Christians the world over.
Asking the question the way you have, Tigress ("exactly how homosexuality hurts a person or people"), Semeia's IS an answer.
In asking the question of specifically "how" the matter becomes 'nominalized' into having a structure of its own.
G. K. Chesterton might say this:
quote: You cannot admire will in general, because the essence of will is that it is particular.
Or this:
quote: The determinist does not believe in appealing to the will, but he does believe in changing the environment. He must not say to the sinner, “Go and sin no more,” because the sinner cannot help it. But he can put him [*****]; for [*****] is an environment.
Or this:
quote: When you choose anything, you reject everything else. ... Every act is an irrevocable selection exclusion.
Homosexual acts ARE NOT a category (larger or smaller). They are particular sins.
And as such the "how" of your question MUST be rather geared to each particular sin. Other questions are perhaps more appropriate. Jesus told us what sins of they eye are like with respect to their hurt. And our Master also spoke of the kind of hurt (All sin hurts!) resulting from speach. Characteristic kinds of "defilement" result. But sin is PARTICULAR and not as to category.
Each occasion of sin might be different as to degree of hurt, and as to sublty of effects. And sometimes when we sin we sin in a "package deal" (E.g., lust, lie, blaspheme, etc. Think of Peter's both denying Christ and lying.)
It is "the spirit of the age" that tries to make us categorize them.
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 |  Tigress Registered Member
 Date Joined Feb 2003 Total Posts : 1252 | Posted 2/25/2003 6:40 AM (GMT -6) |   | PotOnWheel, Huh? You're so intelligent the phrases you say are hard for me to understand. Are you saying that homosexuality itself is not a sin, but only in certain instances when it's being misused, or something? This still does not answer my question of HOW a person is harmed by the sin. Not every gay person gets an STD because of the homosexual act. And most gay people will tell you that they don't feel emotionally worse than if they didn't engage in homosexual acts. The friends and families of the gay or lesbian couple don't necessarily have to deal with any terrible consequences of the couple's acts either. So, specifically, how are they or anyone else truly harmed by homosexual behavior. Is it simply because sin separates us from God and therefore their souls are what are hurt? Because that argument often doesn't fly with people who claim to be Christian yet still engage in gay and lesbian sexual acts. They're saved by Jesus so their souls aren't in eternal peril anymore, so then how else, aside from their souls, does homosexual behavior harm them?
Tigress
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 |  Semeia Registered Member
 Date Joined Aug 2001 Total Posts : 522 | Posted 2/25/2003 7:01 AM (GMT -6) |   | PoW said:
Semeia's answer is "systemic" and not particular (though it points to particular resulting incidents). She appears to have justified particular sin by creating a "larger category" which then receives justification on the basis of its "virtue." That way she affirms the sinlessness of homosexual sins (particular acts) and maintains the virtue of her holding to that position.
Semeia:
I respectfully ask that you do not speak for me, PoW. Nowhere in my answer do I speak to either the "sinfulness" or the "sinlessness" of homosexuality, nor is that in any way implied. I answered Tigress's question honestly: she wanted to know how homosexuality hurts people. I know a lot of gay people, and THAT is what I see hurting them as a result of their homosexuality. AIDS and most other STD's are primarily heterosexual epidemics, and they come from promiscuity and unprotected sex, neither of which are exclusive to or inherent in homosexuality. And from my observation I do not see homosexuality itself hurting them, other than what I said.
Thanks, Semeia
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 |  PotOnWheel Registered Member

Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 9890 | Posted 2/25/2003 9:43 AM (GMT -6) |   | Answer to Tigress
Tigress: Are you saying that homosexuality itself is not a sin, but only in certain instances when it's being misused, or something?
PoW: I'm not trying to say that, but one might. When anyone says that, the say that the proneness isn't sin, just the doing of the sin. I hope that you agree with them, as I do.
But what I was saying is that we tend -- due to the abstractions of contemporary treatment of sin -- to treat homosexuality as a category, an in so doing the "particularity" of sin is missed. It is each individual homosexual act that is sin, not a concept in someone's head (an abstraction) that lumps them all together.
Tigress: Is it simply because sin separates us from God and therefore their souls are what are hurt? Because that argument often doesn't fly with people who claim to be Christian yet still engage in gay and lesbian sexual acts. They're saved by Jesus so their souls aren't in eternal peril anymore, so then how else, aside from their souls, does homosexual behavior harm them?
PoW: Look at the last part of what you wrote. Being "forgiven" is great. But that does not amount to salvation. You said, "their souls aren't in eternal peril anymore..." Are their souls an abstraction. Or do you believe in some sort of instantaneous sanctification--one in which one could continue to sin. Don't you think that one could continue to sin and just wander off from God? You wrote: "yet still engage in gay and lesbian sexual acts." Still engaging in sin, and not turning from it? Where is the safety in that?
Does it matter whether an arguement "flies" or not. Is THAT the test of truth?
To Semeia
You wrote: "...do not speak for me..."
I was not speaking for you, individually. But your position is not unique to you. I spoke to the whole approach of dealing with homosexuality "systemically." And the treatment was a fair one. And to the degree that you also speaki to that approach it was a fair treatment.
But you are welcome to distance yourself from it if you wish.
When you speak only to the outside influences on the physical and psychological welbeing of homosexuals, THERE you detach yourself from what I was saying.
But you also wrote: "Nowhere in my answer do I speak to either the 'sinfulness' or the 'sinlessness' of homosexuality, nor is that in any way implied." Since Jesus said "Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather, be afraid of the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell." (Matthew 10:28) those things are also important. I posted reflecting the importance of that stattement of Jesus'.
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 |  Tigress Registered Member
 Date Joined Feb 2003 Total Posts : 1252 | Posted 2/25/2003 11:04 AM (GMT -6) |   | Tigress: Are you saying that homosexuality itself is not a sin, but only in certain instances when it's being misused, or something?
PoW: I'm not trying to say that, but one might. When anyone says that, the say that the proneness isn't sin, just the doing of the sin. I hope that you agree with them, as I do.
Yes, I agree.
PoW: Look at the last part of what you wrote. Being "forgiven" is great. But that does not amount to salvation. You said, "their souls aren't in eternal peril anymore..." Are their souls an abstraction. Or do you believe in some sort of instantaneous sanctification--one in which one could continue to sin. Don't you think that one could continue to sin and just wander off from God? You wrote: "yet still engage in gay and lesbian sexual acts." Still engaging in sin, and not turning from it? Where is the safety in that?
This goes into the whole once saved, always saved vs. saved only until a person constantly sins argument, which I'd rather not get into. But, assuming that a practicing gay or lesbian has accepted Christ for salvation for all his/her sins, that person is saved. What should other hetersexual Christians say to them convince them that homosexual behavior is wrong?
Does it matter whether an arguement "flies" or not. Is THAT the test of truth?
I'm not talking about absolutes vs. relativism. I'm asking how to answer the typical gay/lesbian argument that gay and lesbian behavior doesn't hurt anyone, in order to persuade them to change their behavior.
Tigress
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 |  Tigress Registered Member
 Date Joined Feb 2003 Total Posts : 1252 | Posted 2/25/2003 11:52 AM (GMT -6) |   | 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.
Notice the operative word here is "were." This proves that God can heal people from being homosexual and lesbian. I just thought that would be encouraging to note since many people doubt that those who claim to have overcome homosexual sins were once truly gay or lesbian in the first place. Obviously it is possible for God to make gays and lesbians straight.
Tigress
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 |  PotOnWheel Registered Member

Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 9890 | Posted 2/25/2003 12:43 PM (GMT -6) |   | Tigress there is a HUGE contradition here: "... has accepted Christ for salvation for all his/her sins, that person is saved. What should other hetersexual Christians say to them convince them that homosexual behavior is wrong? "
What is contradictory is that the above statement first declares that "has accepted Christ for salvation for all his/her sins" and THEN goes on to declare, to the opposite, that one of those sins is ;off limits' for saving from. Remember the young man whom Christ told that he would only have to sell all his goods... He walked off. He would not be saved from all because he held on to one thing -- AND OBEYED THE REST.
Tigress: "What should other hetersexual Christians say to them convince them that homosexual behavior is wrong?"
PoW: The Bible. If that Word of God matters, then that should be enough. Remember the Centurian. Christ found no such faith in all of Israel.
Tigress: "I'm asking how to answer the typical gay/lesbian argument that gay and lesbian behavior doesn't hurt anyone, in order to persuade them to change their behavior."
THEY, then, have made there own LAW. Their own contract with God and Reality. The law of "doesn't hurt anyone." But sin is done EVEN WHEN IT DOES HURT, EVEN OURSELVES. ALL SIN IS VOLITIONAL.
If this is an area of passion that rules them, then it is the small bit of yeast that needs to be swept clean of the house before Passover. (Ever do an "Messianic Haggada?")
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 |  BBBCanada Registered Member

Date Joined Jun 2001 Total Posts : 2763 | Posted 2/25/2003 1:59 PM (GMT -6) |   | Just a quick response to Iconoclast on the pedestry issue and not to change the subject.
Even Boswell and some others do not narrowly define homosexuality in terms of pedestry. He says that, rather than being limited to a youth, a "boy" could mean a homosexual partner of any age. Thus, references to "pedestry" frequently had no relation to the age of the objects of desire.
Bailey has observed that the Council of Elvira, "subsequent legislation and Chruch opinion suggests that at this time no distinction was made between different kinds of homosexual offenders."
While homosexual acts were a negative in the patrisitic era? The patristic leaders also went on record opposing sexual relations between women partly under the assumption that on the basis that Romans 1:26-27, sexual relations between women as well as between men, violated nature.
Brandon "Truth is so obscured nowadays and lies so well established that unless we love the truth we shall never recognize it."--Todd Flanders/ Pascal: Talkin' 'bout My Generation | | Back to Top | | |
 |  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 2/25/2003 6:18 PM (GMT -6) |   | Tigress
1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.
Notice the operative word here is "were." This proves that God can heal people from being homosexual and lesbian.
Iconoclast
That would be a really good point if any of the words Paul used in his sin list meant homosexual or lesbian but none of them do.
The Greek words Paul used are malakoi and arsenokoites. Neither of these terms mean homosexual or lesbian. I posted a bunch of data regarding this issue on the following thread:
http://www.gregboyd.org/gbfront/forum/topic.asp?whichpage=7&ARCHIVEVIEW=&TOPIC_ID=1809
Here are some excerpts:
>>>>>>>>> The original Greek text describes the two behaviors as "malakoi" (some sources quote "malakee," and "arsenokoitai." Although this is often translated by modern Bibles as "homosexual," we can be fairly certain that this is not the meaning that Paul wanted to convey. If he had, he would have used the Greek word "paiderasste." That was the standard term at the time for male homosexuals. We can conclude that he probably meant something different from male-male adult sex. <<<<<<<<<
>>>>>>>>> The word "arsenokoitai" (sometimes translated "abusers of themselves with mankind") literally means male-bed. "Bed" is a euphemism for copulating. This word is extremely rare in Greek. Paul was apparently the first author to use this word. The word taken literally (male-copulator) is very ambiguous. Take, for example, the word "lady-killer." Does it mean "a lady who kills" or "someone who kills ladies"? In our language it means the latter, but even then it is not clear because we do not mean that someone literally kills ladies but that their charm "kills" them. So taking the word "arsenokoitai" or "male-copulator," does it mean "a male who copulates men"; does it mean "a man who copulates with women"; does it mean "a man who is copulated?" <<<<<<<<<
>>>>>>> The first appearance of the word arsenokoitai in any ancient Greek literature is found in I Corinthians 6:9. While it might have been a word common in Paul's time, it can't be found anywhere else in material dated prior to or current with Paul that has already been discovered. It only begins to make its appearance in literature following Paul. An important tool in discovering the meaning of a word is to trace how it's been used previously but because arsenokoitai is invisible prior to I Corinthians this means of defining the word is missing. The times arsenokoitai is used following Paul seem dependent on Paul's usage of the word. In the Latin Vulgate that follows Paul some 500 years later, Jerome translates it as a male concubine although nothing in the word specifies whether the concubine was involved with a same-sex or opposite-sex individual. What we do know is at the time Paul was writing there were terms common for persons involved in homoeroticism and Paul chose to not use those words but to instead use a word that remains mysterious to us. What this means is that Greek scholars and theologians (among which you and I don't count ourselves) come to arsenokoitai with no previous context for understanding it's meaning and so the best that anyone, whether pro-gay or anti-gay can reason is a guess. In the early work the "New Testament and Homosexuality" Robin Scroggs comes to an understanding of arsenokoitai by looking at the two separate words it combines; arseno (men) and koitai (bed). From this Scroggs concluded that the literal meaning of arsenokoitai was "male bed" which he understood as descriptive of the active male (penetrator) in same-sex intercourse. The problem with this method of interpretation can be seen with examples in English like "lady-killer", "manhole" or "butterfly." You don't arrive at the true meaning of the word "butterfly" by defining the words "butter" and "fly" anymore than it's possible to define the accurate meaning of arsenokoitai by combining "male" and "bed." <<<<<<<
I really like this one regarding the word malakoi:
>>>>>>>> Still others thought that it meant "masturbators." At the time of Martin Luther, the latter meaning was universally used. But by the 20th century, masturbation had become a more generally accepted behavior. So, new translations abandoned references to masturbators and switched the attack to homosexuals. The last religious writing in English that interpreted 1 Corinthians 6:9 as referring to masturbation is believed to be the [Roman] Catholic Encyclopedia of 1967. <<<<<<<<
thanks, Iconoclast
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 |  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 2/25/2003 6:41 PM (GMT -6) |   | BBBCanada
The patristic leaders also went on record opposing sexual relations between women partly under the assumption that on the basis that Romans 1:26-27, sexual relations between women as well as between men, violated nature.
Iconoclast
I have never denied that homosexuality is not God's original design and "violates nature" in that sense. My point has always been that divorce and remarriage ALSO violates God's original design and that Jesus EXPLICITLY called remarriage after a divorce the sin of adultery. And YET I don't hear any Christians calling for divorced and remarried people to break apart and either go back to their original spouse or remain celibate the rest of their lives. This seems like hypocrisy similar to what the Pharisees were engaged in and Jesus was quite clear on what He thought of that. In fact, as I read the Gospels I notice that Jesus was really quite nice to the "sexual sinners" of his day (prostitutes, woman at the well who had five husbands and was living with someone she wasn't married to) but had very harsh words for the religious folks who went around accusing and condemning other people for their sin.
thanks, Iconoclast
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 |  PotOnWheel Registered Member

Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 9890 | Posted 2/26/2003 2:22 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote: Iconoclast
I have never denied that homosexuality is not God's original design and "violates nature" in that sense. My point has always been that divorce and remarriage ALSO violates God's original design and that Jesus EXPLICITLY called remarriage after a divorce the sin of adultery.
Very true. Very true.
quote: Iconoclast
And YET I don't hear any Christians calling for divorced and remarried people to break apart and either go back to their original spouse or remain celibate the rest of their lives.
But you DO hear of limitations, ecclessially, of what remarried people can do as to office: restricted from being a Presbyter (Paul).
Divorced and remarriage is a sin. It is MERCY that allows sometimes remarriage. (And that ought to be done in consultation with a the spiritual advise of a Priest.)
You will ask whether such "mercy" ought to be extended to all "gay" persons. No.
quote: Iconoclast
Jesus was really quite nice to the "sexual sinners" of his day (prostitutes, woman at the well who had five husbands and was living with someone she wasn't married to)
Yes. And we must also be nice, comforting, embracing, accepting, etc.
Yet, we also notice that Jesus then told the woman caught in adultry: "Go and sin no more."
The "no more" part is really hard on Evangelical and Reformed ears. We know that sin hangs on, and that we are strapped to this "old man." But we want to make an excuse, and think that means that progress in changing needn't take place. And we easily get offended by those who say that it is normative for the Spirit to bear fruit (I'm not talking about us mimicking "spirituality." I'm talking about it being born in us by the Spirit.)
Thinking about Tigress on the other thread...
To the extent that (while around her homosexual friends) she is not influenced to "bend" in whatever areas of her own life, and her own sins. . . she should, as I said above, be: be nice, comforting, embracing, accepting, etc. Befriend and be befriended. But if they have any equivocations or excuses about tearing a deaf ear or a blind eye to matters that affect Tigress spiritually (as with ANY group of friends) -- if there is an courseness, or lusts of other sorts (an example would be immoderate drinking) in THOSE ways Tigress should, as with any friends, guard and define her fellowship with them.
Tigress, here is a useful quote:
quote: Another monk in modern times advises: “Do not let those who shout about bringing sinners to God detract you from first saving yourself. If you lose yourself trying to save others, you have taken away an example that might ultimately save hundreds. This is what the Fathers teach us. We must follow this wisdom, rather than the foolish wisdom of those who would define for us a goal and a mission which God did not give us.”
www.goarch.org/en/ourfaith/articles/article8139.asp
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 |  Tigress Registered Member
 Date Joined Feb 2003 Total Posts : 1252 | Posted 2/26/2003 10:56 AM (GMT -6) |   | POW, I totally agree with this statement that you quoted:
["Another monk in modern times advises: “Do not let those who shout about bringing sinners to God detract you from first saving yourself. If you lose yourself trying to save others, you have taken away an example that might ultimately save hundreds. This is what the Fathers teach us. We must follow this wisdom, rather than the foolish wisdom of those who would define for us a goal and a mission which God did not give us."]
I just asked the question in case I'm ever in a conversation with a gay or lesbian person and need to defend my position.
Tigress
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 |  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 2/26/2003 4:11 PM (GMT -6) |   | POW
Divorced and remarriage is a sin. It is MERCY that allows sometimes remarriage.
Iconoclast
Yes. It IS mercy that allows remarriage even though it "violates nature". Mercy that is not extended to homosexuals.
Mat 12:7 And if you had known what this means, 'I desire mercy, and not sacrifice,' you would not have condemned the guiltless.
thanks, Iconoclast
"The benefit overran the merit the first day, and has overrun the merit ever since. The merit itself, so-called, I reckon part of the receiving." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
Edited by - Iconoclast on 02/26/2003 9:21:17 PM | | Back to Top | | |
 |  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 2/26/2003 4:19 PM (GMT -6) |   | POW
Yet, we also notice that Jesus then told the woman caught in adultry: "Go and sin no more."
Iconoclast
Yet, we also notice that Jesus totally affirmed the woman at the well who had 5 husbands and was not married to the man she was living with. He did NOT tell her to go and sin no more - shoot - he didn't even mention that what she was doing was wrong. He revealed Himself to her in a very open and affirming way and she seemed to recognize Him as though she had known and loved Him all along.
thanks, Icnonoclast
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