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|  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 3/20/2003 6:06 PM (GMT -6) |   | Doc
…and your willingness to be an irritating source of cognitive dissonance.
Iconoclast

Doc
Would you say "whatever promotes love and/or produces loving consequences"?
Iconoclast
Yes. Intent->Behavior->Impact. Out of a loving intent we seek to have a loving impact. The actual behavior that leads to a loving impact depends on an enormous number of variables and cannot even be nailed down to a set of inviolate principles. I believe that this is what Solomon recognized in Ecclesiastes. It is also what Bonhoeffer refers to when he says that God is a living God.
Doc
If so, are there consequences of any actions that we might not be able to see but which God sees and thus tells us to avoid by behaving in such and such ways?
Iconoclast
Yes. We tell our children to look both ways before crossing the street because they do not yet have a full understanding of the danger involved. We give children hard and fast rules. In fact, as parents we fill our children with all sorts of rules or “parental injunctions” of every manner of thing we can think of to help them learn and grow. Psychologically speaking this results in each of us having the voice of a “parent” within us (aka parent tapes). As an adult (actually it starts as a teenager) we learn that our “parent” is not completely accurate and we start modifying and nuancing the rules we learned to be more in line with the reality we confront. It is considered to be neurotic behavior when as an adult we strictly follow our “parent” without this modifying influence. Imagine an adult who still followed the parental injunction “don’t speak until spoken to” in all situations relating to an authority figure. Why, we would have dysfunctional corporate behavior because people wouldn’t tell the executives what is really happening in the organization. Now, if your executive is Saddam then that particular injunction might serve you quite well.
The law and the prophets are the Godly or Biblical parental injunctions. They are for our benefit. They help us to avoid major and costly mistakes. They guide us toward learning what loving action looks like. However if we do not start nuancing these and modifying them to be in line with the reality we confront then we are like an adult who is still living under our very limited parental rules. We become religiously neurotic and we stunt our ability to grow into the loving adults we are meant to grow into.
This is why Jesus said that the law and the prophets are fulfilled when we love God and love one another. The law and the prophets are starting places for us to begin our learning of how to love one another. This is what Paul is talking about in 1 Corinthians:
1Cr 3:2 I have fed you with milk, and not with meat: for hitherto ye were not able [to bear it], neither yet now are ye able.
The law and the prophets are milk. Paul wants to feed them with meat – he wants to take them to the next level of learning. Clearly in this case the “children” are not yet ready to start behaving out of their “adult”.
Unfortunately the law and the prophets can become a major stumbling block in our growth just like our parental injunctions can become a stumbling block in our growth. If we mistake following the law AS THE GOAL rather than as a base of understanding to grow from then we become stuck or “frozen” in our growth. The law is meant to serve the goal. When it does not serve the goal then it must be nuanced or modified (conditioned) in order to give effect to the goal – which is to actually have a loving impact.
The Pharisees were stuck in the mistake of believing that following the law WAS the goal. Jesus purposely challenged them on that topic when he healed on the Sabbath, picked heads of grain on the Sabbath, refused to condemn the woman caught in adultery and just forgave people’s sins.
Today we understand that the OT law regarding eating pork probably had to do with the issue of trichinosis. It was a good rule at the time but now that we understand the issue better we can employ more sophisticated techniques for dealing with it rather than outright prohibition.
So how do we go about learning to nuance and condition the law and the prophets? Well, we now know very clearly what the goal is, we have a role model who showed us what fulfilling the goal looks like and we have a living master that teaches us - the Holy Spirit lives in us and guides our learning.
So what have we learned about homosexuality? And how does the Holy Spirit guide us today on this issue?
Acts 15:8-9 And God who knows the heart bore witness to them, giving them the Holy Spirit just as he did to us; and he made no distinction between us and them, but cleansed their hearts by faith.
Peter says that God bore witness to the gentiles by giving them the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit within us can recognize the Holy Spirit in another. If a gay couple has been given the Holy Spirit and they bear witness that the Holy Spirit is NOT guiding them to refrain from intimacy and over time we see that they are growing in love for God and for others then I think we have strong evidence that we should nuance and condition our universal “Biblical parental injunction” against homosexuality. I think that exactly this standard was used to nuance and condition the Biblical injunction against divorce and remarriage in our churches.
We still seem to want to say that homosexuality is a “sin” because it is not “God’s ideal” for mankind. But if this is our standard then wouldn’t we also have to say that wearing clothes is a “sin” because it is not “God’s ideal”? Before the fall (and therefore the definition of “God’s ideal”) we felt no shame and we were naked. After the fall we felt shame and God clothed us. Feeling shame could be said to not be a sin just like homosexual feelings could be said to not be a sin. But wearing clothes is a choice just like having sex is a choice. Yet none of us would say that wearing clothes is a sin. An objection to this would be to say that God specifically allowed us to wear clothes by actually making us garments. The counter to this would be to say that God specifically allowed divorce yet Jesus still called divorce and remarriage the sin of adultery because it is not “God’s ideal”. Thus, I conclude that homosexuality is “universally” a sin just like wearing clothes is “universally” a sin just like divorce and remarriage is “universally” a sin. Yet it is not a universal moral imperative.
Doc
Surely YOU hold to some transcultural moral imperatives.
Iconoclast
First, this statement seems to presuppose that moral imperatives are ONLY conditioned by cultural variables. I agree that some moral imperatives are conditioned by culture (Paul’s injunctions against women and Biblical non-injunctions regarding slavery) however there are other variables that condition other moral imperatives. Homosexuality is not conditioned by culture in my view it is conditioned by whether someone is “wired” homosexually or not – whether it is “natural” for them or not. For a homosexual person to go into denial and behave heterosexually is, I believe, an unloving thing for them to do to their partner – and vice versa.
The only non-conditional command I (intellectually) hold to is to love God and to love one another. Murder is a term that when used in this context is by definition antithetical to the command to love one another. So, yes, murder is an unconditional command but only because by definition it is unloving to murder someone. When it IS loving to murder someone we by definition do NOT call it murder. We call it self-defense or justifiable homicide or whatever. Adultery is exactly the same way. Jesus called divorce and remarriage the sin of adultery and yet if it is loving to get remarried then we do NOT call it adultery. Adultery is sin BECAUSE it is an unloving thing to do to another person. It is a betrayal. It is unfaithfulness. Thus adultery as a non-conditional moral imperative is only so because it is a specific form of violating the one non-conditional command (love one another) by definition.
Can we construct such a derivation of homosexuality being an unconditional sin BECAUSE it is a specific form of violation of the one non-conditional command? I think the answer to this is no.
Doc, I believe the objection to this that you are exploring here is “what if we just don’t know enough to say this – what if there is something we haven’t learned yet about homosexuality and thus we should as a general rule abide by this injunction as though it was universal until we learn more?”
My answer to this is:
1. The data is there for us to see now. Jesus said that a good tree cannot bear bad fruit and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit. We can enter into and observe the lives of Christian gay couples and see for ourselves whether they are growing in love for God and for others – whether they are bearing good fruit – whether the Holy Spirit is living within them.
2. There is a wealth of scientific data on this issue that shows that homosexuality is “wired” into a person (of course there is a spectrum) and is not something that can be changed. Paul said it is better to marry than to “burn” with passion. God lovingly gave us an “help meet”. A gay person’s “help meet” is simply of the same sex – who are we to deny them this.
3. Jesus gave us the example of taking people where they are at and accepting them and loving them. The general rule I believe should be that when we concretely know how to love someone we should not let that concrete understanding be undermined by a potentially more loving thing to do. The known loving thing to do supercedes the potential loving thing to do.
thanks, Iconoclast
"The benefit overran the merit the first day, and has overrun the merit ever since. The merit itself, so-called, I reckon part of the receiving." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
Edited by - Iconoclast on 03/20/2003 11:35:25 PM | | Back to Top | | |
 |  PotOnWheel Registered Member

Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 9890 | Posted 3/23/2003 10:07 AM (GMT -6) |   | ?
Iconoclast
(and Greg too?)
-vs-
G. K. Chesterton
?
NOW, THIS NEEDS TO BE SAID FIRST.
I'M NOT TRYING TO 'BOX IN' ICON (or Doc) IN A STRICT SENSE. (I'M NOT TRYING TO GET 'PERSONAL!')
BUT INSOFAR AS WE ALL ARE FOURTY-SOMETHINGS WE ALL RECOGNIZE THE MODES-OF-THOUGHT WHICH ARE IN THE AIR WHILE WE HAVE COME OF AGE....
I'M JUST SAYING THAT THOSE READING SUCH THINGS AS ICON OFFERS (IN WHAT IS QUOTED BELOW) SHOULD THINK TWICE BEFORE ACCEPTING IT!
quote: Iconoclast
One may know (to some extent) what sin is for ONESELF. However, it is simply false to think that therefore one can know what sin is for another person.
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Just because you feel so strongly that it is a sin to engage in homosexual sex for yourself does not mean that it is a sin for someone who has faith that it is not a sin.
That pitfall that threatens all of our era also seems to be present in the back of (or front of) Doc's mind as he says the following:
quote: Now Icon, I'm tracking with you. I love the challenges you pose, the clarity with which you pose them, the demeanor with which you pose them, and you're willingness to be an irritating source of cognitive dissonance. Honestly, thanks for hang'in in there.
But now a question: Surely YOU hold to some transcultural moral imperatives. For example, thou shalt love. I would think there are many others, all of which follow from the love command (e.g. murder, adultery). How does one determine what IS and IS NOT culturally relative? Would you say "whatever promotes love and/or produces loving consequences"? If so, are there consequences of any actions that we might not be able to see but which God sees and thus tells us to avoid by behaving in such and such ways?
Blessings
Greg
Doc's on to something.
So, please -- if its OK with everyone -- LET ME IMPORT SOMETHING I POSTED ON ANOTHER THREAD. One quote from Chesterton's "Orthodoxy" on DETERMINISM and another on PRAGMATISM.
I WONDER WHETHER THERE ISN'T
A BIT OF EACH FLOATING
AROUND 'IN THE AIR'
NOW DAYS
quote: In passing from this subject I may note that there is a queer fallacy to the effect that materialistic fatalism is in some way favourable to mercy, to the abolition of cruel punishments or punishments of any kind. This is startlingly the reverse of the truth. It is quite tenable that the doctrine of necessity makes no difference at all; that it leaves the flogger flogging and the kind friend exhorting as before. But obviously if it stops either of them it stops the kind exhortation. That the sins are inevitable does not prevent punishment; if it prevents anything it prevents persuasion. Determinism is quite as likely to lead to cruelty as it is certain to lead to cowardice. Determinism is not inconsistent with the cruel treatment of criminals. What it is (perhaps) inconsistent with is the generous treatment of criminals; with any appeal to their better feelings or encouragement in their moral struggle. The determinist does not believe in appealing to the will, but he does believe in changing the environment. He must not say to the sinner, “Go and sin no more,” because the sinner cannot help it. But he can put him in boiling oil; for boiling oil is an environment. Considered as a figure, therefore, the materialist has the fantastic outline of the figure of the madman. Both take up a position at once unanswerable and intolerable.
quote: This bald summary of the thought-destroying forces of our time would not be complete without some reference to pragmatism; for though I have here used and should everywhere defend the pragmatist method as a preliminary guide to truth, there is an extreme application of it which involves the absence of all truth whatever. My meaning can be put shortly thus. I agree with the pragmatists that apparent objective truth is not the whole matter; that there is an authoritative need to believe the things that are necessary to the human mind. But I say that one of those necessities precisely is a belief in objective truth. The pragmatist tells a man to think what he must think and never mind the Absolute. But precisely one of the things that he must think is the Absolute. This philosophy, indeed, is a kind of verbal paradox. Pragmatism is a matter of human needs; and one of the first of human needs is to be something more than a pragmatist. Extreme pragmatism is just as inhuman as the determinism it so powerfully attacks. The determinist (who, to do him justice, does not pretend to be a human being) makes nonsense of the human sense of actual choice. The pragmatist, who professes to be specially human, makes nonsense of the human sense of actual fact.

Edited by - PotOnWheel on 03/23/2003 3:18:52 PM | | Back to Top | | |
 |  GregBoyd Registered Member
 Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 1818 | Posted 3/24/2003 9:16 AM (GMT -6) |   | Iconman, totally agree with the parent-child analogy and with the general way you apply to biblical teaching. I think it squares very well with Paul's teaching that the Letter kills but the Spirit gives life (2 Cor) and that the Old Testament was given for the purpose of leading us to Christ (Gal.). But I'm not clear on how it fits certain particular topics, homosexuality being one of them. Maybe you can help me out. Two comments and questions.
1. We both agree that the law is given to show what love looks like, which is why it itself is not the GOAL, but a guide. And I get how certain things look like love but need to be refined under the light of new information -- not eating pork for example. But what do we do with the command (say) to stone kids who sass back, or the command to cut a womans hand of if it touches (even accidentally) a man's genitalia? These sorts of commands -- and theres a ton of them -- don't look like love to me. (Do they to anyone?). How do you make sense of them as base line parent-to-child imperatives?
2. If the prohibition on homosexuality functions as a sort of base-line parent-to-child teaching, to be refined and reassessed in the light of further information, what part remains today? I mean, to use your analogy, a parent tells their children to "look both ways". The point is safety, not the rigid adherence to the rule -- like their was an intrinsic value in looking both ways. The instrinsic value is safety. Got it. But what is the intrinsic and permanent value of the prohibition on homosexuality?
Thinking out loud
Greg
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 |  Laika Registered Member

Date Joined Mar 2003 Total Posts : 2433 | Posted 3/25/2003 2:48 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote:
Iconoclast
You are claiming here that there is a universal prohibition against homosexuality. Do you have some evidence for this or are you using your omniscience mechanism again?
Act 15:28-29
For it has seemed good to the Holy Spirit and to us to lay upon you no greater burden than these necessary things: that you abstain from what has been sacrificed to idols and from blood and from what is strangled and from fornication. If you keep yourselves from these, you will do well. Farewell."
Hmmmm…didn’t say anything about homosexuality.
Hmmmmm, doesn't say anything about bestiality or pedophilia either. Or drug abuse or rape....... [same as it ever was same as it ever was]
Why single homosexuality out? It isn't the only "strong urge" people experience and want to justify.
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 |  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 3/25/2003 1:56 PM (GMT -6) |   | Laika
Hmmmmm, doesn't say anything about bestiality or pedophilia either. Or drug abuse or rape....... [same as it ever was same as it ever was]
Iconoclast
Good point. And yet Peter said that the Holy Spirit didn't want to lay any greater burdens on the gentiles. Moreover Peter said that they should refrain from food sacrificed to the gods and yet Paul said it was not a sin. Seems like total chaos when it comes to the law and what is sin - what do you make of all this?
Laika
Why single homosexuality out? It isn't the only "strong urge" people experience and want to justify.
Iconoclast
You're right. Breathing and eating are okay as well in my opinion.
thanks, Iconoclast
"The benefit overran the merit the first day, and has overrun the merit ever since. The merit itself, so-called, I reckon part of the receiving." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
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 |  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 3/25/2003 2:20 PM (GMT -6) |   | Doc
But what do we do with the command (say) to stone kids who sass back, or the command to cut a womans hand of if it touches (even accidentally) a man's genitalia? These sorts of commands -- and theres a ton of them -- don't look like love to me. (Do they to anyone?). How do you make sense of them as base line parent-to-child imperatives?
Iconoclast
Two possibilities come to mind:
1. God didn’t completely micromanage the full details of the law given here. He gave Moses the ten commandments directly and imbued him with divine knowledge but Moses and others completed the full details of the law. This would be consistent in my view with how God generally operates with humankind. He tends not to give us a detailed rule book but wants us to work these things out on our own. Some evidence for this may be that Jesus said that Moses gave them the law about a bill of divorce: Mat 19:8 - He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.
2. There were some pretty serious problems (negative habitual behaviors) at the time that the law needed to directly address. Remember that at the time of Noah things had gotten so bad that God decided to reboot. Brutal times may require brutal laws - but when the times change, the laws should also change. Perhaps a critical problem at the time was that many parents would just let their children run wild (Lord of the Flies sort of stuff). Perhaps this was a key cause that led to rampant wickedness of Noah’s time and simply had to be addressed in an over-the-top sort of way. Wasn’t hyperbole used a lot in older times? Also, just imagine 500 years from now what it might look like to someone who found an old rule book that said that carrying nail clippers on an airplane was a federal offense. Without knowing about September 11 they would probably think we were almost completely insane.
Doc
But what is the intrinsic and permanent value of the prohibition on homosexuality?
Iconoclast
The fact that the men of Sodom wanted to rape the male strangers (angels really) who visited Lot shows that heterosexuals can lust (out of need for power in my view) in homosexual ways. I assume that our prisons are full of examples of this. I think that this is what the Romans passage is referring to. When we totally give in to our bodily desires and totally forsake the Lord then our passions (especially the power-oriented ones) run rampant and we forsake the natural for the unnatural. And THIS is a major problem – it is of course mostly a problem of abusing other people – using them for our own power-oriented desires – feeding off of other people.
There is also the issue that in that time there were no social structures or normative forces to help homosexually-oriented people stay in monogamous relationships. Multiple sexual partners leads to the spreading of STDs. Anal sex has a higher probability of transmission than heterosexual sex. Given these forces in our time we ended up with “bathhouses” and such that facilitated the spread of AIDS and other STDs. Thus it can also be seen as public health prohibition just like eating pork was a public health prohibition.
My view is that the OT prohibition was meant to deal with the primary problem of heterosexuals giving in to their passions and therefore leading to major abuse of other people. That prohibition solved that problem but created the normal “vigilance of law” sort of puritanism that led to the despising of ANY homosexuality and therefore ALL homosexuals – which then then led to bigotry and violence against homosexuals. This was all the society was capable of at the time. It just could not nuance the law well enough because of their hard hearts. And oddly enough at that time the complete prohibition ALSO protected gay people from the concommitant violence because it caused them to hide themselves (go into the “closet”).
This unconditioned OT prohibition is completely failing today because our society is one where the rights of minority groups can be protected. Gay people no longer need to hide themselves and they won’t – nor does our society “need” them to in order to protect against the primary problem (which they weren’t the cause of to begin with!). What is happening now is that through a whole set of complex forces our society is beginning to form the societal structures and normative forces that will allow gay people the same affordances as heterosexuals. These forces will result in gay marriages being recognized as fully as heterosexual marriages in our law at first and over time in the hearts and minds of the overwhelming majority. Our society IS nuance capable today in this area and I consider this the work of the Holy Spirit among us.
Thus the intrinsic and permanent value of the prohibition is two fold:
1. I would say that the generally valid prohibition is that we should not deny how we are “wired” in our sexual orientation. I think this applies equally to heterosexuals denying their heterosexuality and homosexuals denying their homosexuality. Either way negative forces are unleashed that lead directly to unfaithfullness and betrayal of their partners.
2. The “public health” aspects of the prohibition are as valid today as is eating pork or washing our hands. We need to understand what the issues are and we need to employ modern mechanisms to remove the risk factors. This means education about STDs and multiple partners (no different than heterosexual public health concerns) as well as better societal structures and norms that promote monogamous relationships.
thanks, Iconoclast
"The benefit overran the merit the first day, and has overrun the merit ever since. The merit itself, so-called, I reckon part of the receiving." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
Edited by - Iconoclast on 03/25/2003 7:47:13 PM | | Back to Top | | |
 |  Laika Registered Member

Date Joined Mar 2003 Total Posts : 2433 | Posted 3/26/2003 2:20 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote:
Laika
Hmmmmm, doesn't say anything about bestiality or pedophilia either. Or drug abuse or rape....... [same as it ever was same as it ever was]
Iconoclast
Good point. And yet Peter said that the Holy Spirit didn't want to lay any greater burdens on the gentiles. Moreover Peter said that they should refrain from food sacrificed to the gods and yet Paul said it was not a sin. Seems like total chaos when it comes to the law and what is sin - what do you make of all this?
"And yet Peter said that the Holy Spirit didn't want to lay any greater burdens on the gentiles." other than what's in scripture.
quote:
Laika
Why single homosexuality out? It isn't the only "strong urge" people experience and want to justify.
Iconoclast
You're right. Breathing and eating are okay as well in my opinion.
So is pedophilia? That's OK too because Paul didn't mention it? Rape? Abortion? I think you understand my point.
"take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ" 2 Cor.
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 |  Laika Registered Member

Date Joined Mar 2003 Total Posts : 2433 | Posted 3/26/2003 2:42 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote:
Doc
But what is the intrinsic and permanent value of the prohibition on homosexuality?
Iconoclast
Thus the intrinsic and permanent value of the prohibition is two fold:
1. I would say that the generally valid prohibition is that we should not deny how we are “wired” in our sexual orientation. I think this applies equally to heterosexuals denying their heterosexuality and homosexuals denying their homosexuality. Either way negative forces are unleashed that lead directly to unfaithfullness and betrayal of their partners.
2. The “public health” aspects of the prohibition are as valid today as is eating pork or washing our hands. We need to understand what the issues are and we need to employ modern mechanisms to remove the risk factors. This means education about STDs and multiple partners (no different than heterosexual public health concerns) as well as better societal structures and norms that promote monogamous relationships.
Laika adds:
quote: The sphincter muscles of the anus can also be damaged by receptive anal sex, which may lead to incontinence.
My wife, a registered nurse, has told me that some homosexuals have to dig their stools out with their fingers due to incontinence. Some may think of this as being "unhealthy". And yes, she has cared for them when she worked in a nursing home.
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 |  GregBoyd Registered Member
 Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 1818 | Posted 3/26/2003 3:14 AM (GMT -6) |   | Thanks icon. I'm going to chew on the two possibilities re: interpreting OT commands that you put forth. Both are plausible, especially #2. One has to read the OT material in the light of the culture norms of the time. God has to take people from point A to B before he can hope to get them to Y and Z.
thinking
Greg
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 |  PotOnWheel Registered Member

Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 9890 | Posted 3/26/2003 4:50 AM (GMT -6) |   | Laika said: other than what's in scripture
Greg said: chew on the two possibilities ... Both are plausible ... read the OT material in the light of the culture norms of the time
Hmmmm...
Icon said: we should not deny how we are “wired” in our sexual orientation
G. K. Chesterton said: The determinist does not believe in appealing to the will ... He must not say to the sinner, “Go and sin no more,” because the sinner cannot help it
Doc said: the light of the culture norms of the time
G. K. Chesterton said: The pragmatist tells a man to think what he must think and never mind the Absolute.
Doc said: God has to take people from point A to B before he can hope to get them to Y and Z.
The nature of SCRIPTURE is that is is revelatory. It builds. It unfolds. It does not discard. E.g., Already in the garden you hear of the crushing of the serpant's head. Some things are lain aside: e.g., the sacrifice of animals -- used as a bridge to lead us to fuller understanding. But that does not constitute an entire erasure and replacement.
A have to wonder just how permeating is the idea of God changing his mind, "learning", etc. And how wide a door this could open if you follow it, Greg!!!
Don't just wonder what other cultural possibilities there might be. Ask" WHAT IS GOD REVEALING?
Don't play the game of guessing what plausibility God is going to allow next.
Return to what Laika said above: what's in scripture
Like the claw of Aslan in the skin of the Dragon/Edmond in Lewis' book, the Word may be very painful. Determinist and pragmatist permission are not. But only one is salvatory.
WAY TO GO, LAIKA!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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 |  Laika Registered Member

Date Joined Mar 2003 Total Posts : 2433 | Posted 3/26/2003 6:12 AM (GMT -6) |   | What I find sad about the whole "God wired me this way" argument is that it denies people the HOPE that Christ can change them. If homosexuals are "wired" that way, then so too are pedophiles, rapists, beastialists, necophiliacs, liars, adulterers, abortionists, etc.
And when you take away HOPE, you lay a stumbling block.
Good point PotOnWheel, "wired" sounds like "pre-determined".
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 |  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 3/26/2003 3:42 PM (GMT -6) |   | Laika
"And yet Peter said that the Holy Spirit didn't want to lay any greater burdens on the gentiles." other than what's in scripture.
Iconoclast
Please read Acts Chapter 15. The whole point is that the Pharisees were insisting that the gentiles had to follow the law of Moses (the scriptural law) and Peter decided that the Holy Spirit did not require it. Moreover, Peter DID decide that the gentiles were required to refrain from food sacrificed to the gods and yet Paul said it was not a sin. What do you make of that?
Laika
So is pedophilia? That's OK too because Paul didn't mention it? Rape? Abortion? I think you understand my point.
Iconoclast
What I understand and was trying to communicate is that the point you were making is a non-sequitur in the context of the discussion that was taking place. You are mis-matching on specific thoughts without regard to the context as far as I can tell and I really don’t feel like re-explaining everything.
thanks, Iconoclast
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 |  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 3/26/2003 3:44 PM (GMT -6) |   | POW
Return to what Laika said above: what's in scripture
Iconoclast
Please read Acts 15 POW – you will see that it does not say what Laika is suggesting – rather it explicitly says the opposite.
Also, if you believe what you are saying, do you follow the law of Moses? Do you eat pork? Have you ever mowed the yard on the Sabbath? And what exactly is your stand on the role of women in the church? Should they be allowed to speak? And please, please answer for me how you deal with the fact that Peter explicitly said that the gentiles were required to refrain from eating food sacrificed to the gods and yet Paul said it was not sin to him who had faith that it was not sin.
In terms of absolutes I do believe there is an absolute command – love God and love one another. Because this is an absolute command all other commands must be relative to this one absolute. This is why when we fulfil this command we fulfil the entire law.
thanks, Iconoclast
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 |  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 3/26/2003 3:46 PM (GMT -6) |   | Laika
What I find sad about the whole "God wired me this way" argument is that it denies people the HOPE that Christ can change them. If homosexuals are "wired" that way, then so too are pedophiles, rapists, beastialists, necophiliacs, liars, adulterers, abortionists, etc.
Iconoclast
Here we go – way out of context again. Now, if I likewise take your thought here out of context then I would have to comment on how your logic is completely flawed. Why? Because you are saying that if God “wired” us to do X then he must have “wired” us to do EVERYTHING and since he obviously didn’t “wire” us to do EVERYTHING he must not have wired us to do X.
This logic is easily refuted by saying that God obviously “wired” us to breathe air but did not “wire” us to use faulty logic.
thanks, Iconoclast
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 |  PotOnWheel Registered Member

Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 9890 | Posted 3/26/2003 5:34 PM (GMT -6) |   | Icon, this kind of ricochet psudo-logic is not fun to read, and it hardly invites response. You have used almost the same rhetoric several times -- and it was pass-worthy.
Instead of following you down a dead-end road as per your "relativizing" flip of the whole of most of SCRIPTURE, opening the way for YOU to single-ly decide what is connected enough to the Great Commandment... well... I'll return to what SCRIPTURE is.
quote: PoW: The nature of SCRIPTURE is that is is revelatory. It builds. It unfolds. It does not discard. E.g., Already in the garden you hear of the crushing of the serpant's head. Some things are lain aside: e.g., the sacrifice of animals -- used as a bridge to lead us to fuller understanding. But that does not constitute an entire erasure and replacement.
It may seem safe for you to appeal to the "absolute command." But that command does not stand of itself. SCRIPTURE IS REVELATION OF THE WORD.
You (and perhaps Doc -- depending on how he makes up his mind) "relativize" and "cultural-ize" what seems convenient. the starkest case of severe error is what you do with marriage.
Marriage is not an accomodation to culture. (BTW -- The Jerusalem Council placed the idol-meat statute. At root was the idolotry. Paul kept the root.) There is nothing "cultural" about it. Redefining it to match transient contexts is severe error. Much more than culture, the union of man and woman (AND GOD) in marriage is an eschatological reality. The very definition of humanity as image of God is in marriage. "Contemporary" substitions is severe error.
(As per the "role of women" in ANY age/epoch it should remain the same. Women have, from the founding of the church done ALL roles except the realistic-symbolism of offering the Eucharist. And Deaconess is an ordained OFFICE with the exact same ordination liturgy as that of a Bishop. BOTH male and female are necessary in the ministry of the Church!)
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 |  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 3/26/2003 6:12 PM (GMT -6) |   | POW
As per the "role of women" in ANY age/epoch it should remain the same. Women have, from the founding of the church done ALL roles except the realistic-symbolism of offering the Eucharist. And Deaconess is an ordained OFFICE with the exact same ordination liturgy as that of a Bishop. BOTH male and female are necessary in the ministry of the Church!
Iconoclast
1 Corinthians 14:33-37 - …As in all the churches of the saints, the women should keep silence in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be subordinate, as even the law says. If there is anything they desire to know, let them ask their husbands at home. For it is shameful for a woman to speak in church. What! Did the word of God originate with you, or are you the only ones it has reached? If any one thinks that he is a prophet, or spiritual, he should acknowledge that what I am writing to you is a command of the Lord.
POW, your statements and Paul’s revelation of the command of the Lord seem to me to be contradictory. I really don’t want to be wrong – can you help me understand what I am missing here?
thanks, Iconoclast
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 |  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 3/26/2003 6:29 PM (GMT -6) |   | POW
Much more than culture, the union of man and woman (AND GOD) in marriage is an eschatological reality.
Iconoclast
From www.dictionary.com:
eschatological - A belief or a doctrine concerning the ultimate or final things, such as death, the destiny of humanity, the Second Coming, or the Last Judgment.
Mat 22:28-30 - In the resurrection, therefore, to which of the seven will she be wife? For they all had her." But Jesus answered them, "You are wrong, because you know neither the scriptures nor the power of God. For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven.”
POW, I certainly agree with you that marriage is not an accomodation to culture (I think it is an acommodation to how we ended up being wired – God saw that it was not good for man to be alone), but I am confused by what you mean about it being an “eschatological reality.” Jesus' words here seem to be at odds with what you are saying - am I misunderstanding what you mean by “eschatological”?
thanks, Iconoclast
"The benefit overran the merit the first day, and has overrun the merit ever since. The merit itself, so-called, I reckon part of the receiving." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
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 |  Iconoclast Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1227 | Posted 3/26/2003 7:16 PM (GMT -6) |   | POW
The nature of SCRIPTURE is that is is revelatory. It builds. It unfolds. It does not discard. E.g., Already in the garden you hear of the crushing of the serpant's head. Some things are lain aside: e.g., the sacrifice of animals -- used as a bridge to lead us to fuller understanding. But that does not constitute an entire erasure and replacement.
Iconoclast
The statements I bolded seem contradictory to me. Also “used as a bridge to lead us to a fuller understanding” seems to me to be exactly what Doc was talking about when he said, “God has to take people from point A to B before he can hope to get them to Y and Z.” Are you agreeing with Doc here? If so, isn’t this why some commands can be understood to be cultural or conditioned on certain variables? Are you denying this?
thanks, Iconoclast
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 |  Laika Registered Member

Date Joined Mar 2003 Total Posts : 2433 | Posted 3/27/2003 1:57 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote:
Laika
"And yet Peter said that the Holy Spirit didn't want to lay any greater burdens on the gentiles." other than what's in scripture.
Iconoclast
Please read Acts Chapter 15. The whole point is that the Pharisees were insisting that the gentiles had to follow the law of Moses (the scriptural law)
The CEREMONIAL LAW As opposed to the moral law. The Ceremonial law was not being required of gentiles but the MORAL law is in place UNTIL THE END OF TIME.
Part of the moral law is the ten commandments. Do you believe Paul and Peter decided to let the gentiles ignore the ten commandments and ONLY refrain from eating meat sacrificed to idols????
YOU haven't answered my question. If "homosexuals" can claim they're "wired" for it and that Christ can't change that, then so too can pedophiles or alcholholics can claim they're "wired" for it and Christ can't change them. YOU are taking away their HOPE that they can change from their UNnatural affections into NATURAL affections. See Romans 1. Paul says they left the NATURAL (anatomical, biological) use of women to do it with other men (UNNATURAL, crack an anatomy book sometime)
If it's culture that determines WHAT the church accepts, then why didn't the early church accept homosexuality since it was very acceptable to the Greeks and the Romans of Paul's day?
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 |  Laika Registered Member

Date Joined Mar 2003 Total Posts : 2433 | Posted 3/27/2003 2:08 AM (GMT -6) |   |
quote:
19"It is my judgment, therefore, that we should not make it difficult for the Gentiles who are turning to God. 20Instead we should write to them, telling them to abstain from food polluted by idols, from sexual immorality, from the meat of strangled animals and from blood. 21For Moses has been preached in every city from the earliest times and is read in the synagogues on every Sabbath."
And where is this "sexual immorality" defined? In the law and the prophets, Leviticus 18:22
ESV: (English Standard Version): "You shall not lie with a man as with a woman; it is abomination." KJV: (King James Version): "Thou shalt not lie with mankind as with womankind: it is abomination". LB: (Living Bible): "Homosexuality is absolutely forbidden, for it is an enormous sin" NIV: (New International Version) "Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable." NLT: (New Living Translation): "Do not practice homosexuality; it is a detestable sin. RSV: (Revised Standard Version): "You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination .
You seem to have missed something from that discussion of Paul and Peter's.
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 |  Laika Registered Member

Date Joined Mar 2003 Total Posts : 2433 | Posted 3/27/2003 2:11 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote:
Iconoclast
If so, isn’t this why some commands can be understood to be cultural or conditioned on certain variables? Are you denying this?
If it's culture that determines WHAT the church accepts, then why didn't the early church accept homosexuality since it was very acceptable to the Greeks and the Romans of Paul's day?
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 |  Laika Registered Member

Date Joined Mar 2003 Total Posts : 2433 | Posted 3/27/2003 3:00 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote:
Laika
What I find sad about the whole "God wired me this way" argument is that it denies people the HOPE that Christ can change them. If homosexuals are "wired" that way, then so too are pedophiles, rapists, beastialists, necophiliacs, liars, adulterers, abortionists, etc.
Iconoclast
Here we go – way out of context again. Now, if I likewise take your thought here out of context then I would have to comment on how your logic is completely flawed. Why? Because you are saying that if God “wired” us to do X then he must have “wired” us to do EVERYTHING and since he obviously didn’t “wire” us to do EVERYTHING he must not have wired us to do X.
This logic is easily refuted by saying that God obviously “wired” us to breathe air but did not “wire” us to use faulty logic.
If a homo can claim he was "wired" that way by God, how can YOU deny a pedophile claiming he was "wired" that way by God? This is not "flawed logic". It's prescience
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 |  Semeia Registered Member
 Date Joined Aug 2001 Total Posts : 522 | Posted 3/27/2003 3:23 AM (GMT -6) |   | Laika,
In the past two months we discussed all of these scriptures in depth on several other threads:
Former Gay Man's Music Ministry
A Question
Although these are long threads (particularly the second) they contain numerous essays written on this topic. I don't think anyone involved wants to rehash the same discussion within weeks of the other threads. But if you read the other threads and want to challenge the arguments already put forth there, that would be great.
Incidently, other things that are considered an "abomination" in the Old Testament are handling pork and burning incense in the wrong way. According to these laws playing football in the Superbowl would be an "abomination."
As far as sexual morality, today we reject many biblical standard practices, like polygamy and the marriage of thirteen-year-olds.
Laika said:
If it's culture that determines WHAT the church accepts, then why didn't the early church accept homosexuality since it was very acceptable to the Greeks and the Romans of Paul's day?
Semeia:
If it's not culture that determines WHAT the church accepts, then why don't we accept polygamy and the marriage of thirteen-year-olds since they were acceptable to the people of biblical times, including David and Solomon, and in fact God "blessed" David with many wives?
Laika:
YOU haven't answered my question. If "homosexuals" can claim they're "wired" for it and that Christ can't change that, then so too can pedophiles or alcholholics can claim they're "wired" for it and Christ can't change them. YOU are taking away their HOPE that they can change from their UNnatural affections into NATURAL affections.
Semeia:
How about people born without arms and legs? Should we take away their HOPE that God will change their UNnatural lack of arms and legs into NATURAL growth of arms and legs by giving them UNnatural artificial limbs? Won't that take away their HOPE that God will heal them by growing new arms and legs? Why should we "accommodate" their armlessness and leglessness when God works miracles? Wouldn't that be a lack of faith?
Laika said:
See Romans 1. Paul says they left the NATURAL (anatomical, biological) use of women to do it with other men (UNNATURAL, crack an anatomy book sometime)
Semeia:
Crack a psychology book sometime, and you will find that homosexuality is determined at a very early age, and is completely NATURAL for those who are gay.
It seems to me that you are reducing human beings to the level of animal flesh - and thus whatever is anatomically "natural" should define our behavior. I think of human beings as spiritual, and not defined by the flesh. I think it is the most natural and beautiful victory when thalidomide children who have been born without arms learn how to paint with their toes, producing the most amazing beauty out of anatomical disaster. I think of gays in the same way - they have been given a sexual "wiring" ( for lack of a better term - obviously it is not so mechanical) in their brain at odds with their anatomy, and yet they are able to find meaningful and loving relationships and sexual intimacy in spite of the utter lack of support given to them by the world - particularly the Christian world.
You have mentioned the health issues of anal sex numerous times. If that were the principle concern here than I guess we would have to say that lesbianism is a bit preferrable to heterosexuality, because lesbians are at far less risk of STDs than straight people. Of course that would be a rather odd argument, wouldn't it?
Thanks, Semeia
"The opposite of sin is not virtue, but faith."--Soren Kierkegaard
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 |  Semeia Registered Member
 Date Joined Aug 2001 Total Posts : 522 | Posted 3/27/2003 3:30 AM (GMT -6) |   | Laika said:
If a homo can claim [...]
Semeia:
Are you aware that that is a pejorative and insulting term? It is against the person, not the behavior. Is that what you intend? It is no different than calling someone of another race a racist term.
Thanks, Semeia
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 |  Laika Registered Member

Date Joined Mar 2003 Total Posts : 2433 | Posted 3/27/2003 4:12 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote:
Laika said:
If it's culture that determines WHAT the church accepts, then why didn't the early church accept homosexuality since it was very acceptable to the Greeks and the Romans of Paul's day?
Semeia:
If it's not culture that determines WHAT the church accepts, then why don't we accept polygamy and the marriage of thirteen-year-olds since they were acceptable to the people of biblical times, including David and Solomon, and in fact God "blessed" David with many wives?
Nowhere in scripture does God command us to practice polygamy/polyandry or pedophilia. He does have something to say about homosexuality, though. When Paul could have made Christianity more acceptable to Greeks and Romans by allowing homosexuality, why didn't he?
quote:
Laika:
YOU haven't answered my question. If "homosexuals" can claim they're "wired" for it and that Christ can't change that, then so too can pedophiles or alcholholics can claim they're "wired" for it and Christ can't change them. YOU are taking away their HOPE that they can change from their UNnatural affections into NATURAL affections.
Semeia:
How about people born without arms and legs?
Paul is not talking about arms and legs. He is talking about sex. What does he mean by natural in Romans 1? They give up women (natural) for men (unnatural), what does Paul mean?
quote:
Laika said:
See Romans 1. Paul says they left the NATURAL (anatomical, biological) use of women to do it with other men (UNNATURAL, crack an anatomy book sometime)
Semeia:
Crack a psychology book sometime, and you will find that homosexuality is determined at a very early age, and is completely NATURAL for those who are gay.
Anatomically natural? Biologically natural? Which psychology book? One written in 1877? One written in 1910? One written in 1947? Psychology books should be our moral barometer now? Will they someday find that belief in God is psychotic? Will you abandon your faith then?
You two still evade the question of what to do when the "wired" pedophile shows up and doesn't want to be "transformed by the renewing of his mind".
The unhealthiness of repeated anal sex is only a proof of how homosexuality is not very anatomically compatible. It doesn't prove any mental incompatibility I admit. And I won't use homo as an abbreviation anymore.
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