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PotOnWheel
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   Posted 2/25/2003 5:38 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Don, go to Church!

But since it is Tuesday, you have a while to think and plan...

Here's a word for you: "clericalization." We ALL suffer from it. And you BEGIN to put your finger on the problem here:

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I don't need a priest ( most "pastors" act as priests ) to interpret God's will for my life or filter the Word for me. A pastors whole job should be bringing new converts up speed, not making converts eternally dependent on them.

We have setup a hierarchical structure that places a whole list of men between me and God, and by this we deny the priesthood of believers and the power of the Spirit to teach and regulate behavior.



But let me begin by "differing" with you a bit first; before I show you were we agree.....and what to begin doing about it. OK?


You said, "...men between me and God." That is not entirely false. IF we can read the verse where Christ said, "you will ask me "Lord when did we see you...feed you...visit you in prison", THEN we have to agree that God "setup a hierarchical structure that places a whole list of men between me and God." He clearly does.

But you are absolutly correct to mention as a "preisthood" the "Royal Priesthood" of the believer. In history the "laity" was clearly a priestly class, in how it was thought about and in how it functioned.

But if you can STAND the aesthetic of one person declaring "The Lord be with you." and then responding afterwards "And also with you." then you do not have as big a problem with "Church" as might be possible.

Back to that "OTHER" C-word: "clericalization." The Orthodoxy, the Roman Catholics, the Reformed are all digging out from underneath its mess. (The "inaudible" portions of Orthodox liturgy are being heard in the of the church again.) But I'm going to suspect that it is the independents who will hang onto the power and control and prestige of centralized authority and final say. The independent pastors seem to be descendents of Papal authority; and the charistmatics, while righty the Spirit sould result in a leveling effect, any hierarchy based on gifts that reside in some persons instead of being given to all through servants will result in the same "clericalization."


If you can stomach some reading, and are interested in the stuff of shameless self-criticism you can see what Alexander Schmemann has to say about the mutual role of the "priesthood of the paity" and the "priesthood of the ecclesia."


BTW--Baptism is an ordination ceremony!

1. Clergy and Laity in the Orthodox Church: An Urgent Issue
www.schmemann.org/byhim/clergyandlaityinthechurch.html
(He ends with "Thy will be done. Not ours.")

2. The Church is Hierarchal
www.schmemann.org/byhim/churchhierarchal.html



I think that THIS is helpful. And I think that you will like it.

    It is the conviction of the Orthodox that Christ is the only priest, pastor and teacher of the Christian Church. He alone guides and rules his people. He alone forgives sins and offers communion with God, his Father.

    It is also the Orthodox conviction that Christ has not abandoned his people, but that he remains with his Church as its living and unique head. Christ remains present and active in the Church through his Holy Spirit.

    The sacrament of holy orders in the Christian Church is the objective guarantee of the perpetual presence of Christ with his people. The bishops, priests, and deacons of the Church have no other function or service than to manifest the presence and action of Christ to his people. In this sense, the clergy do not act in behalf of Christ or instead of Christ as though he himself were absent. They are neither vicars of Christ, nor substitutes for Christ nor representatives of Christ. ** amen! **

    Christ is present now, always, and forever in his Church. The sacramental ministry of the Church -- the bishops, priests, and deacons -- receive the gift of the Holy Spirit to manifest Christ in the Spirit to men. Thus, through his chosen ministers, Christ exercises and realizes his unique and exclusive function as priest, perpetually offering himself as the perfect sacrifice to the Father on behalf of his human brothers and sisters. Through his ministers in the Church, Christ also acts as teacher, himself proclaiming the divine words of the Father to men. He acts as the good shepherd, the one pastor who guides his flock. He acts as the forgiver and healer, remitting sins and curing the ills of menÄphysical, mental and spiritual. He acts as bishop, overseeing the community which he has gathered for himself (1 Pet 2:25). He acts as deacon (which means servant or minister) for he alone is the suffering servant of the Father who has come "not to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many" (Matthew 20:28).


    from www.oca.org/pages/orth_chri/Orthodox-Faith/Worship/Holy-Orders.html



MAKE CHRIST ALONE YOUR PASTOR, PRIEST, HEALER, DEACON, FORGIVER, ETC.


BUT YOU CAN NOT DO IT ALONE. (Where two or three are gathered...)

  • 1 Corinthians 5:4
    When you are assembled in the name of our Lord Jesus and I am with you in spirit, and the power of our Lord Jesus is present . . .


  • Hebrews 12:22
    But you have come to Mount Zion, to the heavenly Jerusalem, the city of the living God. You have come to thousands upon thousands of angels in joyful assembly . . .



The EIGHT DAY is the Eschatological day. (Saturday is the seventh day.) Sunday, the first day and the eighth is the day proclaiming eschata, the coming of the fulness of the Kingdom.

It is IMPOSSIBLE for us to do that alone by ourselves!

The Holy Spirit constitutes the Church in the Body.




Edited by - PotOnWheel on 02/25/2003 10:41:51 AM
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might-be-don
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   Posted 2/25/2003 6:03 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
PotOnWheEl says:
"But if you can STAND the aesthetic of one person declaring "The Lord be with you." and then responding afterwards "And also with you." then you do not have as big a problem with "Church" as might be possible."

No problem with one person declaring, as long as it's the drummer at the "church" .

No problem going to church, my next door neighbor, myself, and my wife make up "two or more gathered together in His name".


POtoNWheEl says:
"The independent pastors seem to be descendents of Papal authority;"

Said a mouthful there. They ( the pastors ) will deny this to their dying breath. In particular, the (c)hurch I attended is pastored by a man whose family came out of Catholicism and they completely believe they left that sort of thing behind. While I see evidence that it is completely incorporated into everything they do.

peace and love, don


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   Posted 2/25/2003 6:32 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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POtoNWheEl says:
"The independent pastors seem to be descendents of Papal authority;"

Said a mouthful there. They ( the pastors ) will deny this to their dying breath. In particular, the (c)hurch I attended is pastored by a man whose family came out of Catholicism and they completely believe they left that sort of thing behind. While I see evidence that it is completely incorporated into everything they do.

peace and love, don


BEEN THERE. DONE THAT.


quote:
No problem going to church, my next door neighbor, myself, and my wife make up "two or more gathered together in His name".


BUT HOW LONG WILL THAT LAST, BEFORE SOMEONE "FEELS" A "CALL"


For relief: www.beliefnet.com/frameset.asp?pageLoc=/story/14/story_1403_1.html&boardID=1756
(Frederica Matthews-Green: "I am going to have to apologize to someone Sunday night. In fact, I am going to have to apologize to about a hundred people--one at a time, face to face. I'm looking forward to it. ...")

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   Posted 2/25/2003 6:46 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
PotOnWheEl says:
"But if you can STAND the aesthetic of one person declaring "The Lord be with you." and then responding afterwards "And also with you." then you do not have as big a problem with "Church" as might be possible."

No problem with one person declaring, as long as it's the drummer at the "church" .

No problem going to church, my next door neighbor, myself, and my wife make up "two or more gathered together in His name".


POtoNWheEl says:
"The independent pastors seem to be descendents of Papal authority;"

Said a mouthful there. They ( the pastors ) will deny this to their dying breath. In particular, the (c)hurch I attended is pastored by a man whose family came out of Catholicism and they completely believe they left that sort of thing behind. While I see evidence that it is completely incorporated into everything they do.

peace and love, don


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   Posted 2/28/2003 12:00 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Comes a time,
The heart cries
Then the day,
The flesh dies

Spirit of God,
All I crave
Will of mine,
But a grave

A grave mistake,
Walk my way
A brave awakening,
What I pray

Dear God, O’ dad,
Talk to me
Your voice it will
Set me free

And I am listening…
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   Posted 2/28/2003 3:34 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
quote:

Comes a time,
The heart cries
Then the day,
The flesh dies


Comes a time,
The heart cries

< very, very long and painful amount of time passes >

Then the day,
The flesh dies


thanks for posting this...

peace and love, don

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   Posted 3/26/2003 7:16 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I found this topic to be very interesting. I have often asked my wife why we attend church. Her response is always something like "for the kids". I understand the responsiblity but I still wish it was something that I found fulfilling. I catch myself thinking the same way as Might be Don.

I have been in small groups at this church and I can honestly say that this was more rewarding than the services.

I would love to do an exit poll in church right after the service to see how many people actually remember the sermon and can give the main points. The church is ELCA and therefore follows the same routine week after week. I think this is part of the problem. "Don" have you attempted change the church you are currently a memeber of? What would it look like if it was working for you?




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   Posted 3/27/2003 2:30 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
HighJumper,

You ask if I have attempted to change the church I was in, I think I'll answer that this way...

I changed the church I was in by my very presence.

But without the kind of fellowship my heart longs for, it was killing me. Over the past few weeks I've been struck by the simplicity of Genesis 3:8 :

"When they heard the sound of GOD strolling in the garden in the evening breeze, the Man and his Wife hid in the trees of the garden, hid from GOD."

God's desire was not a formal, lined up in little neat rows, gathering, but a walk together in the cool of the evening. God hadn't asked Adam to build a church, but a relationship built on love, not duty.

Why do you think God created man?

peace and love, don

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   Posted 3/29/2003 5:33 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
I agree that each of changes church by our veyr presence. However, what I was attempting to ask was have you explored all your church has to offer (.e.g small groups, bible studies...) and what you found lacking in them.


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   Posted 3/30/2003 4:33 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Don: I agree with your frustration, but to use the Genesis verse in that way is to set up unreal expectations that cannot be fulfilled this side of sin. We fractured the relationship with sin and until perfection comes, there will always be "something" in the way.

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   Posted 3/30/2003 4:37 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Besides that verse is about our individual relationship with God and has nothing to do with our corporate response to God, which is what church is.

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   Posted 3/30/2003 5:42 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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honorman: Besides that verse is about our individual relationship with God and has nothing to do with our corporate response to God, which is what church is.


Don, the truth of BOTH the individual and the corporate bears repeating. You liked what was said about that quote from the Protestant Church Architecture book by White. Here's more quoted:

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It is important to remember that Christ is present in, with, and through the acts that we perform in worship. According to His will, His work is accomplished through what we do when we gather for worship. The work of worship that we offer can be a means of receiving Christ. Through His grace, the acts that we perform in celebrating holy communion become a means for the building up of His Church. Preaching and listening to preaching are acts of man through which God's Word addresses men. It is indeed misleading to distinguish in worship between acting and receiving for both occur simultaneously. Our giving is receiving. Christ may work in the worship we offer.

The unique quality of Christian worship is that it centers upon the work of God in Christ in establishing a community of those who are enabled to worship Him. It is by the power of God that men are united in receiving what God has done for them. The Pauline metaphor, the "body of Christ," expresses most concisely the nature of the Church. Just as no part of the human body can exist independently of the rest, so Christians cannot exist without the Church. John Calvin was merely echoing a third-century theologian when he observed that he saw no "hope for any forgiveness of sins or any salvation" outside of the Church.20 (Institutes of the Christian Religion, IV, i, 4) Christian worship, then, is the worship of those who "are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another."

In this sense we refer to Christian worship as corporate worship, that is, the worship of those who are one body, the body of Christ. This important fact distinguishes Christian worship from all other worship offered in this world. It has a unity which the dimensions of time and space cannot overcome.



That is not to say that all assemblies "do church" as well as others...

But it also says that the church is an on-going thing. The Byzantine Liturgy sings "Thou alone, O Lord our God, art Master over those in heaven and on earth, Who on the throne of the Cherubim art borne" and has a hymn declaring that the congregation "represents" that part of the church -- angels, mind you(!) -- before God. That's humbling, isn't it. The Church goes on. WE can join it, as "services are already in progress." But to "do church" we have to do it together! You can't take communion with yourself. Instead, the liturgy says: "Let us love one another that with one accord we may confess: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, the Trinity, One in essence and Undivided." We dare not approach the table in disunity!

Church is this: "Peace be to all." (Which is the Spirit, and notice a vertical relationship.) AND "And to thy spirit." (Which indicates the horizontal relationship.)

- - - - -

As to the ELCA and its liturgy -- it can't be too different. All the Christian liturgies stem from the same sources (like as with the Liturgies of St. James and St. Mark), from: The Jewish Synagog (Service of the Word) and the Temple (Service of the Table).

It CAN'T be the same all the whole year. The year changes. You may need to learn what is being meant. The difference between the "fixed feasts" and the "movable feasts" is interesting. Christmas and the other feasts having to do with the Incarnation are all Earth-directed, and locked as to date. While Pascha/Easter and those feasts related to it "float" on top of the others because they are Eschatologically oriented. Christians live in the "now and not yet."


Embrace that.
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   Posted 3/31/2003 11:54 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
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I agree that each of changes church by our veyr presence. However, what I was attempting to ask was have you explored all your church has to offer (.e.g small groups, bible studies...) and what you found lacking in them.


HighJumper,

My relationship with this particular church is 20 years long, I didn't just give up on a whim. No small groups, only very surface bible studies and a "pastors" vision. The whole church revolved around seeing the "pastors" vision come to pass. Even things like the men's group was just more of the same old thing. Women were treated like second class and limited to "womens" roles. The pastoral staff sits on the platform for display and gets the best seats, and first in line, at the buffet. What's up with that?

I was an active, intergral part of the "worship" team. I didn't just sit on the sidelines waiting for someone to come to me, but at every opportunity I made suggestions and tried to nudge things in other directions.

As Honorman notes above, I'm idealistic. Also, I'm a bit of a simpleton. I believe that the kingdom of God is within us, let's act like it. Walk with God.

peace and love, don

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   Posted 4/13/2003 5:14 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
quote:

My relationship with this particular church is 20 years long, I didn't just give up on a whim. No small groups, only very surface bible studies and a "pastors" vision. The whole church revolved around seeing the "pastors" vision come to pass. Even things like the men's group was just more of the same old thing. Women were treated like second class and limited to "womens" roles. The pastoral staff sits on the platform for display and gets the best seats, and first in line, at the buffet. What's up with that?

I was an active, intergral part of the "worship" team. I didn't just sit on the sidelines waiting for someone to come to me, but at every opportunity I made suggestions and tried to nudge things in other directions.



I hope my questions did not offend you, Might-be-Don? I was just curious about what you had done to change things. It sounds like you have been very involved. We go to a church that is about 20 miles from home and between work and the commute it makes it difficult to take in all the after hours events that are available to me.
How have things been going this past few weeks?

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   Posted 4/14/2003 2:36 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
HighJumper,

Not at all offended. More than happy to try and answer any honest question about what I'm doing.

Over the last few weeks I've begun to wean myself from some of the thought patterns that were so ingrained in my life. I'm still unable to sit home on Sunday morning and not feel like I should be somewhere. But the feeling is beginning to lessen. I feel mostly that I need to put some distance(time) between myself and my former church. I do need to be careful about generalizing my "church" experience, but I see the pattern repeated over and over in many "churches" .

It's becoming clearer just how manipulated we were at the church I attended. Things like, our service started at 10:00am, so it was decided to have prayer at 9:30. Sounds spiritual huh, but the motive behind it was to get folks to the building earlier because many of the congreation didn't show up until almost 10:20. So it was thought that having something earlier might get folks to show up on time. The 1/2 hour prayer time in a church of 600 was attended by less than 20 people.

On the inside I'm doing great. My wife and I have used the time we have gained by not doing "church" to talk about Jesus. It now amazes me as I look back how little the folks at the church talked about Jesus. Lots of bible principles to act a rule book for our lives, but little Jesus.

peace nad love, don

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   Posted 4/14/2003 5:34 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Hi MBD,

I just want you to know how encouraging it has been for me to read this thread, to see someone who has some of the same leadings that I have. Kind of reminds me of what George Fox (founder of the Quakers) did back in the 1600s. Quaker spirituality has always seemed to be so "right" to me. If you haven't read George Fox's autobiography, you really ought to.

If more people within the "churches" caught this VISION you articulate, we might perhaps see some substantive cultural affect by the so-called salt of the earth. When I was in Bible college, we used to hear "Let the church BE the church" quite a lot. It seems to me that is precisely what the typical church has not been for far too long.

Follow peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall see God (Heb. 12:14)

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My anabaptist leanings are beginning to pop out a bit. But, as I reflected on the current state of folks like the Mennonites, Quakers, Amish and the likes, it seems they also have taken much of the Spirit that drove the early movements and converted it to the letter of law. What begin in the Spirit, is now continued in the flesh. This saddens me.

To the DOC...

A challenge for you. You have stated that small groups have great potential, how about reducing the 5000 folk gatherings to once a month and give the small groups some real time to flourish.

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A set of circumstances these weekend reminded me that "church" should always support "Church". Those of you in ministry should always be careful to minister to the "Church" and not to the ministry.

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I came across this passage in George Fox's Journal recently, and found it interesting:

(Begin Quote)

As we had much work with priests and professors who pleaded for imperfection, I was opened to declare and manifest to them that Adam and Eve were perfect before they fell, and all that God made He saw was good, and He blessed it; but the imperfection came in by the fall, through man's and woman's hearkening to the devil who was out of Truth. And though the law made nothing perfect, yet it made way for the bringing in of the better hope, which hope is Christ, who destroys the devil and his works, which made man and woman imperfect.

Christ saith to His disciples, "Be ye perfect, even as your heavenly Father is perfect": and He, who Himself was perfect, comes to make man and woman perfect again, and brings them again to the state in which God made them. So He is the maker-up of the breach, and the peace betwixt God and man.

That this might the better be understood by the lowest capacities, I used a comparison of two old people who had their house broken down by an enemy, so that they, with all their children, were liable to all storms and tempests. And there came to them some that pretended to be workmen, and offered to build up their house again, if they would give them so much a year; but when they had got the money they left the house as they found it.

After this manner came a second, third, fourth, fifth, and sixth, each with his several pretence to build up the old house, and each got the people's money, and then cried that they could not rear up the house, the breach could not be made up; for there is no perfection here. They tell the old people that the house can never be perfectly built up again in this life, though they have taken the people's money for doing it.

So all the sect-masters in Christendom (so called) have pretended to build up Adam's and Eve's fallen house; and when they have got the people's money, they tell them the work cannot be perfectly done here; so their house lies as it did. But I told the people Christ was come to do it freely, who by one offering hath perfected for ever all them that are sanctified, and renews them up into the image of God, which man and woman were in before they fell, and makes man's and woman's house as perfect again as God made them at the first; and this Christ, the heavenly Man, doth freely. Therefore all are to look unto Him, and all that have received Him are to walk in Him, the Life, the Substance, the First, and the Last, the Rock of Ages, the Foundation of many Generations.

http://www.ccel.org/ccel/fox_g/autobio.all.html#xviii







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Might Be Done,
I am so happy for you that your experience coming out has been positive. You are especially blessed that you and your wife have the type of relationship to enter such an endeaver together.
I can relate to much of what you have said. "Church" seems to be really good at judging and not so good at loving. My husband and I left our church and its denomination 4 years ago. In retrospect, it's easy to see how the "social club" mindset and church politics stifled the Holy Spirit and encouraged hypocrisy. We've been hurt a great deal by church (including small groups).
We've been attending Woodland Hills for about nine months, and although we've had some very positive experiences, I'm scared. I'm afraid of getting hurt again. With some of the things we've been through, my husband is the only person I can REALLY trust. When I read some of the comments and arguments on this discussion board, I wonder: Will I ever be comfortable to call my church "family" again?" That's who they once were to me, and now, I don't dare.

I hope you will continue to keep us posted about how this is going for you. The Lord will bless you for your earnest seeking.

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S.B.G. says:
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You are especially blessed that you and your wife have the type of relationship to enter such an endeaver together.

While it ain't perfect, we are trying to allow our relationship to model how "church" should look. Especially in letting love cover a multitude of sins.

Just a brief note about my use of the word church...

"Church" The body of Christ, universal. Needs no building, housed in each of us. Christ is head.

"church" A specific gathering of a subset of the "Church".

I think that "church" should look the same as "Church" , only smaller. This is rarely the case. "church" is usually run by heirarchy of leadership that that leaves only the head guy (pastor,pope, etc.) responsible for listening to the Head (Christ) and communicating his version ( or passed down tradition ) of Christ to the people. This pattern leaves wide open the possibility of abuse and causes a weak and ineffective group. Folks tend to rely on the pastor to think and act for them.

I feel that the Spirit of God is stirring up a dissatisfaction with the current state of affairs in "church". We can continue to accept less than God desires for us, or repent.

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Might-be don,
While I'm actively involved in a church and know it's where I personally should be, I still greatly respect your decision to follow God's leading and take the plunge into the unknown. I found a quote in "Ruthless Trust" by Brennan Manning that I thought might resonate with you. He quotes Parker Palmer who writes,

"Too often the church is an enemy of solitude. Too often the church is one more agent in the vast social conspiracy of togetherness and noise aimed at distracting us from encountering ourselves. The church keeps us busy on this cause or that, this committee or that, trying to provide meaning through motion until we get 'burned out' instead and withdraw from the church's life. Even in its core act of worship the church provides little space for the silent and solitary inward journey to occur (sometimes filling the available space with noisy exhortations to take that very journey!)."

May God richly bless you as you seek him so wholeheartedly.


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   Posted 5/3/2003 8:17 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
From Acts:

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Chapter 2

42 And they continued stedfastly in the apostles' teaching and fellowship, in the breaking of bread and the prayers. ... 46 And day by day, continuing stedfastly with one accord in the temple, and breaking bread at home, they took their food with gladness and singleness of heart, 47 praising God, and having favor with all the people.



Church bell's ringing!
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   Posted 5/4/2003 8:52 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
quote:

From Acts:

quote:
Chapter 2

42 And they continued stedfastly in the apostles' teaching and fellowship, in the breaking of bread and the prayers. ... 46 And day by day, continuing stedfastly with one accord in the temple, and breaking bread at home, they took their food with gladness and singleness of heart, 47 praising God, and having favor with all the people.


"...with one accord in the temple..."

Great for converted Jews, mostly they remained Jewish as that was their cultural heritage. I'm now looking for the glad folks that are eating, not the ones stuck in fancy suits and ties at the weekly god show.

peace and love, don


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   Posted 5/4/2003 9:03 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Faith,

Great quote...

Here's another from
www.benisrael.org/OnlineBooks/truefellowship/true_fellowship_chapter5.html

"In the religious unreality that pervades our church services, we are unconsciously yielding more and more to a spirit of manipulation in order to produce some semblance of life. We have become accustomed to a deadness and grayness, the result of unresolved conflict, unconfessed sin, nurtured resentment, the inability to forgive."

We need to get real, and stop putting on a weekly show for God.

peace and love, don

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