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|  Modes of Thought Registered Member
 Date Joined Jun 2001 Total Posts : 817 | Posted 6/6/2003 7:36 AM (GMT -6) |   | POW, you may not realize this but I actually wrote my senior paper in college AND my MA thesis on issues of the Trinity and the language that cna be used in that regard while staying in good standing with the tradition. I recommend you read Gregory of Nyssa's article entitled something like "On not saying that there are three Gods." In this article he describes the distinctions of the persons of the Trinity as being AS distinct as Peter, Paul and John.
I do agree, there is one essense (Homoousious), three persons. I do understand the debate, I also understand that the historical sense of the term "tritheism" was directed at those who claimed that there was more than one God and that this implied a distinction in essense. I clearly reject that in all my thoughts on the Trinity. However, this jargon "tritheist" has now come to mean any robust distinction of the persons of the Trinity. My way of describing the distinctions is to say that the three persons of the Trinity are three distinct centers of willing. Christ makes this clear when he distinquishes his will from the Father's and yet subordinates his will to the Father's. Both distinction and submission. But true submission implies the distinction. The Spirit is also described in the NT as a distinct center of willing.
Anyway, if Gregory of Nyssa was not condemned as a tritheist (and he was not) then there is no reason to claim that I am one. I am simply repeating what he affirmed centuries ago.
"I don't feel a real urgent burden to get all the details of my ethics worked out until I've got the profundity of my love worked out in a Christ-like way." --doc
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 |  PotOnWheel Registered Member

Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 9890 | Posted 6/6/2003 7:37 AM (GMT -6) |   | And it is a lesson to be learned that there is far more to marrital intimacy than just intercourse.
A touch.
A look.
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 |  John Earp Registered Member
 Date Joined Oct 2002 Total Posts : 1715 | Posted 6/6/2003 7:58 AM (GMT -6) |   | I think it is likely that sex and procreation were created in order that man might procreate (as well as to develop deep emotional and spiritual intimacy between man and wife). However, this seems to me to be limited to a physical state of existence such as we are now in, and does not translate to the heavenly spiritual existence of our resurrected bodies.
In 1 Cor. 15 Paul said something to the effect of it is sown a physical, corruptible body, it is raised a spiritual, incorruptible body, which leads me to my next point.
It seems to me that by means of the Holy Spirit we already have access to spiritual intimacy (agapao) with God, and that spiritual intimacy will endure into the glorified state. We won't need genital stimulation to experience ecstasy or intimacy--we will only need to experience God's immediate presence, unhampered as it will then be by our earthly spiritual insensitivity.
What d'ya think?
"The Discovery of new truth will modify old views and opinions, and there is perhaps no end to this process with finite minds in any world." Charles G. Finney, Systematic Theology.
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 |  Tigress Registered Member
 Date Joined Feb 2003 Total Posts : 1252 | Posted 6/6/2003 7:59 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote:
And it is a lesson to be learned that there is far more to marrital intimacy than just intercourse.
A touch.
A look.
Aah!!!!
Please...you can get that with a boyfriend/girlfriend. A husband and wife need to go deeper with each other, or else why bother getting married at all?
Tigress
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 |  Modes of Thought Registered Member
 Date Joined Jun 2001 Total Posts : 817 | Posted 6/6/2003 8:00 AM (GMT -6) |   | Why do I get the feeling that my playfulness with words prompted a bunch of sideways marriage advice?
I guess I'll have to file some of this under "unsolicited advice."
Just so you know, yes, I understand the difference between sex and intimacy, and sorry if my humor offended you. It is quite possible in my world to BOTH take something very seriously and be able to relate to that same thing with humor. Particularly something like sex (which I know is not the same as intimacy, but ideally would be coextensive) that is just ripe with contradictions that make ironic and humorous possibilities readily available.
"I don't feel a real urgent burden to get all the details of my ethics worked out until I've got the profundity of my love worked out in a Christ-like way." --doc
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 |  S.B.G. Registered Member
 Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 143 | Posted 6/6/2003 8:02 AM (GMT -6) |   | It seems to me that by means of the Holy Spirit we already have access to spiritual intimacy (agapao) with God, and that spiritual intimacy will endure into the glorified state. We won't need genital stimulation to experience ecstasy or intimacy--we will only need to experience God's immediate presence, unhampered as it will then be by our earthly spiritual insensitivity
John,
This is something of what I have been attempting to say. 
S.B.G.
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 |  One Love Registered Member

Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 13888 | Posted 6/6/2003 8:04 AM (GMT -6) |   | Modes said:
quote: Here's my thought. Sex is an echo of what God's innertrinitarian relationship is like. Theologians call this "perichoesis" which means interpenetration. Full exposure of each person one to the others. So in this sense. It will be a cosmic orgy without the negative connotations of that here.
and…
quote: What seems clear to me is the following:
1. that God relates perfectly with the divine community of Father, Son and Spirit. 2. We are invited to be reconciled with God and know God as we are fully known. 3. This implies profound intimacy and interpenetration of persons with one another and God. 4. God's internal relationship was the prototype for the sexual distinction, our full reconciliation in heaven will be its fulfillment. 5. We are not merely mental or disembodied spirits now or in heaven. So we should expect physically engaging intimacy that is far more profound and interpenetrating than sex here on earth could ever be.
Oh, HAYell, yeah. Not to be a peanut gallery or anything, this I think this is pretty tight. Nother thought. This is why porneia is screwed up on so many levels. Casual sex takes what should be an reflection of intimacy, interpenetration, knowledge ( of self and other), and mutuality, REMOVES the intimacy, and, in many ways, makes it a subject where domination, control, ignorance (Say, uh, what’s your name again, baby? Ah, I guess it don’t matter...), and inconsideration reign supreme. Terrible, huh?

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 |  S.B.G. Registered Member
 Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 143 | Posted 6/6/2003 8:06 AM (GMT -6) |   | "A touch.
A look.
Aah!!!!"
Actually, I do have this with my husband! Intimacy is exciting and passionate, while being spiritual & loving! I'd feel somewhat undesirable if we lost the "aah" 
S.B.G.
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 |  Modes of Thought Registered Member
 Date Joined Jun 2001 Total Posts : 817 | Posted 6/6/2003 8:11 AM (GMT -6) |   | Thanks Meph. When are we gonna shake things up around here with some new stuff to work out?
"I don't feel a real urgent burden to get all the details of my ethics worked out until I've got the profundity of my love worked out in a Christ-like way." --doc
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 |  One Love Registered Member

Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 13888 | Posted 6/6/2003 8:16 AM (GMT -6) |   | Modes:
quote: When are we gonna shake things up around here with some new stuff to work out?
It's on you, playboy. You lead. I'm with ya.

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 |  PotOnWheel Registered Member

Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 9890 | Posted 6/6/2003 8:25 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote:
POW, you may not realize this but I actually wrote my senior paper in college AND my MA thesis on issues of the Trinity and the language that cna be used in that regard while staying in good standing with the tradition. I recommend you read Gregory of Nyssa's article entitled something like "On not saying that there are three Gods." In this article he describes the distinctions of the persons of the Trinity as being AS distinct as Peter, Paul and John.
I do agree, there is one essense (Homoousious), three persons. I do understand the debate, I also understand that the historical sense of the term "tritheism" was directed at those who claimed that there was more than one God and that this implied a distinction in essense. I clearly reject that in all my thoughts on the Trinity. However, this jargon "tritheist" has now come to mean any robust distinction of the persons of the Trinity. My way of describing the distinctions is to say that the three persons of the Trinity are three distinct centers of willing. Christ makes this clear when he distinquishes his will from the Father's and yet subordinates his will to the Father's. Both distinction and submission. But true submission implies the distinction. The Spirit is also described in the NT as a distinct center of willing.
Anyway, if Gregory of Nyssa was not condemned as a tritheist (and he was not) then there is no reason to claim that I am one. I am simply repeating what he affirmed centuries ago.
"I don't feel a real urgent burden to get all the details of my ethics worked out until I've got the profundity of my love worked out in a Christ-like way." --doc
Modes: POW, you may not realize this but I actually wrote my senior paper in college AND my MA thesis on issues of the Trinity and the language that cna be used in that regard while staying in good standing with the tradition.
Pow: Yes, I know your MA thesis. You sent me a copy three years ago, and I still have a copy. I was going to reply to you on it, but there were way to many point to be discussed. That was one of the reasons that I bought and mailed to you your copy of John Zizioulas' "Being as Communion. (The OTHER is it is a great book!!!)
Considering who you studied with in college, and worked for while doing the MA thesis your view was not surprising.
But you can't take just one of the Fathers and make him stand against the whole thrust as it developed. Any more than I can take one and say that you have to agree with him. But the view developed by the other fathers in his ilk is different from the one view 'yall take permission from in "staying in good standing with the tradition." The fact that "the tradition" is opposed to what y'all have there is still notably obvious.
Modes: I recommend you read Gregory of Nyssa's article entitled something like "On not saying that there are three Gods." In this article he describes the distinctions of the persons of the Trinity as being AS distinct as Peter, Paul and John.
PoW: One would be wise to take that as Ware writes: each is distinguished from the other two by personal characteristics. ‘The divine is indivisible in its divisions (Gregory of Nazianzus, Orations, 31, 14). and The relations, they would say, are not the persons — they are the personal characteristics of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit; and (as Gregory Palamas put it) ‘personal characteristics do not constitute the person, but they characterize the person’ (Quoted in J. Meyendorff, Introduction à 1’étude de Grégoire Palamas, Paris, 1959, p. 294). The relations, while designating the persons, in no way exhaust the mystery of each.
Modes: I also understand that the historical sense of the term "tritheism" was directed at those who claimed that there was more than one God and that this implied a distinction in essense. I clearly reject that in all my thoughts on the Trinity.
PoW: I agree with you here, and accept what you are saying above.
Modes: However, this jargon "tritheist" has now come to mean any robust distinction of the persons of the Trinity. My way of describing the distinctions is to say that the three persons of the Trinity are three distinct centers of willing.
PoW: YES, I KNOW THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE SAYING.
AND THAT IS HERETICAL. IT IS BAD THEOLOGY.
Sorry!
Modes: Christ makes this clear when he distinquishes his will from the Father's and yet subordinates his will to the Father's.
PoW: THIS, AGAIN, IS VERY BAD THEOLOGY. POOR TRINITARIAN DOCTRINE. BAD CHRISTOLOGY AS WELL.
(And I find the OV to be poor theologiclaly in BOTH Christological doctrine AND the doctrine of the Trinity.)
You are on the coattales of extreme "parachoreticism." The difference between that and what the Church has "always" taught is plain.
And going along with that is a statistical tendency for OV-ers to ignore the two wills of Christ: one human will and one Divine will.
Christ did shared in (perichoretically) the divine Will of the Father, by nature. Yet his human will willed to follow--chose.
I see the OV to be a dangerous heresy. It is like a loose thread in a carpet, that once pulled begins to unravel the image in many, many parts of the design.
Once again, sorry to have to tell you this, my friend!!!
Modes: Christ makes this clear when he distinquishes his will from the Father's and yet subordinates his will to the Father's. Both distinction and submission. But true submission implies the distinction. The Spirit is also described in the NT as a distinct center of willing.
PoW: "Both distinction and submission?" The distinction and the submission were the SAME THING, and both were the theanthopos. The human will of Christ BOTH was distinct from the Godhead, and, while joined hypostatically to Christ's Divine nature, was also submitted by his own personal free will. (Numerical options does not constitute the nature of freedom of will; liberty from sin does!) In Christ's divine nature he was neither distinct from the Father (only Personally distinct) nor was Christ in "submission" to the Father by nature, by will.
See John Chrysostom on this issue:
quote: www.ccel.org/fathers2/NPNF1-12/npnf1-12-44.htm#P1912_1165237
[7.]
Ver. 27. "For He hath put all things in subjection under His feet. But when He saith, All things are put in subjection, it is manifest that He is excepted who did subject all things unto Him."
Ver. 28. "And when all things have been subjected unto Him, then shall the Son also Himself be subjected unto Him that did subject all things unto Him."
And yet before he said not that it was the Father who "put things under Him," but He Himself who "abolishes." For "when He shall have abolished," saith he, "all rule and authority:" and again, "for He must reign until He hath put all His enemies under His feet." How then doth he here say, "the Father?"
And not only is there this apparent perplexity, but also that he is afraid with a very unaccountable fear, and uses a correction, saying, "He is excepted, who did subject all things unto Him," as though some would suspect, whether the Father might Himself not be subject unto the Son; than which what can be more irrational? nevertheless, he fears this.
How then is it? for in truth there are many questions following one upon another. Well, give me then your earnest attention; since in fact it is necessary for us first to speak of the scope of Paul and his mind, which one may find everywhere shining forth, and then to subjoin our solution: this being itself an ingredient in our solution.
What then is Paul's mind, and what is his custom? He speaks in one way when he discourses of the Godhead alone, and in another when he falls into the argument of the economy. Thus having once taken hold of our Lord's Flesh, he freely thereafter uses all the sayings that humiliate Him; without fear as though that were able to bear all such expressions. Let us see therefore here also, whether his discourse is of the simple Godhead, or whether in view of the incarnation he asserts of Him those things which he saith: or rather let us first point out where he did this of which I have spoken. Where then did he this? Writing to the Philippians he saith, "Who, being in the form of God, counted it not a prize to be on an equality with God, but emptied Himself ofno reputation, taking the form of a servant, being made in the likeness of men: and being found in fashion as a man, He humbled Himself, becoming obedient even unto death, yea, the death of the cross. Wherefore hathGod highly exalted Him." (Philippians chapter 2, verse 6-Philippians chapter 2, verse 9)
Seest thou how when he was discoursing of the Godhead alone, he uttered those great things, that He "was in the form of God" and that He "was equal with" Him that begat Him, and to Him refers the whole? But when He showed Him to thee made flesh, he lowered again the discourse. For except thou distinguish these things, there is great variance between the things spoken. Since, if He were "equal with God," how did He highly exalt one equal with Himself? If He were "in the form of God," how "gave" He Him "a name?" for he that giveth, giveth to one that hath not, and he that exalteth, exalteth one that is before abased. He will be found then to be imperfect and in need, before He hath received the "exaltation" and "the Name;" and many other absurd corollaries will hence follow. But if thou shouldest add the incarnation, thou wilt not err in saying these things. These things then here also consider, and with this mind receive thou the expressions.
[8.]
Now together with these we will state also other reasons why this pericope of Scripture was thus composed. But at present it is necessary to mention this: first, that Paul's discourse was of the resurrection, a thing counted to be impossible and greatly disbelieved: next, he was writing to Corinthians among whom there were many philosophers who mocked at such things always. For although in other things wrangling one with another, in this they all, as with one mouth, conspired, dogmatically declaring that there is no resurrection. Contending therefore for such a subject so disbelieved and ridiculed, both on account of the prejudice which had been formed, and on account of the difficulty of the thing; and wishing to demonstrate its possibility, he first effects this from the resurrection of Christ. And having proved it both from the prophets, and from those who had seen, and from those who believed: when he had obtained an admitted reductio ad absurdum, he proves in what follows the resurrection of mankind also. "For if the dead rise not," saith he, "neither has Christ been raised."
Further; having closely urged these converse arguments in the former verses, he tries it again in another way, calling Him the "first-fruits," and pointing to His "abolishing all rule and authority and power, and death last." "How then should death be put down," saith he, "unless he first loose the bodies which heheld?" Since then he had spoken great things of the Only-Begotten, that He "gives up the kingdom," i.e., that He Himself brings these things to pass, and Himself is victor in the war, and "putteth all things under His feet," he adds, to correct the unbelief of the multitude, "for He must reign till He hath put all His enemies under His feet." Not as putting an end to the kingdom, did he use the expression "until," but to render what was said worthy of credit, and induce them to be confident. For "do not," saith he, "because thou hast heard that He will abolish all rule, and authority and power," to wit, the devil, and the bands of demons, (many as there are,) and the multitudes of unbelievers, and the tyranny of death, and all evils: do not thou fear as though His strength was exhausted. For until He shall have done all these things, "He must reign;" not saying this, that after He hath brought it to pass He doth not reign; but establishing this other, that even if it be not now, undoubtedly it will be. For His kingdom is not cut off: yea, He rules and prevails and abides until He shall have set to right all things.
And this manner of speech one might find also in the Old Testament; as when it is said, "But the word of the Lord abideth for ever;" (Psalms chapter 119, verse 89) and, "Thou art the same, and Thy years shall not fail." (Psalms chapter 102, verse 27) Now these and such-like things the Prophet saith, when he is telling of things which a long space of time must achieve and which must by all means come to pass; casting out the fearfulness of the duller sort of hearers.
But that the expression, "until," spoken of God, and "unto," do not signify an end, hear what one saith: "From everlasting unto everlasting Thou art God:" (Psalms chapter 90, verse 2) and again, "I am, I am," and "Even to your old age I am He." (Isaiah chapter 46, verse 4)
For this cause indeed doth he set death last, that from the victory over the rest this also might be easily admitted by the unbeliever. For when He destroys the devil who brought in death, much more will He put an end to His work.
[9.]
Since then he referred all to Him, the "abolishing rule and authority," the perfecting of His kingdom, (I mean the salvation of the faithful, the peace of the world, the taking away of evils, for this is to perfect His kingdom,) the putting an end to death; and he said not, "the Father by Him," but, "Himself shall put down, and Himself shall put under His feet," and he no where mentioned Him that begat Him; he was afraid afterward, lest on this account among some of the more irrational persons, either the Son might seem to be greater than the Father, or to be a certain distinct principle, unbegotten. And therefore, gently guarding himself, he qualifies the magnitude of his expressions, saying, "for He put all things in subjection under His feet," again referring to the Father these high achievements; not as though the Son were without power. For how could He be, of whom he testified so great things before, and referred to Him all that was said? But it was for the reason which I mentioned, and that he might show all things to be common to Father and Son which were done in our behalf. For that Himself alone was sufficient to "put all things in subjection under Him," hear again Paul saying, (Philippians chapter 3, verse 21) "Who shall fashion anew the body of our humiliation that it may be conformed to the body of His glory, according to the working whereby He is able even to subject all things unto Himself."
Then also heuses a correction, saying, "But when He saith, all things are put in subjection, it is evident that He is excepted who did subject all things unto Him," testifying even thence no small glory to the Only-Begotten. For if He were less and much inferior, this fear would never have been entertained by him. Neither is he content with this, but also adds another thing, as follows. I say, lest any should doubt-ingly ask, "And what if the Father hath not been `put under Him?' this doth not at all hinder the Son from being the more mighty;" fearing this impious supposition, because that expression was not sufficient to point out this also, he added, going very much beyond it, "But when all things have been subjected unto Him, then shall the Son also Himself be subjected;" showing His great concord with the Father, and that He is the principle of all other good things and the first Cause, who hath begotten One so great in power and in achievements.
[10.]
But if he said more than the subject-matter demanded, marvel not. For in imitation of his Master he doeth this: since He too pur-posing to show His concord with Him that begat Him, and that He hath not come without His mind, descends so far, I say not, as the proof of concord demanded, but as the weakness of the persons present required. For He prays to His Father for no other cause but this; and stating the reason He saith, "that they may believe that Thou hast sent Me." (John chapter 11, verse 42) In imitation therefore of Him, Paul here in his manner of speech goes beyond what was required; not that thou mightest have any suspicion of a forced servitude, far from it; but that he might the more entirely cast out those impious doctrines. For so when he is minded to pull up any thing by the roots, he is wont to do it, and abundantly more with it. Thus too, for example, when he spake of a believing wife and an unbelieving husband, companying with one another by the law of marriage, that the wife might not consider herself defiled by that intercourse and the embraces of the unbeliever, he said not, "the wife is not unclean," nor, "she is no wise harmed by the unbeliever," but, which was much more, "the unbeliever is even `sanctified' by her," not meaning to signify that the heathen was made holy through her, but by the very great strength of the expression anxious to remove her fear. So also here, his zeal to take away that impious doctrine by a very strong utterance was the cause of his expressing himself as he did. For as to suspect the Son of weakness is extreme impiety: (wherefore he corrects it, saying, "He shall put all enemies under His feet:") so on the other hand is it more impious to consider the Father inferior to Him. Wherefore he takes it also away with exceeding force. And observe how he puts it. For he said not simply, "He is excepted which put all things under Him," but, "it is manifest," "for even if it be admitted," saith he, "nevertheless I make it sure."
And that thou mayest learn that this is the reason of the things spoken, I would ask thee this question: Doth an additional "subjection" at that time befal the Son? And how can this be other than impious and unworthy of God? For the greatest subjection and obedience is this, that He who is God took the form of a servant. How then will He be "sub-jected?" Seest thou, that to take away the impious notion, he used this expression? and this too in a suitable though reserved sense? For he becomes a Son and a divine Person, so He obeys; not humanly, but as one acting freely and having all authority. Otherwise how is he co-enthroned? How, "as the Father raiseth up, even so He, whom He will?" (John chapter 5, verse 21) How are "all things that the Father hath His," and all that He hath, the Father's? (John chapter 16, verse 15) For these phrases indicate to us an authority exactly measured by that of Him that begat Him.
[11.]
But what is this, "When He shall deliver up the kingdom?" The Scripture acknowledges two kingdoms of God, the one by appropriation, the other by creation. Thus, He is King over all, both Greeks and Jews and devils and His adversaries, in respect of His creation: but He is King of the faithful and willing and subject, in respect of His making them His own. This is the kingdom which is said also to have a beginning. For concerning this He saith also in the second Psalm, "Ask of Me, and I shall give Thee the heathen for Thine inheritance." (Psalms chapter 2, verse 8) Touching this also, He Himself said to His disciples, "All authority hath been given unto Me by My father," (Matthew chapter 28, verse 18) referring all to Him that begat Him, notas though of Himself He were not sufficient, but to signify that He is a Son, and not unbegotten. This kingdom then He doth "deliver up," i.e., "bring to a right end."
"What then," saith one, "can be the reason why He spake nothing of the Spirit?" Because of Him he was not discoursing now, nor doth he confound all things together. Since also where he saith, "There is one God the Father, and one Lord Jesus," undoubtedly not as allowing the Spirit to be inferior, is he therefore silent, but because for the time it was not urgent, he so expressed himself. For he is wont also to make mention of the Father only, yet we must not therefore cast out the Son: he is wont to speak also of the Son and of the Spirit only, yet not for this are we to deny the Father.
But what is, "that God may be all in all?" That all things may be dependent upon Him, that none may suppose two authorities without a beginning, nor another kingdom separated off; that nothing may exist independent of him. For when the enemies shall be lying under the feet of the Son, and He having them cast under His feet be at no variance with His Father, but at concord with Him in entire perfection, then He shall Himself "be all in all."
But some say that he spake this to declare the removal of wickedness, as though all would yield thenceforth and none would resist nor do iniquity. For when there is no sin, it is evident that "God shall be all in all."
Modes: But true submission implies the distinction.
PoW: YES IT DOES. AND NEITHER THE SORT OF DISTINCTION YOU ARE IMAGINING IS ACCURATE, NOR THE SUPPOSED "SUBMISSION."
AGAIN, READ JOHN CHRYSOSTOM'S "Homily XXXIX ON 1 Corinthians chapter 15!!!!!!
Modes: The Spirit is also described in the NT as a distinct center of willing.
PoW: YOU ARE CONFUSING ECONOMIC AND ESSENTIAL.
--------------------------------------------------------- (Please note, I'm not calling YOU a heretic!!! My friend. It takes more than believing a heresy to be that!) ---------------------------------------------------------
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 |  selah Registered Member

Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1210 | Posted 6/6/2003 8:27 AM (GMT -6) |   | Sex is in Heaven! St. Teresa of Avila experienced "Godly" ecstasy. Her example will be my proof until someone wrecks it for me  
love selah
Then He showed me the river whose waters give life, sparkling like crystal, flowing out from the throne of God and of the Lamb. Rev. 22:1
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 |  Modes of Thought Registered Member
 Date Joined Jun 2001 Total Posts : 817 | Posted 6/6/2003 8:45 AM (GMT -6) |   | POW, I appreciate your concern, but I have to say your presentation is far more dogmatic than it than biblical. I really do understand what you are saying and I simply disagree. You might be surprised to find that Greg would differ with me (in your direction) in that he resists making distinctions of will between the persons of God. I may change my mind on this (after all God does this occasionally ) but it would be for biblical reasons (and within the scope of accepted tradition, not simply the majority voice of a given period, but that which is deemed acceptable), not simply dogmatic assertions.
I do reject the two minds Christology. That stikes me as simply confused and makes Christ out to be schizophrenic. I affirm a kenotic Christology which is well represented in the tradition as well. The two minds Christology, among its problems, offers the temptation of deciding for Christ when he was using his divine mind and when his human. The criterion tends to be the impassibility of God. This is deeply flawed if we are to understand that God is the chief exemplification of passion in God's pursuit of the world, not the exception to passion. Rather than appeal to a divine mind when Christ appears to know things that a human cannot know, I think the Bible points us to Christ's relation to God via the Spirit, rather than a direct mind link. We are to imitate Christ in that. If we appeal to a divine mind at these points, imitation is impossible and Christ is not really fully human.
Anyway, I am open to dialogue, but not so much to dogmatic dismissal. No offense taken. Really. But neither do I grant that you represent the tradition accurately, let alone authoritatively.
Blessings brother. Modes
"I don't feel a real urgent burden to get all the details of my ethics worked out until I've got the profundity of my love worked out in a Christ-like way." --doc
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 |  Christian Registered Member
 Date Joined May 2003 Total Posts : 78 | Posted 6/6/2003 9:16 AM (GMT -6) |   | There have been some very insightful comments made in response to the question. "Free love" and "free sex" do not sound like something I desire (either on earth or in heaven). What a strange heaven that would be where all the humans and also angels were having free love and free sex. Never have I heard that interpretation of heaven nor is there any Biblical support for it.
I want to be cautious when I say this due to the nature of the topic (sex) but to Tigress, I believe that when you do someday experience a sexual relationship in a marriage, you will find that there is much more to intimacy than sex. Sex is not the "ultimate" experience in life, nor will it be in heaven. It is a part of the marriage relationship that God created for both procreation and as a sort of "glue" bonding the couple together which explains why it is so damaging to a person's soul when committed with someone other than a spouse. However, love (even romantic love) is possible without sex. There are couples who are unable to have sex due to disabilities, sicknesses, disease. The elderly often do not even desire sex. Sex is one aspect and one experience in a relationship, but it certainly is not the ultimate in experiences.
When I look back on memories in my life, sex is not one of them. Sex has been a wonderful part of my marriage and it certainly creates a special bond in my marriage, but in the end, my memories are of time spent with my family, conversations, holding my children, lives touched, my church family. I could go on, but the point being, when all is said and done, I enjoyed sex but it isn't what has held my marriage together and it isn't what I will remember the most in life or in my marriage. It needs to be put into perspective.
Tigress, you also mentioned that sex is the greatest physcial pleasure on earth and you can't see why we'd be deprived of it in heaven. You are thinking with a human perspective (rightly so being you are human) and you will not get an answer to this until you face God and ask him. No human can give you the "right" answer because none of us knows for sure why or why not sex will or won't be in heaven. According to Scripture, there will be no marriage in heaven. Are you able to accept it and believe and trust that God has something better and we simply cannot understand what that is? We have little fathoming of heaven because we think with human and sinful minds and hearts. We cannot fathom what life without sin is like. We imagine it with our limited minds and we think things such as "what about sex and marriage?" but obviously, heaven will be wonderful and God has something greater. We must unlimately trust Him and believe Him in that. That is what faith is. Believing what does not make sense to us.
Tigress, you also stated that a marriage without sex would be a poor marriage indeed,and I think you would hurt and offend many couples who again, as I mentioned, are either unable to have sex or are too old to have sex or perhaps do not even desire to have sex. Do you know who Christopher Reeve is? He is paralyzed from the neck down and wheelchair-bound. I am not a doctor, but I imagine he and his wife are unable to have sex seeing as he cannot move his body neck down. He cannot reach out to stroke his wife's hair, he cannot, I suppose, even hold her hand or hug her. Yet, she has remained faithful to him. Every picture I see of them is a picture of a smiling couple. They do not appear to have a poor marriage; in fact, their marriage is an example, in my humble opinion, of what truly makes a marriage. Sex is not what makes a marriage good. It can be good in a good marriage, but it does not make a marriage and it is not the foundation for love within a marriage.
I am at peace knowing that there is no sex in heaven. I don't believe we will miss it or even think about it.
Edited by - Christian on 06/06/2003 2:19:17 PM | | Back to Top | | |
 |  Christian Registered Member
 Date Joined May 2003 Total Posts : 78 | Posted 6/6/2003 9:37 AM (GMT -6) |   | Tigress you also said that sex is "the most profound way of expressing love for each other, and giving each other pleasure"
Sex is not, in my opinion, the most profound way of expressing love for each other. Forgiving a spouse who has deeply hurt you- profound. Weeping with a spouse whose parent has died-- profound. Putting aside your own plans, agendas, wants in order to accomodate your spouses- profound. Continuing to love your spouse who has Alzheimers or a disability or other disease (which possibly even prevents them from having sex or diminishes their desire for it)- profound. Sex is great but it is surely not the most profound way of expressing love. Tigress, I say this gently, but you have some misconceptions about sex which would perhaps explain the reason you find it difficult to understand an eternal life without sex.
Edited by - Christian on 06/06/2003 2:38:34 PM | | Back to Top | | |
 |  S.B.G. Registered Member
 Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 143 | Posted 6/6/2003 9:54 AM (GMT -6) |   | Christian, You gave some good examples of profound love, but I would not exclude expressions of love through sexual intimacy from the list.
Particularly to a virgin, the giving of herself sexually will be the most vulnerable act she has engaged in her life thus far.
You use the term "sex." In its blatant physical context I would agree, but when a couple chooses to imbime the symbolism and spiritual aspects of their love making it IS profound. And this can intensify with time alongside the experiences you mentioned. As we walk with one another through life's challenges to give ourselves sexually means all the more because we can think "I am holding in my arms the one who walks with me and will never desert me. I am offering myself to the one who understands me like no other."
Yes, Tigress will understand better when she gets married. But my prayer is her experiences with her husband will be rich with a profundity that will increase as their love for each other deepens.
S.B.G.
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 |  Tigress Registered Member
 Date Joined Feb 2003 Total Posts : 1252 | Posted 6/6/2003 10:27 AM (GMT -6) |   | Christian,
I saw an interview with Christopher Reeve and his wife and they were asked the question about their sexual relationship and in response they smiled and said, "There are things you can do, even in his condition." Or something to that effect. This tells me that they've found a way or ways for him to still sexually stimulate her.
I think you also need to look at S.B.G.'s point because sex to a woman is much more profound than it apparently is to a man or at least to you. I'm not sure why that is. It seems like men don't find it as relationally meaningful as women do, which is why I think when unmarried men and women engage in sexual activities with each other and then break up, it's the woman who's usually a lot more emotionally hurt about it, because of having given all of herself to the man. The man doesn't seem to be as hurt overall by that as much. I think you and men in general need to take this into consideration when pondering this issue and sexual issues in general, and be extremely sensitive to it.
In my past experiences, I'd been so much more emotionally damaged from the sexual stuff I did engage in with my boyfriends, than they ever were after we broke up. To them, it was just a matter of course, but to me, I almost couldn't live! I didn't want to live anymore because it was as if I was completely poured out of myself and not whole anymore. And I hadn't even gone all the way and had sexual intercourse, for this kind of emotional damage to happen to me! I can't imagine how much worse off I would have been had I gone all the way!
Tigress
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 |  ReasonableDoubt Registered Member
 Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 655 | Posted 6/6/2003 10:36 AM (GMT -6) |   | One thing that has bugged me about conservative Christianity emphasizing how mysterious and wonderful sexual intimacy is - is that people end up thinking it is the end all be all activity - people think they can't live without it - and can't conceive of a heaven without it.
I don't think we should over-romanticize it - something is wrong if you feel like killing yourself over it. Realize I'm not trying to de-value it - but prostitution - the world's oldest profession - exists precisely b/c of the biological need for sex - and sex should not be romanticized into this otherworldly mystical activity that has special properties to bring one closer to another. Like Christian said, there are MANY ways of expressing love - sexual intimacy is one way - but obviously it does not create love and many people engage in it for any number of reasons BUT love. | | Back to Top | | |
 |  Tigress Registered Member
 Date Joined Feb 2003 Total Posts : 1252 | Posted 6/6/2003 10:41 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote:
One thing that has bugged me about conservative Christianity emphasizing how mysterious and wonderful sexual intimacy is - is that people end up thinking it is the end all be all activity - people think they can't live without it - and can't conceive of a heaven without it.
I don't think we should over-romanticize it - something is wrong if you feel like killing yourself over it. Realize I'm not trying to de-value it - but prostitution - the world's oldest profession - exists precisely b/c of the biological need for sex - and sex should not be romanticized into this otherworldly mystical activity that has special properties to bring one closer to another. Like Christian said, there are MANY ways of expressing love - sexual intimacy is one way - but obviously it does not create love and many people engage in it for any number of reasons BUT love.
Well when I said I didn't want to go on living after my sexual sins, I meant that it was much harder to break up with these boyfriends because I had gotten so physically intimate with them. If I had not engaged in any type of sexual activity with them, breaking up with them would have been much less traumatic for me, because I wouldn't have given so much of myself over to them. So, my "deathwish" as it were, was really the consequence of a combination of things, and not simply because I missed doing sexual stuff, or ONLY because I had. Of course I missed the guys, too - or at least a couple of them, anyway. 
Tigress
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 |  S.B.G. Registered Member
 Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 143 | Posted 6/6/2003 10:51 AM (GMT -6) |   | sex should not be romanticized into this otherworldly mystical activity that has special properties to bring one closer to another. Like Christian said, there are MANY ways of expressing love - sexual intimacy is one way - but obviously it does not create love
I agree, it does not CREATE love, but when the other areas of the relationship have a strong sense of unity, balance, respect and trust, our desire to be sexually intimate increases. Thoughts and feelings are strengthened as they are expressed. The more we tell our mate affirming things, or show them support or make love to them, the stronger our feelings become. The sexual aspect of our marriage cannot be seperated from the rest of the marriage, it is a natural response to everything else going on in the relationship. In Christian's example of forgiving our mate when they have wounded us deeply, when the forgiveness is fully realized, my guess is that couple will seek sexual touch. This underscores why "having sex" when our mate has hurt us or we are angry actually creates a greater distance and resentment, but when the anger/hurt is resolved and the trust is re-established, couples feel the desire to be physically and sexually intimate because it re-unites and reaffirms their love and commitment.
Having said that, I would like to repeat, compared to the pleasure, intimacy and joy of heaven, earthly sexuality will pale dramatically and we won't need it anymore.
S.B.G.
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 |  Tigress Registered Member
 Date Joined Feb 2003 Total Posts : 1252 | Posted 6/6/2003 11:02 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote: Having said that, I would like to repeat, compared to the pleasure, intimacy and joy of heaven, earthly sexuality will pale dramatically and we won't need it anymore.
S.B.G.
Well, I guess I just won't know until I actually experience both and I know I'm going to go to heaven, so it's just a matter of snagging a husband! Are any of you fellas available! Come on, think of it as a scientific experiment (for as long as we both shall live)! 
Tigress
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 |  PotOnWheel Registered Member

Date Joined Jul 2001 Total Posts : 9890 | Posted 6/6/2003 2:12 PM (GMT -6) |   | quote: Modes
I think the Bible points us to Christ's relation to God via the Spirit, rather than a direct mind link. We are to imitate Christ in that. If we appeal to a divine mind at these points, imitation is impossible and Christ is not really fully human.
I'm FINE with "Christ's relation to God via the Spirit" AND with our imitat[ion of] Christ in that. And I completely agree on the centrality of their importance too. (I bet you are glad to hear that, Modes.) Christ's humanity did have a human relationship with the Spirit. But the divine relationship of the Word to the Spirit was unaltered.
But that does not mean that Christ lacked a Divine mind.
You list two problems that you are trying to avoid:
1. [our]...imitation is impossible...
2. Christ is not really fully human.
1. Christ is fully human and fully divine. The Epiklesis shows us that it is the Spirit who ministers Christs body and blood to us. That is why we are IN Christ. Christ did not accomplish merit by his following the Spirit (western, and Theodore of Mopsuestia). It is his assumption of our fallen humanity and deification of it that brings salvation to Adam's race.
2. As to Christ's full humanity... Romanades says this: quote: The opinion generally prevails that Theodore's Christology is based on an inductive historico-biblical method which begins by recognizing the full humanity of Christ and tries from this point to solve the problem of the unity of subject in Christ. This is clearly a myth. Theodore, like many others of the Oriental Diocese, is a moralistic metaphysician who applies concepts and definitions to the divine nature and'. in advance determines what is for God possible and what is not. According to his doctrine of divine relations it is impossible far God to unite Himself by nature to human nature. His starting point is not the human nature of Christ, nor is it the biblical witness as history, but rather a definition and limitation of divine nature in terms of a necessity distinguished from will. It is exactly because of this transcendental starting point that Theodore's doctrine of the Trinity has no room for any real distinction between hypostasis and essence. In Cappadocian and Alexandrian Triadology the reality of the Divine Hypostases as distinguished from the divine essence is grounded in the belief that the Second Hypostasis of the Trinity really and truly lived and willed and suffered as a real and complete man and that He really and truly was resurrected in the flesh to become the first-born from the dead. For Theodore there is no need to distinguish between the hypostasis of the Logos and the nature of the Logos because the one person effected by the union of natures not only is not the Only-Begotten Son of God, as Sullivan clearly demonstrates, but also cannot be an hypostasis of the Trinity. Natural or hypostatic union is for Theodore a necessary union. There can be no doubt that Theodore would have wholeheartedly supported the attack on St. Cyril. Whether he would have changed his mind about the double consubstantiality of the One and Unique Hypostasis born of the Virgin when faced by the decision of the Fourth Ecumenical Council one can never know. On the other hand one can not preclude the very strong possibility that Theodore may have remained more faithful to Nestorius than did Theodoret and the other Antiochenes.
HIGHLIGHTS IN THE DEBATE OVER THEODORE OF MOPSUESTIA'S CHRISTOLOGY AND SOME SUGGESTIONS FOR A FRESH APPROACH (part 1) http://www.romanity.org/htm/rom.09.en.highlights_in_the_debate_over_theodore.02.htm
Theodore is more extreem. But I'm wondering why you say: We are to imitate Christ in that...to a divine mind at these points...imitation is impossible. Are you thinking that we accomplish something by immitating? (What I've gleaned from scanning you about SL might suggest it.) For me "immitating" is more along the lines of "participating."
(Maybe I'll post more later.)
PoW
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 |  DLW Registered Member
 Date Joined Apr 2003 Total Posts : 2457 | Posted 6/6/2003 2:56 PM (GMT -6) |   | I believe C.S. Lewis rightly characterized the pleasures of this world as only shadows compared to the joys of the next.
Tigress, If you want to get married, why not join a Christian Singles group?
dlw
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 |  AlyoshaKaramazov Registered Member
 Date Joined Jan 2003 Total Posts : 49 | Posted 6/6/2003 8:49 PM (GMT -6) |   | Feeling a little randy, Tigress???
Okay, I generally consider myself open-minded, but a sexual orgy in heaven?!?!? Riiiiiiiiight (said in Dr. Evil intonation). Paging Mr. Hefner...
Tigress, this idea reminds me of a column in the onion a week or two ago called "All my new religion needs now is a snazzy post-death scenario." Nothing sounds more contrived, or for that matter, devoid of any scriptural support than the idea that "heaven" and "woodstock" are synonymous terms.
Please never bring this idea up again. Thanks.
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 |  selah Registered Member

Date Joined Oct 2001 Total Posts : 1210 | Posted 6/7/2003 2:28 AM (GMT -6) |   | quote:
Tigress, this idea reminds me of a column in the onion a week or two ago called "All my new religion needs now is a snazzy post-death scenario." Nothing sounds more contrived, or for that matter, devoid of any scriptural support than the idea that "heaven" and "woodstock" are synonymous terms.
Hello Alyo,
I think Tigress' question is fair and actually quite profound. This idea of "interpenetration" is beautiful in my opinion. I'm wondering if you'd agree that sex has been perverted since the fall? If so, who did the perverting? I don't think it was God.
If your idea (your deep meaning) of sex is "dirty" or "bad" or "naughty" (as your Woodstock analogy seems to imply) then I agree. Your IDEA of sex would not be in Heaven.
I think (and dare say) I've experienced a certain feeling in the depths of love we join in when we are aware of living fully IN Christ. This love can produce extreme, ecstatic, and (seemingly erotic) unexplainable bliss. When we seek Him with all our heart, soul, and mind, and focus on doing life IN Him (in His love, John 17:20-26) then there is that certain feeling that comes upon us too--a moment of "interpenetration"(??). Call it the "zone" or the "center"(a big part of this is allowing God's love to flow through us--so maybe that's where the feeling comes from)...It's wonderful really. Like it or not.
quote:
Please never bring this idea up again. Thanks.
Why not? Since Tigress brought it up, we were blessed with these statements from Modes: "This implies profound intimacy and interpenetration of persons with one another and God." and "God's internal relationship was the prototype for the sexual distinction, our full reconciliation in heaven will be its fulfillment."
I completely agree and would only add that we can have a taste of it now...(our interpenetration)In Christ. The problem (which I don't get) is retaining it. I think that is what happens in Heaven.
Thanks Tigress for being brave enough to bring it up. Now, what IS the deal with angels anyway? I've asked before and people tend to shy away from this one. Do they reproduce? Do demons?
love love, selah
Then He showed me the river whose waters give life, sparkling like crystal, flowing out from the throne of God and of the Lamb. Rev. 22:1
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