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 |  quest for truth Registered Member
 Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 479 | Posted 1/16/2004 4:56 AM (GMT -6) |   | Tigressquote: Yes we have a race problem in America and we always will until Christ returns
Fyodor quote: Throughout the growing of our relationships, one of the best things to tear down the walls between us has been the "why does it seem like black people do this...." "why are white people always saying this...." types of conversations. Laying it all out on the table and saying the most uncomfortable prejudices you have to someone from that ethnic group can be very healing, especially if there is some base of a confortable relationship first.
S.B.G.quote: Part of it has to do with a laguage barrier, another part of it has to do with an understanding of a culture which is so very different than America. From what I've seen among the Liberian culture, so many have suffered and witnessed the violent deaths of their loved ones, that they have a certain comraderie that I could never enter into.
In some ways it has more to do with differing cultures than skin color.
John Earp quote: Obviously, ethnicities and subcultures do in fact exist in Western Civilization, but strictly speaking it is quite remarkable how much genetic homogeneity exists among humanity.
Fyodorquote: Personally I prefer the term ethnicity over race because traditionally ethnicity encompasses race, culture, religion, etc
Seems to me the two main obstacles we face are judgmentalism and cultural barriers. We notice differences and judge people on (how they look, the color of their skin, the way they dress, their employment and educational levels, sexual orientation...) and then categorize/generalize people into groups according to the differences.
We also have a tendency to categorize/generalize people into distinct groups when we are limited in our ability to communicate due to language barriers or cultural unawareness -- this has become a huge problem with all the immigration in the United States. A way for people to simplify their understanding of the world is by saying, "All _____ people act this way" "All _______ people enjoy this activity"
The more we get to know and confront our prejudices the less we will need to abhor to this mindset of categorizing/generalizing. The more we know and understand, the more we can embrace the differences and acknowledge that God made ALL people unique. No person fits into "a" category hence when we acknowledge this we can allow people their own uniqueness without judging and generalizing according to race, sex, values, beliefs. When we choose to become aware we open ourselves up to love people not on their differences but for their unique value the way Jesus commanded us to love.
Galatians 3:28 "For there is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus."
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  |  S.B.G. Registered Member
 Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 143 | Posted 1/23/2004 3:25 AM (GMT -6) |   | To me, the topic of race boils down to respect. People are people are people. They are formed in part by their culture, family of origin, life experiences and inborn disposition. Generalizing just doesn't work.
We need to listen to one another, and discover what is important to that particular person, and what we can do to show Christ-like love to that person in the way that best speaks love to him/her. I find similar challenges and rewards in relationships with my Catholic friends, my homosexual friends, my African friends, my Latino friends, etc. and in each of these categories there are differences and individuality, so we're back to being just people again with various needs and goals within the context of our world views. The walls are torn down in that we can all be ourselves and speak freely with mutual respect, without having to change each other before we can love each other.
To me, racial reconciliation is not pretending differences don't exist, but loving and accepting people with all the differences they bring. I share just as many differences with my "white" friends as I do with my "black" friends.
sbg
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 |  might-be-don Registered Member
 Date Joined Jun 2001 Total Posts : 830 | Posted 1/26/2004 1:50 AM (GMT -6) |   | | | |
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