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Triskal
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   Posted 11/26/2001 8:44 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I was stumbling around the internet a few days ago, reading through some Christian message boards, when I came across a link to a site called God Hates Fags. Curious as to how anyone could make such an ignorant statement, I went to the site. What I found there was absoloutely appauling. Has anyone ever visited the site? The website address is www.godhatesfags.com

In their FAQ section, the question is asked "why do you preach hate?" Their response:

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Because the Bible preaches hate. For every one verse about God's mercy, love, compassion, etc., there are two verses about His vengeance, hatred, wrath, etc. The maudlin, kissy-pooh, feel-good, touchy-feely preachers of today's society are damning this nation and this world to hell. They are telling you what you want to hear rather than what you need to hear, just like what happened in the days of Isaiah and Jeremiah: "That this [is] a rebellious people, lying children, children [that] will not hear the law of the LORD: Which say to the seers, See not; and to the prophets, Prophesy not unto us right things, speak unto us smooth things, prophesy deceits: Get you out of the way, turn aside out of the path, cause the Holy One of Israel to cease from before us." Isaiah 30:9-11; "Then the LORD said unto me, The prophets prophesy lies in my name: I sent them not, neither have I commanded them, neither spake unto them: they prophesy unto you a false vision and divination, and a thing of nought, and the deceit of their heart." Jeremiah 14:14; "They have healed also the hurt [of the daughter] of my people slightly, saying, Peace, peace; when [there is] no peace. Were they ashamed when they had committed abomination? nay, they were not at all ashamed, neither could they blush: therefore they shall fall among them that fall: at the time [that] I visit them they shall be cast down, saith the LORD." Jeremiah 6:14-15. And also in the New Testament we are warned: "For there are many unruly and vain talkers and deceivers, specially they of the circumcision: Whose mouths must be stopped, who subvert whole houses, teaching things which they ought not, for filthy lucre's sake. One of themselves, [even] a prophet of their own, said, The Cretians [are] alway liars, evil beasts, slow bellies. This witness is true. Wherefore rebuke them sharply, that they may be sound in the faith." I Timothy 1:11-13; "But there were false prophets also among the people, even as there shall be false teachers among you, who privily shall bring in damnable heresies, even denying the Lord that bought them, and bring upon themselves swift destruction. And many shall follow their pernicious ways; by reason of whom the way of truth shall be evil spoken of." II Peter 2:1,2. What you need to hear is that God hates people, and that your chances of going to heaven are nonexistent, unless you repent. What you need to hear is a little fire and brimstone preaching, like Jesus preached. What you don't need to hear is that you're okay just the way you are, and God accepts everyone without exception. Don't listen to the money-grubbing heretic who stands at the front of your church. Listen to God. If you are one of His elect, you'll hear


What does everyone think of this? Horrifying, isn't it? But they don't stop there. The next question asked is "Doesn't God forgive everyone?" Here is their response:

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No. God will have mercy on whom He will have mercy, and whom He will He hardeneth (Romans 9:18). God is sovereign, and does whatsoever he will in the army of heaven and amongst the inhabitants of the Earth, and none can stay his hand. You must come to term with two facts, which are extremely difficult for the flesh to grasp: First, God does not exist to serve you, you exist to serve him. Second, you are without the ability, of your own will, to do anything pleasing to God. You have no work to offer which is worthy in his sight. The best works of humans are as filthy rags in God's eyes. Your flesh is at war with his spirit. These are all phrases taken from passages in the scriptures. And you will not serve God, unless and until he draws you to him. And if he draws you, you will not be able to resist. You will recognize that every human, at the moment of birth, utterly deserves to go straight to hell. Even so, in his justness, God had mercy on some, and named some his children, whom he will lead to glory. Your best hope is that you are among those he has chosen. Your prayer every day should be that you might be. And if you are not, nothing you say or do will serve as a substitute. And if you are, you will praise and worship him, in humble gratitude, day and night. Ask yourself this question: Does God forgive the people in hell.


It's hard to believe this type of deception has found it's way into the church. Anyone care to comment on their responses?


In His Grip,
Matt

"In Him we live and move and have our being" - Acts 17:28

Edited by - Triskal on 12/23/2001 01:29:01 AM

Edited by - Triskal on 12/23/2001 01:30:54 AM
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chance
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   Posted 11/26/2001 10:45 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I agree with them that God both loves and hates yet His love and mercy towards us is much greater than His hate towards us (Jam 2:13). God is longsuffering.

I do not agree with their methods of ministering to homos. There are better ways to minister to this specific group (as some of my friends have demonstrated). They need to let them know that there is hope and life in Christ when you trust Him. That God can take there sin and their misery away and give them a new life that produces life instead of the destruction that they produce from the gay deathstyle.

Also, the leader of this ministry and his family are not Godly people. I won't go into details, but I know this from the contact some of my friends have had with the leader of this ministry and his family. They once interviewed him and his daughters and their unanimous impression was that he and his daughters were not Godly people.

chance

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   Posted 11/27/2001 1:20 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
When I read what they had to say I thought to myself "Sure, that's what Satan would preach for a church sermon."

GOD IS LOVE. PERIOD. AMEN!
trosie

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Semeia
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   Posted 11/27/2001 3:06 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Matt, could you please not post a thread with such an offensive title. I appreciate the fact that you disagree with the quote, but I have asked adiaphora to remove the thread because of the offensive word in the title. There is a long discussion on the subject of homosexuality called "Women, Homosexuality, and Slavery" (which is also a borderline title, but does not include any pejorative words) on this same forum. You might want to read that discussion, and see if there is a way to fit this in there.

Chance, are you aware that "homos" is a pejorative term? Could you please not use that kind of language on this discussion board?

Thank you,
Semeia

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   Posted 11/27/2001 3:11 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Adiaphora, not just yet, ok?

Semeia, I appreciate your sensibilities, but I think you're wrong here...just maybe. Be back later to explain.

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   Posted 11/27/2001 3:36 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
This "method of evangelism" (if you can call it that) is completely unbiblical. Sinners don't come to know Christ by first fixing their faults.. No, the burdens of sin are taken away by Christ after salvation!

"Make a tree good and its fruit will be good, or make a tree bad and its fruit will be bad, for a tree is recognized by its fruit." Matthew 12:33

Fix the root of the problem, not the fruits.

--Jewgrass

PS: Don't delete this thread. Edit the title and/or some of the content if necessary, but this is an issue needed to be discussed.

"My religious belief teaches me to feel as safe in battle as in bed." -- General Stonewall Jackson

Edited by - jewgrass on 11/27/2001 08:41:39 AM
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adiaphora
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   Posted 11/27/2001 3:37 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Meph, the motion to delete this thread has been seconded (again people, please contact me via email concerning offending threads). What have you got up your sleave? ~ a



Edited by - adiaphora on 11/27/2001 08:37:58 AM
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Semeia
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   Posted 11/27/2001 3:56 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
adiaphora, I trust Mephi and I agree with Jewgrass. However:

Mephi, does the title of the thread need to stay the same? I fear what it would say to someone coming across this board for the first time.

Thanks,
Semeia

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Mephi2K
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   Posted 11/27/2001 5:41 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Semeia said:

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I trust Mephi and I agree with Jewgrass.


Cool stuff. That means a lot. My thought was sort of along the lines of Jewgrass. I didn't want to see this ENTIRE thread go up in smoke for the cause of a word. This is something that needs to be discussed...for real. I've discussed GodHatesFags with atheists. It is a subject.


She also asked:

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Mephi, does the title of the thread need to stay the same? I fear what it would say to someone coming across this board for the first time.


As it stands, I personally don't see anything wrong with it. It was clear to me that the post title implied a QUESTIONER'S perspective about the ideology implied in the name. Moreover, if one is aware that this is the FORMAL NAME of a group, then the offense may be even more lessened. (See the question mark at the end. Perhaps it would have been more obvious if Triskal had done something like "God Hates Fags"?: Is This for Real?) But if someone were to be offended by the mere label, then it ultimately really wouldn't matter if it were just in the subject line or in the message too. Think about it. The group's name could have been "God Hates Crackers" or anything like that. What would we do? Refuse to use the formal name of the group JUST BECAUSE it had a racial slur in it? Are we to censor the writings of certain groups that we want to analyze to the point of obscurity just so that our sensibilities may remain intact? That seems overly prudish to me. Going further. Does it even make sense to do something like that when we would ALL know what was being said anyway? To me, it's like when anyone here on this board uses characters to blank out certain words (f&$@ing, a$$, etc) Are we fooling anyone? Heck, no. We all KNOW what's being said. We only do this as a matter of convention (an arguably silly one, at that) We are grown ups and we can deal with that, I think. It'd have been a TOTALLY different thing if Triskal had continued to use derogatory terms in an manner demonstrating that his specific INTENT is to exploit the pejorative nature of the word. Now we'd have a problem.


Chance, homie. YOU seem to be guilty of this with that "homo" stuff. You know that, right? Hmmm...


Need to give another example of my thinking. In a post that I made a while ago, I used the words "nigger", "cracker", and "spic", all of which racial slurs. To my knowledge, no one made any fuss about it to me or Adiaphora. And I think that I know at least some of the reason why. Because of my CONTEXT. It was clear that I was not belittling anyone. I was citing what I had seen and heard. I think Triskal's post deserves the same type of leniency that I had.

Here's my reasoning. I vote the thread AND it's title stay.

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Triskal
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   Posted 11/27/2001 6:06 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Semeia,

It was not my intention to be offensive. That is actually the name of the group. Had it not been the name of the group, I would not have posted it that way. Notice the question mark at the end of the topic title? The topic is directed towards questioning this so-called Christian group.

Thanks Mephi for making that more clear to everyone. You hit the nail on the head.


In His Grip,
Matt

P.S. Keep posting everyone. This NEEDS to be addressed.

"In Him we live and move and have our being" - Acts 17:28
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Semeia
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   Posted 11/27/2001 6:13 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Mephi: I agree with you about the context inside the thread. I agree that Matt's attitude toward it becomes clear. I agree that Chance's use is different.

But my problem with the title is that the context is not clear, and the impact is going to be felt long before one gets to the intent. If you are a gay person new to the board, I don't know how you don't feel it like a baseball bat to the head.

I don't think the thread title gives enough room to put it in context, either. What if you were driving down the road and see a billboard that says, "GodHatesNiggers"? with a web address attached. Even if there were additional info suggesting the billboard was against said group, wouldn't the word itself, used as a title, burn into your brain in a negative way? Wouldn't you hate that people were driving past this and some would get the context but many would read the opposite, and would never go any further to check it out?

I totally agree with your reaction concerning the use of euphemisms for swear words on this site. I think it's kind of silly. But I think this is different. Certain words are used to bash people, to humiliate people, to crush people. I agree that we sometimes need to use those words when we are discussing the issues, but to use one in the title of the thread has far too negative an impact. TRUST ME I am against censorship! Print all the Playboys you want! I'm for it! But thank you for the brown paper wrapping, so that when I am in line buying a pack of gum I don't have to adjust my context.

Is that censorship? Or loving concern?

I'm sold on the idea that the content of the thread should stand. But ixnay on the itletay!

Thanks,
Semeia

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   Posted 11/27/2001 6:31 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Semeia said:

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I don't think the thread title gives enough room to put it in context, either. What if you were driving down the road and see a billboard that says, "GodHatesNiggers"? with a web address attached. Even if there were additional info suggesting the billboard was against said group, wouldn't the word itself, used as a title, burn into your brain in a negative way? Wouldn't you hate that people were driving past this and some would get the context but many would read the opposite, and would never go any further to check it out?


I don't want to go to far afield from Triskal's important topic...but...check it out...

GodHatesNiggers.

GodHatesNiggers!

GodHatesNiggers?

"GodHatesNiggers"?

Maybe it's just me...but the question mark makes a HUGE difference. Punctuation nuances can be very powerful...perhaps more powerful than you are acknowledging. From more ambiguity of purpose to less. Sure the phrase would give me a clear indication of SOME type of negativity involved. But that wouldn't mean that I'd be so ticked or offended that I wouldn't check out the site. Honestly, if some people are sufficiently sensitive to the point where merely the phrase itself is SO PAINFUL to an individual that they cannot continue to pursue the topic, would said people even really be able to read the subject matter ABOUT the topic? I really don't think so.

But I see where you are coming from. Better safe than sorry, right?

Mad love, queenie!



PS: I hate that I even have to do this...but I certainly HOPE that no one is getting offended by my use of the "N" word. Oy friggin vay...

PSS: No more digression from me, Triskal. Promise!
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Semeia
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   Posted 11/27/2001 6:42 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I'm late, I'm late, I'm late for an important date!

But I'll come back and wrestle with y'all on both these topics.

Thanks,
Semeia

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Triskal
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   Posted 11/27/2001 6:53 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
After further reviewing the site, I managed to come upon some even more horrifying responses. The hatred this group displays towards homosexuals is utterly evil in nature. They are like the KKK of homosexual prejudice. From reading some of their responses, you would get the impression that they don't even view homosexuals as people, but rather as objects of hate and wrath.

Here is one response which I find the most utterly false. When asked the question of whether or not they pray for the salvation of those they feel are unbelievers, here is what they say:


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Of course not! For, if we follow (as we ought) the example of our Saviour and the clear commandment of God, we would not dare to do so.

To clarify, consider what the Saviour said in John 17. After stating at length how God pre-selected a few out of the world to give to Jesus, it comes to verse 9 which states unequivocally "I pray for them: I pray not for the world, but for them which thou has given me; for they are thine." To the extent that we are ever instructed to pray for any other than those who make a profession to this faith, it is in recognition that they may be God's elect who have not yet received the call to grace. Hence, we are instructed to "pray for them who despitefully use you, and persecute you. (Matthew 5:44). We know that, as with Saul of Tarsus, we could find among the enemy one who has grace.

More telling on the subject, however, is the events immediately prior to the destruction by God of the nation of Israel told of in Jeremiah. Throughout the detailed accounts of the abominations of that nation, God repeatedly tells his prophet "pray not thou for this people" (Jeremiah 7:16; 11:14; 14:11). Then, as if to put the instruction into the hyperbolic range, God pronounces the futility of such prayer by saying "Though Moses and Samuel stood before me, yet my mind could not be toward this people." (Jeremiah 15:1). You simply cannot read the accounts given throughout the scriptures without recognizing that those who are clearly condemned of God are beyond any hope of intervention by prayer.

To bring the point into focus, consider the pronouncements of God that He has thrice given sodomites "up to uncleanness" (Romans 1:24), "up unto vile affections" (Romans 1:26), and "over to a reprobate mind" (Romans 1:28). What arrogance would we display to pretend we could pray them back into the good grace of Him who has given them up?




Now they instruct us not to pray for them. Could this group have any more of a mixed up, messed up, inconsistent message? First they go about totally bashing any worth homosexuals have as human beings, then they tell us that the answer is NOT to pray for them. What is their solution then? Picketing. They go all over the country picketing with signs that say horrible messages which I dare not post here. They label it as "preaching the gospel". Not only do the make the claim that "God hates fags", but they also go around with signs that say "God hates America". This is even more shocking, especially after the events of September 11th. How anyone could go around preaching this stuff in the name of God is beyond me.

Their site counter has tracked that close to 3 million people have visited their site. That's 3 million people who have been subject to the viewing of their hate messages and false representation of the Bible. My prayers are with those people.


In His Grip,
Matt

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Triskal
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   Posted 11/27/2001 7:11 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
In response to Semeia,

I'm not displaying a billboard here. This is an open topic of conversation, and we are discussing the group that labels itself "God Hates Fags". The title was meant to portray an accurate definition of what was being talked about within the thread. Are we not questioning the purposes and actions of this group? Have their been any homosexuals who have merely glanced through this message board and saw the topic, without noticing the quesiton mark, and were so offended that they didn't bother to read what was written within the thread? That sounds pretty far-fetched. Would you rather I posted something more inviting for homosexuals? Maybe then it would offend some conservative Christians who only bothered to glance at the title and thought it was promoting homosexuality. There are two ways to fall off the horse, I'm trying to stay neutral. Not offending homosexuals, yet not making it seem like I'm promoting homosexuality. I'm sorry if I offended you, it was clearly not my intention.


Here is something you might find interesting. It's an explanation from their website of why they use the word "fag".

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We use the word "fag" as a contraction of the word "faggot" or "fagot." A "fag" is a firebrand. A "fag" is used for kindling - it fuels fire. "Fag" is a metaphor used in the Bible, for example, in Amos 4:11 (where it is translated "firebrand" in the KJV). Just as a "fag" fuels the fires of nature, so does a sodomite fuel the fires of God's wrath. We do not use the word "fag" in order to engage in childish name-calling. Rather, we use it because it is a metaphor chosen by the Holy Ghost to describe a group of people who BURN in their lust one toward another, and who FUEL God's wrath.



In His Grip,
Matt


P.S. Mephi, your digression was sorely needed. Thank you for your help in defending what I believed to be an accurate portrayel of the discussion topic. Digress all you want if you feel the need.

"In Him we live and move and have our being" - Acts 17:28

Edited by - Triskal on 11/27/2001 12:15:32 PM
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   Posted 11/27/2001 12:18 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Matt, I apologize for giving the impression that you meant any harm. I said it wrong. I am totally clear that your intent is good, in fact admirable. My only concern is that the title of the thread could cause real pain to someone who is gay. If this possibility is avoidable, and there is no COMPELLING reason to word the title as it is, why can't we be cognizant of potential harm and seek to avoid it? Couldn't you convey the same thing by saying, "Hate Group Attacks Gays" or "Site Promotes Hatred of Gays"?

So, two questions:

1)Do you hear me and believe me that I know your intent is 100% good? Because if you don't hear me I will say it differently until I can say it right. It is very important to me that you know that I understand your good intent. I appreciate and admire your willingness to go after such a hate-filled site.

2)Is there a compelling reason to use such a charged, rather hateful word in the title, which any new person browsing the board may stumble across and misunderstand and be hurt?

Thanks,
Semeia

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   Posted 11/27/2001 12:40 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Mephi:How is the use of the phrase "GodHatesFags" with or without a question mark in a headline any different from the offense and irritation caused by a white person being in black face? Remember when Ted Dansen did that bit on the academy awards, when he was dating Whoopie? His INTENT was to be SUPPORTIVE of blacks, but it backfired terribly, because it was in bad taste and offensive to a lot of people, black and white. This discussion board is a forum that attracts a huge variety of people. Based on many of my posts you've got to admit that I'm into free speech! I've probably offended just about everyone on here at one time or another. I don't think this is about being oversensitive. The titles of the threads are OUT OF CONTEXT. Would it really be so hard to agree not to use the words fag or nigger or such in the TITLES OF OUR THREADS? It actually upset me a little just to write that sentence!

Once you are making an argument, inside a post, go ahead and use the language necessary to make your point. Yeah for free speech!

What's the big deal?

You think I'm P.C.? You think I'm wimping?

I think it has to do with relationship. The title is the public front room. The actual post is being invited in for coffee. Different rules apply.

Thanks,
Semeia

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   Posted 11/27/2001 1:11 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Semeia, I don't deny the fact that the title is, in a way, shocking. It's meant to be shocking. This group and their website is shocking. If we're going to talk about a group who has a message that is shocking in it's very nature, it's only logical to assume that the discussion will shock others. No matter, it's understandable to those who are willing to check into the reasons behind it, rather than just glancing at the title.


In His Grip,
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   Posted 11/27/2001 1:52 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Matt, Did you see my post at the end of the page one? Could you answer those questions for me? I'm not trying to be difficult-- I'm trying to understand.

Thanks,
Semeia

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   Posted 11/27/2001 2:53 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Semeia,

I think we are just going to disagree on this. Personally, I DO see this as somewhat "PC" inclined. Consideration, empathy, and restraint should definitely be considerations in intelligent discussion. But not to the point of cutting any and all potential controversial "bite" from a discussion. And that's what your thinking seems to me to do.

You said:

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Would it really be so hard to agree not to use the words fag or nigger or such in the TITLES OF OUR THREADS? It actually upset me a little just to write that sentence!


Ask yourself a question, Semeia. Would it matter if Triskal were to have NOT placed his title...but used the "God Hates Fags" term and "fag" term extensively in his post? Would you STILL not have had problems?

I think you WOULD have. I think that it would have mattered to you very much...which is the point I tried to make in my earlier post. If people are so sensitive to the point that they wouldn't even be able to get PAST the title, then why would anyone think that they would have the gumption to even really deal with the meaty issues inside?


I will answer your 2nd question to Triskal:

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2) Is there a compelling reason to use such a charged, rather hateful word in the title, which any new person browsing the board may stumble across and misunderstand and be hurt?


Yes. A good title often gives a hint of what will be dealt with in a post...including the controversial nature of the same. I believe that Triskal stated this in so many words. NOT to mention that it's the name of the organization.

But, hey. I can disagree agreeably.



PS: Triskal, I say we just change the friggin title name and be done with it. As long as the subject matter and thread itself is kept. For the sake of getting to the meat of the GodHatesFags issue. Be appeased, sensitive ones! (teehee) And let's get raw as all get out in the actual posts. Whaddaya say?
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   Posted 11/27/2001 4:02 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Mephi said: Ask yourself a question, Semeia. Would it matter if Triskal were to have NOT placed his title...but used the "God Hates Fags" term and "fag" term extensively in his post? Would you STILL not have had problems?

Semeia: IF Triskal used the term GodHatesFags in his post to refer to the organization and their views, I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH THAT!! That is my honest belief about how I would react. But we will never know for sure, because I reacted based on the title.

However, if the word fag was used to refer to homosexuals in the post, apart from quoting the organization, I would have a big problem with that. Wouldn't you?

Thanks,
Semeia

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   Posted 11/28/2001 5:45 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Sounds good, Meph. Thanks for helping me out here, man.

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Mephi said:
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She also said:

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Homosexuals have been attacked, shamed, and condemned by Christians for eons. It seems to me that to repair the damage we may need a little extra sensitivity, rather than a little less.


That doesn't lend itself at ALL to being "pc", now does it? All I'm saying is that we have to be careful with this type of thinking.


Iconoclast:

Mephi – I agree that Semeia is using “PC” type language here to make her argument. I agree that we have to be careful with this type of thinking. We must be able to safely discuss any issue. I do not believe the fundamentals of her argument are PC at all. Here is how I understand her position:

  • 1. Cognitive Science has conclusively proven that at least 95% of thought is unconscious.
  • 2. Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) research has shown conclusively that all learning is “paired” learning which when fully integrated becomes mostly unconscious. “Paired” learning mean that two experiences are linked. One being an “anchor” for the other. This can be understood by an example: we have all had the experience of smelling something that brings back past positive feelings. This happens against our volition. The “anchor” fires and voila – we actually re-experience the paired past experience. When we are re-experiencing it – it is completely real. This is also the mechanism for phobias of all sorts. A general fear of heights comes from a past negative (now unconscious) experience that we generalized into a rule. Interestingly enough experienced NLP practitioners can usually heal these types of phobias in minutes by a process of “re-anchoring”. The key point here is that when the anchor fires it is completely real, unconscious and very powerful.
  • 3. Gay people have had a very powerful negative anchor installed into them by Pharisaical Christians: God hates them.
  • 4. “God Hates Fags?” as a standalone title (no leading context) on a Christian web site “fires” that anchor in a very powerful way.
  • 5. The anchor fires – unconscious intensely negative experiences are realized most powerfully in a Gay person, a little less powerful in someone who is empathetic with a Gay person (someone who has shared their negative anchor experiences).
  • 6. The question mark at the end is interpreted by this person when totally associated into the negative experience and they thus answer the question affirmatively (unconsciously) and then go into “masked” behavior – an “externalizer” personality type will reject the message and lash out at others and an “internalizer” personality type will beat themselves up some more for being so horribly unlovable by God.


Semeia’s position is that the above is a factual argument that can be easily proven. She then goes on to an argument based on Christian values:

  • 1. We should not consciously allow that Impact to happen to another person if we can avoid it.
  • 2. The Intent of the statement has absolutely no relevance to the Impact.
  • 3. A mis-match between Intent and Impact is “harmartia” – it is a mistake that once understood should be corrected – no big deal.
  • 4. Biblical evidence for not allowing this negative Impact is articulated by Paul when he says we should choose not to eat meat sacrificed at a pagan temple if it offends our brother. Nothing wrong with eating it – no problem with Intent – but if the Impact is a stumbling block to our brother and we know it then it is “hamartia” and should be corrected – no big deal.


As Christians we are all priests – we are all leaders – we are all called to leadership. My favorite leadership quote is:

The most powerful leaders we witness are those who succinctly identify critical issues and make it safe to discuss them. They do this publicly and privately, with groups and individuals. These leaders are particularly tenacious with data, yet compassionate with people. They do not let their concern for people cover the facts, nor do they let the facts erase another person’s dignity.

In this context her argument is quite simply:

  • 1. The title is not making this issue safe to discuss for Gay people or others with a similar anchor.
  • 2. The title via the mechanism of the unconscious anchor erases that person’s dignity.
  • 3. The title can be easily adjusted to prevent this and a productive safe discussion based on facts can then ensue.


Further arguments she is making are:

  • 1. The board by allowing the pejorative term to stand in isolation (no clear context) implicitly affirms that the term is OK to use.
  • 2. A house that is vandalized (broken window) and not immediately repaired has been shown to be vandalized at a much higher rate - because clearly nobody really cares about that house.
  • 3. If we don’t take a strong stand on this now the above effect will take place.


I think this argument is sound and compelling.

Thanks,
Iconoclast

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