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sojourner_j
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   Posted 8/30/2007 7:14 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Hi,
I just returned from a funeral. A father gave his life for his son. His son had slipped into a river and the father jumped in after him. During the funeral the pastor spoke of how God "allowed" it and how God has a road map for each of our lives.
After the funeral, I heard a woman talk about it being God's will.
I've visited this board a couple of years ago, was involved in discussions then. I'm confused. Does God "allow" things as His will? Does he allow them because he chose to give us free will and therefore cannot (that's not true ... he can) stop them?
If He is all-good, all-powerful, all-knowing, all-loving--which I believe he is, all of those--then why did he "allow" this. Was it his plan for this father?
Your thoughts are appreciated.
Sincerely,
Sojourner
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Corey
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   Posted 8/30/2007 8:31 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Hi Sojourner --

I'm sorry with you for this man's passing. What a sad thing for the surviving family and friends.

While I don't think that this pastor is correct to claim that "God has a road map for each of our lives", I do believe that God allowed the possibility of this man's death. This is the sort of world, that God created, where a man can lay down his life for his son; God didn't make that impossible. But neither did he determine that this man MUST undergo this. There's probably a myriad of factors that contributed to this event, but not least is this man's love for his son.


 

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feelinahole
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   Posted 8/30/2007 10:37 PM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
At the risk of sounding callous, there just ain't no easy answers to the question. In the end, it just seems that we either trust that God loves us or we don't. The Bible simly doesn't go much further than I am God trust me.
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Tom
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   Posted 8/31/2007 8:08 AM (GMT -6)    Quote This PostAlert An Admin About This Post.
Sojourner: A father dies because...?
 
Tom: Because he choose to.
 
I'm sorry to hear about this family's loss, Sojourner. I'd have to agree with Corey, though. God's being all-powerful doesn't mean we don't have "any" power to exercise. In other words, "X is all-powerful" doesn't have to mean either "Only X exercises power" or "Only X decides how all the power being exercised (by non-X entities) gets exercised." "X is all-powerful" can (and I think does) include "X has the power to share power." God does "allow" evil in the sense that he creates a world for purposes that entail his relating to the world under rules that permit the emergence of pain, suffering, and moral evil. Does God want a world of "lovers"? I say yes. Do we have to "become" lovers through choice? I say yes. Does creating us to free choose to become this or that sort of being (i.e., loving or not) entail an appropriately free context? I think so, yes. If yes to these, then God has released some 'power' into us, shared some "say-so" with us. But that in turn means God is no longer the only one deciding how things turn out. No blueprints. No scripts. We now co-author history with God.

I'm wondering whether God's allowing a father to give his life for his son ought to be spoken of as God's allowing some "evil" to occur. Isn't there something wrong with calling an act of love evil? But might the son's falling into water to drown be spoken of as an "evil"? Some (Greg) would say yes, a sort of "natural" evil. But I'm no longer sure. There's nothing necessarily "evil" about a person that can't swim falling into a river. So could it be that SOME pain and suffering are the necessary but morally neutral context in which our growing and learning have to take place? Could we freely choose and grow into love and maturity without ANY pain or suffering? If not, does that entail moral evil? I think not. It just requires suffering and pain, and I'm not sure that suffering and pain are always "evil." In other words, might it be that such things (those we call natural evils--storms, earthquakes, accidents [slipping and falling into a river], etc.) would be happening had there never been a Satan, a Fall, or moral evil introduced into the story? I tend to think so. God allows them, without individually scripting them. It's enough to place us on a living, moving, somewhat free planet.
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ASIDE: I thank God that there are fathers like this one who gave his life for his son. Why is the greatest example of LOVE, the purest expression of a person's valuing another person (viz., that a person give his life for another) held up as a challenge either to God's existence, love, or power? It's sacrifices like this father's that make denying all concepts of the divine nearly impossible. If tremendous evil is a problem for theism, tremendous good (which has to be admited "as a good" with respect to the evil thought to challenge belief in God) has to be a problem for atheism. Instead of conceding this event to the atheist as constituting a challenge to faith, perhaps we out to argue that it is a challenge to atheism. But that's a different issue. Sorry!
 
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Tom


 

Post Edited (PLANIS) : 8/31/2007 12:25:39 PM (GMT-5)

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